quieromax 35 M 1  question	What's up with me? - 3/12/2001 Hi, I am a 22 years man. I never have had a girlfriend and I never have touched a woman. I think I am a normal guy. I know I am not the most handsome, but neither I am the ugliest. I am very shy and I don't know how to get a date with a girl. When I am in a pub and see a girl I don't know how to talk to her, especially if I don't know her and she is with her friends. Can you help me? 0 response(s), 0 votes
Jeggburt 43 M 1  question	Possible Relationships - Gone in a blink of an eye - 3/9/2001 I've had this problem where there has been a chance of a possible relationship (most coming from work) and taking too much time to try and decipher whether the person is single etc and then asking them out on a date because my self-confidence is low. <br> This has mainly came down to the fact that I was bullied quite a lot when I was younger and not having the chance to have a ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
PureTemptation 43 M 2  questions	What happens when best friend tells you she loves you? - 1/7/2001 I am a male in his early 20's. I have had a strong friendship with some of the opposite sex for over 6 years now. We get on really good and spend alot of time together having a good laugh. When we first met I really fancied her and it took me 8 months before plucking up the courage to tell her how I felt. She was seeing someone at the time and 'let me down' as easy as she could. That was in ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
PureTemptation 43 M 2  questions	Best friend 22, girlfriend 13 - Do I say something? - 1/7/2001 My best friend recently called me (now live over 400 miles apart) and told me about his new girlfriend. He has always gone for the 'younger looking' girl since I've known him butwhat he told me has left me very concerned. My friend is 22 years old and he is currently dating a girl who has just recently turned 13 years old. They have apparantly been seeing each other for 3 weeks now and he ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
kmaloney 54 F 1  question	HOW TO SWEEP HIM OFF HIS FEET - 11/28/2000 I met this great guy on the internet and he seems really decent and around the time we had met a close aunt had died and since then someone in his family has taken ill I think due to the Aunt's passing and he has had to spend alot of time at the Hospital, he has asked me to bear with him and he has told me he has all intentions of getting together as soon as things calm dowm. I am a ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
pinkbaby0513 45 F 1  question	i know searching may takes time,but is it worthwhile? - 9/24/2000 I am 21 a gal, my handle here is pinkbaby0513, sometimes I ask myself why I want to come up to the internet and look for a real serious relation should I trust them, sometimes I ask myself why not, if you don't truse others how can they truse you, but it is just like in a ballon, you would never know where you gonna fly to, but on one hand, you wonder what the exellent new adventure you can ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
hope4baby 44 F 1  question	Big fight with my best friend-should I forgive her? - 9/1/2000 I've been friends with this girl for 6 years. We've been through everything together and rarely had any disagreements. Last year I got engaged to this guy and I think she felt jealous, 3 months later she was engaged also. I felt like she was trying to compete with me. She's always been a good friend, always given me advice when I needed it. But once she got engaged(and then married) she was not ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
Begmotike 43 M 1  question	Why isn't she writing anymore? - 6/22/2000 About three weeks ago I sent an e-mail in response to a friendfinder profile (My first ever). To my surprise and delight I got an e-mail back, she sounded exactly like what I had been hoping for. I replied, and got another great message back, which pretty much closed with the words I can't wait to hear more from you?(Not an exact quote, but pretty close) Well, I sent her a fairly lengthy reply, ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
Nighthawk1960 54 M 1  question	Single Moms - 6/16/2000 It's so hard. I never realized that there was so much at stake when getting involved with a single Mom. Everything seems just like normal dating, at first. The attraction is either there or it isn't. If it is, then the hook is already set. Gradually, the are introduced into the equation. Everything is still fine for the short term. If the relationship ends, nobody will ever think about what ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
Stacy24FCali 48 F 1  question	Friendship first? - 3/20/2000 I have always thought it best to become good friends before beginning a relationship. But when a relationship of 1 1/2 years ended, not only did that really hurt, but the loss of the friendship hurt even more. So I am wondering what people think. Is it best to become friends first? Or not, so that you don't run the risk of ruining the friendship? 0 response(s), 0 votes
ALICIA--13 38 F 1  question	What do i do? - 2/18/2000 Im falling for every guy i see!! I hate it! i have a boy friend that i love with all my heart! what do i do? 0 response(s), 0 votes
girlatheart46 71 F 1  question	Distance: Good, Bad or Indifferent? - 2/2/2000 Sooner or later if you put your profile on one the internet in one form or the other, you will be contacted by someone who lives very far away. This contact could be possiblity good, bad, or indif- ferent depending on the situation involved. <br> There are some good things about distance. Because there is a large distance inbetween the two of you, one may be a little more ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
positronic 49 M 1  question	which one is it, Doc? - 1/29/2000 Ever since I have become part of this "organization", I continued to write to those users that I found I had something in common. I wasn?t restricted to just United States. That?s about it. Get it? I continued to write, but never got anything in return... Here's what I wonder? Does anybody care to respond? What is it? The picture? No, I am not desperate. I am just curious. <br> ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
exec27 51 M 1  question	Should I stay or should I go? - 12/18/1999 After a 1 yr. 4 mth. relationship, I began to go out with a new girl who I hit it off with very well. She, too, recently got out of a long term relationship. I thought that the circumstances of our former partners were quite different, but after much conversation, we learned that there were many similarities. Anyway, we first went out in Sept. '99 and every moment together has been ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
prettyone42 66 F 1  question	will i make it through this split up? - 11/26/1999 I'm very pretty I always got my way. Married money what I got was beat a lot. When he start hiting on our I got us out. Put myself through college two years cleaning other people's house's not dating just tring to heal. Graduated got a good job. Started dating a man that drink way to much beer. Before long it was 5 years with him trying to make everything right. I just figured ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
MorenaLuna 51 F 1  question	Three Some - 10/24/1999 My ex- , my best friend and me went out for a couple of drinks. We've got very drunk and we decided to have a three - some, because neither of us were having sex. We all agreed and we went to my ex-'s place, and we started to have fun, however, my ex, couldn't deal with it and left the room very mad. After a while we went to look for him, he had a knife and he said he wanted to kill ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
iembry 44 M 2  questions	Long-distance relationship? - 9/15/1998 My question is, I'm in college now, in Tennessee. I am interested in having a relationship with a female from my hometown in Lexington, Kentucky. We've been friends for quite some time now. But, we haven't been more than just friends yet. I am thinking about becoming more than just friends, but I really don't know how to tell her. Plus, she is about two years younger than me and she has ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
Skittles12 45 F 1  question	What is going on??? - 9/14/1998 I just broke up with my borfriend of 1 and a half years. We're both in college, in different states: me in Minnesota dn he is in Maryland. It has been a long distance relationship from the beginning. When he started college, he all of the sudden was too busy for me. I understood that his classes are important, but I began to feel he didn't even care. I never heard from him, and after I waited for ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
vanessa18 44 F 2  questions	I have a crush on my neighbor who's 3 and 1/2 yrs. younger!! - 7/12/1998 I'm 18 years old andI have a crush on my neighbor, but I'm really good friends with his mom and sisters. He's 3 and 1/2 yrs. younger than I am. Should I wait two years when he's 17 and I'm 20, or should I take things the way they've been going? We flirt with each other. The truth is, I'm not sure if he likes me or he's just flirting because I am. He doesn't make too many first moves. I also ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
Sharky99 43 M 1  question	What's wrong/ - 6/5/1998 I am 17 soon to be 18 and have never been kissed. I am not ugly but i know i'm no hunk. Anyway what is wrong with me. 0 response(s), 0 votes
DramaChick 44 F 1  question	Best friend or love that will never end? - 5/28/1998 I am so confused...my best friend is a wonderful guy, and he has always been there for me. We've been friends for 3 years, and until now, that's all it was: friends. Now I realize that I love him, but I don't want to tell him and risk our friendship. We are both leaving for college in a few months, and we will be hundreds of miles apart. Is it worth it to risk it all now when we are moving so far ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
elfinmagic 46 F 1  question	long-distance relationship - 3/22/1998 I am a 20 year-old, Junior in college, in Texas. I have a 23 year-old boyfriend who is in Missouri for graduate school. We have been dating for 1 1/2 years. We have been apart now for 6 months. We have seen each other 5 times (for brief periods of time) in these last 6 months. Through email and phone, we have stayed close. We both love each other. In fact, I think our love for each other ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
KAURISLSL 82 M 1  question	DO PRINCIPLES EXIST? - 3/22/1998 One of my friends, he is not connected to the Net, but to every single skirt which moves. He is married for the third time and he is only 32 years old. His problem is that he simply cannot ignore a woman going past him. Specially the married ones. He just returned from South Africa where he worked as an engineer. Within the first month he had bedded atleast three of his work mates wives. ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
iembry 44 M 2  questions	Ex-girlfriend - Should I become friends with her again? - 3/14/1998 I have this ex-girlfriend that I was with for a little over two years. We were very intimate, mainly when we got here to college. Here, she started changing, in my eyes, and started to try to be someone else that she wasn't. So we broke-up over that and some other things. Then, I said that I never loved her and never could and other things. I got her really upset and mad at me. Then, ] ... 1 response(s), 1 vote
WileECoyote 50 M 1  question	falling in love without seeing each other before? - 3/5/1998 Since about a year or slightly more I have a penpal, we write a lot, yet didn't enter a chatroom so far, email was enough. We started as penpals, but things worked out better and better, I once send her flowers, then I got i.e. for Valentine's Day a bouget of roses from her. She often mentioned lately that she is thinking a lot about me. yet we never saw each other, she got several ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
SiaFhir 46 M 1  question	Is it too late? - 2/21/1998 I first set eyes on a girl at my college in September. It started with her apparent interest in a buddy of mine, but me as well, simply by the eye contact. My buddy talked to her once, then that was it, he was too shy to try again (he was half drunk the first time, but she didn't seem to mind). Now, after the end of the first term in December, my buddy dropped out, and he suggested I meet ... 0 response(s), 0 votes