MADE FOR EACH OTHER
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Posted:May 26, 2019 11:59 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2019 12:49 am 1175 Views
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MADE FOR EACH OTHER
Is it true of fales..A man can be in a long term relationship with you and still not be fully committed to you?
Man who is staying in a relationship because it's convenient and comfortable, but when a better option comes along, he leaves you at the drop of a hat. In fact, men do this all the time (so do women of course). But here's the crazy reason why MEN do it...
Inside a man's mind, you are either one of two types of woman.
You are either his "ONE OF MANY" woman, or his "ONE AND ONLY" woman.
The real fact is every single masculine man intuitively puts women he comes across into one of these two baskets.
Go and ask the men in your life, they will all know it's the truth on such a instinctive level. (Men do this to protect their own resources and minimise investing in the wrong types of women.)
So in other words...
A man will either invest everything in you or just enough to keep you around.
(And yes, most men would want to keep you around, even if he knows the relationship isn't going anywhere, because having access to MANY female is intuitively better than none at all.)
Just like some women like to hoard dresses or shoes, men collectively have a tendency to want to hoard female attention.
The truth is, men will sometimes even marry women who are not their "one and only" since society generally pressures men to get married.
The problem is, marriage should ideally never be your end goal. I've seen so many marriages that are so rotten from the inside, so marriage isn't always the ultimate goal here. I've seen so many marriages that are so toxic that the esteem, joy and souls of both individuals are systematically torn apart.
The true difference between a man's "ONE AND ONLY" vs his "ONE OF MANY" is in the emotional quality of that commitment.
Men will almost never emotionally commit to the women he perceives as one of many. (Key word here is emotionally.)
And that emotional investment means everything. (A man could seem like he's committed to you on the surface, but that usually means very little to men and how they spend their time, attention, energy and resources.)
So what does this emotional investment really look like?
It means that he will stay with you all night in hospital when you get sick instead of going out with his mates. It means that he will always put you and your needs first before himself and before his own needs.
It means how you feel will heavily impact his thoughts, feelings and decisions, rather than perceiving your feelings as a burden upon his life. It means that you literally become a part of his soul, not just another person in his life.
So all that being said, don't feel happy in just having "commitment"... try to become your chosen man's ONE & ONLY! You must feel in your heart and soul that you ARE his first choice, that you are his ONE & ONLY.
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What HUNGRY Wants In His DREAMGIRL
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Posted:May 23, 2019 4:03 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2019 4:07 am 1219 Views
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What HUNGRY Wants In His DREAMGIRL 
For years, we men of FF thinking about finding the right woman as a girl friend -- someone we can ride the waves of love with, who will stand by our side for better or for worse.
As a man, committing to The One is among the most important decisions we make in life; some may even argue it is the most important.
The woman we decide to share our love and dreams help us plan life, pick us up when we're down and make us better men than we are right now.
But, what does the right woman look like in our eyes?
For years, women have been sharing what they want in men, but there's this widely-held stereotype that all we want is the so-called "trophy girlfriend or wife" I don't agree with that notion.
You see, there's so much that should go into deciding whom to share your love with - characteristics, in a sense, that stand the test of time.
So, what is it we men want in a woman?
CHARACTER IS THE MOST PRECIOUS ORNAMENT OF A WOMAN. Being truly beautiful has nothing to do with what you look like, but everything to do with who you are. I've met quite a few beautiful women here in IFF and FF. Their personalities were as appealing as the dirty concrete.! I'm sorry, but it's true.
We want people who put as much time and energy into ensuring they look good as they do into being genuine and real. You know "that girl" you are around your girlfriends?
That's who you really are. Don't be so hesitant to be that way with Hungry.
We see you laugh uncontrollably with your friends, so laugh with us. We love women who have senses of humor and don't take life so seriously.
Be yourself. Order a wada-pav for lunch. Get ketchup all over your face. Put on sweats and a t-shirt when we come over. Skip makeup and don't do your hair. It's all okay; we actually like that.
We love when you get dressed up and feel beautiful, but know that you don't need to flip a switch from your real self in order to gain our acceptance. If there ever comes a point when you feel a need to do that, well, you're just with the wrong man.
Classy girl with loving character never allows even her friends to demean her at any public place including FF Chat rooms.
ANOTHER ISSUE IS CONCERNED WITH RESPECT. How you present yourself says a lot about who you are. Wearing clothes that accentuate your body is nothing new, nor do I believe it's disrespectful. But, that's not where I am going with this.
In today's society, there's something called social media, and it's basically your resume for men. Where you go, whom you go with, what you say and how you say it reflects you as an individual.
And, truthfully speaking, men don't want someone who is everywhere, doing everything, with everyone. Little boys who want the popular girl might, but real men don't play those games.
You can't respect a man if you don't respect yourself. It's not a knock, but seriously, how would that be possible?
We prefer the woman who's sitting home, reading a book as opposed to getting drunk with her friends on the weekends; we prefer the one who's life is kept more low-key, as it makes her more intriguing.
The less we know about someone's life, the more interesting that person becomes. It forces us to engage, to inquire, to seek out. Our conversations with you gain substance, and this becomes appealing.
If we know everywhere you've been and everything you've done, where does that leave us?
AFFECTION IS THE SOUL OF ROMANCE FOR WE MEN. Men are very physical human beings. Everything for us elevates with touch. By nature, we're drawn to it It goes without saying that a woman who is very free with her offerings of affection will entice we men. It's very warm and welcoming to a man.
Just like you, we men want a woman to reach out and grab our hand; we want for you to come over and kiss us randomly; we want for you to hug us and ask us how our day was. It evokes this feeling of being wanted.
It just strengthens that connection we have with you and opens up lines of communication, but more importantly, makes us feel comfortable - invited in, so to speak.
Stimulating conversations make a man go crazy. INTELLIGENCE PLAYS A VITAL ROLE IN KEEPING WE MEN ATTACHED WITH YOU.
Intelligent women are ones who know so much about the world around them, but even more so, have a keen interest in making it a better place. They think critically and engage our senses. Furthermore, they have this drive to be successful, which in itself, can be the biggest turn on there is.
The decisions we face in life can often present us with uncertainty and having someone insightful by our side can help us make the right ones. This doesn't require a degree from Harvard, or any degree for that matter, just intellect, reasoning and understanding.
Life is difficult WITHOUT SELF CONFIDENCE.
There's something sexy about a confident woman, and it has nothing to do with looks.To be truthful, we don't notice every one of your flaws. You know, the ones you spend hours in the mirror pointing out to yourself.
If we found ourselves attracted to you, know that we aren't analyzing every inch of your body to find perfection.That doesn't exist, and we aren't looking for it.
As crazy as it may sound, confidence is something we can feel from a sexual point of view. It's almost like an energy that draws us in and makes for an even better sexual experience.
Naturally, humble people focus their energies outward. When searching for a girl friend or life partner, this becomes very attractive to a man. HUMILITY ALWAYS ATTRACTS WE " HUNGRY " MEN.
Humble women exude this compassion for others, putting others' happiness before their own. But, they do this in such a way that brings them peace and protection.
Knowing that someone has this desire to put us first immediately shows that your ego won't get in the way of creating a strong friendship or partnership.
I think we understand the whole "let's play hard to get" mentality, but tell me how wasting all of that energy really serves you well? It doesn't. If we decide to tell you how we feel about you, or even tell you how beautiful we think you are, don't look at us as if we have 10 heads. It takes a tremendous amount of courage to do that.
Be humble and have the decency to acknowledge it, even if you don't necessarily feel the same way.
There's this misconception that looks, popularity or even social status will find you true love, but it won't.
So, stop trying. What matters is whom you are - that's what a real man wants...
JUST YOU.... FLAWS AND ALL .
Thanks for spearing your valuable time for reading my this long long article/post.
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HUNGRY MEETS A HUSBAND OF A HOTWIFE.!
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Posted:May 19, 2019 5:52 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2019 9:50 pm 1538 Views
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HUNGRY MEETS A HUSBAND OF A HOTWIFE !
On Friday evening , logged in Ff but as no one from my friends was there, logged in FB after long time., there were so many friend' requests., i found one very interesting because that was of a cpl and husband was in defence . So i accepted the request. Yesterday evening when i logged in India room found my friends are missing , again i diverted my chats to FB. the moment i logged in i started getting the messages from that husband .So i replied him with hello. he continued conversations and asked me many things which i replied.when i asked him on his wife ,I was shocked by his reply. He said "she is Hotwife' ! The moment i read his reply, i told him 'sorry buddy, am not a Match ' and deleted him from my list.
The fantasy of having a 'Hotwife' is growing even in our India, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of "swinging' and the modern 'open relationship'. Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship - the woman - going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and 'getting some' for himself?
Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures. We,men have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate - this isn't so much different than what happens in the animall kingdom. Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the 'best mate' or the "most attractive woman". With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner's Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow 'weaker' than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner. Is this really true, though? Could the truth lie somewhere within today's man's loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or "monogamy"? Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?
As Hotwives, women may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually. This is why the desire for "reclaiming" a Hotwife after a date is so strong - it's actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive. So, what does this mean for women as Hotwives?
In ' Hotwife fantacy ', Husband Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It. As women, they've learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating - before they've found their "person". They use their female prowess to keep the men who they are seeing guessing...why? Because we men seem more interested in them when it seems as though they may not be 100% there. So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn't it work once they're married? In contrast, women typically don't respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy - they tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if they feel that he might be "just not that into us". Naturally, because of their own feelings on the matter, women tend to avoid making their men jealous once they've committed to them, because women, themselves don't want to feel as though they're in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women. Why would they do something to the man that they love that they, themselves, would hate?
For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for women to keep their men hot and bothered. Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by some cute guy at her favorite restaurant, or her interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send her man into a sexual frenzy. It doesn't take a lot to feed the fantasy. It's not ALL about dates and recounting how well she got worked over in the bedroom (and how much she loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for her man, it's also about the little things - the mention of her interest in someone else, the sexy messages that she sends to potential, the "tease" of how much she loved what her last lover did for her and how much she was looking forward to doing it again. Remember, this ignites the "competition" element of things, which is natural for men though very much harmful for their women and families.
But my FF Brothers, this fantasy is nothing but to put the one corner of family life on fire. And no one will know when this fire will burn the whole jungle. So Hungry's brotherly advice stay away from it.
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WHEN WOMAN MUST SEE " the Gynaecologist or Sexologist"
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Posted:May 12, 2019 6:40 am
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2019 5:14 am 1584 Views
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There are times when a woman or couple, need to see the gynaecologist. Let us see some of the situations when medical intervention is required.
1. When your Spouse or girlfriend is nervous or feels guilty about sexual intercourse.
Many women believe that sex is dirty and this myth is reinforced by upbringing in some societies. These women will resist penetration as they have never experienced sex. Many movies depict sex as a gory ordeal which involves resisting a man's advances and turning her head the other way. A woman's friends may also describe the bleeding and pain that she had to bear on her first night which reinforces the wrong belief. The pain however may be real due to a medical condition which may require measures like lubrication. There may also be the psychological feeling that the vaginal opening is too small to take a man's penis. How many women have seen their vaginas using a mirror?
2. He climaxes before she does.
Many women do not even know the concept of orgasm. She believes that it is her duty to please the man and she concentrates on giving him pleasure. Thus the man reaches a climax and the woman is left unsatisfied. She is not willing to reveal her needs to her partner. It could be a case of frigidity in a woman, but not always so. Generally the man is to blame, either due to insufficient foreplay or repeated premature ejaculation which would require the man to consult a sexologist or urologist. Inability to sustain an erection could also point to hypertension, or more commonly, diabetes.
3. The woman is not a virgin.
This fact by itself may not require a visit to the doctor. But, where the man is expecting his partner to bleed on the first night, then the discovery that this is not so, is sufficient to create tension in the relationship. The gynaecologist or sexologist, can help to reassure the partners that the hymen can tear prior to sexual intercourse due to vigorous physical activity. There is also the medical case of a tough hymen, which doesn't allow penetration. This can be rectified with an artificial hymenectomy, a surgery that involves creating a slit in the hymen's fibrous tissue.
4. Women may bleed after intercourse.
Women in their late thirties may experience post-coital bleeding or spotting. Most women tend to ignore such bleeding. However one must immediately consult a gynecologist who will probably arrange for a pap smear test. This is done to rule out cervical erosion or cervical cancer. Repeated bleeding or spotting is the most common symptom of cervical cancer, but many women think it is early or untimely menstruation. Aggressive sexual intercourse is also wrongly considered a reason for such bleeding.
5. Complaints of itching or vaginal dryness should not be ignored.
A burning or itching sensation, dryness or abnormal discharge must be looked into. Discharge that has a curd-like consistency could indicate a Candida fungal infection, while a grey-white or any colour that is different from the regular watery discharge could point to other infections or Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Hepatitis-B and HIV are common STDs, but the symptoms could be dry cough and common cold. Herpes, on the other hand, causes lesions or boils in the genital area. Vaginal dryness, could be a result of reduced estrogen levels and less fluid secretion by the cervical glands after menopause. Lubricants can help reduce pain during sex. A combination of some or all these factors - persistent fever, abnormal discharge, genital wounds that fail to heal, multiple follicles, pelvic inflammation - call for medical intervention.
6. Abnormal or kinky sex.
We read about fears of partners smelling arm-pits or massaging their partners and wondering what their partners would think of them. Any sexual act practiced by consenting adults cannot, and should not, be considered abnormal. There are cases where one partner considers oral or anal sex an anomaly, while the other enjoys the experience. The dislike could be a result of a past traumatic experience, of societal conditioning, or a fear that it could be harmful. Talking to a doctor can help lift the psychological, and eventually physical barrier.
I wrote this post only for the purpose of increasing the awearness in the joining FF.
After this blog probably I will be taking a break for some time from Blogging or write very occasionally.
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BETTER TO END RELATIONSHIP / FRIENDSHIP ?
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Posted:May 6, 2019 7:53 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2019 12:32 am 2606 Views
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Before 2 days i had a fight with some one in the chat room and compelled me to end our friendship which i never wanted. Reason was not even very important.Every morning when i was logging ion the chat room i was finding not a page ...but pages full of posts from her own friends containing the matter and words totally demeaning her.Literally every night ! And also in her absence I tried my level best to bring this issue to her notice but failed to make her take any cognisance. And i wasn't with any other option than to say ' GOODBYE '
One of the keys to a happy and healthy friendship/relationship is honest communication with your partner. Having an honest friendship/relationship means speaking up regardless of whether your partner agrees with you or not. But you don't have to let your fear of conflict get in the way of having an honest relationship. There are some things you can do.
The true mark of an open and honest friendship/relationship is the ability to communicate your feelings when the going gets tough, and to trust your partner will be responsive to your thoughts,. It takes bravery and vulnerability on both parts.
The reality is, you and your partner are going to disagree on some things. If you're in a relationship, you can pretty much expect for there to be conflict. But fighting, if done productively, can be healthy.
As tempting as it is to keep your feelings to yourself in order to avoid conflict, it's more important to be open with your partner. So letting my FF Friends know my views on what you can do to have a more open and honest relationship when conflict makes you anxious,
Find someone judgement-free, who can help you think through your values and decide which issues are worth risking conflict over. But don't expect such someone atleast in FF..They will make a show of helping you on your face but will try to make conflict worse on your back.
Emotional check-ins can be done daily, weekly, or whenever you feel like bringing something up. The point is for both of you to air any grievances respectfully and calmly, Knowing you have a specific time and forum for sharing any conflicts or issues can be really comforting and anxiety-reducing. It's also good because it gives you some time to formulate what you want to say so you can express yourself in a way won't lead to an argument.
So often, the conflict is much worse in our heads than in reality, Our brains trick on us, triggering the amygdala’s fight or flight response when there is no immediate threat of harm. Sometimes you might feel like bringing an issue up will lead to a major fight, but 's not always the case. The best way to break out of the negative thinking is to ground yourself in what's really going on. Really think about whether bringing up this issue is going to make or break your relationship. If it isn't bad, you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
If you want to have an honest relationship but you're afraid of causing a fight, start by sharing how you're feeling. When you use "I" statements such as "I feel like..." you're sharing how you feel and not placing blame on your partner. Be brave and practice,The first time you reveal your 'meh' feelings is bound to cause a little anxiety. But the more you share and see your partner is still on board, the easier navigating conflict will be.
It's vitally important you share your feelings with a desire to learn and understand, rather than as a way of blaming and controlling your partner to get them to change. If you want to share your feelings without causing any problems, don't expect any kind of outcome. You put your feelings out there. Now it's up to your partner to decide if they want to make an effort to change or work it out.
and if you found your partner is not taking any cognisance..walk on my way. Say 'GOODBYE '.
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FF'S OLD DIRTY WITCH and her PROPAGANDA
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Posted:Apr 27, 2019 4:50 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2019 11:59 pm 4718 Views
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Now a days seeing FF famous Old Dirty Witch busy in her dirty Propaganda that everyone in ff who's not in her good books is coming in the chat room with many fake handles . In fact, that Dirty Witch herself comes in ff with around 58 fraud handles with even male gender too.. Me, myself buried her more than 37 fraud handles in IFF grave yard.
Dose she know, her propaganda is biased or misleading information circulated via her dirty lying tongue and typing fingers with the intent of promoting herself as someone saint or a preacher.. Propaganda is deliberately not objective and is usually part of a larger psychological campaign to influence people toward a specific intention of proving own self what that person is not.. It may include outright lies or more subtle misinformation.
My FF very precious friends, her Propaganda works by tapping into emotions through her lies and try control and censorship of the facts. Her advertising of own self especially by attacking other members and create a negative impression about the every other member who oppose her for her abusive and offensive nature and actions , can fall under the category of self sponsored propaganda.
Her this technique is so cruel and thoughtless because she is using that not just to win public opinion in FF chat rooms , but to convince those all members who are in her good book to fight in often bloody battles for her without knowing such propaganda had long-term negative effects and always up for debate.She uses propaganda against everyone who never bow her, to try to persuade both her own people and those on the other side of who is right and who is wrong.
Propaganda has taken on a whole new twist with the rise of so-called fake news sites. Publishers seeking advertising revenue through page views will create misleading or flat-out incorrect "news" articles with sensational or controversial headlines. Once these articles begin circulating on social media platforms, it can be very difficult to verify or disprove them.Here this Dirty OLD Witch sitting in FF 24/7 for all 365 days of a year using propaganda just for getting chatters in chat room to make her feel she is world famous . 
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CHEATING WIFE ?
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Posted:Apr 15, 2019 10:57 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2019 11:00 pm 3063 Views
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There is a drastic increase in the number of extra martial affairs over a decade in India. In India these affairs are commonly under the cover unlike in western country as in India there is low tolerance level towards the extra marital affairs and considered as anti social.
As Pune, where i live is IT Hub of India and see thousand of Young Husbands are busy trying to find the answers on questions like "my wife is cheating what shall I do?" , " Is my wife cheating ?" , " how to know whether my wife is cheating?" and is why I decided to write this article.
One of the major signs you have a cheating wife is if you spot any changes in her behavior, so if she's always been a guy's and has a lot of friends, don't get paranoid when you hear she was seen the movies with her friend.
The following are some signs I observed of a cheating wife:
Personal Appearance - A wife who is having an affair will more attention towards her personal appearance. For example she may begin working out and dieting to lose some weight, she may often start going to a salon and she may take more interest in clothing.
Daily Behavior - Behavior is another way in which you might confirm a cheating wife. As an example, you may notice your wife getting and leaving for work earlier, taking an extended lunch, to spend more time with the "girlfriends", and so on. Again, while not confirmation of an affair, going out of her way to spend less time with you and around the house is one of the signs.
Sex - A common change with women who are cheating is are no longer interested in sex with the husband. When intimacy does occur, she may be more experimental (got a good idea from somewhere else maybe) or seem completely distracted.
Phone Tip-Offs - A cheating wife may spend more time on the phone, want more privacy while on the phone, or have an increase in wrong numbers when she answers. Also look to see if she guards her phone more carefully from the possibility of you seeing a she's received.
Computer - An excellent way for a cheating wife to keep in touch with her lover is via computer. If you do not know how to access her , you can check the history to determine the different websites visited. Simply paying attention to her computer usage can lead to many clues.
Finances - If you notice your wife spending on frivolous things, dining out more, or making credit card purchases for small gift items, you might ask why.
Home Invasion Although not all cheating wife bring the person in the affair into the home, some do. For careful attention if you begin to notice personal items being moved around or hidden or an extra glass in the sink, etc.
Guys if you ever find these signs in your wife don't just keep your ass shut, go ahead and hire an private detective to get things confirmed.
Hungry Loves you all ..
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CYBER (ONLINE) SEX..AND...FF
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Posted:Apr 11, 2019 4:07 am
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2019 5:15 am 2891 Views
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Before 2/3 days some guy from FF argued , why I am trying to distract some lady from some of his friend. First I was surprised cus I never remember I ever talked to that handle. And I was lil bit disturbed too because I never tried ever to distract anyone from anyone. I felt he was taking me as an obstacle in his cyber sex fun if he is into that.
Again , yesterday, when I entered in the lobby. I read some posts from a girl, asking other girl to go with her in some empty room to have happy fun.
Do they really know..how they themselves planning to enjoy some jeopardized life!
The use of the Internet for online sexual chatting has increased even in India. One study found that, addicted cyber sex male and female users reported that their online sexual behavior had jeopardized at least one important dimension of their life offline, creating problems associated with their personal, social, occupational, and/or recreational lives
Researchers in this area have also found that male or female addicted to online sex experience decreased feelings of sexual desirability and sexual desire ,decreased sexual satisfaction, ,also experience decreased sexual desire for their real-life partners, suggesting that " virtual sex " can be experienced as more satisfying than actual sex, thus displacing real-life intimacies This " threat " has been noted in the popular press as well
And this " threat " starts making their life a hell. Our brain produces "Dopamine ...a hormone which creats the feeling of satisfaction , happiness and pleasure ‘ . whenever brain starts getting the sexual stimuli...it starts shouting .." Now Mating Time " and starts secreting " Dopamine " ..and person gets aroused and enjoy sex.
Brain never thinks on what it's feel “ now mating time” is real or virtual. He keeps remembering only those stimuli which makes him feel like that. When person, may be female or male go enjoy cyber sex.. I mean chatting sexy repeatedly…his /her brain remembers only what sex words the eyes are reading are only stimuli to start secreting ' Dopamine ' and then…even that female or male gets a chance for real offline intimacy ..brain never accepts that as a sex stimuli and so female or male addicted to cyber sex in the chatrooms never gets aroused in real offline life,.
Then male starts walking towards the last destination of " impotency " and female starts walking on the path leads to be ' an escort ' in the search of pleasure of real life intimacy….
VERY SAD !
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WOMAN BODY...Conventional Wisdom VS Latest News
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Posted:Apr 8, 2019 4:17 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2019 4:17 am 2911 Views
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For centuries, men have been told how complicated a woman'body is, especially sexually. And while it's true chicks don't have a point-and shoot anatomy, new research shows they have just as much pleasure potential as men.
Yesterday, I mean on Sunday, I got my hands on some recent groundbreaking studies debunk the long-standing conventional wisdom about female desire and response
Sharing here a new dimension of bedroom bliss with my very precious FF friends......
Conventional wisdom - A woman has to feel desire to get aroused
Bold new thinking - A woman doesn't to be in the mood to get excited
Maybe this rings a bell: You want some action but your partner is stuck in "whatever" mode. Hey, it happens. But before you blow her off because she's not into it, consider this: new research proves a woman's body can be turned on even during those moments when her mind is turned off.
's because desire and arousal are separate animals. Desire occurs in the mind, while arousal unfolds in the body. True, desire usually leads to arousal, but a woman's body doesn't desire to get to warm, tingly place. In fact, researchers the University of Amsterdam have discovered a woman's central motor system lights instantly with physical stimulation, before her mind even begins to process it.
Problem is, many women think sex will be a drag if they're not registering any interest in their brains. What to do when you're horned and she isn't zone in on her physical buttons. Focus on her body and help her give in to the feel of your lips against her neck or the way your hand is brushing against her back.
Another testament she doesn't necessarily desire to relish doing the deed? One recent study found many women experience heightened arousal when anxious or stressed.
Conventional wisdom - Women take forever to get turned on
Bold new thinking - Women don't necessarily a long preamble to get going
Somewhere along the way, it became commonly accepted knowledge women required hours of foreplay to get primed for sex. Now, all for tons of kissing and oral, but it's not always necessary. A new study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine claims both men and women begin showing signs of arousal within 30 seconds. What's more, there was little difference in how long it took women and men to reach peak sexual arousal. Researchers at McGill University in Canada had men and women watch porn. Meanwhile, in hidden areas, scientists controlled thermal imaging sensors to measure heat changes in their genitals. They found out men reached peaked arousal in 11 minutes, while women clocked in 12 minutes.
And carefully listen Hungry's advice ... when you want to get her revved stat, you have to nix all the distractions. Women are more likely to multitask, and they tend to get rattled by a ringing phone or by overthinking what they have to do the next morning. The problem? It takes them out of the moment. So whatever you do, off the TV and carve out time strictly for you and her to get it on.
Conventional wisdom - Dry down there? She's not feeling it
Bold new thinking - Lubrication isn't the only indicator of desire and arousal
Le'’s a little word association- Hungry says arousal and you say erection. Unfortunately, there's no hard-and-fast equivalent for women. Vaginal lubrication often has been viewed as the biggest cue ..until now. Research has found there's no direct correlation between arousal and the of blood flow and lubrication to the vagina. She may be aroused and not have lubrication at all. Often, this is hormonal .. women are naturally weter around ovulation and drier when their periods are about to arrive. Also, antihistamines found in cold medications, for example, can sap nasal passages and vaginal secretions.
So what are the physical cues worth clueing into? Scientists at Indiana University's Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction asked women exactly how they knew they were turned on. Although lubrication was reported as sign, many women also reported genital warmth and swelling and nipple hardness, as well as increased heart rate and muscle tightness in the stomach and legs.
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CAN YOU FIND TRUE LOVE ON INTERNET ?
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Posted:Mar 27, 2019 12:44 am
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2019 5:16 am 4279 Views
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Now a days everybody is spending almost half their lifes here (on the internet) talking to strangers and friends.
Like reality, is it possible that you can meet someone trustworthy on internet?
Some may say.. No. Not at all. Don't even think about it.You have got whole life, don't waste it here. Meet new people in real, explore them, know them, try them and find out what's best for you. Here, you can't be sure of anything. With help of technology, people here convert lies into facts which are very hurting and dangerous for us Actually it is the BEST ANSWER..
BUT the Best Answer may not be full truth. When there is tough question , it depends you never know where u find true love, its all about how you connect and how you feel with about the other person, so maybe u can find some good people so yes, u can find love on the internet but be extra careful thats all.
May or may not, it actually depends on the person you meet on the web. Usually guys who get online will have their eyes set on women for sex, so finding true love or friendship is quite a task, but I don't mean to completely admonish the possibility of finding a soul-mate, but let me warn you there is a possibility of ' character portrayal ', so one needs to be careful with this.
Nowadays its hard to guess the character of people whom we normally meet in our regular life, so meeting a person online would mean you know nothing about him and you might be like, ' oh.......he is so cool, and charming and etc........' while in reality he is just another cheap guy portraying what he isn't in the true world. Moreover cyber-love isn't a good thing, you don't know what the person is until you meet him.
For instance, when you go on a date with a guy, you can assess his personality from the little things he does,but on the web, you just don't know if it is real or not]. Who knows if he is merely trying to impress you? This is when you talk about cyber-love. Coming to friendship, according to me it is a time-pass, so there is no harm in developing a friendship. The aspect of emotional attachment in friendship is less when compared to love, so for friendship the doors are always open.
But this goes without saying,meeting a person in real is no match to meeting someone online.
Probably yes you may get love on internet. but need to be very careful . Internet is like any one communication source which usually allows to interact or communicate with person and gives you an opportunity to share things without any inhibitions or hesitations. You can find true love but you never could be so certain about it that where you going to find it and when it comes to internet then some one really should be extra careful because of lack of transparency.
With Love ....Hungry
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