everyones worst nightmare!!!!!! 10/8/2007|
I've written a couple of articles in here and I have received
alot of negative feedback, especially when it pertains
to the "should I respond?" article. Why do we as a society
choose to be more animalistic instead of human when we hear,
see, or read things that we dont agree with. Its almost as
if people have nothing better to do than find reasons to
be sad or angry or even hateful. "The ...
1 Comments, 1836 Views,
The Trust Factor 10/8/2007|
Many people have a problem when it comes to the word trust.
Not without good reason, but fact is, there isnt anyone
out there that doesnt want to feel untrustworthy. To some
it can fell insulting. I know, alot of guys and gals out there
have ruined it for all the others that are actually trying
to build a solid friendship or relationship, but we should
not have to pay for their mistakes. ...
4 Comments, 490 Views,
The Real Deal 28/1/2006|
Lets get back to the basics.
When you are trying to start or get a relationship off the
ground. You need to be able to communicate.
Communication is the foundation from which all is built.
From friendship to love communication is everything.
If you are not willing to be open and truthful then your going
down a dead end street. You must be open and honest with your
1 Comments, 325 Views,
At times love does hurt 12/3/2013|
At times when you really care so much about someone, it could
give a heartburn.It is often when one's trust is betrayed, or
rather you trust someone , for with love comes trust.
1 Comments, 229 Views,
Why aren't there more African America Men on Friendfinder.com 3/6/2006|
There are some of us out here that prefer to date others outside
of our own race. I browse friendfinder regularly, however,
there's not very many African American men on friendfinder.com.
Just wondered if any of you know any eligible, nice, African-American
men between the ages of 45-53, please tell them about friendfinder.com.
Preferably in the North/Northeast Texas area. Thank you.
3 Comments, 208 Views,
When we wonder why we have not been able to build a solid relationship
with the opposite sex, to have and hold on to that special
someone that we all desperately desire, it leaves us wondering,
WHY???? Its very common, and your not alone. Think back
at all the good times you have shared, and then the bad. Then
look at the cause of the harsh times. Bet most of it was caused
by the inability ...
1 Comments, 191 Views,
The What If Game 10/8/2007|
Whens the last time you can remember when you felt out of
place, like not a living soul understands you, or every
wall around you is going to crash down and knock you flat
on the head?? Are these feelings real or just a vivid imagination?
If your honest about it, everyone at one point or another
has. If you prefer to lie or pretend it hasnt, theres a category
for you too, but even the most ...
1 Comments, 159 Views,
Superficial or not! 23/9/2007|
Maybe I, m out of line here, but it seems most people today
can only relate to others based on two major qualities.
Looks and money. Instead of being honest and open minded,
people look for that fashion queen model and the all mighty
buck, neglecting what they truly need. Is it sex, love,
a free meal ticket, marriage? Who the hell knows but what
is certain is that maybe relationships dont ...
3 Comments, 156 Views,
Why is it so complicated for a middle aged man to find a woman
in his own age group?? If someone has an answer, fill me in.
23 Comments, 153 Views,
Soul Mate ( Is there such a person?? YES ) 3/6/2006|
This is the big question, most often asked by all.
So for you to understand who or what a Soul Mate is I will take
you through some steps as I see it.
Friend: A person to whom you can talk and go do things with.
Not to be confused with a person that you just know. This
person is who you call when you need help. This is is the time
when you find out who your ...
6 Comments, 143 Views,
To search or not to search? 28/6/2012|
I have read many articles and responses here at Friendfinder.
Some say to get out there and meet new people, look for a new
relationship. Others say to basically give up and when
you least expect it they will find you. I have tried both
and have found that not looking works best for me. What works/has
worked best for you?
3 Comments, 112 Views,
Do you get that funny feeling when you hold hands or that
gentle touch.....WOW you know that old rush in you heart
Getting dizzy yet?.....LOL
Well it depends on your ability to relax and keep the world
out side. It will never die. You just have to let it in. I think
that there are some out there who believe that after a while
you lose something and ...
6 Comments, 109 Views,
Like Catching Flies With Chopsticks 9/8/2007|
Have you ever sat down with someone you really cared for,
and asked them something youve been wondering about, but
instead of answering you, their eyes get as large as the
runaway brides?Or they look like theyd rather be crossing
the freeway, at night, in heavy traffic....covered in
glo in the dark paint with a big smilie on them. Have to say,
Ive had people sweating worse then Boy George ...
2 Comments, 99 Views,
My Idea of Love... 28/11/2008|
Human emotions are one thing in life that
can that have the most control over us. They can make us do
things that would seem impossible to some, and make us feel
like we are on cloud 9 when we meet someone that we connect
with. Some call it love, but most often I find it should be
called “infatuation”, because love to me
is something that is built over time, and is ...
5 Comments, 94 Views,
I was just thinking of this, when looking for a partner does
external beauty matter(reasonably yes) or should it be
love and understanding that matter ......wish all do realize
that 'beauty is only skin deep'...one might choose
and marry the prettiest girl or the most handsome man but
in course of time God forbid if it results in that beauty
being destroyed or taken away...would one cease ...
3 Comments, 75 Views,
relationship on net 30/8/2008|
one question always in my mind , we easily call eachother
on net and leave .but in real how we do it .if we do in real ,
how we are people?
4 Comments, 73 Views,
A good relationship is worth taking your time. 9/10/2009|
Take your time, when building a relationship.
The way to build relationships, various by
culture. This makes doing it correctly even
more complex and my require even more patients.
Building a relationship is a "two way street".
If both parties are interested,
they can work together to overcome differences and build
a good relationship.
5 Comments, 64 Views,
How to love---without enought communication? 28/6/2012|
Meeting each other---holding my hands---saying loving
me--leaving my city.
Since leaving, seldom communication, no
sense no missing.Yes, busy---how can you
still love me?
We are human being, not like the animals
just only for the birth instinct, we need
thoughts exchange at the same time...
I wouldn't like to be an animal, how to
love---without enought communication? ...
0 Comments, 62 Views,
Relationship to Last 27/12/2012|
A successful relationship should be based on trust and
love. Without these no relationship would prosper. Always
express your love in words and actions, let it show. Always
be sensitive to the feelings of your partner. Most of all
put God at the center of your relationship, for sure it works.
1 Comments, 59 Views,
Expensive Toys 19/9/2006|
There was a young boy , who use to look at the
toys that neighboring boys use to play.His father was a
poor man.So , all he had was the sight of expensive toys.He
use to think when he'll be able to touch them at least.
Days passed and the boy grew into a fine man.He groomed himself
to attain a beautiful personality; because of his education
and personality he was able to get ...
2 Comments, 57 Views,
life is a mixture 13/6/2009|
life is a mixture of sunshine an rain laughter and pleasure
tears drops and pain so went the cloulds hide you are sun
and skies turn grey remember i am always there for you
1 Comments, 50 Views,
older articles 10/8/2007|
Normally I write whats generally on my mind at the time but
today I have a question. Is it just me or has anyone else noticed
older articles that were written just appear with a current
date? Ive seen a couple of mine pop up recently and was curious
as to why that is. The article The Trust Factor was written
over 3 years ago and "poof" there it is again.
If anyone has a clue, fill me in, ...
3 Comments, 48 Views,
The vanishing women 10/8/2007|
To those of you who are new or kinda sorta new, Id like to say
welcome, good luck with starting over, may you find the
person that makes ya feel like you can walk on water, and
all that stuff that makes ya giggle when ya rub your belly.
Lots of good people here, but also a quick warning to those
who fall for someone quickly. Be aware of some people that
are oversea, like Russia, Philipines, ...
1 Comments, 46 Views,
Should I respond?!?! 15/8/2007|
Picture it. Your sittting around bored out of your mind
when you think, Maybe Ill log on to this site and see whats
new or if I have any messages. Your there and when you look
at your messages you see you have 10 billion of them but one
in particular keeps sending you messages for some unknown
reason. Is this person a wierdo, freak, some kind of criminal
or maybe theyre after your dog to ...
2 Comments, 44 Views,
Wake -up humanity 30/8/2006|
It is almost 6 months on FF .Many friends are added on my list
each day.I have sweet and sour memories of chats.
Thousands of people are present in this world.You can praise
some, hate some and ignore some of them.
In this Jet-age we live; time is getting precious every
day, such a time should not be wasted in different arguments
If a person visits a room for ...
1 Comments, 41 Views,
POORMAN IN LOVE WITH A PRINCESS 16/12/2006|
She was beautiful, glorious, well bred and well mannered
and she has everything that she ever wished for in her life.She
was the daughter of the Richest man in the neighbourhood
if not in the whole country, and I heard he was so proud of
his beautiful daughter that he would boast and brag to his
workers in his shop that he would never let his young Princess
to get married to any man if he ...
1 Comments, 34 Views,
I can be lover romantic and 1/3/2011|
I am very man. sometimes I can be lover romantic and
sentimental. I like to communicate with all people and
to meet for new friends. I like sport and hunting every month in
the morning. I love in swim in sea as often as I can I am open,
mind i love to take care about my women I love to love and do surprises
for my women I am sure, you are like me as
you say ...
1 Comments, 32 Views,
Thou Shalt Not. Have you ever read the Ten Commandments 12/3/2013|
Thou Shalt Not. Have you ever read the Ten Commandments
and paused at the words, "Thou Shalt Not?"I
have read many an artical condemning Ministers for speaking
out against, sin, unrighteousness, life styles contrary
to the Commandments of God and Christ, and believe it or
not, these condemnations are coming not from the unsaved
but the Christian. So I thought about the scriptures and
the words ...
3 Comments, 17 Views,
Building A Relationship Advice 16/10/2014|
My Building A Relationship Advice To Anyone Here Who Reads
This Is Go With The Flow And Let Nature Take Its Corse
3 Comments, 16 Views,
11 Rules for Self-Promotion 28/6/2013|
1.Add value: What separates you from everyone else who
does what you do is the particular value you bring to your
clients, customers, or users. The same applies to your
marketing efforts — people tune out if you’re just
blathering on about how great you are. Instead, apply your
particular expertise in demonstrable ways — by adding
insightful points to a discussion or blog post comments,
2 Comments, 14 Views,
you can actually do without them. If you told men they could
get laid until they are 70yrs old by good looking women they
would never get married lol.
2 Comments, 11 Views,
You Can Make A Diffrence 14/8/2008|
by Dennis and Barbara Rainey June 11
You Can Make a Difference
Matthew 5:14, 16. You are the light of the world....Let your light shine before
men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify
your Father who is in heaven.
One of God's primary purposes for your family is to
be a light in a world of darkness. Did you know that an ordinary
family can ...
2 Comments, 11 Views,
A Refiner's Fire 31/12/2007|
A Refiner's Fire
Malachi 3:2 For he will be like a refiner's fire or a launderer's
The Lord has a specific manner of preparing His people for
useful service. God desires to turn His children from rough,
hard-edged stones into gems of gold and silver.
He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver; He will purify
the Levites and refine them like gold and ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
10 Tips for A More Intimate Relationship 22/1/2014|
Generating goodwill creates the environment for a more
intimate relationship. Gestures of goodwill are very
powerful, and make each partner feel safe, respected and
loved. Being able to appreciate the good qualities in your
partner, and learning what they need to feel loved and appreciated
help set the backdrop for nurturing goodwill.
Here are 10 ways to create more intimacy in your ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
Forgiveness and love 8/4/2011|
Does true love forgive? Yes it does
1 Comments, 9 Views,
Fear & Grace 14/8/2008|
Fear & Grace by Rick Warren
Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me
all the days of my life, and I will live in the house of the
Lord forever. Psalm 23:6 (NLT)
*** *** *** ***
God is watching over you.
When King David writes, “Surely your goodness and unfailing
love will pursue me, ” he’s not ...
1 Comments, 9 Views,
Money Equals Love 16/10/2014|
When we think of prosperity and of creating abundance,
it is easy enough to see how working at a job that we love helps
us to earn more money than if we worked at a job we hated. We
can see that if we add plenty of love and warm-fuzzies towards
how we treat our coworkers, bosses, employees, and customers,
then it makes sense that people will like doing business
with us and we will earn more ...
2 Comments, 8 Views,
how to love uncoditionally 8/4/2011|
Loving someone unconditionally requires a lot and this
is what we would be discussing here
1 Comments, 8 Views,
How To Instill Humility In Your Children 20/3/2008|
How to Instill Humility in Your Children Pat Williams
Humility is one of the rarest of all the character traits--and
the most desperately needed. Here are some ways we can encourage
this character trait in our kids:
1. Teach your kids to be servants. Jesus repeatedly taught
this lesson to His disciples: "Sitting down, Jesus
called the Twelve and said, 'If anyone wants to be ...
1 Comments, 8 Views,
Is Your Family Part Of God's Family? 31/12/2007|
by Dennis and Barbara Rainey December 10
Is Your Family Part of God's Family?
John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten
Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but
have eternal life.
Years ago our family went on a vacation to Yosemite National
Park. As we walked among giant Sequoia trees, we found one
that was particularly ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
Beyond Love 16/10/2014|
All you need is love. Love conquers all. Through love, all
things are possible. We are taught these concepts about
love. While it is true that love is an amazing and powerful
thing capable of incredible healing, motivation, and
miracles; a marriage needs more than that. If love were
really the only thing needed to sustain a long-term relationship,
then most marriages would never end in ...
1 Comments, 7 Views,
just be a gentleman 16/10/2014|
My take on building a good relationship, is to just be a gentleman.
Open doors, be nice, show respect, and mostly ensure you
hold your woman up as your queen.
3 Comments, 7 Views,
Fruitless Folly 31/12/2007|
FRUITLESS FOLLY Voluntary Self-Extinction By Chuck Colson
For decades, British couples campaigned to have infertility
treatments included among the treatments provided by
the U.K.'s National Health Service. Even after the
Service agreed to pay for treatments like in vitro fertilization,
there remained a shortage of potential egg donors, so that
many British couples had to go ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
Truly Building A Relationship 16/10/2014|
Truly Building A Relationship Mean Taking Time To Get To
Know You Other And Letting Nature Take Its Corse Or In Other
Word Go With The Flow
1 Comments, 6 Views,
My husband and I got married at eight in the morning. It was
winter, freezing, the trees encased in ice and a few lone
blackbirds balancing on telephone wires. We were in our
early 30s, considered ourselves hip and cynical, the types
who decried the institution of marriage even as we sought
its status. During our wedding brunch we put out a big suggestion
box and asked people to slip us advice on ...
1 Comments, 6 Views,
Our Daily Homily 14/8/2008|
Without the camp, in the midst whereof I dwell. - Numbers
What a sublime conception! - God dwelt with His people.
The Tabernacle was His tent amongst theirs; the cloudy
pillar was His ensign. To attack them was to come into collision
with Him. All the expense and anxiety of the march rested
on His shoulders, as the care of a family of young children
on a father. How needful it was ...
1 Comments, 6 Views,
The Freedom to Fall 16/10/2014|
So you want a soulmate do you? Okay not necessarily something
that big and cosmic but 'happily ever after' would
suffice just fine. Maybe you have somewhat of an idea the
type of person you are looking for and you want to place your
order with the cosmos - 'one true love meant for only
me, please and thank you.' Let me ask you this - are you
ready? Are you worthy? Do you have the freedom to ...
2 Comments, 5 Views,
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder 16/10/2014|
All women should realize they are all beautiful in their
own way. And when that is not only realized by women and men,
relationships would strive..
2 Comments, 5 Views,
Should You Forgive Infidelity? 13/8/2014|
If you are asking yourself that question, then somewhere
within you there must be a desire to forgive the other person.
After all, if you knew 100% for sure without doubts that
you definitely should NOT forgive, then you would not be
entertaining the question, right? You would have already
said your goodbyes and would be moving on with your new life
and licking your wounds. You may or may not ...
2 Comments, 4 Views,
The Wisdom of waiting 20/3/2010|
The wisdom of waiting
March 18, 2010
I will take my stand at my watchpost and station myself on
the tower, and look out to see what he will say to me...
-- Habakkuk 2:1 There is a key password for connecting with God. The word
is patience. If you and I want to move toward an enduring
faith, it begins with patiently waiting on and listening
to God. When we're impatient, ...
1 Comments, 4 Views,
Our Daily Homily 3/4/2008|
Pure olive oil beaten for the Light. - Exodus 27:20
The saintly McCheyne used to say, when urging his brother
ministers to diligent preparation for the pulpit: "Beaten
oil for the sanctuary.'' And he strove never to
present to his people truth which had not been beaten out
by careful devout meditation.
But there is yet another thought. That lamp in the Holy Place
was an emblem ...
1 Comments, 3 Views,
Obedience Brings Blessing 2/2/2010|
Obedience Brings Blessing "Observe and hear all these words, which I command
thee, that it may go well with thee, and with thy children
after thee for ever, when thou doest that which is good and
right in the sight of the LORD thy God" (Deuteronomy
12;2. Though salvation is not by the works of the law, yet the blessings
which are promised to obedience are not denied to the faithful
1 Comments, 2 Views,
His immeasurable gifts 2/2/2010
His immeasurable gifts
February 1, 2010
... Yet in your case, beloved, we feel sure of better things–things
that belong to salvation.
--Hebrews 6:9 Do you realize that there are things that come with salvation?
That's exactly what today's verse says. There
are things that "belong to" or accompany our
salvation, things that help you and me grow into maturity.
1 Comments, 2 Views,