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Irazistable 45 F
6  Articles
Keep It Shorter   7/7/2004

Even tho previous to this I somewhat agreed with another writer who said that the date should be short and just go for drinks. It should actually be kept shorter and for the first date make it a lunch date, because more often enough you find at the end of the date you are in a situation when the goodbye strolls around. Lunch is cool as the goodbye is simple..hey is only lunch.


0 Comments, 173 Views, 32 Votes ,7.27 Score
lovebabe24 49 F
1  Article
how i met my first date   6/28/2004

It goes like this i Was like doing my period when i met this handsome looking guy, he also was like stirring his eyes on me but i did not give him, any sign.i was busy with what i was doing as u all know that i admire handsome guys.


0 Comments, 57 Views, 32 Votes
Cheffen 59 M
4  Articles
For the women.   6/22/2004

What is a woman looking for in a man? Someone that is kind, old romantic, and honest. See I was raised to be a gentleman at all times being considerate and maybe too old fashion if one may say. What are your expatiations of a man on the first date?


0 Comments, 132 Views, 44 Votes ,5.91 Score
Archangel255 41 M
3  Articles
On Time   6/17/2004

I've always thought it was important to be on time for a first date. It shows you are competant and can tell time.


1 Comments, 52 Views, 21 Votes ,6.96 Score
unraveling 63 F
1  Article
How do you say goodbye without hurting someone's feelings...   6/16/2004

after you've met? I have been fortunate to meet some very nice people from my on-line contacts. However, each time I set up a meeting, I become very nervous about whether he will like me and also whether I will like him. It hasn't happened yet, but how does one handle that situation. (Especially if a photo was not provided in the beginning). I would like to think that someone's ...


0 Comments, 164 Views, 48 Votes ,3.51 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
frist...................   6/14/2004

Come and get me baby! yow! Ok...On the one hand I'm looking to make all kinds of friends from all over the place! On the other hand...I'm also looking for THE ONE. so please keep that in mind everybody...you too THE ONE (if you're out there... because if you are? All my new found friends and I will have to part company. I don't screw around in a relationship. I'm total loyal, faithful, ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 12 Votes
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
HELLO   6/14/2004

HELLO MY Dear Handsome, ... <br> Here is my chance to tell the world how lucky I am to have found an amazing GIRL like you. All my life I felt like I was meant to be alone, as if my someone took a wrong turn over a bridge before I could meet them. Then came you... suddenly my eyes went from clouded storms to small blue beacons. I was so sad, and you took away all that pain ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 18 Votes ,1.90 Score
sweet_taste_kiss 42 F
3  Articles
My Heart Travelled In Germany :)   6/6/2004

My First Date which never come true <br> well.. let me tell you MY "REAL STORY"... I had been in love for 8 months with a guy from Germany, over the internet. We saw each other everyday on the web, we was chatting, shearing things, oppinions, pictures...We stated with being friends.And we continue with SPENDING HOURS TOGETHER. After some time, we starting talking about his ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 25 Votes ,5.01 Score
Equinox320 73 M
12  Articles
First dates on a shoestring.   6/1/2004

For me conversation and getting to know the other person is essential. Here are five inexpensive locations for dates. <br> Go up to the top of a building in a large city. <br> Find a dark, romantic bistro with great coffees and desserts, or an independent book store that encourages browsing. <br> Find a rarely-used corner deep in the stacks of your ...


0 Comments, 110 Views, 46 Votes ,4.45 Score
Bin2004 58 F
1  Article
Loss of Appetite and Liking the Guy   5/24/2004

I know I like the guy on the first date when I do not have much of an appetite, or I can not concentrate on the food. <br> Which makes sense. Your attention is more focused on the person in front of you, and your interest is not on the food, but rather on what he has to say, or, in my case, on letting my eyes linger on his facial features.


0 Comments, 102 Views, 20 Votes ,6.32 Score
QtheDreamer 63 M
1  Article
It's all in the way you think.   5/24/2004

I’ve had the opportunity to browse through the many comments made on this topic. All had very good questions & points that came across. Things that make you think about experiences you went through. In this case myself. I believe it comes down to our mind sets. How we think? There were some comments mentioning how people were deceiving about themselves physically or mentally. Well ...


0 Comments, 164 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
jim696998 80 M
1  Article
freedome of choice/do not tell   5/22/2004

in refference to the article what women want, I feel that if anyone man or woman want to have \bsexo?\b and it is mutually agreed upon with both people involved it should be OK. A lot of people feel that they have to follow a code of ethics that requires them to wait for many dates to have gone by to have \bsexo?\b. I think that if the two of you want to have \bsexo?\b you should do so ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 23 Votes ,3.48 Score
BlueAngelEyes01 44 F
1  Article
Help me!   4/7/2004

What is the best way for a woman (like me) to go on a first date with another woman my age? I don't want to act dumb or do something wrong. Please help, I need some advice!!!


1 Comments, 122 Views, 58 Votes ,3.87 Score
Stephanie7690 41 F
11  Articles
What you do on first date after dinner   2/22/2004

Talk and chat, you'll be surprised how much you learn by even brainstorming terms like ''love'' get your partner to participate...or ''cat'' see if you two strike a match with the game..But the main thing I have learnt is be honest, yourself and do not lie. Good luck everyone .


0 Comments, 90 Views, 88 Votes ,6.26 Score
Stephanie7690 41 F
11  Articles
What to do after a movie and dinner   2/15/2004

As a woman I would say, just ask her what she would like to do, that will save you from wasting your time in alot of things that she might end up hating. <br> After a movie, I like to take my Fiance Mark out to a wonderful drama show or a circus event, he loves it and because he loves me, he will not moan, or else! <br> The point I am saying is that you could ask her ...


0 Comments, 281 Views, 56 Votes ,3.65 Score
theclyde 44 M
1  Article
re: @#$%^&* Cell Phones!   1/6/2004

I have just read an article "@#$%^&* Cell Phones!" where some guy had a bad experience with a girl using a cell phone. While I agree is was not polite for her to use the phone that much, I would not suggest leaving the phone in the car. <br> First meeting can be fantastic. But they can be bad. To meet somebody you don't know without some sort of safety plan is a bad idea. A ...


0 Comments, 251 Views, 93 Votes ,6.88 Score
cosmicteddy 52 M
6  Articles
What to do?   1/5/2004

What's the advice for a first date. Over the top with flowers impress with expensive restautant, your best clothes, or be more like your real self and take your chances. Do you sell the sizzle or the steak?


0 Comments, 162 Views, 65 Votes ,6.83 Score
fungi36 42 M
3  Articles
How far is too far?   11/12/2003

I'm just wondering how far is too far to go on a first date. Many of mine have ended in the morning. I feel like it doesn't give any leeway into later dates. It's fine if I never plan on seeing her again but I don't want to ruin something good by being a male !


1 Comments, 44 Views, 84 Votes ,6.29 Score
commybabylove 39 F
11  Articles
Things Guys Want Girls To Know   10/16/2003

30 Things Guys Want Girls To Know!! <br> 1. We're not as perverted as you think we all are. <br> 2. No matter what YOU say, your ex-boyfriend IS an ass hole. <br> 3. We like you to give us hugs and kisses sometimes too. <br> 4. Don't argue with us when we call you beautiful. <br> 5. Don't treat us like ****, what goes around comes ...


0 Comments, 110 Views, 184 Votes ,8.88 Score
sexystud431 43 M
1  Article
remembering   10/16/2003

it isnt fun n easy forgetting your first date ... especially if you had the first love with that person .... i still remember my first date when we both had lots of fun ... we strted by kissing smocching hugging n endded together in the bed.... she was so afraid of becomng pregnant.. that she allowed me to cum in her mouth n not inside her ... i had the pleasure of all the holes on the ...


0 Comments, 88 Views, 37 Votes ,1.71 Score
charming1766 54 M
13  Articles
What would you do Ladies if a guy wrote you this letter after your first date?   10/4/2003

My Love, <br> I had an absolutely wonderful time with you tonight. You are everything I had hoped you would be in person (charming, poised, gracious, sophisticated and glamorous) and so much more (sexy, enticing, captivating, exhilarating and stunningly beautiful). I have to apologize to you for my nervousness tonight, but as I tried to explain (when I didn't have my foot in my ...


2 Comments, 161 Views, 104 Votes ,0.31 Score
Tx_Ghost 59 M
1  Article
what are we looking for?   9/28/2003

Most of us are extremely Nervous about dating to begin with, if not down right neurotic. We are all uncomfortable to some degree, "Will they like me , ?"" Will this or that repel this person?", " Am I good enough to desarve this person?". Especially first Dates are like Job Interviews, Just do your best and if that isn't good enough then move on. Also ask yourself why are you wanting a ...


0 Comments, 172 Views, 84 Votes ,7.37 Score
rightbeginning 35 M
1  Article
Asking For The Date   2/23/2003

There's nothing really complicated about asking for a date. Ideally, you should ask someone in person so that he or she won't have any difficulty in "placing" you, but telephoning is perfectly acceptable, too. <br> It is best, however, to have gotten to know the person you are asking through previous conversation before suddenly springing a request for a date. Those ...


0 Comments, 116 Views, 108 Votes ,8.25 Score
ShenandoahGift 68 F
4  Articles
Reply to 'Ageless Women' (correction)   7/11/2002

I've never had a problem with that. I've dated men 15+ years younger than me, to 15 years older. I am 46, and told that I am very attractive. The younger men tell me that the women their own age don't know how to treat men, and don't appreciate things the way women 'our' age do. Oh yes, I've run into one guy so far who preferred younger women. Well, go for it. But if you (men) want a woman ...


0 Comments, 112 Views, 39 Votes ,7.14 Score
ShenandoahGift 68 F
4  Articles
Reply to 'Ageless Women'   7/11/2002

I've never had a problem with that. I've dated men 15+ years younger than me, to 15 years older. I am 46, and told that I am very attractive. The younger men tell me that the women their own age don't know how to treat men, and don't appreciate things the way women 'our' age do. Oh yes, I've run into one guy so far who preferred younger women. Well, go for it. But if you (men) want a woman ...


0 Comments, 263 Views, 30 Votes ,6.77 Score
LadyGwen 50 F
1  Article
Things to do on a first date   4/17/2002

First date Ideas - · Meet in a public place - have your own transportation · Let a friend know who you?re meeting (when & where) · Have a check in time with that friend. If you plan to stayout later, set up a second ck in time. · Meet during the day. · Do coffee or a drink - don?t set yourself up for hours with someone you?re meeting for the first time. You can always decide to ...


0 Comments, 184 Views, 210 Votes ,7.65 Score
Lor47 71 F
1  Article
Precious Cargo   7/5/2001

I woke up with an inspiring thought this morning. Many times I have seen signs in cars, " on Board." They are telling us that a precious is in their car and to drive with care. Many people feel that way about their . <br> What if we took that additude a bit further. What if on our first dates, we treated eachother like "precious cargo?" Many of us are like the Salmon that have ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 92 Votes ,8.52 Score
lola21st 60 F
1  Article
Advice for a First Date   2/11/2001

Here are my pointers for making your first date a success. Hopefully, they will work for you! <br> - For the first date, come up with two or three choices of things you would like to then ask the other party which of the choices they would like to do. This ensures that your first outing is something that both of you like. If they don?t seem too thrilled with your suggestions, let ...


0 Comments, 239 Views, 209 Votes ,7.76 Score
squawgirl 62 F
3  Articles
blind date   1/28/2001

a friend of mine set me up with a friend of her spose. we met a coffee shop. i sat for about ten minutes looking at this cute guy, i wasn't shore if he was who i was to met, so he finally came over to me asked me if i was_____. i said yes i was, we had some coffee. then we went to the movies and we toke a cab to his house to get his car then we went to the beath and walked hand in hand.it ...


0 Comments, 383 Views, 15 Votes ,2.37 Score
Dream19 44 M
1  Article
Should i or Should i not   12/19/2000

hi.....i am now 20 years old and am very straight acting and a bit to direct, but that is another story, when i was 12 up to 17 i always went out with girls and women, but i always new that guys where good looking to, but never really did anything about it until about 3 1/2 years ago i got a pc, man i was so glad, i thaught(and still do)a pc was the coolest thing on the earth, a few months ...


0 Comments, 306 Views, 15 Votes ,1.14 Score