My Ideal Person:
Someone who is independent and strong, without being conceited, controlling, or snobby. I would love to be with someone who compliments my personality, not overpowers it. I like someone who has his own life, and enjoys a partner to enhance what is already a happy person. Charismatic, intelligent, educated (at least in social graces), and witty. Someone who can adapt well to different situations and environments. He likes to play with kids, cook dinner with me, go hiking one minute, and get dressed up for a night out the next. Flexible, mature, kind and generous, thoughtful, good relationships with family, ex's, etc. I am not looking for anyone high maintenance. I like to be the one taking too long to get dressed. I love nice smooth skin that tans easily, nice teeth with good smile, and I like big guys. Not muscleheads, just a little taller and stockier than the average sized man--makes me feel safe. If I am bigger than you are, forget it!! That's the short list..lol...Oh yeah, and I don't drink, except for a very occasional glass or two of wine. If you like to drink a lot, I am not for you. I don't have alcohol in my house. Used to have a problem with drinking too much and now I like my life so much more without it. I have two boys, so being cool with children is a must. I do not want any more children. Of course, I am not ruling out someone who has children already. Men who are comfortable enough with themselves to 'let go' and be really silly or talk honestly about their feelings is really sexy to me. Guess that's about it for now. Oh, must be a Christian---not a boring, goody-two-shoes, just someone who believes in God, our creator.