Why do people judge others?
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Posted:Sep 4, 2018 3:13 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2018 10:29 pm 3159 Views
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Each of us has our own way of choosing which is the most valuable thing in our life. Some people focus their lives on money and status. But some people value life through beauty and fame. Some value family and relationships, attaching great importance to the dedication of the good to society, etc.
You can see the world through family values, but most people do not. You can see the world through a measure of gravitation, but most people do not. You can see the world through free lenses and experience, but most people do not see it. And you can see the world in a positive and friendly way, but do not force people to be like you.
And that is simply a very "human" part of you. Learn how to let other people judge you and the world differently from how you evaluate them. It is one of the most important steps in choosing the right emotional relationship for yourself. Developing your own boundaries is very important, and decide you want who will be a part of your life, and who will not.
You may not be able to accept someone's behavior and thoughts. But you have to accept that you can not change their personal values!...
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How can one live life to the fullest?
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Posted:Aug 31, 2018 5:58 pm
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2018 7:40 pm 3338 Views
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How can one live life to the fullest?
Factors that are highly regarded, affecting the lives of people in the present time such as money, status, fame ... are not widely mentioned as things that make their lives. more complete. Instead, many believe that the determinants of a fulfilling life include family, health, success and sharing.
In addition, when evaluating whether someone is living fully or not, two factors are most concerned about that is attitude of life and health.
A full life does not necessarily come from something so great or only possible when finances are stable or status in society. ... but which can be derived from the simple things around life day, or from the change in the thinking and habits of each person. Each day passes on the journey full life, people discover more and more potential of themselves and enjoy the good things from life.
Even if it's just family gatherings, sharing the stories of the day is enough to load more energy after a day of work and give you more motivation to get to life entirety.
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Little romantic for life!
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Posted:Aug 4, 2018 8:17 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2018 6:11 pm 3775 Views
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Listen to a lyrical song, meet a few old friends from the old days at the weekend just to talk, go out to the suburbs with fresh air after work ... are things sometimes slightly a little improvisation, but it can help you balance more in life.
Do not program your life to make it dry and uncomfortable. In addition to important tasks that need to be done on time, the rest of your life can sometimes you should let the emotions control themselves
Psychological comfort can help you have moments of sublimation, creative ideas, breakthroughs in your work.
Sometimes my eyes get jealous of my heart. Know why? Because you always remain close to my heart and far from my eyes.
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The beautiful terraced fields in Sapa.
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Posted:Jul 20, 2018 2:54 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2019 1:21 am 4187 Views
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Terraced fields in Sapa have existed for hundreds of years. That's one of nature's masterpieces and human.
Autumn, golden fields of grain are as beautiful as dreaming on terraced rice fields at the foot of Fansipan majestic with many shapes and colors. All land and sky are like to dye a bright yellow color from the sun and golden fields of grain. And in particular, you can also catch the sea of clouds suddenly overflowing on the fields
Clouds float in the valley, blending with the yellow of ripe rice, creating a lyrical painting.
The terraced fields in succession to the horizon. Like the strange brocade carpets when standing on the high pass look down.
It's like the nature was the creator the rice steps, but not so. Due to the highland, mountainous areas with rare land for cultivation, especially the wet rice cultivation, people overcome by choosing the hills and mountains with three-tiered soils to form flat lands.
Then depending on the intention of cultivation that can be dried or led water from higher peaks, ethnic minority has created terraced fields - a rare masterpiece in the wet rice civilization of Vietnam.
(Photos of uncles Tuan, Hoa)
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Global strength in the campaign to rescue Thai 's soccer team.
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Posted:Jul 14, 2018 3:21 am
Last Updated:Jul 18, 2018 4:58 pm 3450 Views
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Global strength in the campaign to rescue Thai 's soccer team
Operation the world never forget !
18 days of 'mission impossible' to rescue 13 Thai teenagers.
The two best divers in the world John Volanthen and Rick Scanton from England were the first to discover 's team in the cave on July 2. They also called for an Australian colleague to join them.
Richard Harris, anesthetist, is one of the most experienced cave divers in the world. In addition, he brings with him expertise in medical matters that is very useful for the campaign to rescue Thai youth.
Ivan Karadzic, a Danish diving instructor who runs a diving school in Thailand, also joins his friend, Mikko Baasi, from Malta. Baasi left Malta to join the rescue campaign on the eve of the 8th wedding anniversary.
In addition, Israeli diver live in Thailand Rafael Aroush and German cave diving expert Nick Vollmar are undoubtedly the two names can not be missed.
The campsite, which houses volunteers and soldiers near Tham Luang cave, has about 2,000 people in attendance. A pig farmer, living about 30 km away from the scene, is not afraid to come and cook for the rescue force, from 6am to midnight. He estimated that he served about 400 meals per shift. Most of the food was brought by him.
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We are very grateful to them!
Johan Volanthen and Rick Stanton were the first two British divers to find Thai teenagers stranded in the Tham Luang cave on July 2 after missing nine days. Many have praised them, calling them "heroes" and calling for the honor of the two divers for their contributions to the successful rescue.
After taking a flight from Thailand to Heathrow (England) last night 12/7, Volanthen shared his feelings when he first contacted the young players in Tham Luang cave after 9 days of being trapped.
"We are very happy and relieved to know that they are all alive. But then we also realized that the situation was very dangerous and that was the reason we had to take them all out. "
Volanthen found the players in the cave are considered lucky surprise. While the diver was diving in a dark cavern, the rope rode suddenly ran out of its length, forcing him to rise to the surface. At that moment, Volanthen saw 13 people standing on a high mound overlooking him. If the rope of Volanthen short of a few meters away, he probably did not find the team and the rescue might have turned a different direction.
What a luck!
After the campaign to save the Thai team, many have offered to reward two English divers for their efforts. However,Volanthen said the success of the operation was the joint effort of international crews including civilian diver and navy divers who worked together to bring all 13 people trapped to the outside.
"If you could do something for the , you would. The results are important. The are out, the trainer is fine, the SEAL special (Thai Navy) is very good and the job is done. We are satisfied with that "
Volanthen also paid tribute to Saman Kunan, former Thai Navy SEAL Task Force killed in the rescue operation. Kunan died due to lack of oxygen while placing crates in the cave entrance. Volanthen says Kunan's departure has brought gratitude for an "excellent" rescue operation.
The humanity, talent, willpower and energy of the volunteers, saved the 's team.
We are very grateful to them!
God bless them.
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Fixed thinking and progress-seeking thinking.
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Posted:Jul 3, 2018 6:34 pm
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2018 8:14 pm 3686 Views
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Fixed thinking and progress-seeking thinking.
The development of fixed thinking or progress-seeking thinking begins when you are young. When a teacher tells a , "You did well because you were very smart," that can not own his success. It is not through effort but by innate ability to bring them forward. This leads to fixed thinking.
On the other hand, when a teacher tells a , "You did a great job in the project because you worked hard", it brings another effect.
The will assume that success is due to his effort to work. This leads to progress-seeking thinking.
*If you are around people who have progress-seeking thinking
Fixed-minded people tend to be jealous when others move forward in life because they think those ones have a lot of things from birth.
When they get stuck in life, the last thing they want is someone else will try to change things for them. That is why fixed-minded people often ignore the advice.
Do not try to change others.
Because they are having fixed thoughts, trying to change their minds is impossible. They just listen to themselves, so it's better you should offer choices for them.
*If you are around people who have forward thinking.
Whenever possible, try to find people with whom you can share your beliefs in the power of learning and effort. People who have progress-seeking thinking will always open topics and accept critiques and people will continue to improve together.
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The truth in life comes from the paradox.
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Posted:Jul 1, 2018 5:57 am
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2018 6:24 am 3276 Views
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Sometimes we realize that some important truths in life come from the core of paradox.
It may be...
*The more you learn, the more you find yourself ignorant.
According to Socrates, an ancient Greek philosopher: "Every time we understand something, our thinking raises more questions than answers."
*The more we try to connect, the more lonely we feel.
Although in today's modern life, we often think that we have a lot of relationships through social networks and smartphones. But look at the reality around you, you will be startled by no one.
Loneliness and depression in developed countries are increasing alarmingly!
*The more you try to hold on to someone, the more they try to get away from you!
When acts or emotions become obligatory, does it still matter in a relationship?
The truth in life comes from the paradox.
It sounds contradictory, but we have to admit its logic.
Interesting!
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How can one achieve true happiness and inner peace?
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Posted:Jun 29, 2018 8:56 pm
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2018 6:25 am 3589 Views
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This life does not give us a pink to sit there dreaming, but this life gives us a blue to hope.
Hoping for something for yourself, then something for relationships, and more than that, more noble than we can hope for all of us are always happy. To this life, when we meet someone again, he/she gives us a smile of understanding, love, in order to add to this existence an eternal joy.
That does not mean thinking out of the pipe dream., and then hoping for something unrealistic. It will turn us into a virtual person with a magical reality. Sometimes we need to live slowly, to feel the truth from our sympathetic friends, family, friends, and social relationships.
It is true only when we have an unease in life, and then the desire to be free, to be peaceful and not to think about what we have experienced. Sometimes we want to find somewhere to bring a sense of peace, and then we want to be like a who just wants to go home alone to hold his mother and cry. Yeah, because the family is the most sacred gift that life gives.
The Buddha said: "Do not look back to the past, do not think about the future, the past is no longer, the future is not yet, feel and enjoy life, in the present moment."
People are still looking for something called peace, but they do not know that peace is in their soul. Set up peace and happiness for yourself to feel the magic that life offers!
Because ..."Peace does not mean the one where no noise, no trouble, and no toil. When we are in a storm, we still feel the calm of mind"
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From the helpful advices and the heartfelt thanks.
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Posted:Jun 27, 2018 5:43 am
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2018 6:08 pm 2782 Views
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I read the articles on "depression" of Ms. saigon, of Mr. Sarveshan and the advices of Ms. Sapnajii_Aunty, Mr. stevefehlm and Mr. yagabu. These are valuable data for people who are related to depressed patients, because the knowledge and experience from that fact will help us in helping the patients effectively.
I knew about a heartbroken death of my friend's brother, when he was only 28 years old. His parents' family was rich, he was a good engineer, he was depressed but family members do not recognize.
Until one day, he told his sister that he was tired of living and he just wanted to die. His sister thought he was joking because he looked normal, until he slept for a long time, never waking up. That broke our heart. 
Dear Ms. saigon, You are a good friend, I think with the advice of the people they have more knowledge and experience, you will help your friend gradually reduce the depression.
Moreover, you are a strong and dynamic girl. You can control yourself well with yoga and meditation, you will never be depressed. I believe so!
I wish you would be successful and happy in your life.
God bless you.
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Love is the most wonderful things that the Creator gave to us.
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Posted:Jun 4, 2018 10:22 pm
Last Updated:Jul 18, 2018 5:01 pm 4184 Views
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Love is a sacred and noble affection. Love is a connection, formed by positive emotional flow that you want to share with anyone.
When you really love a person, you have to know to accept the things that belong to that person including the defect. There is no absolute being, no perfect person. The compensation of each other, the lack of this person to make up for the lack of a new couple to make a comprehensive.
Have you ever answer why you love this person, but do not love others? It is difficult to answer, because it is in your senses, the lack of which you feel must compensate. When your mood is down, but when you have a problem, when you want to share the joy, the time you need someone to talk ... you always think about him, thinking about how he will appear in a way immediately do this or that thing for you.
That's all there is to it!
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