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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of FriendFinder.
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andhybro 43 M
14  questions
Good valentine gift what? - 2/8/2010

girls: rather quiet like reading like sewing little fat half years older long familiar. also celebrate the Lunar New Year ....

1 response(s), 4 votes
andhybro 43 M
14  questions
what you like about your boyfriend? - 2/7/2010

personal only you can answer that.

1 response(s), 2 votes
andhybro 43 M
14  questions
what would you give to your girlfriend, in this vellentine day? - 2/7/2010

Girlfriend is a friend to share in the joy and sorrow, or maybe in lust. On this happy day you have to give something special to him....

1 response(s), 1 vote
andhybro 43 M
14  questions
what will you do in this vellentine day? - 2/7/2010

if you already have a family? whether you are in courtship? if you do not both?

1 response(s), 2 votes
Sky_walking07 60 M
116  questions
When do we go from "Dating" to "Relationship"? - 2/6/2010

For many, sexual contact is very personal. I understand that. Some men and women feel as soon as they get naked they are in a relationship. And with that I would disagree.

Women want to know when she is his girlfriend. A woman told me she started dating a guy about 2 months ago. Then wanted to know when to take things to the next level - to become exclusive.

I told her if shes ...

12 response(s), 5 votes
luise2008 52 F
43  questions
Can't get enough of his love, lol! - 2/4/2010

So I'm married now, tnings getting better between us. Well really good, but I just seem to get enough of his loving if you know what I mean! He comes home from work and all that is on my mind is the rerun of the previous weekend. Yeah, since we are both really tired these days, never can seem to get it on apart from weekend nights. I can't cope very well with just weekend sessions. But we ...

4 response(s), 6 votes
Sky_walking07 60 M
116  questions
Power tools and knowing how to use them - 2/3/2010

I've noticed that there are women who boast having a garage full of power tools, they have a working knowledge of these tools and these women are concerned this might make her less attractive to men as if she was less of a woman.

What are your thoughts on the subject?

7 response(s), 3 votes
luise2008 52 F
43  questions
FF update problems!! - 2/1/2010

Hi all,

Just a quickie, lol!

Have noticed my age is still incorrect on the old friend finder profile there!

I remember I tried to change it b4 but couldn't seem to get to the right page.

Anyone able to assist me in correcting the age? I am not 32 - was some time ago, lol! You know I'll actually be celebrating my 40th next year! That's a scary thought! Well am ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
Sky_walking07 60 M
116  questions
I IM'ed your girl friend. What of it?! - 1/31/2010

On these sites, for those of us who can, we have access to FF-email thru the profiles. Basically anyone is game to be contacted.

MALES: What if you had a buddy in the same area you lived, and know each other in person, and the same woman flirts with both of you, through Instant Messaging and or email, and she sets up a meet-and-greet with both of you at different times, would this bother ...

13 response(s), 5 votes
Sky_walking07 60 M
116  questions
A womans fear of saying too much too soon. - 1/31/2010

A woman, age 40, was saying she was seeing a guy age 42, for 4 consecutive weeks, going out with him once a week and having a good time. She told him she tends to lose interest in men because she doesn't "click" with everyone she goes out with. She then told him, "I really do like you". Now shes worried she said too much too soon to him, taking the mystery and intrigue out of the situation. ...

4 response(s), 4 votes
lookin4fun2010 38 F
1  question
relationship drama - 1/30/2010

Why do men love sluts more than thier own wife

7 response(s), 7 votes
hitman1991 28 M
1  question
Are you satisfied with your monthly income from cash - 1/29/2010

is sufficient for your money during the month

3 response(s), 7 votes
doyoufeelikeido 72 M
84  questions
SPEAKING OF COSMETIC SURGERY - 1/17/2010

AN IMPORTANT FACT that should be considered when speaking of cosmetic surgery is the current trends of culture. Appearances change over time just as the style of clothes do. Let me give a simple example, I'm not overwhelmed with a woman having large breast but, in today's trends, I would feel uncomfortable with a woman that has small breasts. Our current culture dictates a good set of breasts. ...

9 response(s), 15 votes
sofianede 25 F
1  question
what's your favorite head color ? - 1/13/2010

what's your favorite head color ?

3 response(s), 4 votes
tartok54 42 F
1  question
what's your favorite name of your lover dream ? - 1/5/2010

his name or his first letter

1 response(s), 6 votes
luise2008 52 F
43  questions
Merry Christmas!!! - 12/14/2009

Hi Ya, just popped in to wish you all a very Happy Christmas 2009! Hope all the regulars at the magazine are doing well. I am going to be kept very busy this year with my brood of four , one cat and one husband! Have to say though I have been surprised this year by the amount of stores selling christmas decorations at half price right from November. I reckon it's got something to do with the ...

2 response(s), 13 votes
monhas4bluelotus 54 M
1  question
Global Climate Change - 11/23/2009

Lately 'GLOBAL CLIMATE CHANGE' seems to be a demon-disaster on us. It may cause a great range of loss of some beautiful lands of few innocent countries like the Maldives and Bangladesh. But these countries are not at all responsible for this natural 'spy ware-disaster'. So, shouldn't we start a campaign globally spreading out!

14 response(s), 6 votes
zorroblanco 107 M
18  questions
Not so skin-deep! - 11/22/2009

I’ve unintentionally dated a number of women who have had operations to enhance their appearance. While all this sounds good on paper, and might look great in clothing ‒ I thought it might be worth passing on my own impressions about some of the other issues.

One young lady had her thighs reduced. The procedure was fairly simply ‒ surgical incisions were made to ...

6 response(s), 17 votes
zorroblanco 107 M
18  questions
Yeah ‒ but would you really consider a relationship with one ….. - 11/21/2009

Apparently one of our main Mag characters has decided to claim to have had a series of operations to change their gender and skin color and is contemplating more ‘alterations’ cause they …… wanna get themselves a white guy!! Of course I have no idea how much of this is fact and how much might be just another in a long list of ploys for attention, but whatever. ...

14 response(s), 19 votes
vishner 25 M
1  question
What is this for anyway - 11/19/2009



Hi

1 response(s), 8 votes
love_25334
1  question
im confused..i need an advice - 11/16/2009

i have a bf..we've been together for 8 months now and were living together but actually as the moment were good friends...its almost 4 months now that we decided to be good friends but yet were living together but we didn't have sex as we've agreed..he don't have any girls though i keep pushing him to go for a date... i still care for him... he told me that he dont love me anymore, i was ...

6 response(s), 7 votes
FMSJim 51 M
10  questions
What Should we Do? - 11/11/2009

During my time on these sites, I have noticed that there seem to be a lot of attractive single Caucasian women trapped in a small mostly black African country. Yes, those poor women in Ghana that are just keen on a relationship with Western men, but need the money to escape from there. It has recently come to my attention that not only are there a lot of American Citizens stuck there, but now ...

2 response(s), 7 votes
FMSJim 51 M
10  questions
Hold out for your dreams or settle for a real scene? - 11/10/2009

How many of you out there have been told you are "too picky"? That you should find someone real and settle down with them instead continuing you search for your dream.

I get this often from people. Especially family members who think I should get married. Well, I am all for that, if the right woman comes along. However, I have not "settled" for just anyone.

We are constantly ...

3 response(s), 3 votes
FMSJim 51 M
10  questions
Love and the overly analysing brain - 11/9/2009

Have you ever noticed that some people just seem to have very active minds? They cannot just converse simply and plainly. Casual conversation with them seems more like a college course? They continuously over analyse everything about them. Even personal relationships, including their own.

Personally, I am what I am. I have faith that someday, some place, I will meet the proper woman who ...

1 response(s), 6 votes
FMSJim 51 M
10  questions
The Chemistry is Real - 11/8/2009

First, let me thank everyone that is coming out and joining us here on A/L.

Now to the daily question

Background: We have all heard or used the phrase that "chemistry is right" or something similar. So is there real bio-chemistry behind this? The University of New Mexico and UCLA, have conducted studies into chemical compatibility. While many of the articles of some of their ...

4 response(s), 3 votes
FMSJim 51 M
10  questions
Where to meet Eligible partners, other than the internet - 11/7/2009

For this question, we will assume that you will not find someone via the Internet and this site.

So where do adults go to seek out quality relationships?

You can meet someone at work. But if you are un-employed, retired or disabled, you have no job to go to, and thus, no workplace. There is also the whole issue of sexual harassment in the workplace to deal with.

You can ...

2 response(s), 7 votes
FMSJim 51 M
10  questions
The Foundation and Pillars of a good relationship/marriage - 11/6/2009

The foundation of a marriage is Love. Love is made up of respect, trust and mutual lust, to name a few. There are almost as many opinions on Love as there are people to have them. If someone undermines these or any other aspect of the building blocks of love, I believe that Love has died. Not the emotions you will still have, but the true Love. I am referring, of course, to Romantic Love. Not the ...

3 response(s), 7 votes
FMSJim 51 M
10  questions
Will this work? Will you join me? - 11/5/2009

Ok, time for the daily question.

Background: I have noted that there are very few of us that post here. I do enjoy reading all of your responses. However, I feel that the Advice Line (A/ should be more active. That it would, indeed, be interesting to attract more view points and perhaps people who want advice on things.

I quickly noticed, that every time I stopped by the A/L, ...

2 response(s), 5 votes
FMSJim 51 M
10  questions
Can we ever join in? - 11/4/2009

Background: Some members of society are ostracized from social groupings through no fault of their own. This, for some of us, started at a very young age, like the first day of school with other . While some actually make there own groupings with similarly ostracized people, some never do find someplace to fit in. Many would label us Geeks, Nerds or Losers. Although, for me, even the geeks ...

2 response(s), 5 votes
FMSJim 51 M
10  questions
A question for the Ladies, but you guys can read it too. - 11/3/2009

I have an interesting thing that happens to me sometimes. I recently started going out and meeting with a group to get out and socialize. I have been asked several times when introduced to women "Where is my wife or girlfriend?" Ok, no problem, they are just checking if I am available. But no, when I say I do not have one, they simply reply "Oh, sorry, I just thought you did." And then they ...

3 response(s), 5 votes