"I want to live underwater." When I made that dandelion wish as a little girl, I didn't expect it to cause global warming!!
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I love creative men who are: passionate, polite, romantic, self assured, but not vain. I do not like smoke/dipping! I love going to: JAZZ/Blues Clubs, COMEDY Clubs,Celtic/Wine Festivals,the theater, dancing, plays, symphonies, museums, zoos, aquariums (wanted to become a lion tamer at Sea World...when I was 19) concerts- Rock, hard rock, classical, current chart toppers, (fairly eclectic tastes in music and always willing to experience something new.) not into rap, hip hop, or speed/scream metal. I've never been to a Dave Matthews concert, but would LOVE to go.(on list of things to do) I am a Rescue Certified SCUBA diver (although haven't been in years). I am Ex-Military (Air Force). Used to endurance race and train horses growing up in Northern California. I can hang out in jeans playing darts and pool (I didn't say well) with the boys watching hockey games, rugby,etc.,or wear a ball gown and go to a black tie affair.
NOT looking for a serious long term relationship right now, besides, shouldn't you always be friends first?
I AM looking for like minded, decent, human beings, (not a trained monkey), who have a passion for life and sharing their experiences of the world with others. I adore spontaneous moments. I prefer whispering over screaming. I demand a person know and understand priorities and responsibilities. I will not compromise my ideals, however, I will listen to reason. I don't like people who lie, use others, or enjoy manipulative head games.
That said: SkyeRean's dream man...? *cue twittering birds, singing forest animals, and classical score* Loves to ride horses, has 10+ acres and pure bred Arabians frolicking across green fields. Has his pilot's license and plane on hand, motorcycles (because yes I will want to ride my own, not ALWAYS sit on the back), lives on or near water (lake; large, clear, clean, river; ocean)thinks I am the most amazing woman God ever created, is strong enough to protect me,(mostly from myself, get to know me, this will make sense, "Oh I have never done that! Let's try it! Weeee!!!") smart enough to teach me something new, or inform me through knowledge when I am incorrect in a gracious, loving, way. Doesn't let me win. Loves his family. I did say DREAM!
But seriously: He does what he says, and says what he means. (Actions speak louder than words, but nice words are extremely lovely!) He should be soft spoken with a firecracker wit, and have a sense of humor to make me practically crack a rib.(I love to laugh, I hope you do too). He must be slow to anger, patient, thoughtful,can make me blush and tingle with a smile. There is nothing like having your heart race, and a blush come to your skin when you see your one and only walk towards you--even after years as lovers He should enjoy travel and good food, adventure, have the freedom and time/resources for us to spoil each other. Physically: Nice, clean teeth (it's a thing with me), 5'11-6'4, healthy, hygienic, not a hairy sasquach (sorry, but thick, hairy, backs and shoulders just make me run for the hot wax), athletic build, but not obsessed with working out, (me no like big veined out, steroid infused, gorillas with so many muscles they can only wear spandex and ripped over sized sweatshirts, grunt. grunt) doesn't play a lot of golf (heck none would be fabulous). I am totally ok spending time away/apart pursuing our own hobbies, but a 5-8 hour per time, 3x a week hobby,after work/on weekends, does not make for a good relationship, imoho. Must have: a heart of gold, empathetic, socially conscious, and all the things I listed above. A man who is a gentleman, and knows how to treat me like treasure beyond compare, is protective, but is not possessive, insecure, and jealous, because what you give is what you get from me, if not more. I can be a good servant to one who deserves it, and gives in kind. A man who is not shy about giving thanks in public, is strong in their faith, but not judgmental, hypocritical or oppressive.
Is nice to waiters, and holds opens doors for a man or woman. Says please, thank you, and looks a person in the eyes when they talk, but not like they are trying to assert dominance. Stands up for what they believe is right, but doesn't resort to violence, cussing, and yelling to prove a point. Agrees to disagree.
Apparently I am an INFJ (only 1.24% of the population has my personality type.. is this good or bad?!?!?) ~they've at least pinpointed I'm the nfj part anyway~ who is best off with a ENTP/ENFP.?? (Who is to say these compatibility things carry any water though, if you aren't "labled" a 'entp' or 'enfp' I'll still venture forth with you and see where it goes from there.)
Now, the cliché part: Is that YOU? and do we Click?
See ladies and gentlemen, that might be one in a million, but I bet he does exist. Gosh I just love being helpful. Don't be scared. I don't bite...at least not right away. As for me: :stop: I do not intend to meet for, or promote, any type of intimate sexual relationship. If you're looking for a "booty call/f-buddy" keep-on-a phishing! I am not looking to notch up a trail of how many people I've hooked up with from online, and I don't intend to become a number on that list either. If you are a smoker--don't contact me, please. I am serious. Thanks.
~4/16/2007~ Blacksburg, VA Orange and Maroon/Virginia Tech For all the dreams that ever were, that will go unrealized. For every father's daughter, who he will not give away. For every mother's son, who will not carry on the family name and leave a grandchild for her to brace to her bosom. For every awkward caress and giggle of teenage/young adult love and discovery just blossoming, which will not come to fruition. For every masterpiece left unwritten, song left unplayed, diploma left tightly rolled and only a memento of the future it would have promised. For every life we lost and all that were affected by the insanity of one. We pray...
Never forget life is precious, and that you only have one to live. Live each day as the person you wish to be remembered, and spoken of, for all eternity. Never, ever, take life so seriously you forget to live.
My Ideal Person:
Don't settle for almost people. Your perfect mate is out there, but you might have to sift through a lot of mud, sand, and rock before you find that gold nugget worthy of your lifetime. If you're looking for one in a million.. then you better set yourself up to have that "first meet" date with a million! It wouldn't take that long, maybe 1,000!! HINT! Be freaking honest in your profile about your AGE, your marital situation, everything. Starting off with a lie is not a good way to begin anything.
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