I'm a 34 year old (mentally not over 24) geek. The best way to describe myself is to tell you that I'm a Gemini. If you know anything about their nature, you have a pretty good picture of my own. I know some don't put a lot of stock in astrology, but by coincidence or design, my sun sign fits. I am usually of multiple minds, but it also means I'm a person of multiple interests. I am trying to learn Italian. I am getting way into particle physics and quantum mechanics. I don't claim to get it all, but I'm trying to learn more about it. Film, music, Shakespeare (mostly just the comedies), TV, computers, politics, environmentalism, and writing. I've always written, but lately I'm more active with it.

Also, I've recently pulled my pics from online. When I launched my website earlier this year, that features all of my writing (including my erotic fiction), I opted to use CleverTitania as the basis of this new web presence. But in the interest of keeping my family from being subjected to comments, I opted to adopt a certain amount of anonymity online. But since some sites already had my pictures online, I either had to change my nick on those sites (which I would hate to do), or I had to pull the pics. But, I do have pics on my computer. Also, in the interest of full disclosure, I'll tell you I look nothing like Heidi Klum. (Policy briefly pulled to appease request of a friend)

Had to include this, I loved this description of me...

INFP: The Idealist (Meyers-Briggs Personality Profile)

The INFP is a dreamy, imaginitive, idealist, capable of finding the good in anything or anyone, even something as foul as Newark, New Jersey. INFPs are sometimes dangerous to the well-being of society as a whole, as they are prone to adopting subversive and destructive ideologies like "The world should be fair," "People should treat one another well," and "You know, 'Friends' is a really, really stupid television show."

These irrational thought patterns may sometimes cause INFPs to run off and join the circus, the Resistance, or the Rebellion, where they tend to do well in any position requiring excellent hand-eye coordination or mastery of the Force.

COMPATIBILITY: INFPs and ISTJs generally exhibit a natural predator/prey relationship, which, though it might appear harsh and cruel from the outside, is all part of the natural cycle of life. In fact, were it not for the predation of the ISTJ, the population of INFPs would soon grow to unsustainable levels, overwhelming the ability of their ecological niche to support them.

Famous idealists include that girl in your sixth-grade homeroom who got the teacher fired for saying that girls aren't good at math; that guy in the cubicle next to yours who got the manager fired for saying that women don't make good employees; and Anais Nin.

My Ideal Person:
I'm looking to make friends, to start with. I'm not looking for an insta-relationship, though I also believe that when the right person comes into your life, holding back is just another form of game playing. I'm also perfectly happy meeting non-locals for chat. The person I want to meet would be open minded and hearted, liberal in nature and equal parts party animal and home body. Not too picky, am I? Mostly I just want to meet new people to talk to. I don't have a lot of luck meeting new people who share my interests. I wasn't kidding when I said I was a geek, either. I'm a tech nut, I love computers and playing around online. I also love sci-fi/fantasy and more alternative comedy, i.e. Kevin Smith movies. Any person who's interested in me doesn't have to like the same things, but has to be respectful of my tastes. I'm also smart and quick witted. I know, modest too, but it's important that I say that. I like someone who knows how to have a fun and interesting conversation. I spend hours talking to my sister about a dozen different topics. I've love to meet someone I can converse with like that. Even if we don't agree on a topic, a great debate can be extremely stimulating. Oh, and I make a fantastic boysenberry kamikaze. They taste like cherry snowcones.

Favorite musicians or bands:
Big now on Jason Mraz, Bare Naked Ladies, Maroon Five and
Matchbox 20

What qualities do you look for in the people you date?:
Intelligent, Glass half full, Daring, Funny and silly, Sarcastic, Realist, Cautious, Likes multi-dimensional

Which animal best describes your personality?:
Sugar Glider

Tell us about your personal style and why it works for you. Casual and comfy? Sharp and professional?:
I miss my 80's clothes. What
I wouldn't give to get some of that stuff back, like
my neon pink sweatshirt in the style of the bra scene in Flashdance
(and I can remove mine without pulling my arms inside).



My style is mostly functional and loose fitting. I can't
stand being constricted. I try to be fun and a little adventurous.
I wear a decent amount of black, but there's usually
some wild color at the core. I like funky hats. Mostly my
family rolls their eyes at them, I don't care.

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