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Cinderella, the girls best teacher I can't believe it, read a book about girl psychology.. and one of chapter said we, girls should learn from Cinderella. Yupp.. that cinderella from disney character. Things that we could learn is... the basic character of cinderella. She is cheerful, patient, obedient,and elegant. If her step sister or step mother calling her, she would say with elegant tone "yes, step mother" When i watch the movie.. i know.. hahah i can't be like her, hahahaha.. to have two step sister and an evil step mother that ripped my dancing gown.. haha if thats for real there will be a real cat fight ! there for.. i can't be cinderella !! hahahah... back to the real cinderella. Heres some Cinderella rules from the movie: 1. Don't ask a man to go out for a date, or calling him or making the first move. We all know that these days when every woman cry loud for emancipation, theres no such things as "sit nice and wait" or "no action, talk only". If we want to get something we have to earn it by doing things to reach for it. Do something ! If in career it might be a good thing, but in a relationship some man still conventional, and have that "hunter" nature ! they prefer to do it them self. Beside that, we all know, if a man really interesting with a woman, he will do anything with his power to get to know that woman. Don't call him first, this is to avoid the scene if he is busy and in the middle of something and don't need "distraction". If we do call him, and he eventually in this situation it won't be possible if we will feel insecure and nervous and at the end we would end up in misery waiting him to call back. Remember, its the prince charming who saw cinderella first time, and made the first move  2. Just do the casual kissing on the first date. Its casual kissing not casual sex, yup you read it right. If he got the main dish on the very first date, most man will loose their interest. If we do really like him, keep him interest with us by not to have sex with him too soon. He might will thought you were easy to get too. If he really like us, he will respect our decision to wait. If he even gave us a pressure with this, thats mean hes not the best for us girls ! Remember cinderella only gave the prince a light kiss on his cheek on their first date ! 3. Show up !! no matter how hard it is. Cinderella made it to the dancing party, even though her step mother and sisters try to made her not to come with giving her so much work, lock her up on her house basement and destroy her dancing gown. Most of us working girls, too tired to go out after working for the whole day. And usually we had this bad mood, tired, and had the negative thought "i wont find anyone there". If were single we should be socialize in lots of event where we do have chance to meet "someone" that maybe is "the one". And don't forget to dress as nice as we could. And girls.. sister hood is very important... cinderella might had her fairy god mother. Our fairy god mother will be our girlfriend !! they will be the one who drag us out from our slumber pijamas, and old sock to lend us their new shoes or pretty dress ! so at least have several best friend ! more is better ! So, go to the party, leave the chips and the sex and the city series (hahaha!). Remember.. if cinderella didn't come to the party, he wont meet the prince ! and they won't be together for ever and ever ! 4. Stay cool, even if the prince like you much ! Its hard ! i know... if we met the high profile man, artist, mr president, prince charming, we tend to be "different" person. But stay cool ! treat him like any other average usual man. Act like you've been live out of the country for years and you dont know who he is ! Don't ask for his signature, even taking pictures with him with your mobile camera ! Talk with him for 5-10 minutes and after that leave him... if he really like us he will find a way to know about us ! Thats how cinderella do ! leave the prince with her shoes (dont do that for real! hahaha) |
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6/18/2008 12:20 am |
Hi,Dear Eileen,Most of Cindrella`s rules should work.As a man my advice is don`t be easy too early it will be difficult later on.Go slow have confidence in your judgement,gain confidence and proceed.Regards..peats
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Salam, Eileen! From my heart to yours, Love and Light! 
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Hi,Dear Eileen,Most of Cindrella`s rules should work.As a man my advice is don`t be easy too early it will be difficult later on.Go slow have confidence in your judgement,gain confidence and proceed.Regards..peats But the sex part its true.. not being easy girl its good... respect your self girls !!
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Salam, Eileen! 
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dreaming someday a prince will come with his shining armor and white horse? Hehehe... Yup... i defenetly can't stand to wink at cute guy... hehe
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..yeah.. haha i can't be someone else... cinderella just to calm, and too forgiveness .. maybe i just like princess fionna on shrek ! thats more close to me... hahaha !
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