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ClassicRose 53 F
7  questions
Doing good deeds..if & when. - 12/11/2010

This is directed at xmas but can be for all year round.

During the winter months when cold and in some places have snow. Do you do anything for other people or person help them out or maybe treat them. Not because you have to because you want to.

Maybe old people/person or family or neighbours. Some people cook bake clear paths do shopping keep company walk dogs. Maybe take folk ...

2 response(s), 6 votes
Sky_walking07 60 M
116  questions
Re: Festive or NOT, People Get Angrier In This Season? - 12/10/2010

Re: Festive or NOT, People Get Angrier In This Season?

The winter season is exactly what you make it. In the Northern hemisphere, the days are short and cold. We have several special days to celebrate. None of which are the reason for the increase in domestic violence.

People are who they are, all year long. Who you choose to marry and/or spend your years with is completely up ...

1 response(s), 9 votes
Sky_walking07 60 M
116  questions
Meeting New People [Meeting Strangers] - 12/10/2010

Re: Meeting New People [Meeting Strangers]

As mentioned by Classicrose and presented differently by Sky_walking:

Some people on-line grab your interest;

What should you do?...Chat on line privately? I would say, "No. Just meet." You could chat, but no more than 3 to 5 days. There is no reason to chat on line longer than that when they live in your area. They had a ...

6 response(s), 12 votes
ClassicRose 53 F
7  questions
Honesty and meeting new people - 12/10/2010

Ok so you like someone online you do the normal things I guess chatting online emailing or calling or txt a meet with details. We all do it diff but with the same result.

You make arrangements to meet you get there and finally you meet.You either like them or you dont obviously. If you like them you have a great evening. If you dont what do you do...

Your there might as well ...

2 response(s), 8 votes
ClassicRose 53 F
7  questions
Festive season OR not ? - 12/8/2010

Keeping in with the christmas season.

For most xmas time is the season to celebrate or at least have some time out ( so to say ) Many people (couples that is) seem to get very arguementive and have blowups during this time. Various people have their views and ideas as to why this happens.

Some say its winter months dark and dismal. Others say they are in and having to keep busy ...

2 response(s), 8 votes
kakarito 27 M
1  question
love after love - 12/8/2010

how is it possible to love and after that love again? how is it possible to love more than one person? and why is it that when you search for love you wont see rather it comes when you don't imagine?

5 response(s), 4 votes
ClassicRose 53 F
7  questions
With xmas not far off... - 12/6/2010

Are you a christmas person who likes to go out maybe meals drinks with friends... Or maybe just buy presents and enjoy the day with your family with all the trimmings.( on the 25th )

Or

Is the christmas season just another month were people spent too much drink too much eat too much. Or maybe you just dont like xmas time for your own reasons.

My question is do you or ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
kirill2010 38 M
3  questions
I am virgin... This bad or good? - 12/5/2010

I am virgin... This bad or good? ..has girls and women dislike virgin - men...

5 response(s), 7 votes
ClassicRose 53 F
7  questions
The choices we make. - 12/5/2010

This subject has comeup in many conversations.

The choices we make in life become who we are in many ways. Sometime not always easy and we may regret but overall its our choice.

What I would like to know if you were given the choice to be single or with a partner for the rest of your life. What would your choice be and why?

Would you perhaphs remain single and have many ...

4 response(s), 6 votes
kirill2010 38 M
3  questions
Do you belive in big love? - 12/4/2010

Do you love of somebody realy? ...or love of myth? ...

6 response(s), 2 votes
kirill2010 38 M
3  questions
Girls, if you like a man, do you give him your picture? - 12/3/2010



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3 response(s), 5 votes
cmoi10 31 M
1  question
are we all the same??? - 11/29/2010

do realy men go in same way?? are people going 2 have peace with each other ???

3 response(s), 6 votes
WENYA1 31 M
1  question
IS"LOVE STILL EXISTS IN THIS WORLD?" - 11/29/2010

I fail to understand whether love still exists or not.Of late people are taking romantic love for granted.No wonder many marriages are driving on rocks.My ex-girlfriend dismissed me just because gave her bus only KSH1500, back to where she had come from claiming it was unfair.But it was impromptu visit.Was she real 4 me or she was after money?

2 response(s), 1 vote
bluewavexx 45 F
1  question
WHY DO COUPLES CHEAT ON EACH OTHER? - 11/26/2010

Whether people are in serious relationships, married, or just living together with out marriage:

WHY DO COUPLES CHEAT ON EACH OTHER?

Sometimes it is only 1 out of the 2 that is cheating or lying, or withholding information. Or perhaps one is having an affair, while the other perhaps is withholding information from the other, perhaps of a personal nature.

Sometimes both ...

9 response(s), 10 votes
blessedsmile 36 M
1  question
hello - 11/21/2010

may i no u better

1 response(s), 4 votes
Sky_walking07 60 M
116  questions
Maybe "I love you" is over used - 11/19/2010

Have you read this: ""Is "I Love You" an Overused Cliche? by Caroline Presno""

Question: What are your thoughts about what she said?

Question: Would that be uncomfortable for you if the person you were working on a relationship with, always just told you, "I like you" and chose to reserve, "I love you", for a time they can really mean it?



For ...

1 response(s), 7 votes
Nogash 37 F
4  questions
Chaos - 11/17/2010

we all want things to stay the same thing, settle for living in misery because we are afraid of change of things crumble in to wounds. CHAOS is the word, maybe our life hasn't been so chaotic..but we still need some change. how chaotic do u think your life is? and what changes you wanna make that may bring you happiness?

2 response(s), 5 votes
Nogash 37 F
4  questions
Approaching Men - 11/16/2010

Should Woman approach a guy she likes? what do u think about that?...

5 response(s), 8 votes
NDIWAGILBERT 32 M
2  questions
AND INTERNET - 11/14/2010

Would you allow your / or even a younger brother/sister whom you are taking care off to have full access to internet? especially if your are not sure of what sites she or he surfs or accesses

4 response(s), 5 votes
NDIWAGILBERT 32 M
2  questions
A HONEST AND TRUSTFULL FRIEND - 11/9/2010

Is it easy to find a honest and trustfull friend from overseas?

3 response(s), 6 votes
Sky_walking07 60 M
116  questions
You know who you are, but how do you convey who you are...when the moment is important.. - 11/7/2010

There is a famous, and widely accepted line because all can understand it: "Life is a stage and we are all actors."

From whatever source, we have established how to recognize certain characters. We have all chosen a persona, a character, to project in our different mortal roles in life. But the one role in life we all seem to desire, is to be loved one, to find compassion with another, ...

16 response(s), 11 votes
Nogash 37 F
4  questions
diffrent cultures!! - 11/5/2010

What do u think of having a relationship with a girl or a guy who has a completely different culture, race, roots ??is it possible?

9 response(s), 8 votes
Niena10 36 F
2  questions
How does it feel to have a wife to number more than 100? - 10/17/2010

How does it feel to have a wife to number more than 100? That's what Kenya experienced by men, Acentus Akuku. The man known as the leader of polygamy in the East African country. Since the number of women who diperistri Akuku, a descendant of Akuku finally took the initiative to create a family group Akuku to fix the 'family tree'. Because today many descendants of those men who do not know the ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
libay1274 49 F
30  questions
Crying - 10/6/2010

Does crying indicate that you are weak. When since birth, it has been a sign that you are alive...

6 response(s), 10 votes
libay1274 49 F
30  questions
Crying - 10/6/2010

Does crying indicate that you are weak. When since birth, it has been a sign that you are alive...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Niena10 36 F
2  questions
Acquaintance - 9/29/2010

Separation is not the end of a life's journey. All must go, no matter how full of regret and sadness. Maybe I'm waiting, maybe love is dead, or maybe true love, but when his own life must continue to be lived with all my heart.

Invitation, does not mean I no longer love you. Does not mean I do not love with it the initials of his name coupled with the initials of my name. In the past I ...

4 response(s), 8 votes
doyoufeelikeido 72 M
84  questions
Call Me Tonight - 9/25/2010

Do you think a beautiful professional would make a good wife??? Obviously, she will be great in bed but, would she really surrender her heart???

For the guys---Would you be embarrassed of her past???? Or, would you find it exciting and stimulating???

23 response(s), 13 votes
oni_ep 62 F
7  questions
Right ingredient? - 9/20/2010

An advert somewhere reads "SEX APPEAL PERFUMEs".

Hey guys does it work . I mean compliments, lip service, patronising aside, does it really work.

10 response(s), 6 votes
nanjinita 48 F
7  questions
Burn the Quran 9 years later..And then what next?Geez!!! - 9/11/2010

Did the Quran execute the events of that day? And why has it taken 9 years to implement this action? And thereafter what does one imagine will be the consequences of such an act....increased love n peace and demise of terrorism?

Will it restore the lives of loved ones if not jeopardise the lives of existing loved ones?

I really really wonder...if those who have suffered for ...

47 response(s), 14 votes
Doba78 54 M
1  question
From my blog - 9/10/2010

Starting over seems to be taking longer than I thought. Seems like I am moving really slow because of all the things that have happened in my life. So one big change is trying to go back to school but it seems like I have chosen the wrong course of study.

Tell me what you think.

1 response(s), 4 votes