Blog : What HUNGRY Wants In His DREAMGIRL

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5/23/2019 4:03 am

What HUNGRY Wants In His DREAMGIRL

What HUNGRY Wants In His DREAMGIRL

For years, we men of FF thinking about finding the right woman as a girl friend -- someone we can ride the waves of love with, who will stand by our side for better or for worse.
As a man, committing to The One is among the most important decisions we make in life; some may even argue it is the most important.
The woman we decide to share our love and dreams help us plan life, pick us up when we're down and make us better men than we are right now.
But, what does the right woman look like in our eyes?
For years, women have been sharing what they want in men, but there's this widely-held stereotype that all we want is the so-called "trophy girlfriend or wife" I don't agree with that notion.
You see, there's so much that should go into deciding whom to share your love with - characteristics, in a sense, that stand the test of time.
So, what is it we men want in a woman?

CHARACTER IS THE MOST PRECIOUS ORNAMENT OF A WOMAN. Being truly beautiful has nothing to do with what you look like, but everything to do with who you are. I've met quite a few beautiful women here in IFF and FF. Their personalities were as appealing as the dirty concrete.! I'm sorry, but it's true.
We want people who put as much time and energy into ensuring they look good as they do into being genuine and real. You know "that girl" you are around your girlfriends?
That's who you really are. Don't be so hesitant to be that way with Hungry.
We see you laugh uncontrollably with your friends, so laugh with us. We love women who have senses of humor and don't take life so seriously.
Be yourself. Order a wada-pav for lunch. Get ketchup all over your face. Put on sweats and a t-shirt when we come over. Skip makeup and don't do your hair. It's all okay; we actually like that.
We love when you get dressed up and feel beautiful, but know that you don't need to flip a switch from your real self in order to gain our acceptance. If there ever comes a point when you feel a need to do that, well, you're just with the wrong man.
Classy girl with loving character never allows even her friends to demean her at any public place including FF Chat rooms.

ANOTHER ISSUE IS CONCERNED WITH RESPECT. How you present yourself says a lot about who you are. Wearing clothes that accentuate your body is nothing new, nor do I believe it's disrespectful. But, that's not where I am going with this.
In today's society, there's something called social media, and it's basically your resume for men. Where you go, whom you go with, what you say and how you say it reflects you as an individual.
And, truthfully speaking, men don't want someone who is everywhere, doing everything, with everyone. Little boys who want the popular girl might, but real men don't play those games.
You can't respect a man if you don't respect yourself. It's not a knock, but seriously, how would that be possible?
We prefer the woman who's sitting home, reading a book as opposed to getting drunk with her friends on the weekends; we prefer the one who's life is kept more low-key, as it makes her more intriguing.
The less we know about someone's life, the more interesting that person becomes. It forces us to engage, to inquire, to seek out. Our conversations with you gain substance, and this becomes appealing.
If we know everywhere you've been and everything you've done, where does that leave us?

AFFECTION IS THE SOUL OF ROMANCE FOR WE MEN. Men are very physical human beings. Everything for us elevates with touch. By nature, we're drawn to it It goes without saying that a woman who is very free with her offerings of affection will entice we men. It's very warm and welcoming to a man.
Just like you, we men want a woman to reach out and grab our hand; we want for you to come over and kiss us randomly; we want for you to hug us and ask us how our day was. It evokes this feeling of being wanted.
It just strengthens that connection we have with you and opens up lines of communication, but more importantly, makes us feel comfortable - invited in, so to speak.

Stimulating conversations make a man go crazy. INTELLIGENCE PLAYS A VITAL ROLE IN KEEPING WE MEN ATTACHED WITH YOU.
Intelligent women are ones who know so much about the world around them, but even more so, have a keen interest in making it a better place. They think critically and engage our senses. Furthermore, they have this drive to be successful, which in itself, can be the biggest turn on there is.
The decisions we face in life can often present us with uncertainty and having someone insightful by our side can help us make the right ones. This doesn't require a degree from Harvard, or any degree for that matter, just intellect, reasoning and understanding.

Life is difficult WITHOUT SELF CONFIDENCE.
There's something sexy about a confident woman, and it has nothing to do with looks.To be truthful, we don't notice every one of your flaws. You know, the ones you spend hours in the mirror pointing out to yourself.
If we found ourselves attracted to you, know that we aren't analyzing every inch of your body to find perfection.That doesn't exist, and we aren't looking for it.
As crazy as it may sound, confidence is something we can feel from a sexual point of view. It's almost like an energy that draws us in and makes for an even better sexual experience.

Naturally, humble people focus their energies outward. When searching for a girl friend or life partner, this becomes very attractive to a man. HUMILITY ALWAYS ATTRACTS WE " HUNGRY " MEN.
Humble women exude this compassion for others, putting others' happiness before their own. But, they do this in such a way that brings them peace and protection.
Knowing that someone has this desire to put us first immediately shows that your ego won't get in the way of creating a strong friendship or partnership.
I think we understand the whole "let's play hard to get" mentality, but tell me how wasting all of that energy really serves you well? It doesn't. If we decide to tell you how we feel about you, or even tell you how beautiful we think you are, don't look at us as if we have 10 heads. It takes a tremendous amount of courage to do that.
Be humble and have the decency to acknowledge it, even if you don't necessarily feel the same way.
There's this misconception that looks, popularity or even social status will find you true love, but it won't.
So, stop trying. What matters is whom you are - that's what a real man wants...
JUST YOU.... FLAWS AND ALL .

Thanks for spearing your valuable time for reading my this long long article/post.

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5/23/2019 4:07 am

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