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saigon9008 30F
314 posts
9/12/2018 7:38 am
Why life is not fair?



That is because we do not properly define the concept of fairness. We covered up the justice by a cloak that filled with dreamy thoughts: "I wish I was like them".

Imagine if the world exists that everyone is treated "just" as they wish, then how the world will be confused? Nobody dared love anyone for fear of hurting weak hearts. Schools, companies will not develop because of all the undisciplined.

Most of us spend so much time drawing the ideal life in our dreams, so much so that we do not care about how the real world is changing. So stop complaining and face new reality is the key to open the understanding of the world as well as the potential hidden deep inside you.

saigon9008 30F
263 posts
9/12/2018 7:40 am


If you intend to insist on justice in order to live a successful and happy life, you will not do so in this lifetime, on this planet! (Maxwell Maltz)


stevefehlm 62M

9/12/2018 8:18 am

My dear Lien
I ask my self every day, why the life is not fair. I always compere my life with other famouse people from TV or from Newspaper, why they are so sucesfully. But we never know the full storry of all of them. We only creat the storry for them all, even we know nothing about the love-life of them, the bussines-life,, the health-life of them...etc. But we can see them all the times in the news, in the magazines, on tv....yes, all this people are famouse and have a very good life and are succesfully. And we normal-humans......we have to go at work every day until we are falling down, we have a heavy strictly programm every day..... to pay our bills for our life, we must save a long time and work hard to pay for something nice...for a nice trip.. for visit a nice hotel...a nice expensive meal.
We have dreams every day and nights to do this and this. But good luck we can creat own dreams...without dreams the life is empty and nothing. And the famouse people who have gotten everything for a good life.....they usualy have no dreams anymore, the life of them is empty and spoilt, because they dont know how to make happy small things anymore. But you and me, we know what small things can make beautiful inspirations and bring sunshine anytime to our life.
Anyway..life was never fair.....there are millons they get only a bit rice every day and they have nothing at all. But the world was never fair. I always try to do the best every day, even i think i have a very good life, but ofcourse for 99% i think life is only fair for the other one.
You are a young and a very sweet girl and please dream your dreams every day.....a lot of them will come true step by step!!!
Steve
You know 90% here in FF is faked, but i am 100 % sure, that you are the real person behind your profile.....and that wonderful


yagabu 52M
20 posts
9/12/2018 11:26 am

I must say with a lot of your blogs, I really think you could be a philosopher They can be so interesting and deep. I can not really do justice to how to express how insightful they can be

Keep up the posts I enjoy them even though I may not comment on them all.


Randy7069 59M
265 posts
9/12/2018 12:57 pm

Lien, I agree that the realities of life must be recognized in one's life. However, denying one's dreams to the realities of life seems to be an overreaction in the opposite direction? To dream is to hope ...for a better life for all. This is another thoughtful post. Thank you for sharing.

I hope you are happy and well. Have a wonderful day. Randy


saigon9008 30F
263 posts
9/12/2018 5:14 pm


Dear Mr. Steve,

Your comment is more like a nice blog. Thanks for that.
You said that "But you and me, we know what small things can make beautiful inspirations and bring sunshine anytime to our life.
Anyway..life was never fair...."

Yes, there is never fair on this planet, and of course, we are not dreaming fancifully to have fallen on discontent ourself.

To make a dream come true that suits your abilities, you have been successful. I admire your happiness.

I wish you joy, happiness and success in your life always.


saigon9008 30F
263 posts
9/12/2018 5:34 pm

    Quoting yagabu:
    I must say with a lot of your blogs, I really think you could be a philosopher They can be so interesting and deep. I can not really do justice to how to express how insightful they can be

    Keep up the posts I enjoy them even though I may not comment on them all.

Hi Mr. yagabu,

Thank you for the compliment.
Ohh ... I do not think I can have philosophical thoughts.
I am a very ordinary person.
I often look at life and describe it from the perspective of the individual.
You said "Keep up the posts I enjoy them even though I may not comment on them all."

Thank you for your nice words.
Wish you joy and happiness!


saigon9008 30F
263 posts
9/12/2018 5:55 pm

    Quoting Randy7069:
    Lien, I agree that the realities of life must be recognized in one's life. However, denying one's dreams to the realities of life seems to be an overreaction in the opposite direction? To dream is to hope ...for a better life for all. This is another thoughtful post. Thank you for sharing.

    I hope you are happy and well. Have a wonderful day. Randy

Hi Mr. Randy,

Thank you for your positive comments.
You wrote "... denying one's dreams to the realities of life seems to be an overreaction in the opposite direction?"

I mean not deny any dreams
We are not dreaming fancifully to have fallen on discontent ourself.
This often leads to failure and people gradually fall into depression
One my friend has been so!

To make a dream come true that suits your abilities, you will be successful. I think so

Wish you health and joy all the time.