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WHEN WOMAN MUST SEE " the Gynaecologist or Sexologist" There are times when a woman or couple, need to see the gynaecologist. Let us see some of the situations when medical intervention is required. 1. When your Spouse or girlfriend is nervous or feels guilty about sexual intercourse. Many women believe that sex is dirty and this myth is reinforced by upbringing in some societies. These women will resist penetration as they have never experienced sex. Many movies depict sex as a gory ordeal which involves resisting a man's advances and turning her head the other way. A woman's friends may also describe the bleeding and pain that she had to bear on her first night which reinforces the wrong belief. The pain however may be real due to a medical condition which may require measures like lubrication. There may also be the psychological feeling that the vaginal opening is too small to take a man's penis. How many women have seen their vaginas using a mirror? 2. He climaxes before she does. Many women do not even know the concept of orgasm. She believes that it is her duty to please the man and she concentrates on giving him pleasure. Thus the man reaches a climax and the woman is left unsatisfied. She is not willing to reveal her needs to her partner. It could be a case of frigidity in a woman, but not always so. Generally the man is to blame, either due to insufficient foreplay or repeated premature ejaculation which would require the man to consult a sexologist or urologist. Inability to sustain an erection could also point to hypertension, or more commonly, diabetes. 3. The woman is not a virgin. This fact by itself may not require a visit to the doctor. But, where the man is expecting his partner to bleed on the first night, then the discovery that this is not so, is sufficient to create tension in the relationship. The gynaecologist or sexologist, can help to reassure the partners that the hymen can tear prior to sexual intercourse due to vigorous physical activity. There is also the medical case of a tough hymen, which doesn't allow penetration. This can be rectified with an artificial hymenectomy, a surgery that involves creating a slit in the hymen's fibrous tissue. 4. Women may bleed after intercourse. Women in their late thirties may experience post-coital bleeding or spotting. Most women tend to ignore such bleeding. However one must immediately consult a gynecologist who will probably arrange for a pap smear test. This is done to rule out cervical erosion or cervical cancer. Repeated bleeding or spotting is the most common symptom of cervical cancer, but many women think it is early or untimely menstruation. Aggressive sexual intercourse is also wrongly considered a reason for such bleeding. 5. Complaints of itching or vaginal dryness should not be ignored. A burning or itching sensation, dryness or abnormal discharge must be looked into. Discharge that has a curd-like consistency could indicate a Candida fungal infection, while a grey-white or any colour that is different from the regular watery discharge could point to other infections or Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Hepatitis-B and HIV are common STDs, but the symptoms could be dry cough and common cold. Herpes, on the other hand, causes lesions or boils in the genital area. Vaginal dryness, could be a result of reduced estrogen levels and less fluid secretion by the cervical glands after menopause. Lubricants can help reduce pain during sex. A combination of some or all these factors - persistent fever, abnormal discharge, genital wounds that fail to heal, multiple follicles, pelvic inflammation - call for medical intervention. 6. Abnormal or kinky sex. We read about fears of partners smelling arm-pits or massaging their partners and wondering what their partners would think of them. Any sexual act practiced by consenting adults cannot, and should not, be considered abnormal. There are cases where one partner considers oral or anal sex an anomaly, while the other enjoys the experience. The dislike could be a result of a past traumatic experience, of societal conditioning, or a fear that it could be harmful. Talking to a doctor can help lift the psychological, and eventually physical barrier. I wrote this post only for the purpose of increasing the awearness in the joining FF. After this blog probably I will be taking a break for some time from Blogging or write very occasionally. |
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talking on the problems related to sex is nothing like a tabbu now a days. well done and good post jay
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how i missed this very helpfull information.nice informative post hung
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nice and helpful information 
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