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lomax32 43 M
11  Articles
everyones worst nightmare!!!!!!   10/8/2007

I've written a couple of articles in here and I have received alot of negative feedback, especially when it pertains to the "should I respond?" article. Why do we as a society choose to be more animalistic instead of human when we hear, see, or read things that we dont agree with. Its almost as if people have nothing better to do than find reasons to be sad or angry or even hateful. "The ...

1 Comments, 1836 Views, 35 Votes ,6.94 Score
lomax32 43 M
11  Articles
The Trust Factor   10/8/2007

Many people have a problem when it comes to the word trust. Not without good reason, but fact is, there isnt anyone out there that doesnt want to feel untrustworthy. To some it can fell insulting. I know, alot of guys and gals out there have ruined it for all the others that are actually trying to build a solid friendship or relationship, but we should not have to pay for their mistakes. ...

4 Comments, 490 Views, 47 Votes ,6.61 Score
ketch54 54 M
35  Articles
The Real Deal   28/1/2006

Lets get back to the basics. When you are trying to start or get a relationship off the ground. You need to be able to communicate. Communication is the foundation from which all is built. From friendship to love communication is everything. If you are not willing to be open and truthful then your going down a dead end street. You must be open and honest with your self ...

1 Comments, 325 Views, 33 Votes ,4.43 Score
Precieuse27 35 F
1  Article
At times love does hurt   12/3/2013

At times when you really care so much about someone, it could give a heartburn.It is often when one's trust is betrayed, or rather you trust someone , for with love comes trust.

1 Comments, 229 Views, 28 Votes ,4.58 Score
1  Article
Why aren't there more African America Men on   3/6/2006

There are some of us out here that prefer to date others outside of our own race. I browse friendfinder regularly, however, there's not very many African American men on Just wondered if any of you know any eligible, nice, African-American men between the ages of 45-53, please tell them about Preferably in the North/Northeast Texas area. Thank you.

3 Comments, 208 Views, 24 Votes ,5.86 Score
lomax32 43 M
11  Articles
Why?????   11/8/2007

When we wonder why we have not been able to build a solid relationship with the opposite sex, to have and hold on to that special someone that we all desperately desire, it leaves us wondering, WHY???? Its very common, and your not alone. Think back at all the good times you have shared, and then the bad. Then look at the cause of the harsh times. Bet most of it was caused by the inability ...

1 Comments, 191 Views, 66 Votes ,7.56 Score
inkawoman 49 F
1  Article
first step friendship   28/6/2012

Yes in a relationship friendship is a must.NOt go so fast, know each other better.You cannot know if the other person in sincere or is inventing you a story, telling you lies.My advice...TAKE YOUR TIME.

3 Comments, 185 Views, 26 Votes ,3.89 Score
lomax32 43 M
11  Articles
The What If Game   10/8/2007

Whens the last time you can remember when you felt out of place, like not a living soul understands you, or every wall around you is going to crash down and knock you flat on the head?? Are these feelings real or just a vivid imagination? If your honest about it, everyone at one point or another has. If you prefer to lie or pretend it hasnt, theres a category for you too, but even the most ...

1 Comments, 159 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
lomax32 43 M
11  Articles
Superficial or not!   23/9/2007

Maybe I, m out of line here, but it seems most people today can only relate to others based on two major qualities. Looks and money. Instead of being honest and open minded, people look for that fashion queen model and the all mighty buck, neglecting what they truly need. Is it sex, love, a free meal ticket, marriage? Who the hell knows but what is certain is that maybe relationships dont ...

3 Comments, 156 Views, 40 Votes ,7.71 Score
lomax32 43 M
11  Articles
question   23/11/2007

Why is it so complicated for a middle aged man to find a woman in his own age group?? If someone has an answer, fill me in.

23 Comments, 153 Views, 33 Votes ,2.32 Score
ketch54 54 M
35  Articles
Soul Mate ( Is there such a person?? YES )   3/6/2006

This is the big question, most often asked by all. <br> So for you to understand who or what a Soul Mate is I will take you through some steps as I see it. <br> Friend: A person to whom you can talk and go do things with. Not to be confused with a person that you just know. This person is who you call when you need help. This is is the time when you find out who your ...

6 Comments, 143 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
Sweetnsassygurl 47 F
10  Articles
To search or not to search?   28/6/2012

I have read many articles and responses here at Friendfinder. Some say to get out there and meet new people, look for a new relationship. Others say to basically give up and when you least expect it they will find you. I have tried both and have found that not looking works best for me. What works/has worked best for you?

3 Comments, 112 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
ketch54 54 M
35  Articles
Feelings   14/5/2010

Do you get that funny feeling when you hold hands or that gentle touch.....WOW you know that old rush in you heart and head. <br> Getting dizzy yet?.....LOL <br> Well it depends on your ability to relax and keep the world out side. It will never die. You just have to let it in. I think that there are some out there who believe that after a while you lose something and ...

6 Comments, 109 Views, 27 Votes ,1.56 Score
lomax32 43 M
11  Articles
Like Catching Flies With Chopsticks   9/8/2007

Have you ever sat down with someone you really cared for, and asked them something youve been wondering about, but instead of answering you, their eyes get as large as the runaway brides?Or they look like theyd rather be crossing the freeway, at night, in heavy traffic....covered in glo in the dark paint with a big smilie on them. Have to say, Ive had people sweating worse then Boy George ...

2 Comments, 99 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
Smalltown_Guy2 39 M
3  Articles
My Idea of Love...   28/11/2008

Human emotions are one thing in life that can that have the most control over us. They can make us do things that would seem impossible to some, and make us feel like we are on cloud 9 when we meet someone that we connect with. Some call it love, but most often I find it should be called “infatuation”, because love to me is something that is built over time, and is ...

5 Comments, 94 Views, 54 Votes ,2.47 Score
ketch54 54 M
35  Articles
What Your Looking For   13/1/2006

I really think that if your on the market so to speak, that you should know what your looking for and expecting in a relationship. It is to easy to give mixed signals and start playing a game. If that is what you want then more power to you. But believe it or not some of us are looking for the one to spend forever with. Not just a fling. I realize that forever is a ...

2 Comments, 81 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
terryaki 61 M
10  Articles
A good relationship is worth taking your time.   9/10/2009

Take your time, when building a relationship. The way to build relationships, various by culture. This makes doing it correctly even more complex and my require even more patients. Building a relationship is a "two way street". If both parties are interested, they can work together to overcome differences and build a good relationship.

5 Comments, 64 Views, 19 Votes ,2.86 Score
thefirstray 40 F
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How to love---without enought communication?   28/6/2012

Meeting each other---holding my hands---saying loving me--leaving my city. Since leaving, seldom communication, no sense no missing.Yes, busy---how can you still love me? We are human being, not like the animals just only for the birth instinct, we need thoughts exchange at the same time... I wouldn't like to be an animal, how to love---without enought communication? ...

0 Comments, 62 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
odette317 51 F
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Relationship to Last   27/12/2012

A successful relationship should be based on trust and love. Without these no relationship would prosper. Always express your love in words and actions, let it show. Always be sensitive to the feelings of your partner. Most of all put God at the center of your relationship, for sure it works. ...

1 Comments, 59 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
Expensive Toys   19/9/2006

There was a young boy , who use to look at the toys that neighboring boys use to play.His father was a poor man.So , all he had was the sight of expensive toys.He use to think when he'll be able to touch them at least. Days passed and the boy grew into a fine man.He groomed himself to attain a beautiful personality; because of his education and personality he was able to get ...

2 Comments, 57 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
sandy1962 52 F
4  Articles
life is a mixture   13/6/2009

life is a mixture of sunshine an rain laughter and pleasure tears drops and pain so went the cloulds hide you are sun and skies turn grey remember i am always there for you

1 Comments, 50 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
lomax32 43 M
11  Articles
older articles   10/8/2007

Normally I write whats generally on my mind at the time but today I have a question. Is it just me or has anyone else noticed older articles that were written just appear with a current date? Ive seen a couple of mine pop up recently and was curious as to why that is. The article The Trust Factor was written over 3 years ago and "poof" there it is again. If anyone has a clue, fill me in, ...

3 Comments, 48 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
lomax32 43 M
11  Articles
The vanishing women   10/8/2007

To those of you who are new or kinda sorta new, Id like to say welcome, good luck with starting over, may you find the person that makes ya feel like you can walk on water, and all that stuff that makes ya giggle when ya rub your belly. Lots of good people here, but also a quick warning to those who fall for someone quickly. Be aware of some people that are oversea, like Russia, Philipines, ...

1 Comments, 46 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
lomax32 43 M
11  Articles
Should I respond?!?!   15/8/2007

Picture it. Your sittting around bored out of your mind when you think, Maybe Ill log on to this site and see whats new or if I have any messages. Your there and when you look at your messages you see you have 10 billion of them but one in particular keeps sending you messages for some unknown reason. Is this person a wierdo, freak, some kind of criminal or maybe theyre after your dog to ...

2 Comments, 44 Views, 26 Votes ,6.91 Score
Wake -up humanity   30/8/2006

It is almost 6 months on FF .Many friends are added on my list each day.I have sweet and sour memories of chats. Thousands of people are present in this world.You can praise some, hate some and ignore some of them. In this Jet-age we live; time is getting precious every day, such a time should not be wasted in different arguments and hatred. If a person visits a room for ...

1 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
makram55 54 M
4  Articles
I can be lover romantic and   1/3/2011

I am very man. sometimes I can be lover romantic and sentimental. I like to communicate with all people and to meet for new friends. I like sport and hunting every month in the morning. I love in swim in sea as often as I can I am open, mind i love to take care about my women I love to love and do surprises for my women I am sure, you are like me as you say ...

1 Comments, 32 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
makram55 54 M
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Thou Shalt Not. Have you ever read the Ten Commandments   12/3/2013

Thou Shalt Not. Have you ever read the Ten Commandments and paused at the words, "Thou Shalt Not?"I have read many an artical condemning Ministers for speaking out against, sin, unrighteousness, life styles contrary to the Commandments of God and Christ, and believe it or not, these condemnations are coming not from the unsaved but the Christian. So I thought about the scriptures and the words ...

3 Comments, 17 Views, 15 Votes ,0.99 Score
packersbrewersba 31 M
10  Articles
Building A Relationship Advice   16/10/2014

My Building A Relationship Advice To Anyone Here Who Reads This Is Go With The Flow And Let Nature Take Its Corse

3 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
lukman05 32 M
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11 Rules for Self-Promotion   28/6/2013

1.Add value: What separates you from everyone else who does what you do is the particular value you bring to your clients, customers, or users. The same applies to your marketing efforts — people tune out if you’re just blathering on about how great you are. Instead, apply your particular expertise in demonstrable ways — by adding insightful points to a discussion or blog post comments, by ...

2 Comments, 14 Views, 7 Votes ,0.75 Score
relationships..   17/12/2011

you can actually do without them. If you told men they could get laid until they are 70yrs old by good looking women they would never get married lol.

2 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
kevin2260 34 M
94  Articles
You Can Make A Diffrence   14/8/2008

by Dennis and Barbara Rainey June 11

You Can Make a Difference

Matthew 5:14, 16. You are the light of the world....Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.

One of God's primary purposes for your family is to be a light in a world of darkness. Did you know that an ordinary family can ...

2 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
aqien 33 M
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10 Tips for A More Intimate Relationship   22/1/2014

Generating goodwill creates the environment for a more intimate relationship. Gestures of goodwill are very powerful, and make each partner feel safe, respected and loved. Being able to appreciate the good qualities in your partner, and learning what they need to feel loved and appreciated help set the backdrop for nurturing goodwill.

Here are 10 ways to create more intimacy in your ...

0 Comments, 10 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
kevin2260 34 M
94  Articles
A Refiner's Fire   31/12/2007

A Refiner's Fire

Malachi 3:2 For he will be like a refiner's fire or a launderer's soap.

The Lord has a specific manner of preparing His people for useful service. God desires to turn His children from rough, hard-edged stones into gems of gold and silver.

He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver; He will purify the Levites and refine them like gold and ...

0 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
kevin2260 34 M
94  Articles
Fear & Grace   14/8/2008


Fear & Grace by Rick Warren

Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me all the days of my life, and I will live in the house of the Lord forever. Psalm 23:6 (NLT)

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God is watching over you.

When King David writes, “Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me, ” he’s not ...

1 Comments, 9 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
kevin2260 34 M
94  Articles
How To Instill Humility In Your Children   20/3/2008

How to Instill Humility in Your Children Pat Williams

Humility is one of the rarest of all the character traits--and the most desperately needed. Here are some ways we can encourage this character trait in our kids:

1. Teach your kids to be servants. Jesus repeatedly taught this lesson to His disciples: "Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, 'If anyone wants to be ...

1 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
kevin2260 34 M
94  Articles
Is Your Family Part Of God's Family?   31/12/2007

by Dennis and Barbara Rainey December 10

Is Your Family Part of God's Family?

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life.

Years ago our family went on a vacation to Yosemite National Park. As we walked among giant Sequoia trees, we found one that was particularly ...

0 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
spanish16 34 M
2  Articles
just be a gentleman   16/10/2014

My take on building a good relationship, is to just be a gentleman. Open doors, be nice, show respect, and mostly ensure you hold your woman up as your queen.

3 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
kevin2260 34 M
94  Articles
Fruitless Folly   31/12/2007

FRUITLESS FOLLY Voluntary Self-Extinction By Chuck Colson

For decades, British couples campaigned to have infertility treatments included among the treatments provided by the U.K.'s National Health Service. Even after the Service agreed to pay for treatments like in vitro fertilization, there remained a shortage of potential egg donors, so that many British couples had to go ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
packersbrewersba 31 M
10  Articles
Truly Building A Relationship   16/10/2014

Truly Building A Relationship Mean Taking Time To Get To Know You Other And Letting Nature Take Its Corse Or In Other Word Go With The Flow

1 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
kevin2260 34 M
94  Articles
Our Daily Homily   14/8/2008

Without the camp, in the midst whereof I dwell. - Numbers 5:3

What a sublime conception! - God dwelt with His people. The Tabernacle was His tent amongst theirs; the cloudy pillar was His ensign. To attack them was to come into collision with Him. All the expense and anxiety of the march rested on His shoulders, as the care of a family of young children on a father. How needful it was ...

1 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
spanish16 34 M
2  Articles
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder   16/10/2014

All women should realize they are all beautiful in their own way. And when that is not only realized by women and men, relationships would strive..

2 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
kevin2260 34 M
94  Articles
The Wisdom of waiting   20/3/2010

The wisdom of waiting

March 18, 2010

I will take my stand at my watchpost and station myself on the tower, and look out to see what he will say to me...

-- Habakkuk 2:1 There is a key password for connecting with God. The word is patience. If you and I want to move toward an enduring faith, it begins with patiently waiting on and listening to God. When we're impatient, ...

1 Comments, 4 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
kevin2260 34 M
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Our Daily Homily   3/4/2008

Pure olive oil beaten for the Light. - Exodus 27:20

The saintly McCheyne used to say, when urging his brother ministers to diligent preparation for the pulpit: "Beaten oil for the sanctuary.'' And he strove never to present to his people truth which had not been beaten out by careful devout meditation.

But there is yet another thought. That lamp in the Holy Place was an emblem ...

1 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
kevin2260 34 M
94  Articles
Obedience Brings Blessing   2/2/2010

Obedience Brings Blessing "Observe and hear all these words, which I command thee, that it may go well with thee, and with thy children after thee for ever, when thou doest that which is good and right in the sight of the LORD thy God" (Deuteronomy 12;2. Though salvation is not by the works of the law, yet the blessings which are promised to obedience are not denied to the faithful servants ...

1 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
kevin2260 34 M
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His immeasurable gifts   2/2/2010

His immeasurable gifts

February 1, 2010

... Yet in your case, beloved, we feel sure of better things–things that belong to salvation.

--Hebrews 6:9 Do you realize that there are things that come with salvation? That's exactly what today's verse says. There are things that "belong to" or accompany our salvation, things that help you and me grow into maturity. And ...

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