Member Articles on Building a Relationship

Author Title Comments Views Votes Score Date

lomax32, 41 M

8/10/2007 4:00 pm
11 Articles, Score 0.0
everyones worst nightmare!!!!!!
I've written a couple of articles in here and I have received alot of negative feedback, especially when it pertains to the "should I respond?" article. Why do we as a society choose to be more ...
0    1836    35    6.94    8/10/2007 4:00 pm   

lomax32, 41 M

8/10/2007 3:59 pm
11 Articles, Score 0.0
The Trust Factor
Many people have a problem when it comes to the word trust. Not without good reason, but fact is, there isnt anyone out there that doesnt want to feel untrustworthy. To some it can fell insulting. ...
0    490    47    6.61    8/10/2007 3:59 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

1/28/2006 9:55 am
35 Articles, Score 0.0
The Real Deal
Lets get back to the basics. When you are trying to start or get a relationship off the ground. You need to be able to communicate. Communication is the foundation from which all ...
0    325    33    4.43    1/28/2006 9:55 am   

sweet101ashley, 40 F

4/21/2013 8:50 am
6 Articles, Score 0.0
Heart Thoughts
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. <br> Don’t go for wealth; even that ...
5    229    27    3.24    4/21/2013 8:50 am   

Precieuse27, 35 F

3/12/2013 6:40 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
At times love does hurt
At times when you really care so much about someone, it could give a heartburn.It is often when one's trust is betrayed, or rather you trust someone , for with love comes trust. ...
2    229    28    4.58    3/12/2013 6:40 am   

bassam1951, 58 M

5/5/2005 1:25 pm
32 Articles, Score 0.0
Chemistry
SEXUAL CHEMISTRY. <br> Ultimately, SEXUAL CHEMISTRY is all that matters at the beginning of every possible relationship. If you don't have it, you can stop thinking about a second or ...
0    210    16    0.19    5/5/2005 1:25 pm   

TLCUME, 53 F

6/3/2006 3:15 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Why aren't there more African America Men on Friendfinder.com
There are some of us out here that prefer to date others outside of our own race. I browse friendfinder regularly, however, there's not very many African American men on friendfinder.com. Just ...
0    208    24    5.86    6/3/2006 3:15 am   

lomax32, 41 M

8/11/2007 6:03 am
11 Articles, Score 0.0
Why?????
When we wonder why we have not been able to build a solid relationship with the opposite sex, to have and hold on to that special someone that we all desperately desire, it leaves us wondering, ...
0    191    66    7.56    8/11/2007 6:03 am   

bassam1951, 58 M

5/25/2005 5:38 pm
32 Articles, Score 0.0
Does men drive women crazy???????
Admit it. Men drive you crazy. Some in a good way. Some in a really bad way. <br> If a man drives you crazy in a good way, he’s likely the love of your life–or the man of ...
0    180    17    1.85    5/25/2005 5:38 pm   

bassam1951, 58 M

4/23/2005 9:08 am
32 Articles, Score 0.0
Alphabetical Advise
just to share ..after reading somewhere : A Always be honest, would you want THEM to lie to you? B Be there when they need you, or you may wind up alone. C Cheer them on, we all ...
1    173    31    1.80    4/23/2005 9:08 am   

lomax32, 41 M

8/10/2007 3:54 pm
11 Articles, Score 0.0
The What If Game
Whens the last time you can remember when you felt out of place, like not a living soul understands you, or every wall around you is going to crash down and knock you flat on the head?? Are these ...
0    159    8    3.94    8/10/2007 3:54 pm   

lomax32, 41 M

9/23/2007 9:48 am
11 Articles, Score 0.0
Superficial or not!
Maybe I, m out of line here, but it seems most people today can only relate to others based on two major qualities. Looks and money. Instead of being honest and open minded, people look for that ...
1    156    40    7.71    9/23/2007 9:48 am   

lomax32, 41 M

11/23/2007 6:15 pm
11 Articles, Score 0.0
question
Why is it so complicated for a middle aged man to find a woman in his own age group?? If someone has an answer, fill me ...
6    153    33    2.32    11/23/2007 6:15 pm   

krissyoopies, 34 F

7/22/2005 10:57 pm
5 Articles, Score 0.0
Be the right person
Don't expect for the "right person"; be the right person. Don't expect so much from a relationship, much more on your partner; instead work your way out on how to rightly build and sustain that ...
0    150    10    3.98    7/22/2005 10:57 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

6/3/2006 1:14 am
35 Articles, Score 0.0
Soul Mate ( Is there such a person?? YES )
This is the big question, most often asked by all. <br> So for you to understand who or what a Soul Mate is I will take you through some steps as I see it. <br> Friend: A ...
1    143    10    3.39    6/3/2006 1:14 am   

ketch54, 51 M

2/17/2005 2:37 am
35 Articles, Score 0.0
The Start Part 3 The Other Person
Well The Start Has three parts: <br> 1) Communication 2) True to yourself <br> Now its about the Other Person, This is very hard and takes a lot of effort to figure out. ...
1    139    12    2.09    2/17/2005 2:37 am   

helenead, 66 F

5/11/2006 1:35 pm
26 Articles, Score 0.0
ON WEDLOCK...........DO YOU AGREE?
TO WED OR NOT TO WED?

Right from Adam; right from eve, Man and woman lay side by side. Neither of them felt need to leave When in freedom, they could abide!
Right from ...
5    138    19    1.81    5/11/2006 1:35 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

3/3/2005 4:45 pm
35 Articles, Score 0.0
Third Step (Love or Sex)
This seems to be a question of deep thought by some of the people who actually read what I write. <br> I can only speak of my life and what I know and feel. So I will do my best to tell ...
0    137    11    4.10    3/3/2005 4:45 pm   

bassam1951, 58 M

5/20/2005 7:45 pm
32 Articles, Score 0.0
I'm Sorry
When you make a mistake that hurts someone else, always say you're sorry. But just because you've heard it, doesn't mean that it's true. In fact, consistently apologising makes most ...
2    136    19    0.09    5/20/2005 7:45 pm   

krissyoopies, 34 F

6/14/2005 3:33 pm
5 Articles, Score 0.0
let them be
the beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves and not twist them with our own image; otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves with find in ...
0    130    8    3.48    6/14/2005 3:33 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

2/9/2005 7:03 pm
35 Articles, Score 0.0
Second Step Part 3 (Are You Ready for Love)
SO are you ready for love? <br> Well lets see......Do you know what love really is and what it intails. <br> There is three types of love as far as I think...which is why I ...
1    127    11    3.54    2/9/2005 7:03 pm   

bassam1951, 58 M

4/23/2005 12:37 pm
32 Articles, Score 0.0
Life is a reflection
A son and his father were walking on the mountains. Suddenly, his son falls, hurts himself and screams: <br> “AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!!!” <br> To his surprise, he hears ...
0    117    13    0.96    4/23/2005 12:37 pm   

geekiegirl, 101 F

10/20/2007 4:30 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Moving in with an Ex FWB (Friends with Benefits)
Friends with Benefits seem to be a hot topic for discussion in the Friend Finder community and as some one who recently "broke" up and experienced the ultimate rejection, a non-committal friend, I am ...
8    113    45    1.48    10/20/2007 4:30 pm   

Sweetnsassygurl, 46 F

6/28/2012 11:48 pm
10 Articles, Score 0.0
To search or not to search?
I have read many articles and responses here at Friendfinder. Some say to get out there and meet new people, look for a new relationship. Others say to basically give up and when you least ...
1    112    15    3.44    6/28/2012 11:48 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

5/14/2010 7:25 am
35 Articles, Score 0.0
Feelings
Do you get that funny feeling when you hold hands or that gentle touch.....WOW you know that old rush in you heart and head. <br> Getting dizzy yet?.....LOL <br> Well it ...
1    109    27    1.56    5/14/2010 7:25 am   

lomax32, 41 M

8/9/2007 10:40 pm
11 Articles, Score 0.0
Like Catching Flies With Chopsticks
Have you ever sat down with someone you really cared for, and asked them something youve been wondering about, but instead of answering you, their eyes get as large as the runaway brides?Or they ...
0    99    15    3.90    8/9/2007 10:40 pm   

eimee, 31 F

6/28/2012 11:45 pm
23 Articles, Score 0.0
DEADLY MISTAKES
3 Deadly Mistakes Women Make With Men Without eVER Realizing

MISTAKE 1: Leading a man to think you are "NEEDY" and "INSECURE." sADLY even confident women ...
1    98    14    3.46    6/28/2012 11:45 pm   

angelkai, 24 F

6/28/2012 11:44 pm
4 Articles, Score 0.0
A smile & A Hug make the life
A smile A hug A kiss on the cheek One look at you makes my knees go weak A smile A hug your warm embrace One look at you and I am rocketed into outer space A smile A hug ...
4    97    16    3.27    6/28/2012 11:44 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

2/27/2005 12:14 am
35 Articles, Score 0.0
Thank You
I just want to take a min., and say thanks for reading my articles and I hope that y, all got some thing from them. <br> I say the things I feel and what I think, right or wrong. after ...
0    97    12    1.92    2/27/2005 12:14 am   

Smalltown_Guy2, 36 M

11/28/2008 12:28 pm
3 Articles, Score 0.0
My Idea of Love...
Human emotions are one thing in life that can that have the most control over us. They can make us do things that would seem impossible to some, and make us feel like we are on cloud ...
3    94    54    2.47    11/28/2008 12:28 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

5/25/2005 8:13 am
35 Articles, Score 0.0
Just Take My Hand!
"Just take my hand and dont say a word" This is what I have said. <br> I do this to get to know a person that I am really interested in. When I am considering moving the relationship ...
0    93    12    4.21    5/25/2005 8:13 am   

ruggedntenderaty, 64 M

7/6/2005 7:22 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
Building from the first e-mail.
I think some kind of realationship starts with the first word. I think we may then move forward, apart, or maybe in some cases deciede to try to be friends etc. Perhaps we should call all these ...
0    90    3    0.98    7/6/2005 7:22 am   

faith_builder, 22 F

6/28/2012 11:49 pm
5 Articles, Score 0.0
VALUE
Value the people who have touched your life cause you will never know just when they will walk out of your life and never come back again... <br> We live life ...
1    86    23    3.48    6/28/2012 11:49 pm   

helenead, 66 F

7/12/2006 3:10 pm
26 Articles, Score 0.0
WHOEVER YOU ARE - THANK YOU - FOR YOU SUPPORT, KINDNESS AND APPRECIATION!
FOR ALL THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN SUPPORTIVE OF MY IDEAS.............
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart for being a supportive friend!
When I keep thinking of the 'FAMILY OF ...
3    86    21    2.01    7/12/2006 3:10 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

7/3/2005 3:31 pm
35 Articles, Score 0.0
Just a Moment
Oh Nice stretch.... a little yawn then you roll over. Gently move her hair to off her face...She is sleeping. <br> After a moment of a deep smile adn taking in the moment you ease out of ...
0    82    8    3.94    7/3/2005 3:31 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

1/13/2006 12:22 pm
35 Articles, Score 0.0
What Your Looking For
I really think that if your on the market so to speak, that you should know what your looking for and expecting in a relationship. It is to easy to give mixed signals and start playing a ...
0    81    5    4.12    1/13/2006 12:22 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

2/25/2005 11:03 am
35 Articles, Score 0.0
Second Step Part 1 (How do You see it)
These things which I speak of is only how I feel and the way I see things. <br> A relationship is a very important thing ( at least to me ). <br> I am not nor have I ever ...
2    77    3    1.47    2/25/2005 11:03 am   

haughty, 41 F

3/11/2007 8:09 pm
7 Articles, Score 0.0
BEAUTY(EXTERNAL/INTERNAL)
I was just thinking of this, when looking for a partner does external beauty matter(reasonably yes) or should it be love and understanding that matter ......wish all do realize that 'beauty is ...
0    75    6    3.37    3/11/2007 8:09 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

3/17/2005 4:06 pm
35 Articles, Score 0.0
Third Step Final (comittment)
If you find some one who is special and you cant stop thinking about them then jump in with both feet. Give all you have, ( I dont mean Half Ass ) and you and only you can do this. Do it RIGHT. ...
0    74    13    3.31    3/17/2005 4:06 pm   

angelina_1980, 32 F

8/30/2008 12:45 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
relationship on net
one question always in my mind , we easily call eachother on net and leave .but in real how we do it .if we do in real , how we are ...
2    73    22    0.96    8/30/2008 12:45 am   

bassam1951, 58 M

5/20/2005 7:54 pm
32 Articles, Score 0.0
Friends to lovers: Crossing the line
An article I have read written by Maryann Hammers , and liked to share <br> <br> <br> ********************** <br> <br> <br> ...
1    69    9    0.86    5/20/2005 7:54 pm   

terryaki, 56 M

10/9/2009 8:57 pm
10 Articles, Score 0.0
A good relationship is worth taking your time.
Take your time, when building a relationship. The way to build relationships, various by culture. This makes doing it correctly even more complex and my require even more patients. ...
0    64    19    2.86    10/9/2009 8:57 pm   

haughty, 41 F

10/26/2005 1:26 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
Meet to part!!
Were lovely days with great joy! Yet we part for you're to go. <br> Treasure though I'll all memories, of your presence in my life, of your laughter and every cheer, of those tears ...
0    64    5    2.82    10/26/2005 1:26 am   

ketch54, 51 M

2/5/2005 10:31 pm
35 Articles, Score 0.0
Second Step Part 2 ( Time and Meaning)
When you have made up your mind on who you really are and the type of person you want to be then we all can move forward. <br> When entering a relationship it takes great pain and effort ...
1    63    5    2.49    2/5/2005 10:31 pm   

thefirstray, 40 F

6/28/2012 11:46 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
How to love---without enought communication?
Meeting each other---holding my hands---saying loving me--leaving my city. Since leaving, seldom communication, no sense no missing.Yes, busy---how can you still love me? We are human ...
1    60    4    2.86    6/28/2012 11:46 pm   

epal2006, 40 M

1/30/2007 1:36 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Ideal Life Partner Is It Possible?
The Ideal Man of / for a Woman The Ideal Woman of / for a Man
These are two different aspects !Because What a Person expects and Deserves are most of the times two ...
0    59    6    3.37    1/30/2007 1:36 am   

odette317, 49 F

12/27/2012 5:06 am
20 Articles, Score 0.0
Relationship to Last
A successful relationship should be based on trust and love. Without these no relationship would prosper. Always express your love in words and actions, let it show. Always be sensitive to the ...
2    57    8    2.09    12/27/2012 5:06 am   

SONU965, 44 M

9/19/2006 5:52 am
10 Articles, Score 0.0
Expensive Toys
There was a young boy , who use to look at the toys that neighboring boys use to play.His father was a poor man.So , all he had was the sight of expensive toys.He use to think when ...
1    57    15    2.98    9/19/2006 5:52 am   

algecira, 46 F

6/28/2012 11:43 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
A Relationsip on Cyberspace...why not?
Why we go to Friend's sites...Yes it's obvious, because we are alone and are looking for our "special person".
Here in Mexico to be divorced is considered a "Failure" in our ...
3    54    20    3.51    6/28/2012 11:43 pm   

ketch54, 51 M

2/20/2005 11:32 pm
35 Articles, Score 0.0
The Start
I read some of these letters and I dont know what some people think about how life really works. I by all means do Not Have The Right Answer or Advice. But I think the forum is really cool and a ...
0    54    6    3.08    2/20/2005 11:32 pm   

GLORIA21984, 27 F

6/3/2011 3:42 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
ALWAYS MANS CLEATE PROBLEM TO ME
Hi,

Jamani, always mens cleate problem to me. Once I tried to date with boys are always cheating me.

You as my friends would you advice me what to do?

Hope to hear from ...
4    50    39    0.79    6/3/2011 3:42 am   

sandy1962, 49 F

6/13/2009 9:40 pm
4 Articles, Score 0.0
life is a mixture
life is a mixture of sunshine an rain laughter and pleasure tears drops and pain so went the cloulds hide you are sun and skies turn grey ...
0    50    2    2.42    6/13/2009 9:40 pm   

lomax32, 41 M

8/10/2007 3:50 pm
11 Articles, Score 0.0
older articles
Normally I write whats generally on my mind at the time but today I have a question. Is it just me or has anyone else noticed older articles that were written just appear with a current date? Ive ...
1    48    5    3.80    8/10/2007 3:50 pm   

lomax32, 41 M

8/10/2007 3:52 pm
11 Articles, Score 0.0
The vanishing women
To those of you who are new or kinda sorta new, Id like to say welcome, good luck with starting over, may you find the person that makes ya feel like you can walk on water, and all that stuff that ...
0    46    6    5.36    8/10/2007 3:52 pm   

lomax32, 41 M

8/15/2007 7:56 pm
11 Articles, Score 0.0
Should I respond?!?!
Picture it. Your sittting around bored out of your mind when you think, Maybe Ill log on to this site and see whats new or if I have any messages. Your there and when you look at your messages you ...
0    44    26    6.91    8/15/2007 7:56 pm   

SONU965, 44 M

8/30/2006 5:23 am
10 Articles, Score 0.0
Wake -up humanity
It is almost 6 months on FF .Many friends are added on my list each day.I have sweet and sour memories of chats. Thousands of people are present in this world.You can praise some, hate some ...
1    41    6    1.94    8/30/2006 5:23 am   

Artical2006, 35 M

12/16/2006 9:27 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
POORMAN IN LOVE WITH A PRINCESS
She was beautiful, glorious, well bred and well mannered and she has everything that she ever wished for in her life.She was the daughter of the Richest man in the neighbourhood if not in the ...
0    34    4    3.63    12/16/2006 9:27 am   

ibrahim0202, 29 M

8/21/2008 12:34 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
love_christian2000
well i am 25 year old from pakistan but actully i love christian all over the world and it remain my last wish in this world to be live and love christian 4ever but unfortunitly i cant found any ...
1    33    3    0.98    8/21/2008 12:34 pm   

makram55, 53 M

3/1/2011 2:13 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
I can be lover romantic and
I am very man. sometimes I can be lover romantic and sentimental. I like to communicate with all people and to meet for new friends. I like sport and hunting every month in the morning. I ...
0    32    2    1.04    3/1/2011 2:13 am   

LIVING_LARGO, 23 F

11/4/2007 10:30 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
how it all starts
there is love in the world but it just doesn't fall from mars... it begins with friendship and grows into a tie that binds us to each other. the little things we do together make worthwhile memories ...
1    29    6    1.37    11/4/2007 10:30 am   

goody986, 23 F

1/22/2008 7:17 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
to be a good friend
once a very long time ago in fiji a girl names ashly was known as the best friend. she was so determined to be a good friend that she loosed all her self confident. she, herself become unsure of ...
0    25    6    2.80    1/22/2008 7:17 am   

Cy83rDra90n, 27 M

9/27/2011 6:28 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
I Want To Have A Polyamory Love Relationship, But I Lack Sex Experience. (Virgin Asian Girl Needed)
If I Had Known Of This Love Relationship In The 1st Place, I Would Have Lost My Virginity A Long Time Ago! I Was Always Afraid Of Love Relationships, Because I Have Seen It Start And End All the ...
1    23    0    0.00    9/27/2011 6:28 am   

mgje, 22 F

6/28/2012 11:38 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Having a Strong Relationship
A lot do ask themselves how can they maintain or have the strong even not perfect relationship..Well, all people do want that..who doesn't anyway..people do want to be loved and they ...
3    22    9    2.57    6/28/2012 11:38 pm   

sudarsangopi, 32 M

9/3/2009 11:21 pm
8 Articles, Score 0.0
Who Are You?
You are soul. You are my life. When you are with me a am happy. When you are with me I feel the peace in my mind. You are wiping the tears of patients. You are the soul of world. ...
2    22    11    2.42    9/3/2009 11:21 pm   

stivecool, 23 M

7/11/2012 8:04 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
i, man, single parent.add me pls
hello all, i'm single from indonesia. add me ...
1    21    11    0.00    7/11/2012 8:04 pm   

sunniclove, 25 M

10/22/2008 3:01 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
BEAUTIFUL LOVE.
Foturnately I am happy to saw And go round your profile Nicen Simple Girl meaning that I really like your words and your image. well i want to outline that marriage is a life time forever in my ...
1    21    7    0.75    10/22/2008 3:01 pm   

haughty, 41 F

10/30/2005 1:57 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
Just love!!
Looking forward to be loved..........!! Hoping & praying my love is all you'll ever want. Coz, your love is all that will ever matter to me. Wealth and treasure mean nothing at all. Coz, ...
0    21    2    2.42    10/30/2005 1:57 am   

haughty, 41 F

10/26/2005 1:39 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
Just want you to know!! Coz I love you!!
I'll be your shadow on a bright day I'll be the moon when the nights so dark I'll share all warmth on a cold night I'll be the one you can pour your heart out to I'll be the reason you'll ...
0    19    2    3.12    10/26/2005 1:39 am   

pargaulan, 24 M

10/12/2011 11:19 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
get married get divorced
whether marriage is a sacred thing? so why do so many people want to get married get ...
1    18    7    0.00    10/12/2011 11:19 am   

makram55, 53 M

3/12/2013 1:19 pm
4 Articles, Score 0.0
Thou Shalt Not. Have you ever read the Ten Commandments
Thou Shalt Not. Have you ever read the Ten Commandments and paused at the words, "Thou Shalt Not?"I have read many an artical condemning Ministers for speaking out against, sin, unrighteousness, life ...
3    16    10    1.19    3/12/2013 1:19 pm   

Roberto_Falcao, 57 M

1/16/2011 10:40 pm
8 Articles, Score 0.0
Basically, respect whom you are with
Be on time.
Take a shower before meeting him / her. Ditto re brushing your teeth.
Try to be yourself, and at the same time, put your best foot forward. If I can do it, so ...
0    15    2    3.81    1/16/2011 10:40 pm   

haughty, 41 F

10/26/2005 1:37 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
Friendship
Friendship a treasure worth more than all. Meant for in pleasure even in the darkest on. <br> <br> Friends to be forever Promises share and cherish ever Shower all ...
0    15    1    2.40    10/26/2005 1:37 am   

lukman05, 32 M

3/12/2013 6:39 am
16 Articles, Score 0.0
11 Rules for Self-Promotion
1.Add value: What separates you from everyone else who does what you do is the particular value you bring to your clients, customers, or users. The same applies to your marketing efforts — people ...
2    12    4    1.30    3/12/2013 6:39 am   

sudarsangopi, 32 M

9/3/2009 11:14 pm
8 Articles, Score 0.0
Loosing of relations!
Loosing of relations are heart brocken. It breaking our hearts. ...
1    12    2    3.81    9/3/2009 11:14 pm   

tomy1305, 48 M

4/8/2011 4:18 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
Forgiveness and love
Does true love forgive? Yes it ...
1    9    0    0.00    4/8/2011 4:18 am   

tomy1305, 48 M

4/8/2011 4:08 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
how to love uncoditionally
Loving someone unconditionally requires a lot and this is what we would be discussing ...
1    8    5    1.84    4/8/2011 4:08 am