REPOSTED...... TRUTH...MEDITATION AND RELATIONSHIP
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Posted:May 16, 2020 6:46 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2020 6:50 am 694 Views
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When I am writing this post, I remember my one of the Intelligent FF Friend ' Precious' because of his faith " Truth Is The Only God" 
I remember one quote "There is no god higher than truth." ..from one of the Great Mahatma .." Mahatma Gandhi".
I know that "god" can be a tricky concept to discuss in mixed company, but it is an important part of Philosophical theory and practice, so I want to take a few minutes to share some interesting beliefs on the subject.
According to traditional theories of human needs and desires, "god-hunger" is that sensation, when all our physical, emotional and mental needs are met, which drives us to seek out explanations for that which we by definition cannot understand. It can be hard for us to reconcile this desire within our rational minds.
Even if you belong to an organized religion, finding a place to fit Morals and Ethics within its boundaries can be a difficult and confusing process...but science doesn't lie. Studies have reliably shown that Prayer and Beliefs. Feeling of I Love Someone and Feeling of I am Loved by Someone, Meditation and Musing on the Divine actually changes the brain, lighting up the parts that control focus and concentration while shutting down the center of the brain that controls individualization and leaves us feeling separate from everyone else. Wouldn't you love to find a way to feel more connected and in tune with your lover?
Finding a happy, quiet place in your mind is the first step to making your beliefs a physical reality. Meditation can take some time to get used to, so start slow and take it a few minutes at a time, working your way up to a good ten to fifteen minutes a day.
The easiest way to make meditation a daily practice is to create safe space for yourself inside your mind. Sitting quietly and comfortably, try using some kind of "dropping down" metaphor, like an elevator or a set of stairs, a magic carpet or a floating cloud, visualizing yourself going down, down, down deep into your subconscious. You will know when you reach the bottom of this journey, and there you will find a door. When you open the door, inside you will find your special place, a place of calm and peace.
This place can be anything you imagine it to be - a quiet field, a verdant valley, a still lake, a rushing stream or waterfall, a beach by the ocean, a humid jungle, a snowy mountain, a dark damp cave .. anything that allows you to feel calm and peaceful inside. In this place you can begin to explore your own mind and your ideas about the universe. Allow images and ideas to come to you and let them pass with conscious mindfulness.
What is truth? Open and honest COMMUNICATION is often touted as the "pinnacle of relationship rightness", but I know, it can be hard balancing honesty with understanding and compassion. How do you know when you are speaking the truth and when you are simply spouting your own opinions? In Hindu mythology, Maya (Illusion) is personified as a young maiden shrouded in gauzy veils, she who obscures the truth and weaves the twisted web of life.
I tell you on my own exercise, you guys to try it. In your place of peace, imagine your GF or Some One You Love as this maiden, shrouded in veils which cloud your vision and keep her partially hidden from you. Think of any problems you may be having in your relationship or your ability to communicate with her. In your mind's eye, think about each layer of the problem as one layer of her veils. First consider your own thoughts on the problem and watch as she pulls back one of the veils, and then consider her thoughts as she pulls back the next. Consider your feelings on the subject, then hers as she reveals two more layers. Finally, consider what each of you needs in this situation as she reveals herself fully to you. When she is naked before you in your mind's eye, muse for a few moments on what new things you have learned, both about yourself and your lover, in this exercise. Return to the real world and allow your imagination to bring the two of you closer together in reality.
When you speak to your partner in love, truth is that which serves us both. Talking about your opinions as if they are facts, especially when they do not benefit the situation or improve your relationship with your lover, can do more harm than good. Take the time to learn exactly how your own illusions might be clouding your ability to speak loving truth.
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MY LUCKIEST DAY ... 5TH MAY
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Posted:May 5, 2020 2:13 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2020 7:48 am 1097 Views
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5TH MAY...MY LUCKIEST DAY.
LONG LONG AGO...GOD BLESSED BY PRESENTING THE MOST PRECIOUS GIFT HE WAS HAVING WITH HIM THIS DAY....5TH MAY.
THE MOMENT HE BLESSED ME WITH THE GIFT.. FLOWERS THE EARTH GOT THEIR SCENTS AND COLORS.
THE MOMENT HE BLESSED ME.. SKY BECAME THE RESIDENCE OF BEAUTIFUL BRIGHT STARS.
THE MOMENT HIS PRESENT REACHED THE EARTH....MOON GOT HIS ROMANTIC LIGHT.....ROSE GOT HIS RED COLOR.....NIGHT BECAME THE NIGHT OF STARS.....MUSIC GOT THE WORDS...BEAUTY GOT THE DEFINITION AND THE HAPPINESS GOT THE MEANING.
THIS IS THE DAY...GOD GIFTED ME A VOICE ..... T O SAY
" Baar baar din yeh aaye, baar baar dil yeh Jaaye
Baar baar din yeh aaye, baar baar dil yeh Jaaye
Tu jiye hazaaron saal, yah meri hai aarazu
Happy birthday you, happy birthday yo
Happy birthday you, happy birthday you..."
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BEFORE MANY MANY YEARS
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Posted:May 2, 2020 11:07 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2020 11:10 am 804 Views
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BEFORE MANY MANY YEARS.....WHEN I JOINED IFF
WHEN IFF ITSELF WAS A BABY OF 27 DAYS
I WAS LOOKING LIKE THIS ............
LAST NIGHT AFTER 2.30 AM WHEN I LEFT THE CHAT ROOM AND WAS SEARCHING IN MY OLD EXTERNAL HARD DRIVE SOME OLD INFORMATION........
I FOUND MY FIRST PROFILE PHOTO I PUT IN INDIAN FRIEND FINDER,,,,,
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WHEN THE " ENDING" BECOMES THE " BLESSING"......
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Posted:Apr 26, 2020 8:20 pm
Last Updated:May 1, 2020 5:31 pm 1389 Views
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On the outside, it may even appear that you and your partner are happy.
But inside, you feel like your soul is dying.
Loving each other isn't the thrill or adventure you once imagined it would be.
You don't giggle or have private jokes anymore.
You don't look at each other with affection or adoration.
You don't caress each other or kiss passionately may be virtually then.
You don't trust each other to be a source of support and comfort.
Instead, your love has become a treadmill of misunderstanding , verbal fights, and pains.
Still you keep loving someone,with whom you experience no passion, no joy, no vibrancy.
A Love or Relationship where you often feel unappreciated, taken for granted and disrespected.
Where it's all about what your partner wants, or decides, and not enough about what you want or need. You feel so invisible sometimes!
You didn't want to be in a love or relationship where every little thing becomes a power struggle, because your partner clings stubbornly to their way of doing things, even if it makes no sense to you.
...or a relationship that leaves you anxious and worried all the time, because your partner isn't very responsible, and then withdraws their love when you try to voice your concerns.
Maybe you've lived this way for years. Maybe you've been fighting against it and trying to "fix" it for longer.
You may even doubt that it's even possible to fix, because you ask yourself:
"Are we fundamentally incompatible?"
"Has my partner changed as a person? Have I?"
"Have we just grown apart? Fallen out of love?
"Have we hurt or neglected each other beyond repair?"
Your friends have problems in their relationships, and they seem to put up with it and think it's okay, or "good enough". But in your heart, your unhappy relationship isn"t okay with you.
"Good enough" is actually not good enough at all.
That you want MORE.
That you deserve more.
You love shouldn't be a chore, but a joy and a celebration.
But you have partner not taking efforts to make that happen.
Making requests hasn’t worked.
Ignoring the problem hasn’t worked.
Talking about things rationally hasn’t worked.
Sharing your feelings hasn't worked.
Fighting about it hasn't worked.
You solve one problem, and a new one crops up
You keep having the same conversations, arguments, or push/pull interactions without making any constructive changes.
You've tried to make things better. You really have.
But the things you've tried to solve your problems are only temporary fixes at best,
You need to be honest about your feelings and needs with your partner, inspite of complaining to yourself it's always better to resign, World is so big, in which some one else is waiting for you to fulfill your desires,to provide you that Love You Deserve, and it's proper time to take decision because that is a proper time " WHEN THE " ENDING" BECOMES THE " BLESSING"......
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CONTRIBUTE IN FIGHTING WITH CORONA
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Posted:Apr 14, 2020 1:25 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2020 12:19 pm 983 Views
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it's very much essential to contribute in fighting with Coronavirus by strictly observing the Social Distancing and Isolation by staying only at home.
But the same time it's very much essential to Contribute in fighting with the corona by working on the field. It's very essential to meet and stay with coronavirus infected patients to boost their confidence and morals.
I got myself involved in 2nd type of contribution.. Daily for 3/4 hours i go and stay in Sasoon Govt. Hospital and B. J. Govt. Medical Collage Coronavirus ward run by the Lions Club Pune on Charity level to help and assist the Patients.
Here are some Pics to show what precautions we are taking along with the spects made up of very special glasses and shoe cover as it's foind corona virus is hiding in max. density at the bottom of the doctor's shoes, Computer Keyboards and keys, Mouse especially and how much Satisfaction we all feel in this Nobel Contribution.
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WEAVING A RELATIONSHIP
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Posted:Apr 7, 2020 4:06 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2020 7:17 pm 1020 Views
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In this corona season daily i am visiting Sasson Govt Hospital, Pune to assist in the Corona ward run by the Lions Club, Pune.
When i met there a very Young Couple which is just about to get discharge after 100% recovery, tomorrow or day after tomorrow and just had a baby before 2 months. I asked then in very friendly way if they had decided what kind of parenting style they were going to use. They gave me a quizzical look and I clarified. I mentioned that there are many different methods of rearing - ranging from strict disciplinarian to hands off. I wanted to know if they read about or discussed the various methods they would use to raise their baby.
Like many parents, they hadn't given it too much thought. Basically, they were going to raise their how they remember being raised. Some parents who feel they had a poor upbringing try to raise their the exact opposite way they were raised. In reality, our friends had no real plan for raising their .
I see this same approach in relationships and it can be very unhealthy. Just because you turned out "ok" doesn't mean that you were reared wonderfully. And just because many of your friends not broke-up or took divorce doesn't mean you should mimic their relationship.
If you want to be a great basket weaver how would you go about it? By instinct? By watching those who make ordinary or even awful baskets? If you want to be a top-notch basket weaver you would spend a lot of time watching experts in the field, noting their technique. You would read books on the subject and take some courses. When it came to weaving your basket, you would probably have some ideas and concepts about what you wanted it to look like before you even started.
A relationship is a lot more complex than making baskets. If you want to have a top-notch relationship then you can't simply let nature take its course. You must have a plan. First, you make the decision that you are going to have a blissful relationship and hopefully you can get your mate to agree to the same. You will want to observe couples that have blissful relationships and maybe ask them a lot of questions. You should read books on the subject and perhaps take some courses from experts.
Raising well-behaved, respectful takes a lot of time, thought and effort. Creating a beautiful basket takes skill, dedication and good teaching.
A blissful relationship takes all the above and then some....
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SURRISE SEXY GIFT TO DURGA FOR HER NOBEL ACT :X
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Posted:Mar 30, 2020 9:14 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2020 6:17 am 1304 Views
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DURGA
First of all Congratulation and Hat's Of for The Most Nobel Act from you and your handsome Chocolate.
And so here a sexy gift from Hungry to you splendid guys 
You must be very much bored while sitting in the home in these compulsory holidays. And it may put some more weight on you.
So writing this post to help you and your chocolate in making it more sexy and hot in Hungry's style.
And hmmmmm when your Chocolate will be using my style to make you feel you are in the heaven of the pleasure don't blame me for making you miss me there with you.
is a perfect way to indulge Beautiful Durga in the sense of touch. While your handsome sexy chocolate will be following my Style definitely you are going to feel Hungry's Style is effective way to build arousal, whether you are giving or receiving the massage.
The use of oil or lotion lightly stroked across your sensuous bare skin is almost guaranteed to get your j u i ces flowing Durga . will help you relax and feel good in your body. It will also help you feel loved and cared for. Me, Hungry, using the hands of your chocolate is going to make you feel good. In fact, I will be having the benefit of bending you, using your chocolate’s hands  which means I will be in the position to make you feel really good.
And you know what else makes you feel good? A good breast massage that can lead to a firework or orgasms.
To give a full body massage to you, you will need a flat, comfortable surface - like the floor or a bed - a sheet or towel, some massage oil or lotion, and a pillow or rolled up towel.
Make sure your Chocolate prepares time before the massage to adequately heat the space. If you have a fireplace or woodstove, light a fire to eat up the space and create a cozy atmosphere. Otherwise set the thermostat to anywhere between 75° and 85°F. Light some candles and put some nice relaxing music on. Heat up the massage oil and lotion by setting the bottles in some hot water.
Before your s e x y chocolate start the massage, check in with yourself about any sore or tight areas in your body that you can tell Chocolate send some love to. Let him Find out how much pressure you prefers. Once he has checked in, you start by lying face down on the bed or floor. Place a pillow, bolster, or rolled up towel under your ankles.
To begin, ask Chocolate lightly caress your entire body. Alternate between using his whole hand and just his fingertips. Ask him to start with the back and the arms. Then move down to include both legs and feet.
To begin using lubrication, ask him to place about a tablespoon of warm oil or lotion in his hand. Then rub his hands together to allow the oil to coat the entire surface of both palms. Kneeling or standing at your head, and let bring both hands gently down onto either side of your spine, and use soft, broad, flowing strokes to move from the top of your back to the small of your back. Then let him glide his hands across the small of your back, over your hips. For his return stroke, let him pull his palms up the sides of your body, gliding underneath your armpits and across your shoulder blades to the base of your neck. Additionally, he can stroke down along the top of your shoulders and then back up to the neck. Let him repeat these strokes many times, improvising on the pattern if you wish.
Your Chocolate can gradually begin to extend his stroke to cover the buttocks and up the sides of the hips. The return stroke can extend over the shoulders and down the arms. Let him keep the flow going, changing directions seamlessly, eventually covering every inch of your body. Let him add oil or lotion as needed to keep hands gliding nicely over your skin. Make sure his hands remain in full contact with your skin during these strokes, molding them to your body in a relaxed manner. Ask him to keep the pace slow and occasionally check in with you about the both the pace and the pressure.
When you are ready, let him move down to the legs. Let him first apply the oil with gentle strokes. Then, starting at the ankle, glide over the calf, across the back of the knee, up the hamstrings, and over the buttocks. In the same stroke, let him continue all the way up the side of the back, over the shoulder and down the arm on the same side. This long stroke connects the whole body and helps keep the energy flowing. Sexy and Hot Durga can enjoy this stroke many times and occasionally ask him to use work smaller sections by gliding back and forth over the skin in rhythmic, wave-like patterns. Let your Chocolate repeat this stroke on the other side of your beautiful sexy body.. Remember to ask your Chocolate to keep his hands relaxed, the pace slow and sensual, and the pressure to your liking.
Once he has worked the left and right sides of the back of your, gently you turn over onto your back in order to massage the front of your body. He can begin by lightly caressing all over the front of your body, as he did on your backside. When you are ready to move on, ask him to put another tablespoon of oil onto his hands and begin at the ankle of your one leg, gliding over the shin and knee and across the top of the thigh. When he gets to the top of the leg crease, klet your Chocolate swoop his hands to either side of your thigh, and come back down the sides of the leg, all the way to the ankle. Let him repeat this stroke, making sure to touch all parts of your leg, keeping the pressure light and the strokes flowing and sensual. Let your handsome Chocolate repeat these strokes on the other leg.
Once he has massaged your both legs, let him move to stand or kneel by the top of your head. Ask him to rub some oil into his hands. Then, starting at the top of your chest, gently apply the oil to your torso. Let him Stroke down across sexy and beautiful Durga's chest, breasts, and abdomen, out to either side. Let him return stroke come up the sides, underneath the armpits, up over the chest, and out the tops of the shoulders. Ask him to let you enjoy this stroke many times, making it as slow and delicious as he possibly can. Let him gradually extend this stroke by gliding from the shoulders all the way down the arms and back up to the neck. Cover as much of her torso as you can.
Ask Cute Chocolate to keep his touch relatively light, smooth, and flowing. Allow him to get turned on while giving the massage. Let him bring his sexual energy into it, but don’t let it override his primary focus of providing a slow sensual experience for my Sexiest Hottie Durga.. Ask him to help you relax and deepen into the pleasure without any feeling of pressure to take care of his needs. Even if You , Yourself start to get really turned on, let him patiently maintain the slow and sensual quality of the massage. You may start to writhe in erotic pleasure underneath his hands or you may deepen your relaxation. Either way, let him maintain a sensual tone with his touch.
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CORONA - HAT'S OFF TO MY PUNE..WE ARE CLOSE TO REMEDY
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Posted:Mar 28, 2020 7:11 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2020 7:41 pm 1005 Views
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THERE IS A VERY FAMOUS QUOTE ON MY PUNE .." PUNE TITHE KAY UNE"
In my simple hinglish it means " In Pune there is nothing Impossible"
And PUNERI SCIENTIST and DOCTORS proved it today once again
SCIENTIST IN PUN E CAPTURED THE FIRST IMAGE OF 'COVID19' YESTERDAY ON 28TH MARCH.
Why it's important ? BECAUSE WHAT THEY CAPTURED WILL NOW SPREAD THE RAYS OF HOPES IN FINDING THE REMEDIES ON CORONA NOW. Unless and until you know where is the " NUCLEUS" of the virus , impossible for the scientist to find the Chemical Analysis of the Virus and Until and unless you have Chemical Analysis of the Bacteria or Virus , it's impossible to invent the ' Antinode ' or ' Vaccine';
The Importance of This Image Capturing is IT BROUGHT THE WORLD ONE STEP CLOSER IN FINDING THE REMEDY ON CORONAVIRUS.
These pictures of the novel coronavirus have been taken by a team of ICMR-NIV scientists in Pune.
the pictures have been taken using a transmission electron microscope and have been published in the Indian Journal of Medical Research.
Sars-Cov-2, the virus that causes COVID-19, are from the throat swab of the first laboratory confirmed case in India reported on January 30.
The pictures revealed the presence of stalk-like projections ending in round structures typical of a coronavirus particle.
The description of a novel virus, was referred to as the Wuhan coronavirus (CoV). It is probably the most recent human pneumonia-like virus with a potential of outbreak.
SO NOW THERE IS NO NEED TO BE PANIC NOW. WE ARE ONE STEP CLOSER TO REMOVE COVID19 FROM THE EARTH IN RECENT FUTURE.
BUT TILL THEN WE NEED TO STAY HOME, IN ISOLATION STRICTLY TO STOP THE OUTBREAK AND SPREAD .
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COVID19-CORONAVIRUS,,,,,,WHY SHUT DOWN !
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Posted:Mar 21, 2020 2:28 am
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2020 6:38 am 1099 Views
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What is very Dangerous about Coronavirus is it's speed of spreading and non availability of SURE AND PROVED remedy.
At present doctors are treating corona with the Medicines useful in HIV and at some places they are using the Medicines they use in the treatment of Dengue Fever....ONLY JUST TO INCREASE IMMUNE POWER of the patient..But The most RECENT INCIDENCE showed EVEN AFTER RECOVERY patients are again showing the positive symptoms of Corona.
The Only way restrict the spreading is the ISOLATION. So SHUTDOWN.
How it works ????????
There are 4 TYPE of groups. ...A .. B .. C .. AND D.
A - The first carrier. They are easy to find and mostly in cure.
HOW IT SPREADS ?
A GO OUT TO FIND C, WHERE C= FAMILY, FRIENDS,COLLEAGUE, NEIGHBOR, CASHIER, CINEMA COUNTER STAFF, FOOD DELIVERY DRIVER AND MORE.
IN THIS CASE HOW MANY 'C' MAY BE, WE CAN FIND THEM.
BUT WHEN ' A ' GO OUT TO MEET 'C', PASS BY STRANGER " B " IN PUBLIC.
'A' AND 'B' DON'T KNOW EACH OTHER.
HERE " B " = STRANGERS AT RAILWAY STATION, BUS STATION, HIGHWAY RESTING AREA, SUPERMARKET, SHOPPING MALL, RESTAURENT, MILK TEA AREA AND MORE.
AFTER FINDING " C " HE IS QUARANTINED AND OBSERVED.
"D" STAYS AT HOME AND NEVER GOES OUT.
THE PROBLEM IS, WE CAN'T FIND "B" ! NO BODY KNOWS WHO IS "B"....INCLUDING THEMSELVES.
ONCE " D" GO OUT, HE/SHE MIGHT CONTACT/MEET/PASSBY .." B". NOW " D" BECOMES NEW "B" ( B2) !
THE OBJECTIVE OF SHUTDOWN/LOCKDOWN, QUARANTINE CITIZENS IS USING TIME TO FIND OUT BIG GROUP "B".
BASICALLY INCUBATION PERIOD OF COVID19 IS 2 WEEKS. WITHIN 2 WEEKS,GROUP "B" WILL SHOW SYMPTOMS.AND AS "A" ,WILL BE TREATED AND CURED.
BY THIS GOVERNMENT CAN
1. FIND OUT GROUP "B", QUARANTINE AND TREATMENT WILL BE APPLIED.
2. REDUSE AND STOP " B2 "
3. UNTIL STOP THE TRANSMISSION.
SO MY FF FRIENDS, ONE PERSON CAN MAKE A HUGE DIFFERENCE.
STEP BACK. STAY HOME. SLOW THE SPREAD.
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LOVE HURTS " THE MOST "
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Posted:Mar 15, 2020 6:11 am
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2020 6:36 am 1325 Views
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Love is the most beautifullest and most powerful feeling that ever exists for everyone and anything Alive with a beating heart. It's something that happens naturally without knowing it will happen. It's spontaneous when it comes just like when will lightening might strike. I believe in Love with all my heart. If I had it or if I don't have it will be always my number one desire and then everything. Communication, the way you look into each other's eyes say it all. Let your heart speak up and don't be shy or afraid of any truth answer. Love you be you and LOVE. All or nothing, yes and no. That's where we come from. From a real soul with a big heart. Start with loving around you..
It's better to get hurt than feeling nothing at all in the first place. we all have been loved someone or to be loved at some point of our life. We've been lucky enough infact blessed to be felt the real warmth feeling of being loved by another soul without even realizing what tomorrow might bring in our lives that might end whatever bond we used to share with the other person.
You don't feel the heat unless you're out in the sun!
You don't feel the wet raindrops rolling down your face unless you go out & get drenched in the rain.
You don't get to be brave unless you're brought down by the fear.
You don't get to conquer the fears unless you're scared deep inside.
You don't get to feel what real love is unless you get to hurt by the same person.
We don't get to say how we gonna get hurt in our life. But we can get to decide who that person gonna be.
If it doesn't hurt, it was never real.
Don't be afraid of getting hurt. Because when it does you know who you really are and what you really seek in your life!
True love have a tendency to give you a lot of heartaches, pain ...hell lot of tears ...separation ..then again coming back together ...facing the world ...surviving through the challenges and never leaving each other's side ... True Love means people choosing not give up on each other no matter what the situation..and in this journey you can have lots of ups and downs ... lots of misunderstandings, ego clashes ... brain washing ... and every possible ways keep you apart ... but this journey is worth having cause in the end ... you'll feel happy and respect each other for what you have gone through and took a stand for each other when all the situations were against you.
The One Who experiences True Love Is The Person who can fight with the whole world for that one person ...who means the world to him/her!
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