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7/27/2007 10:20 am |
Hi! we are all human being we failed the love and to be feel inlove again! a broken heart make people experience about love life! Your thought is my thought..  
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7/27/2007 12:08 pm |
There is no fast way, time is the only cure. With time, our anger & frustrations as a result of a failed relationship disappear. We become less emotional, we discover that life continues after all and we learn to look at the brighter side of life. I was very bitter in the beginning but now no more. Just not ready yet for another relationship... am afraid of a rebound relationship. I've seen people around me who have this kind of relationship. I can't take another pain. Wanna join me for a glass of wine?
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7/28/2007 8:11 pm |
I had a nightmare about that Jerry Springer thing but for some reason he ended up dead in it. Rofl ! ~ ~ 57 ~ ~
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I have to express a thought or two, First and formost, a broken heart will heal, not as it was! however once a broken heart is broken i feel it mends in a different way, a scare is left where it mends, you can put to one side but you will never forget! the only way is timeout, don't rush into another relationship trying to find what you had, that is not good, you may end up taking your issues out on the new person, and that could have detremental effects for both, after all is that the way you would treat the other person? i think not, let time do its bit, most importantly it helps to keep busy and as each day goes by it will get easyer, it won't eva mend the same way, but you learn to live with what happened, and only time will do this.keep forcused have an objective, a goal and hit it! Once scored you will be cured! Then the special person will find you, go looking to hard and it wil never happen, let destiny take its course!
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Dear ffindher a.k.a. Heart Broken, Time heals all wounds...even broken hearts. What could be crazier than "falling in love with someone (in the net) who was divorced and then he went back to his ex again?" All the deceptions and lies almost killed a heart like mine. Crazy huh? Well...being broken is not all yours to experience...we are all broken in one way or another. But I dont think licking my wounds is a great idea. I realized that it's better to be productive and I have to strive to be a better person. That could be the sweet revenge, dont u think? Now dont lose hope....who knows, both of you can still patch things up. If not, then move on. You still have a life to live. Memrose Memrose
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7/30/2007 11:42 am |
If you really really loved the person, time will not heal, but it will help you learn how to cope. But for now let yourself feel the pain, anger, resentment, love, loss and any other feelings you have. Don't bottle them up or try to ignore them. Shed your tears, and punch a boxing bag if you need to, but continue to feel.
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7/31/2007 8:17 pm |
i voted for jerry springer.....cuz that would be the most fun....combine that with the drinking and you have a great plan...but i am not known here as the most rational...so feel free to disregard anything i may say...lol-Mack
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8/1/2007 3:37 am |
G'day there I say none of the above.. i'm currently undergoing a broken heart.. it hurts so much i wanna die.. can't sleep,can't eat, smoking too much.. its so bloody painful..feels like it's never gonna heal..
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Cry as often as possible. Get out all the momentos I can think of once and for all, roll around on them, moan and moo like a cow for hours..... cause memories are the most painful the first time they hit, so get them all played out as soon as possible. Keep a checklist of the five stages of grief right on the fridge but add a subtopic of 'Stuff your face with food' to remind myself that I'm really not hungry and it's just a stage that will pass. Make a list of all the places we have been together and AVOID them for 6 months instead of going specifically to replay better times in the head. Get 2 'Bon Voyage' cards and write a prayer for your lost one's best future and MEAN IT. You wanted him/her to be happy when he/she was with you, so why wouldn't you still wish for his/her happiness? Mail it. Write one for yourself, MEAN IT, and mail it. Get on FF and blog yer ass off. Ask for extra projects at work or take a class on something. The world can always use more underwater basket weavers. But for Heaven's sake GET OUT OF YOUR HOUSE. Your next love is not likely to come knocking on your door when the shades are down.
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8/2/2007 4:20 am |
Time really is the best Healer, of course some activity is good too, gets us out of the house and back into today, back into life, moving forward and out into the world, cause no, Ms. Right just probably isn't gonna come knocking down my door! And it is for me, all about love and interactions, relations with friends and mas... a life without love....nah!!! Gotta have it! Get ya some!! xoxoxo
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42 out of 50 people can't be wrong. I'm still getting over someone, and at last it's getting a bit easier now. A good friend of mine who is very wise told me that it's not time that heals, it's what you do with your time. I'm sure it's a very personal experience when it happens, but there are a lot of common feelings no doubt.
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disengage from the circumstance that created it as much as possible... bring to the forefront that we are all imperfect humans... and, when u find yourself inevitably dwelling on stuff, u have to force yourself into another focus, like continually telling a new puppy to get down off the couch... one thing that really helps is to set aside an hour a day to think about it, if u have to... then don't allow yourself to consider it outside of that time... one thing i know for sure: divorce is painful, regardless of the specifics... don't date until YOU are ready... it isn't a competition... don't let anyone pressure you... the pain itself comes in waves... they WILL decrease in both frequency and amplitude over time... take care of you... -e
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8/4/2007 6:58 am |
Accept your situation, do a clean up by removing any connection to this person if it is an internet relationship. Have a good cry then get some sleep. When you wake up, you need a positive distraction, you figure out what that is because we all have different strengths. But if this is someone you married or in a long term physical relationship then there’s more to that…....don't be bitter forever because it is only you that will continue to get hurt and missed out on another chance of falling in love again. The sooner you heal the sooner you smile naturally again.  fair-go
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8/4/2007 11:10 pm |
I'm for the lobotomy thing myself.. I've signed up for one but i hear there's a long waiting list as there's alot of cruel, it's all about me me me types out there who are crushing hearts left & right and the surgeons have their hands full! Drat... a few missing brain cells is the only cure! Hey how can you have a broken heart if you cannot figure out just what body part the heart is anymore??? LOL No.. i don't know. if you find the cure, please send it my way.. i'm just so tender hearted, it seems I am usually the one who gets the broken heart.. not doles out the broken heart thing. Oh well, at least i have a clear consceience. sleep like a baby and can STILL look at myself in the mirror. well.. dude if it's your WIFE that's just left you... well, you will probably take awhile to heal.. don't lead any sweet innocent women on, and let them think you'll be ready for some LTR if you aren't. I'm betting you aren't.. otherwise you'll be the doler-outer of that dreaded broken heart thing... trust me, i know this from exp. Newly seperated guys are the worst dating exp... if you are the tender-hearted kind... If you are just looking for a good time.. then i guess it's okay.. but i've never been about the "i'm only looking for a good time.. i guess i'm more deep than that.. I've never been able to do the "casual" relationship thing myself.. I'm too much of a romantic for that... I guess i believe in true love thing, not the "I'm just looking to take care of my needs for now" thing. More into the me & you thing, than the me me me thing. You know it's weird you say you cannot find anyone single in your area. I cannot find anyone in my area either. I DID find ONE guy once a while back. but he was way too young for me. Still we had a nice date.. but he never called me back, even though he seemed to enjoy my company. I've kinda lost faith in the internet thing myself.. I just come here to blog really... Most of the guys here, if i felt a connection, turned out to be hundreds & hundreds of miles away.... Well, if anyone knows of a good qualified surgeon for the lobotomy thing who's got an opening, please let me know... I hate this heartbreak thing too...
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