HEART IS YOUR TEMPLE
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Posted:Jun 7, 2008 6:29 pm
Last Updated:Jun 8, 2008 5:28 pm 2436 Views
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Theres a poem written by a guy name Rumi. He is well known for his writing and poems in past. One of it is about home or as i "translate" it as human heart.
This being human is a guest house.
Every Morning is a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all !
Even if they're a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guess honorably.
He may be clearing you out from some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door and laughing,
and invite them in
A house for some people just like a sanctuary, a temple. Feels like home sweet home.
If you don't like your home, you will feel like you're in hell. If you don't like your self who will like you and respect you ?
Just like a house, guest are come and go, we shall invite our guess in, with smile and honor. Whether they will bring happiness or sadness. There's people that we already know, and theres few that we don't know or surprisingly unexpected !
Same with love when its knocking your heart. You wont know how will end, whether it will be lots of laugh or tears ? would it brought new delight or swept your heart like flood until your heart is empty, who will bring it to you ? friends you know, or just stranger that you just met on a bus or restaurant ?
You should embrace it, happily without worry, without bad thought, and just smile !
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The cons. with divorced guy
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Posted:Jun 7, 2008 3:48 am
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2008 8:48 pm 2203 Views
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I know that he is afraid that i am not really sincere when i said i would love his .
He seemed very careful to talk about his .
I do like , and i think its no problem if Peter already have 2 from his previous marriage. I see it as less pressure for me as if.. ( we will never know !) one day we found out that i can't have baby (none in my family have this history!). He already have them !
He seemed compared me with his ex-wife a lot of time.
Thank God, i do things short of backward, very different than his ex-wife. But its still a tolerable things that made we laugh.
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REALIZE
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Posted:Jun 6, 2008 8:10 pm
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2008 5:59 pm 2374 Views
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Me and Peter send mail less than before we met. Is that a bad sign ?
We send mail almost everyday before we met..
I open my mail box today and i just realize that...
I've been quite busy past few weeks.. so i just send and reply less mail... and i know he is busy too with finding new apartment and going to bank back and forward for the loan.
We've been busy.. but is that normal if we send much less mails ?
I don't want to start to think that this relationship is a bad idea 
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My mom.....
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Posted:Jun 6, 2008 6:34 pm
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2008 6:29 pm 2386 Views
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Few days before i leave for work my mom come to my bedroom and said she was agree with my any choice including if i want to marry a white guy.
Its leave questions in my mind.
I ever had this ex-bf from USA.. i thought she always like him..
But when she said that i, then think she not really like if i had expatriate boyfriend.
In one side i really feel relief, because she bless my relationship with any white guy.
I don't tell her about Peter, maybe my sister did (uughhhh !!! sisters !!).
My mom said, she would bless my relationship, if i think thats the best for me, she wont stand on my way (read this) anymore.
I just then think... does she had anything to do with my previous relationship ???
Well.. its past.. i know... but i do feel relief.. i dont have to hide anything now
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A kill for fun
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Posted:Jun 6, 2008 2:37 am
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2008 2:03 am 2490 Views
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I went back to my camp before lunch and see some security guy with air gun with their hand.
I pass them and see a tiny bird lying dead on their shoes. I ask what happened to that bird, (i know its a stupid question)they laugh and said " of course we shot it" and i ask.. do you want to eat it ?
They said no, of course not. I stand and fold my hand, then why you shoot that bird ? they laugh and said "come on theres plenty bird here, killing one is okay !"
I am so upset !!!!
Why they said that ! just because its a bird they think they had right to kill it JUST FOR FUN ! to test a new air gun !!
I hate those people !
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Funny: Man and women joke
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Posted:Jun 5, 2008 6:59 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2008 12:09 am 2390 Views
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1. Women are unpredictable.
Before marriage, she expects a man,
after marriage she suspects him,
and after death she respects him.
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2. There was this guy who told his woman that he loved her so much
They got married - and now he is going thru hell.
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3. A man inserted an `ad' in the classifieds :
"Wife wanted ". Next day, he received a hundred letters.
They all said the same thing :
"You can have mine."
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4. When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing:
either the car is new or the wife.
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5. It's easy to tell if a man is married or not.
Just watch him drive a car with a woman sitting beside him. If both his hands are on the wheel, you can be sure he is married.
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6. A man received a letter
from some Kidnappers. The letter said, " if you don't promised to send us $100,000 I swear that we will kidnap your wife."
The poor man wrote back, " I am afraid I can't keep my promise but I hope you will keep yours."
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7. What's the matter, you look depressed." "I'm having trouble with my wife."
"What happened?" "She said she wasn't going to speak to me for 30 days."
"But that ought to make you happy."
"It did, but today is the last day."
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8.WOMAN
When she is 18 - She is a football, 22 men going after her.
When she is 28 - She is a hockey ball, 8 men going after her.
When she is 38 - She is a golf ball, 1 man hitting on her.
When she is 48 - She is a pingpong ball, 2 men pushing to each other.
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9.MAN
At 20 - A man is like a coconut, so much to offer, so little to give.
At 30 - He is like a durian, dangerous but delicious.
At 40 - He is like a watermelon, big, round and juicy.
At 50 - He is like a mandarin orange, the season comes once in a year.
At 60 - He is just like a raisin, dried out, wrinkles and cheap.
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10.Marriage Humour
In the beginning, God created earth and rested.
Then God created man and rested.
Then God created woman.
Since then, neither God nor man has rested.
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::::: Some Ironies of Life :::::
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Posted:Jun 5, 2008 6:13 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2008 12:13 am 2195 Views
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Let me share some ironies of life
Men:
1. All men are extremely busy.
2. Although they are so busy, they still have time for women.
3. Although they have time for women, they don't really care for them.
4. Although they don't really care for them, they always have one around.
5. Although they always have one around them, they always try their luck with others.
6. Although they try their luck with others, they get really pissed off if the woman leaves them.
7. Although the woman leaves them they still don't learn from their mistakes and still try their luck with others.
Women:
1. The most important thing for a woman is financial security.
2. Although this is so important, they still go out and buy expensive clothes and stuff.
3. Although they always buy expensive clothes, they never have something to wear.
4. Although they never have something to wear, they always dress beautifully.
5. Although they always dress beautifully, their clothes are always just "an old rag".
6. Although their clothes are always "just an old rag", they still expect you to compliment them.
7. Although they expect you to compliment them, when you do, they don't believe you.
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Around Europe just with 1000 US dollars !!!
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Posted:Jun 5, 2008 6:00 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2008 12:15 am 2177 Views
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Yup, you read the title right.
Thats a book title that i read. The writer is Indonesian girl age 25 name Marina.
She do the traveling for 6 month around Europe, 45 town, 13 countries, 10.600 kilometers, backpacking just by her self.
First time i read it i just can't believe it. Then after i read how she do it, i know that was possible.
She met with lots of people, what a lucky girl !
She using the hospitality club members to get accommodation around europe.
The 1000, is excluding airplane ticket and visa ofcourse.. but still.. its amazing for me !
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A girl with strong heart !
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Posted:Jun 5, 2008 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2008 11:52 pm 2457 Views
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I read a book about an Indonesian girl travel journey to Europe. She met a girl age 27 from Yugoslavia that told her about her love story.
That girl moved to Copenhagen with her family to avoid war. But when they moved there her family force her to marry an India guy age 27 while she was 13. She thought her world is doomed, she can't say no... but well at the end she do love her husband.
But when she really feel that love, her husband die in car accident. And then few years after that she met another guy but then the guy short of using her, and he sold her car somehow. She throw him out of her apartment. Then she met another guy, falling in love then she also end the relationship because she find out that he is a junkie addict.
But she always try to be happy and positive, and now she found someone else, a guy working in hardware company. Very sweet, have good sense of humor, and a sincere guy.
Whats she said to the other girl that write the book, her love trouble only like a tiny drop of water compared to the sea.
Her problem is nothing compare to other big problem in this world, so why she had to be gloomy and sad about it ?
Wow, i read that...and i remember few days ago i short of think how my love story never get so easy.
I know theres a lot of woman had less luck finding love, in all wrong places and time. But this story really refreshing me, and thank God that i don't have to through what she been through.
Because i don't know if i am strong enough like her !
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Salsa or belly dance?
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Posted:Jun 5, 2008 12:22 am
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2008 5:31 pm 2352 Views
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I am thinking about alternative "sports". I think i want to try either salsa class or belly dancing.
Salsa good for your tight.. and i think i like the dancing .. i am lousy at dancing... and its seemed seductive, and sexy.
And belly dance? good for belly problem, and wiggle your hips is good because i could do it, hehehe...
I do gym, and sometimes i get bored
Its just alternative sports...
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