venus618 57 F 1  question	Been platonic friends, but I want more, should I go for it? - 12/12/1998 I have been friends for a long time with a guy, but it has been purely platonic. I find myself very attracted to him lately and I initially thought it was due to my dating pool having dried up a bit (I am in a relationship drought!) but now I am not so sure. I find myself day dreaming about him, wondering what he is doing and what it would be like (at the very least) to kiss him. He isn't ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
iembry 44 M 2  questions	Long-distance relationship? - 9/15/1998 My question is, I'm in college now, in Tennessee. I am interested in having a relationship with a female from my hometown in Lexington, Kentucky. We've been friends for quite some time now. But, we haven't been more than just friends yet. I am thinking about becoming more than just friends, but I really don't know how to tell her. Plus, she is about two years younger than me and she has ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
Skittles12 45 F 1  question	What is going on??? - 9/14/1998 I just broke up with my borfriend of 1 and a half years. We're both in college, in different states: me in Minnesota dn he is in Maryland. It has been a long distance relationship from the beginning. When he started college, he all of the sudden was too busy for me. I understood that his classes are important, but I began to feel he didn't even care. I never heard from him, and after I waited for ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
KimmieBBW 57 F 1  question	Are there any men left out there that like a BIG woman? - 9/5/1998 I am a large woman in my early 30's. Been told I am attractive. I have two and am single. It seems like the few men I can actually find to meet are just wanting to be a friend or have a sexual fling. Noone seems to want a relationship these days -- why is that? Every nice man that I meet who is really great to talk to is already married! I think the good men in Indiana must just ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
AliCat19 44 F 1  question	Long Distance- Should I trust him? - 7/16/1998 I have been with Rob for 10 months. We lived together for 8 of them. Recently, I moved back home to continue my education. Rob is over 100 miles away. This past week, he told me that he has been seeing someone else, and while he still loves me, he wants to see other people. 3 days ago, he called me to apoligize for saying some harsh things when he broke up with me, and that he had dumped ... 7 response(s), 2 votes
vanessa18 44 F 2  questions	I have a crush on my neighbor who's 3 and 1/2 yrs. younger!! - 7/12/1998 I'm 18 years old andI have a crush on my neighbor, but I'm really good friends with his mom and sisters. He's 3 and 1/2 yrs. younger than I am. Should I wait two years when he's 17 and I'm 20, or should I take things the way they've been going? We flirt with each other. The truth is, I'm not sure if he likes me or he's just flirting because I am. He doesn't make too many first moves. I also ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
Sharky99 43 M 1  question	What's wrong/ - 6/5/1998 I am 17 soon to be 18 and have never been kissed. I am not ugly but i know i'm no hunk. Anyway what is wrong with me. 0 response(s), 0 votes
DramaChick 44 F 1  question	Best friend or love that will never end? - 5/28/1998 I am so confused...my best friend is a wonderful guy, and he has always been there for me. We've been friends for 3 years, and until now, that's all it was: friends. Now I realize that I love him, but I don't want to tell him and risk our friendship. We are both leaving for college in a few months, and we will be hundreds of miles apart. Is it worth it to risk it all now when we are moving so far ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
vanessa18 44 F 2  questions	My boyfriend recently dumped me and I don't know how to deal with it. Help! - 4/6/1998 My last boyfriend recently dumped me, but he didn't say it to my face. In fact, he just left one day and I haven't seen him since. His brother is the father of my . Our relationship didn't work out. We were even engaged for a year and almost got married until I broke it off because we were moving too fast. I need help understanding why my last boyfriend hasn't called or came back to see me. ... 0 response(s), 2 votes
heavenlyangel 39 F 1  question	One Too Many - 3/31/1998 Chuck (name is changed) is my best guy friend, and I'm his best girl friend. He's really nice and he always gives me advice. He even hooked me up with his best guy friend, Bob (his name is changed too). Bob and I have been going out for almost 3 years. We are really close. His friends and my friends are all close too. Bob is what most girls would say is "dreamy and perfect". I thought the same ... 4 response(s), 2 votes
elfinmagic 46 F 1  question	long-distance relationship - 3/22/1998 I am a 20 year-old, Junior in college, in Texas. I have a 23 year-old boyfriend who is in Missouri for graduate school. We have been dating for 1 1/2 years. We have been apart now for 6 months. We have seen each other 5 times (for brief periods of time) in these last 6 months. Through email and phone, we have stayed close. We both love each other. In fact, I think our love for each other ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
KAURISLSL 82 M 1  question	DO PRINCIPLES EXIST? - 3/22/1998 One of my friends, he is not connected to the Net, but to every single skirt which moves. He is married for the third time and he is only 32 years old. His problem is that he simply cannot ignore a woman going past him. Specially the married ones. He just returned from South Africa where he worked as an engineer. Within the first month he had bedded atleast three of his work mates wives. ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
bernice 81 F 2  questions	What to do about it !! - 3/22/1998 I have this problem that is for the older peoplemy problem is, ( Where are you ). I'm a female looking for that person to share life with me, I have tried everything and do not seem to be doing the right thing. I have had some response, but I'm in Ontario, you can't build a relation, on the other side of the world. I have lots of pen-pals, but where are the fellas that do want a comittment, ... 3 response(s), 2 votes
iembry 44 M 2  questions	Ex-girlfriend - Should I become friends with her again? - 3/14/1998 I have this ex-girlfriend that I was with for a little over two years. We were very intimate, mainly when we got here to college. Here, she started changing, in my eyes, and started to try to be someone else that she wasn't. So we broke-up over that and some other things. Then, I said that I never loved her and never could and other things. I got her really upset and mad at me. Then, ] ... 1 response(s), 1 vote
WileECoyote 50 M 1  question	falling in love without seeing each other before? - 3/5/1998 Since about a year or slightly more I have a penpal, we write a lot, yet didn't enter a chatroom so far, email was enough. We started as penpals, but things worked out better and better, I once send her flowers, then I got i.e. for Valentine's Day a bouget of roses from her. She often mentioned lately that she is thinking a lot about me. yet we never saw each other, she got several ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
SiaFhir 46 M 1  question	Is it too late? - 2/21/1998 I first set eyes on a girl at my college in September. It started with her apparent interest in a buddy of mine, but me as well, simply by the eye contact. My buddy talked to her once, then that was it, he was too shy to try again (he was half drunk the first time, but she didn't seem to mind). Now, after the end of the first term in December, my buddy dropped out, and he suggested I meet ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
bernice 81 F 2  questions	A simple question..( WHY ) - 2/11/1998 Us older folks out here need a chance at love, just as much as the younger ones. Why do you guys want the , blonde, sexy, slim type, whatever happened to honesty, trusting, caring type. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, is it not! Quite a few of you shouldn't even be on the system. My experience so far is....what is your phone number, can you come here to meet me. This is not fare.I'm ... 3 response(s), 4 votes
Evita18 42 F 1  question	How Do I Know If My Cyberfriend wants to be a CyberBOYfriend? - 1/5/1998 I have been e-mailing this guy back and forth. We have so much in common. He asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said no. Does this mean that he is interested or is he just trying to make conversation? I really like how he writes. Should I ask him or should I wait to see what he says? 2 response(s), 5 votes