Blog : HUNGRY MEETS A HUSBAND OF A HOTWIFE.!

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5/19/2019 5:52 am

HUNGRY MEETS A HUSBAND OF A HOTWIFE.!

HUNGRY MEETS A HUSBAND OF A HOTWIFE !

On Friday evening , logged in Ff but as no one from my friends was there, logged in FB after long time., there were so many friend' requests., i found one very interesting because that was of a cpl and husband was in defence . So i accepted the request. Yesterday evening when i logged in India room found my friends are missing , again i diverted my chats to FB. the moment i logged in i started getting the messages from that husband .So i replied him with hello. he continued conversations and asked me many things which i replied.when i asked him on his wife ,I was shocked by his reply. He said "she is Hotwife' ! The moment i read his reply, i told him 'sorry buddy, am not a Match ' and deleted him from my list.

The fantasy of having a 'Hotwife' is growing even in our India, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of "swinging' and the modern 'open relationship'. Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship - the woman - going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and 'getting some' for himself?

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures. We,men have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate - this isn't so much different than what happens in the animall kingdom. Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the 'best mate' or the "most attractive woman". With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner's Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow 'weaker' than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner. Is this really true, though? Could the truth lie somewhere within today's man's loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or "monogamy"? Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?

As Hotwives, women may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually. This is why the desire for "reclaiming" a Hotwife after a date is so strong - it's actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive. So, what does this mean for women as Hotwives?

In ' Hotwife fantacy ', Husband Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It. As women, they've learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating - before they've found their "person". They use their female prowess to keep the men who they are seeing guessing...why? Because we men seem more interested in them when it seems as though they may not be 100% there. So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn't it work once they're married? In contrast, women typically don't respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy - they tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if they feel that he might be "just not that into us". Naturally, because of their own feelings on the matter, women tend to avoid making their men jealous once they've committed to them, because women, themselves don't want to feel as though they're in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women. Why would they do something to the man that they love that they, themselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for women to keep their men hot and bothered. Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by some cute guy at her favorite restaurant, or her interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send her man into a sexual frenzy. It doesn't take a lot to feed the fantasy. It's not ALL about dates and recounting how well she got worked over in the bedroom (and how much she loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for her man, it's also about the little things - the mention of her interest in someone else, the sexy messages that she sends to potential, the "tease" of how much she loved what her last lover did for her and how much she was looking forward to doing it again. Remember, this ignites the "competition" element of things, which is natural for men though very much harmful for their women and families.

But my FF Brothers, this fantasy is nothing but to put the one corner of family life on fire. And no one will know when this fire will burn the whole jungle. So Hungry's brotherly advice stay away from it.

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