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How to say no nicely? 8/4/2004
It is kinda hard to do this, when you are looking for that
certain someone and everyone else contacts you how do you
say no thank you with out hurting their feelings or making
them mad? I have run into this problem many times. Why can't
people just read your profile and then go one if they are
not a match and they know it? I know some can't get into
the profiles but it does state in the ...
0 Comments, 69 Views,
63 Votes
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Re: Why do married men mess with other women 8/2/2004
I have my own theories as to why married men decide to cheat.
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The first thing that comes to mind is that they have no respect
for their marriage, for their wives or for themselves for
that matter.
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The second thing that comes to mind is that they are in a bad
situation and instead of being a real man and getting out
of the marriage, they stay in it and ...
1 Comments, 115 Views,
49 Votes
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Say no to over seas love 7/9/2004
This is only my oppinion, and thats all it is. Why fall in
love with someone you may really never see. I mean how many
of us can just pick up and go to are so called lover who lives
across the world? to me this is ridicules. The poosibilities
of this happening it next to impossible. No one is going
to want to leave their own country not just for love, it just
isn't worth it to me. Love ...
0 Comments, 454 Views,
69 Votes
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for you 6/15/2004
I work as chief accountant in a civil engineering firm and
a lot of time spend at my favourite work. Besides I love to
cook, furnace, I am fond of knitting, I go to the pool in my
free time and I love spending time with the friends in the
country, in mountains, at lake. I like very much to get acquainted
with the new people, to study their culture and to learn
new things together with them. ...
0 Comments, 249 Views,
30 Votes
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thanxxxxxxxxxxx 6/14/2004
Come and get me baby! yow! Ok...On the one hand I'm looking
to make all kinds of friends from all over the place! On the
other hand...I'm also looking for THE ONE. so please
keep that in mind everybody...you too THE ONE (if you're
out there... because if you are? All my new found friends
and I will have to part company. I don't screw around
in a relationship. I'm total loyal, faithful, ...
0 Comments, 157 Views,
27 Votes
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why do married men mess with other women 6/12/2004
why do married men want to play on their wives, i am involved
with one he says hes going to get a divorce, he is so jealous
of me but he thinks he is right and i am always wrong when he
sees me in ff he calls me names, i dont think this is right
and this hurts me so much i am in tears all the time , any advice
what for me to do ?
0 Comments, 292 Views,
45 Votes
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Welcome 6/4/2004
Well, though i do not much to say, but the best is that whenever
someone new joins you network, always try to welcome him/her
no matter what the case maybe. Just try to do things that
u feel other people would love u about. Well, thats just
all i got.
1 Comments, 412 Views,
31 Votes
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No thanks! 5/31/2004
... and then I asked him.. : Would you like to get marry ? And
he said:" No thanks ! " ( with a wonderful smile,
so nice as I never saw before !) Then I asked.. You like to
offer the breakfast while your baby is still sleepy in bed
? He said : "No thanks"... Well... is not a problem
! You like to offer flowers to your love? And then again he
said .. "No thanks!" hmmm... You adore to make ...
0 Comments, 142 Views,
37 Votes
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Saying No Thank You And Keeping It Positive 5/27/2004
I’ve thought long and hard about saying no thank you to men
without wounding their pride or cutting down at the knees.
After much contemplating I had to put myself in their shoes,
how would I feel if circumstances were reversed.
What I came up with is No, but thanks anyway and good luck
with your search. This is usually sufficient, but sometimes
you come across the occasional, ...
0 Comments, 137 Views,
118 Votes
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A Man's Viewing on being told NO... 5/22/2004
A Man's View on being told NO
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Some times being told "No" is the best thing
for both
people. If a man wants to pursue a friend ship or dating with
a lady he just met, he may spend a lot of time trying to set
up the next date or meeting.
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If the woman feels the same way then great, but what happens
if she's not sure, or decides that she's not interested. ...
0 Comments, 116 Views,
63 Votes
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To say no is better than to give someone uselessly hope... 5/17/2004
i have been always honest in my relationships..both in
real life and when i am in internet chatting to someone...
if i wanted to stop talking to him after i received his picture
i said it in plain words...
but most of the men have found me rude just for i told them
my real thoughts about them...
i can't understand them really...
they get mad if i didn't like their appearances...
But ...
0 Comments, 78 Views,
26 Votes
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More options to say no thanks. 5/8/2004
Im pretty new to this particular friend finders sight,
The other one I found first is much more
what can I say "Risque". Theres a lot of guys
who get mad over there, because they dont get a
response, no" hello", " thank you but
no thanks". I guess the feelings are the same on this
sight
too.But in a much nicer way.The men Ive met here are lookin
for love someone to fill a void in ...
0 Comments, 5898 Views,
28 Votes
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It ain't hard to say "NO"..is it? 4/10/2004
People often end up having a lilttle problem dealing with
a friend after saying "NO"...A girlfriend
find it hard to please her partner after saying "NO"...A
mother having a guilt feeling after saying "NO"
to her ....and a whole lot of more bad situation after
a person says "NO"...Don't we all know
how hard it is to say "NO" to someone we have trusted
for a such a long period of time....it ...
0 Comments, 163 Views,
36 Votes
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“Truth in Advertising” 3/9/2004
His/her profile is well written, his/her pictures are
great, you share many of the same interests … only one problem.
They say they are looking for someone younger/older/thinner/of
a different sex or only in their state. Sigh, oh well … moving
on. Or wait! Maybe for me they will make an exception! Why
do people do this to themselves? I have seen several articles
on here ...
0 Comments, 121 Views,
63 Votes
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I need the courage. 11/7/2003
I have a hard time with rejection. Not of being rejected,
I mean of rejecting other people. If I get to know somebody,
I always see the good in them and that makes it hard for me
to turn them down. My last girlfriend, for example, was
with me for over two years. I was planning on breaking up
with her for months but I could never muster the courage
to tell it to her. I finally got the guts ...
0 Comments, 111 Views,
55 Votes
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Why be nasty 10/22/2003
Too many people join dating agencies for a joke or titillation.
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Like-minded people meet and get on well. No harm there.
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But please consider those, that seriously wish to meet
people, many of whom have had bad experiences, and to a few
of these may also have low confidence or self esteem.
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I think its better to say something nice to a person than ...
0 Comments, 61 Views,
76 Votes
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Saying No when u want to 6/29/2003
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I have come across many people, in my home, in my college
who say "yes" when they actually wanted to say
"no".
Sometimes, even I have come across such situations.I said
yes to things I don't like, yes to things I didn't
want to do, "yes" to the things I wanted to say
"no" to. I thought real deep about this thing.Why....Why
did i say yes when I wanted to say no! The ...
0 Comments, 104 Views,
62 Votes
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Answering e-mail, a mature woman's point of view! 8/15/2001
After having read several articles about whether or not
to respond to those who have taken the time to write you in
response to the profile you have place with a server, I wish
to express my opinion. I honestly feel that all messages
should be responded to even if it is to say, "Thank you but
no thank you." It is just common courtesy and good manners
to do so. If we are attempting to ...
0 Comments, 122 Views,
372 Votes
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Ladies, Please Be Considerate!! 3/16/2001
Hello Women of FriendFinder...
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i am writing to all of you who seem to be unable to even lift
your pretty little fingers to respond to an e-mail or page...this
is plain and simply a RUDE thing to do and you should be ashamed
of yourselves!!!... <br>
if someone writes to you and you do not find them to be suitable
that is perfectly fine...all you have to do is to send ...
0 Comments, 135 Views,
231 Votes
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Ditch The...Unpleasent Woman. 2/8/2001
C'mon guys, let's face it...All good things must come to
an end, right? Right! K...So it's agreed then, you're love
in paradise has just turned into a Hell hole.
How can one tell when the relationship has reached this
stage? Namely when you start to make up excuses not to be
around her any more...Such as "You're controlling", "You're
nit-picking", and "I can't stand you trying to ...
0 Comments, 335 Views,
39 Votes
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Show a little respect for your peers 4/14/2000
I just started doing the internet meeting people thing
a month or so ago, and it has been rather interesting at times.
I've had the oppportunity to meet up with a few of the people
I've talked to here as well as speaking to many on the phone
where we could be a little more personal. I've been as guilty
about blowing people off as the people I'm writing this
about, so I guess that's like ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
70 Votes
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Does he ever go too far? 7/12/1998
The best way to say no to a guy is to say, "NO!"
Be firm and say it like you mean it, otherwise they won't take you
seriously. It's your body and no one else has the right to tell you
how to use it. If you're not ready, you'll know. Don't let him convince you that you are if you know you aren't.
is becoming all too familiar these days, don't become
another statistic.
If you're ...
0 Comments, 212 Views,
3 Votes
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I'm sorry, missed the word "perfect" in your profile... 5/30/1998
While this may be great advice (in my mind) you may disagree, write your own.
First we look to the familiar answer to the personal --- "I saw your ad, sounds like we might have something in common, check my profile, if you like what you see, send me a note." --- (Close enough anyway.)
At this point you just don't send anything and ignore them, while not the nicest way, seems acceptable to ...
0 Comments, 102 Views,
5 Votes
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Saying NO ! 5/19/1998
Have you ever had one of those times when your friends asked you to do something you don’t feel like doing; but simply don’t know how to say it without hurting thier feelings ?
Or when your mom buys you this ugly looking outfit, and she looked proud when you tried them on, that you can’t bear to tell her that you hate it ?
Well, what are you going to do ? How do you say ...
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How To Say "No Thanks" 4/10/1998
Telling someone that they are not appealing to you or that you are not interested can be difficult. Most of us don't want to hurt someone's feelings when we feel turned off. Often we pretend that they are not there and maybe they will go away. That doesn't always work. The person on the other end may keep contacting you for an answer. Then it becomes harder to explain what you probably ...
0 Comments, 179 Views,
1 Votes
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Mean what you say, and say what you mean! 3/23/1998
If you've tried everything and it still doesn't work,
have a good friend whom you trust and who he/she knows
is close to you tell him/her that "No" means "No".
Leave no room for guessing. Sometimes, you gotta be
cruel to be kind in the long run!
Best of Luck!
0 Comments, 235 Views,
1 Votes
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A MATTER OF PRINCIPLE! 3/22/1998
I consider myself to be pretty straight forward. I am not into drugs of any sort, except a few drinks occasionally, do not patronise gambling or pay for sex. This last point is pretty controversial. The question is if you take out a female, feed and tank her up with a few gin & tonics to start with, a couple of bottles of good full bodied red wine in between the courses, pour a Cointreau or ...
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