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BLIND SIDED A couple of days ago a friend/colleague, called and asked me to join her and her husband for dinner at a local restaurant tonight. Well when I arrived at the restaurant, not only was Sarah and Bob at the table but Bob's brother Chuck. This wouldn't have been a problem except Chuck has asked me out several times before, The first few times I politely refused giving the usual lame excuses but the last time he asked I got a little blunt and just told him I thought we had nothing in common, and suggested he not ask me again. Well I decided to be a good guest plastered a smile on my face and joined the table. After ordering though I suggested Sarah and I refresh our selves and took her to the ladies room. I then asked her what was going on as she knew I didn't care much for Chuck. She told me Chuck had been pressuring Bob to pressure her to set it up, and she was sorry. Well we joined the men and I talked with Sarah for most of the dinner about work and the new school that was being built. After diner they tried to convince me to join them for a movie but I declined telling them I had planned to meet a friend at the Auction(which was true). After trying to give Bob my share of the check I left. Within 5 minutes of arriving at the Auction and joining my friend Who should show up and sat behind me but Chuck who had decided he was going to force me to discuss with him why I didn't like him. I filled my friend in on what had happened and told her I was going to go home and left. OK I know I'm not going to accept anymore invitations from Sarah, but what am I suppose to do if I run into chuck in a public place (it's bound to happen this is a small town) and he wants to try to force me to discuss the fact that I don't care for him. I've already told his I think we have nothing in common. I really don't want to cause a scene in a public place.  just things that run through annie's little mind  |
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11/8/2008 12:04 am |
Well...if Chuck wants to discuss it with you again...upchuck all over his shirt and leave...that should send the right message.  DDM
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11/8/2008 9:16 am |
It's puppy love Just smack him on the nose with a newspaper Listen, I cannot blame him for trying, I mean DUH! However, there is a point, that he has reached or is about to reach, where enough is enough. I think that you are going to have to make that scene you so dread. You will have to just say it short and sweet and to the point! You don't appreciate his manipulations. Period! It may take such blatant honesty to get him to stop pursuing you. Again, he obviously sees how desirable you are and that is probably what is driving him. It would me  Carry a rolled up newspaper in your purse from now on. just in case. lmaoBill Standplatz und liefert
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11/28/2008 5:51 pm |
bollox to explanations......im getting on my white charger, putting on the armour (yes, thats armour with a 'u'...its english armour ! ) and riding to...hmm wherever you are to ask him to a duel.....10 paces.....what a pushy tosser..... you already gave him an explanation ie youve nothing in common and for a gentleman, no should be enough.....so, theres only one thing for it..we have to get married immediately, then he'll see youre not interested damn, i dont know how i think of this stuff !! Take care, be safe..and i hope i actually catch you in chat soon Martin xxxxx
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11/29/2008 2:56 pm |
Maybe you could try sitting down with Sara & Bob & "really" explain the situation to Bob. After all, he helped set up one encounter. Yes obsessions can be dangerous, so it might take ol' Bob there to convince him as to why he should'nt pester you anymore. You know, kinda like a big brother would do!
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12/2/2008 8:02 am |
Life is not easy...
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3/20/2009 7:04 pm |
how are you young lady ?
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