Blog : How do you make your life balanced?

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4/2/2019 9:17 am

How do you make your life balanced?

Life is very strange now. In the past, there were days and nights, there were 8 hours of work the office or company, the rest was my "time" to use freely.
Now we can't! Smart phones are ready to call anytime, anywhere. The world in the palm of your hand. This is the "Super Modern" period (Metamodernism).

Is the time of constant movement, of disturbance, of oscillation, between mocking and cherishing, between innocence and wisdom, between optimism and skepticism, between exemplary and destructive ..., maybe called the "daydream crazy", leading to modern diseases like SAD (stress, anxiety and depression). So we are not strange when more and more people leave the city to go to deserted areas, live without wifi, do not have electricity or computers.

Recently new words like workaholic, addiction or passion for work, workmaniac, crazy for work, a kind of mental illness are getting more and more. People with this condition easily lead to suicide. They have a lot of money but are willing to find death to escape. From karoshi in Japan - dying while working - has become popular. Every year there are tens of thousands of such cases.

We cannot live like this anymore, we must save ourselves, but we need to find joy in life, spend time with ourselves, for friends and family.
For this, we need communication, it is very important in life. Successful communication between people and people will create a healthy environment for emotional and intellectual development. There are 3 main principles: respect, sincerity and empathy.

In order to have a peaceful, free life, we must be "compassionate" to us, don't be too ambitious, demanding far away to be sucked in, swept away. But that does not mean not striving to become a better person!

“We search for happiness everywhere, but we are like Tolstoy's fabled beggar who spent his life sitting on a pot of gold, under him the whole time. Your treasure--your perfection--is within you already. But to claim it, you must leave the buy commotion of the mind and abandon the desires of the ego and enter into the silence of the heart.” ( Elizabeth Gilbert)

saigon9008 30F

263 posts
4/2/2019 9:18 am

“We search for happiness everywhere, but we are like Tolstoy's fabled beggar who spent his life sitting on a pot of gold, under him the whole time. Your treasure--your perfection--is within you already. But to claim it, you must leave the buy commotion of the mind and abandon the desires of the ego and enter into the silence of the heart.” ( Elizabeth Gilbert)

ssamartha 48F

502 posts
4/2/2019 10:30 am

nice thoughts sis

anjaliHEVI 45F

427 posts
4/2/2019 3:05 pm

A balanced view - good read
Thanks sis

anjali globe trot

nice1foru 66M

47 posts
4/2/2019 7:26 pm

Bravo Ms Saigon, not just a pretty face, but a beautiful mind too. I think the way tp change the path society is on, we need to lead by example.

saigon9008 30F

263 posts
4/3/2019 8:46 am

Hi Ms. ssamartha, Ms. maryanng, Ms. anjaliHEVI, Mr. nice1foru, Mr. Dinkar69'

I would sincerely thank for your time and attention in reading this article.
I've always wanted to see everyone has a happy and peaceful life on their capabilities, because a person's life is too short.

Sometimes, people wonder we were overworked to get lots of money for doing what, health is exhausted, mind is tired, even lead to mental illness. At that time, life becomes meaningless!

Wish you all always happy and can have peace of mind