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DON'T GET TRAPPED ...IS SHE A PLAYER? ... DON'T GET ‘PLAYED’ My FF Brothers, I'm willing to bet you've met a player or two in your time. Maybe she strung you along, making you feel like she wanted more than just s e x ... but then ghosted when you got serious. Maybe she made you feel like you were the only man for her ... but then you found out she was seeing ...and sleeping with ...multiple other men. Whatever she did to prove she's a player, you want to learn from that so you don't fall victim to another one. Loving a player is an utter waste of your time. But until you can identify red flags that she's a player, you may end up dating a girl you don't realize is just out to break your heart. It's not always obvious that she's a player. The girl might be ultra smooth ...but then again, she might come off as a geeky, awkward girl and still be a player. Pay attention to the warning signs your heart feels., but also trust your gut. If you feel like a woman is a player, you're probably right. Move on. You'll never change her mind. Men need to realize that women are attracted to confident men. It's just a matter of how you present yourself. But how to find out "SHE’S A PLAYER AND HAD BAD INTENTIONS WITH YOU" ? If yo'’re looking up "signs she's a player," I’m going to go out on a limb here and guess that you're dating a girl who seems to be playing with your mind just a little bit. A woman who won't commit, no matter how amazing you are. A woman who sees you as part of her lineup of men that she's playing and sleeping with. But before you cut ties with her, you want to make absolutely certain that she is indeed a player. Then you'll cut bait and move on. Am I right? As a hungry for PU means "Hungry For Precious Unique" girl, I have a different insight into signs she's a player ... I'm going to share those with you so that you can quickly determine whether this woman is worth your time and emotion or not. If you found some signs that She's a Player, You Should NEVER Ignore. You're looking for true love. You're not looking to date a woman_child who only wants one thing from you. You want something real. And you deserve it. Dating after 35 is tough. I get it. If a girl hasn't been married ...you want to know why. If she has ...you want to know what went wrong. There are a shocking number of players out there at every age ...and you simply don't have the energy to cut through the crap to find the real gems ...if they're even out there. They are, I promise. Good girls - women worthy of your love - exist, and once you learn to identify the signs she's a player, you'll be able to pass on all the wrong women to get to the right One. So if the woman you're dating is showing any or all of the following signs she's a player, don't waste another second on her, because she's standing in your way to happiness. 1 She Almost Seems ...Emotionally Dead on the Inside 2. Have you ever dated a girl and wondered to yourself, "Is this girl a f ***ing robot?" She's probably not a robot...she's just not trying to show you the emotion you want to see, that you need to feel a connection with her. (By the way, I shouldn't knock robots; scientists are working on creating robots that feel emotions, so even they have this girl beat!) When a girl is sleeping around, hooking up with various men, the last thing she wants to do is open up that emotional side to any of them. She's not about to get sucked into a relationship when she can keep playing the field, so she compartmentalizes s e x from emotion. Women are good at that. So if yo're dating a woman who seems void of all emotion, she's not a scientific anomaly. She's just a player who doesn't want you to see that vulnerable side of her. You never will see it, either, so don't try to convince her otherwise. She's Got a Player Lifestyle ... If you find yourself attracted to bartenders or musicians or professional athletes or shooters like me. ...be aware that there are a high number of players in these professions. Even women who travel all of the time are more likely to be players since they're rarely in one place long enough to have a relationship and it's easy to hide sleeping with other men when they're scattered all over the globe. If they aren't into being in a relationship, they see their profession as the perfect opportunity to sleep around with as many men as possible. Now, I know it's a bit unfair to jump to the conclusion that all bartenders or musicians are players because that certainly isn't true, but ...if the woman you're dating or loving is in one of these professions and exhibits some of these other signs she's a player…then tread very carefully. She’s Really, Really Smooth How did you meet this woman? Did she approach you from across the room, chat you up, get your number ...and it felt too good to be true? Sorry to say, but it probably is ...unless you like dating a smooth operator! Girls who are good at flirting and getting men's attention are good at it for a reason: they do it a lot. Trust me: as a The Teaser who runs his s e x education classes to teach you how to meet sexy, single ladies. My FF Bros, never forget ...flirting really is a learnable skill. The more they go out and flirt with men, the better they get at doing it. So if the girl you're thinking to date is really smooth at flirting, she's probably flirting with more than just you. The Relationship Revolves Around Sex NOPE. Never has happened. Never will. The only time she's willing to meet you is if she knows it will result in s e x. Sorry to break it to you, but you're not dating this girl. You're sleeping with her. It won't turn into a relationship, so you're better off cutting ties now before you get really hurt. She'll Meet Your Friends, But You Won't Meet Her Sure, she's willing to meet your friends, to chat them up, so that you like her and will continue to sleep with you ... But she won't risk having you meet her friends. Why? Because, quite frankly, they might spill the beans about the floozy she brought to them the week prior. One of the signs she's a player is that she's pretty secretive about her life, and that's for a reason. She doesn't want to get caught with evidence that she's a player and playing with multiple men. Her Life is in Flux Is she constantly jumping around from job to job…identity to identity….. …Or looking to move to Chicago one week…then Berlin the next…and Paris is also in her list? If that's the case, then security and commitment are clearly not core values in her life right now. She's jumping around, trying to figure out what to do with her life. That isn't necessarily a sign she's a player, but it does mean she most likely will not make a good lover for you right now ...or ever. You Catch Her in Lies About Her Social Life Did she tell you she's got a at home to take care of this weekend ? But then you saw on her Instagram or facebook story that she was with a group of girls ...not with her . Dishonesty isn't the way to start a relationship ...and you can be fairly certain she's playing with almost all the men she meets. But some girls are too slick to get caught on social media like that. Are there other inconsistencies? Like you ask what she did last weekend twice, and you get two different answers? Or she goes to elaborate efforts to tell you about a place she went ...that you've actually been to and it doesn't match up? Listen to your intuition here. A liar will never be "Miss Right." You’'ve Slept With Her More Than 3 Times ...But Never Been on a Real Date Girls that are players don't want to take men on real dates (like paying for, oh, I don't know, DINNER?) because they don't want to set unrealistic expectations. They want to keep it in the bedroom. So if you're finding that you're having sex but not really doing what real couples do - i.e. having meaningful conversations over coffee, going to a nice restaurant, even just being out in public holding hands - chances are she only wants sex from you and is indeed showing signs she's a player. All of Your Friends Tell You She's a Player All of your friends are telling you she's a player ...or even worse, your friends are sending you some realistic details to tell you to get out of a bad situation! Look; are your friends always right? Of course not! BUT if all your friends are giving you the same feedback - that this girl is playing you - you owe it to yourself to explore the situation a bit further and really heed their advice. After all, they only want what's best for you. 
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This blog is based on my thoughts and HARMLESS. IF U FIND ANY RESEMBLENCE 2 THE FAIRYTALE IS PURELY COINCIDENTAL AND MENTAL. 
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My Loving FF Bros, You realize that the woman you’re loving isn’t a player, but that maybe she’s just moving slowly. She’s exhibiting signs of wanting to be in a relationship with you , but maybe hasn’t taken the step toward full commitment. I hope that’s the case because you can definitely work with that. I wish my all FF bros very happy and romantic love life.
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But what if someone comes to the conclusion...You have read this list of signs she’s a player and you’re like “oh yeah, Adam. This girl is totally a player.” The question is, in the second situation: what will you do now? You respect yourself too much to let this woman play you, and she’s just a roadblock on your way to finding true love.
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So don't waste a single second on her. And don't try to play games to give her a taste of her own medicine either. Just exit Stage left as quickly as possible.
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