I'm an honest, fun, responsible woman with class. Having been told by others that I look much younger than 54 (55 is right around the corner), I have to credit that to good genes. While a LTR is the object for me, I understand that it doesn't happen overnight. Unmarried and without children, I don't intend to marry again (yeah, that makes me smile, too). Nor do I have the wish to merge finances or share my home with anyone. I believe a relationship based on mutual respect, chemistry and desire to be with someone safe and compatible is plenty.
It's not my wish to be with someone married or with children; I don't want to be the person with whom you "blow off steam". But I do want to be the one you think about with a smile and a shiver at work, whom you look forward to seeing for a bite, a movie or an SC game, or with whom you can flop in bed and read the paper on Sunday mornings before you take me to brunch. I love conversation of all types (OK, maybe not sports) and I'm a thinker and analyzer. Hopefully you have a life of your own so you won't be troubled when I go out with friends, shopping, dancing. Hey, most guys I know are terrible dancers, why should I neglect my love of music?
I like attractive, professional men within a few years of my own age. I'm not feeling the "thank God's there's Viagra" demographic. You must be healthy, reasonably fit and hygenically inclined. I'm not a cougar - young men do nothing for me but enhance my appreciation for those with life experiences similar to mine. I am not attracted to anyone who doesn't know where his waistline is (whether he's heavy or because he wears gangster pants), or doesn't own a suit. I'm a social smoker, meaning I can or I don't under certain circumstances.
Trust and honesty is key. I once fell madly in love with a man who was perfect for me and, it turns out, was married. I didn't ask the right questions, thinking it would be rude. Now, the gloves are off. Please don't approach me if you have an agenda other than what I've described. I am highly selective and do well at flushing the trash.
I give as good as I get, or I wouldn't be askin'. I'm a very fair complected, stunning (not my words but get a kick out of hearing it) black chick, tall and thin, brown hair thanks to Miss Clairol and hazel eyes. Looking for someone equally easy on the eyes, H/W/P, professional, educated and evolved/enlightened. I'm not a plug and play kinda woman, so pass on me if you think one poorly written email is all it takes to get the digits. Everything happens in my time, not yours...the man I seek understands that.
Gosh, this post is way too serious. Drop me a note and let's see what happens. Know that I'll check you out before you get to see the shiny stuff. No picture, no conversation.
Keep smiling and thanks for reading.
My Ideal Person:
Please see above. I don't respond to winks and I only answer email when accompanied by your picture.
Favorite films:
Plenty of them...
Favorite musicians or bands:
Lena, Sinatra, Clapton, MJ Blige, Paolo Nutrini, Eric
Benet
What qualities do you look for in the people you date?:
Outgoing, Intelligent, Glass half full, Funny and silly, Realist
Which animal best describes your personality?:
Tiger, Tiger - pretty to look at, nice to touch if you dare...
Tell us about your personal style and why it works for you. Casual and comfy? Sharp and professional?:
Short hair, curly or straight depending on the weather,
my mood, my schedule and my activities. Can be and have been
sharp and professional but now prefer preppy casual. It
works on the job as well. Can do fancy dress but my exquisite
taste is curbed by my pocketbook.
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