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aileen81 43F
594 posts
6/17/2008 4:47 am

Last Read:
6/17/2008 6:19 pm

my first betrayal...


i sign up on a dating site !!
I don't know whether it consider as cheating or not...
Could it lead into betrayal ? poor petey....

I just think... why he never call me first ?

midnight_daisy 49F
2234 posts
6/17/2008 7:10 am

Make yourself happy!

Cheers!


aileen81 43F
373 posts
6/17/2008 6:09 pm

    Quoting Mistytraveller:
    hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm why doesn't he call you first? good question. What kind of agreements do you two have? Riny and I agreed that we email each other minimally twice a day....once in the morning and once in the evening....often it will be more...but it's a lovely way to begin and end a day.

    Sounds as though you're unsure of this relationship you're having. Perhaps time to be honest with him and tell him your concerns--rather than joining a dating site--at this point--which by the way is what FF is.
Yes its good question... i just thought, i can't do this my self. I start to questioning this a week ago, when i am about to call him, and think, why can't he call me at least once ?
As far as i concern, we are still gf-bf. Why i should made all the effort my self ? am i seemed trying too hard ?
There's no mail from him unless i mail him too.
I didn't see FF as dating site.. more to friendship.. cause honestly i got more girlfriend here more than guy that interesting to had relationship with me, hehehe....


aileen81 43F
373 posts
6/17/2008 6:19 pm

    Quoting  :

I want to mail him about this. But then on last email he said he is busy with the apartment thing. Honestly i am disappointed with the excuse.
He could text me, or mail me, if he can't call me.
Just stay stay in touch.
He had this laid back attitude that i could see clearly during our holiday. Past few month, i thought its just his laid back attitude.
But then i feel like... i said before, trying too hard my self, while he seemed do much less.
I will be honest and talk with him, i don't want to play around or fooled anyone