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WHEN THE " ENDING" BECOMES THE " BLESSING"...... On the outside, it may even appear that you and your partner are happy. But inside, you feel like your soul is dying. Loving each other isn't the thrill or adventure you once imagined it would be. You don't giggle or have private jokes anymore. You don't look at each other with affection or adoration. You don't caress each other or kiss passionately may be virtually then. You don't trust each other to be a source of support and comfort. Instead, your love has become a treadmill of misunderstanding , verbal fights, and pains. Still you keep loving someone,with whom you experience no passion, no joy, no vibrancy. A Love or Relationship where you often feel unappreciated, taken for granted and disrespected. Where it's all about what your partner wants, or decides, and not enough about what you want or need. You feel so invisible sometimes! You didn't want to be in a love or relationship where every little thing becomes a power struggle, because your partner clings stubbornly to their way of doing things, even if it makes no sense to you. ...or a relationship that leaves you anxious and worried all the time, because your partner isn't very responsible, and then withdraws their love when you try to voice your concerns. Maybe you've lived this way for years. Maybe you've been fighting against it and trying to "fix" it for longer. You may even doubt that it's even possible to fix, because you ask yourself: "Are we fundamentally incompatible?" "Has my partner changed as a person? Have I?" "Have we just grown apart? Fallen out of love? "Have we hurt or neglected each other beyond repair?" Your friends have problems in their relationships, and they seem to put up with it and think it's okay, or "good enough". But in your heart, your unhappy relationship isn"t okay with you. "Good enough" is actually not good enough at all. That you want MORE. That you deserve more. You love shouldn't be a chore, but a joy and a celebration. But you have partner not taking efforts to make that happen. Making requests hasn’t worked. Ignoring the problem hasn’t worked. Talking about things rationally hasn’t worked. Sharing your feelings hasn't worked. Fighting about it hasn't worked. You solve one problem, and a new one crops up You keep having the same conversations, arguments, or push/pull interactions without making any constructive changes. You've tried to make things better. You really have. But the things you've tried to solve your problems are only temporary fixes at best, You need to be honest about your feelings and needs with your partner, inspite of complaining to yourself it's always better to resign, World is so big, in which some one else is waiting for you to fulfill your desires,to provide you that Love You Deserve, and it's proper time to take decision because that is a proper time " WHEN THE " ENDING" BECOMES THE " BLESSING"...... |
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Imbalance in responsibilities always carries with it a fairness system problem and then Lovers forget to look at the quality of their interactions as a whole. To keep the Love alive it needs to make positive changes that will address fairness as an agreed-upon value, through which all your decisions, behaviors and choices take place. You and your partner will begin to understand the implications of those choices before you even make them.
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be happy jay. henceforth be careful
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Sweet Smartha hmmmm This blog is never on me and saniya since from last fortnight i was thinking very seriously what guys and girls too will be needing in love? Why there are so many Break-Ups now a days. What expectations must be considered by the partner to keep relationship/ love alive . What conditions compel the partner to feel " Ending is the Blessing." I just converted my thoughts into words as was having ample of time in the morning as woke up very early. Because of the blessing and the best wishes of my very precious True friends like u, am really Happy.
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