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evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Just Denie   4/15/2005

if your lover or partner ask one of these things , just DENIE. <br> 1.To leave your best friend some times your boy friend / girl friend ask to stay with him/her & dont go out with friends is fine but if he/she want you to leave your best friend its better to breakup. <br> 2.Barrier to your job example:if he/she force you to clubbing at thursday nite but u will get ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
BELIEVE IN LOVE   4/15/2005

Love is mistery but Beautiful in this life.Believe, Love never will be hurt you.If loves make you suffer in phisical & emotional, Just believe thas not something we can call LOVE!


0 Comments, 138 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
danger4 61 F
5  Articles
Is it possible to build a relationship with someone who wants and you don't   4/14/2005

Just as the title says "Is it possible to build a relationship with a man who wants and you don't". It is possible for him to fall in love with you and give up on the idea of having or should you walk away and give him the chance to find the woman he is looking for. Yes I do love him but I've had two sets of and I don't want anymore. I want to be with him but with him and not with . ...


1 Comments, 185 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Lady5565 64 F
1  Article
Is it love or lust?   4/11/2005

I know many people who believe in "love at first sight. " Many of these individuals will also add that they had married their date soon after they met. A great majority of these stories do not have a happy ending. They either lived together for a number of years, and separate-- or they marry, only to divorce years later after having a family. Why is this so? <br> One ...


0 Comments, 387 Views, 28 Votes ,5.60 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Keep In Touch!   4/6/2005

People needs to do something to others & keep in touch.its like say hallo to others, make toss toward each other, shake hand, shoulder touching & smile.to keep in touch is important part of human experience.so keep in TOUCH then!...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
What women HATE ( 2 )   4/6/2005

7.Full of jewelry a guy will scare to a women with full of jewelry on his body <br> 8.Big stomach/Love handle infact that women will walk away when seeing to a mans lovehandle up & down when talk /do conversation each other <br> 9. Dandruff its very bothering to a girl when talking toward each other but the guy busy with his hair because the dandruff. ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
What women HATE   4/6/2005

1.Hairy every where i agre thet be hairy is indentity of macho man.but most of womens does not like if a man hairy alot in his nose & ears <br> 2.Jeweler infact women does not like if a man using alot jewelery, like 3 nectlsce, 4 bracelets, many rings & earings, because a man look like JEWELER. <br> 3.Smell a women wont comfotable talk to a guy who has smell ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
4 THINGS perhaps makes a man 'Jealous' to a women   4/3/2005

1.women always acceptable to express in what ever their feeling openly.but if a guy do the same thing then many people will think /say that man is so weak, fragile, sensitive or crybaby. man is cool & macho when ever women waching action movie, but a man is weak, not cool if enjoy a romantic movie. <br> 2.women is fine to using a trosers but not acceptable to a man using a ...


1 Comments, 142 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
danger4 61 F
5  Articles
Is It Possible to Build a Relationship or Do we Just Let it Happen   3/31/2005

How is it possible to build a relationship when only one person is willing to work at it. We all keep hoping for the perfect relationship but does it exist or is it only in the eyes of God. We love the individual and we do all we can to make that person happy but do we really know what they're doing. Are they working to build the same type of relationship or do they have their own hidden ...


2 Comments, 220 Views, 21 Votes ,3.00 Score
WyzrdX 51 M
1  Article
Is it meant to be........?   3/27/2005

In 1990 I lost my life. I had loved a girl since Jr. High and had never told her but from the way she acted I just thought she knew. When she left Waller, TX and went to Missouri she took my heart with her. In all of my relationships since I have looked for her and failed miserablly. I have recently aquired her address and I want to write her or call, but I am much to scared to. One time I ...


0 Comments, 95 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Body Dysmorphic Disorder   3/26/2005

If some one be very obsession with unsatisfy of their own body, hate very much at their self, its called 'BODY DYSMOPHIC DISORDER'.so they are do overact to their hair style, body surgery etc.to handle their unsatisfy on their body. theres some people use many jewellry, cosmetic/makeup, clothes , etc very over to coverage their unconfidence feeling of their body. these are the beggining ...


0 Comments, 120 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
IvaLynn 54 F
22  Articles
good lovers are hard to fine   3/25/2005

always be honest to the person that you love and be clear and let them know what your looking for.don't be scare to let each other know how you feel.


1 Comments, 85 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Be Independent Women   3/20/2005

Theres nothing wrong to be independent women, the important is get Success in two side of life, its career & love. The more we get ballance, the better we get.just make our lifed ballance. But infact some people said that theres some guys avoid to Independent women because of some reason.Example, man does not fit/suitable & lack of confidence with an independent women who more success & ...


1 Comments, 57 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
Sandra_LM2 68 F
16  Articles
Do you think people jump into net realtionships too fast from loneliness?   3/18/2005

I hear so many people move in together only after a couple of 2 week visits. I even knew one woman who married the man she met on net on the first meeting. I have talked to others that talked about marriage and they had just met. Sure sounds like loneliness to me. Where did the days go that you built a relationship first?


3 Comments, 162 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
keg9632 61 M
5  Articles
Compatibility   3/17/2005

One of the things that make up a good relationship is compatibility, the ability to have things in common, this is part of mental awareness and causes short term relationships to breakup. 3 months and you should be able to tell whether or not it is a good or bad relationship. Being committed to a long term relationship is the basis of growth in finding things in common and bad things in ...


1 Comments, 121 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
keg9632 61 M
5  Articles
Adult play   3/15/2005

This is not some cheap lusting game. It is a game to find out compatibility and limits to a persons sense of humor. Toying around with outrageous play. This is a good ice breaker in building a relationship. Its on the verge of sensuality without being dirty. I used on a girl in South America at the end of our conversation she said without even seeing my photo, that I was a great man and ...


0 Comments, 156 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
ultraprincess 53 F
8  Articles
online relationships   3/14/2005

Though many people think that forming a relationship online is harder than offline, to me its the most natural thing that can happen. <br> <br> Online, often, people talk more freely about various subjects, perhaps this is so because we feel more secured. <br> <br> After a few emails to each other, we probably move on to an Instant ...


5 Comments, 332 Views, 15 Votes ,2.52 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
LOVE YOUR SELF   3/12/2005

If love make us suffer thats not love exactly.because love should be bring us be happy & fullof laugh in the life. We are precious & deserve to treat with good/nice of our lover/partner/wife/husband.its true that love must be accepted each other as the way we / they are.But to love somebody means keep be happy.so we have to love our self , respect ourself first.if we are not be happy in ...


2 Comments, 295 Views, 25 Votes ,4.46 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
THE SURENDERED   3/10/2005

People always want their relationship will be survive by surendered , but its not come from women only.it take two to make it work. so lets get knowing each other about the hope of relationship, if theres any problem just discuss it & keep cool.Be honest each other about truly feelings inside.& willing to appreciate & respect each other. Do commitment to change 0f pace, adaptability on ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
The Surendered   3/10/2005

People always want their relationship will be survive but surendered not come from a women only.but it take two to make it work. lets get knowing each other about the hope in the relationship.If theres any problem happened just discuss it & keep cool.Be honest each otehr about what the feelings inside, & willing to appreciate & respect ecah other.


0 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
timthetoolman69 38 M
1  Article
being yourself   3/8/2005

I belive in being youself but how come it sometimes never works when trying to meet woman?


1 Comments, 68 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
39  Articles
List Of Shyness Situations Part I   3/8/2005

List Of Shyness Situations ________________________________________________ <br> *-|||-Conversing with a close relative <br> *-|||-Calling information and asking the operator for a telephone number <br> *-|||-Calling a local store and asking about the price and availability of an item you want to buy. <br> *-|||-Asking a clerk in a store ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Never Say Giveup!   3/5/2005

I have ever been date with 5 mans in a month last year.but i cant believe no one work out i know no body is perfect but it does not mean we deserve to be suffering then.i m failed with those date as these reason as the below: <br> 1.date with the first guy not work out because he does not interested in marriage & he does not want to have a . 2.the 2nd man not work out as too ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
4 Sign that Best Friend Wanna be Boyfriend   3/4/2005

1.Be protective. Example.if he offering to pick you up at the office & want to go home together, it mostly mean that he has special feeling. <br> 2.Stop asking Opinion If a man fall in love to a women he does not want to showed that he is need opinion from the girl who his interested with. <br> 3.Do Criticize give remarks & critics to a man who ever had adate with ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
10 Things U can Do To Make U Go-Go ( 1st )   3/4/2005

If u wanna do for something new pls, try these are; <br> 1.Dont be late come to office/work 2.Take a time with family 3.Find the right man/women 4.Dont spend some money for the things u dont need to.but it would be nice just go to book store. 5.Eat more vegetables 6.Get a better job with a better salary & a better opportunity. 7.Return to the college/campus 8.Get ...


0 Comments, 93 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
keg9632 61 M
5  Articles
with mental awareness and body language   3/3/2005

So there is no deception share with your mate about mental awareness and body language. <br> This is no trick it is real, no joke... They both work together for harmony. Manners are a big part of the whole relationship. One action creates an opposite but equal reaction. Patience is another part of the relationship. Give a relationship 3 months before asking where you stand, ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Match Maker   2/25/2005

I belive that every one has their match in this life.I think its fine using a match maker to meet special one now days.its because people has limited in their time, confidence, cultur, etc to build a special relationship .the match maker could be in the internet, newpaper, magazine, or friends & relatives.some one must be trying it first to get know it is good & effective or not for them.


1 Comments, 105 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
sleekly 43 F
43  Articles
being, content, applied Bliss   2/21/2005

Being friends is a good start to a stable and functioning relationship. Patience comes with time as you learn to balance your needs and wants together. Respect is a formadable ally, its the true test of you acceptance and tollerance. It will empower you more than ever to overcome the slightest hurddle or the biggest challenge. There are no magic words or secret potions, it all depends on ...


0 Comments, 207 Views, 19 Votes ,6.16 Score
mav4 55 M
1  Article
Always be true and dont lie you will get caught   2/18/2005

When finding a match you need to be truthful. A lie will carry on forever and may never be recoverable. You have to remember all anyone knows of you is what you type. There will always be another who knows you and the person you are getting involved with. In conclusion tell the truth as they say it might just set you free.


1 Comments, 117 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
In Love In The Internet   2/16/2005

Every one have right to fall in love but many people said thant in love & do love in the Net not gonna workout & its just like a dream.its really wrong if some one think that they are already know about everytings each other by online only before meet & talk each other directly, face to face in regularly.because love begin when meet each other.i think maybe it is true or maybe...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
kitty244 38 F
16  Articles
experiance new things together   2/15/2005

when i first starting dating the love of my life, i didnt know what to expect. i had never really even dated before him. i was married for 9 years and i have two beautiful . i didnt know that there was actually life after divorce. being use to what one person likes is the only thing i had known for 9 years. the first couple of meetings with my new bf scared the daylights outta me. i had ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
sureshh1 46 F
10  Articles
The Magic of First Love   2/10/2005

There is no sweeter feeling than falling in love for the first time. It is just like putting into life the saying that "when a person is in love, he sees the world in a pink spectrum." <br> Falling in love for the first time is like living in a fairy tale world. Everything seems perfect and positive. <br> A simple gaze from the person that you love is enough to melt ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
kitty244 38 F
16  Articles
Dont Mix The Past & The Present   2/10/2005

i started dating this really great guy. as a matter of fact, we're still dating. while in a relationship i think the worst mistake anyone can make is mixing the past and the present. comparing your present gf or bf to your past relationships can severely damage the new one. at first i felt like i had to constantly build myself up to compare to some of his ex's that he truly cared about. ...


2 Comments, 90 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
sureshh1 46 F
10  Articles
Love, Love and Love!   2/9/2005

Love is a commitment. While infatuation and love have the same characteristics, the former speaks of transience while the latter speaks of permanence. Love is a commitment in the sense that, you can accept the totality of the person even if you have discovered the bad side of him/her. In infatuation, you are disillusioned when you have seen the negative sides of the person. In love, you ...


1 Comments, 110 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
LonelyOneGuy 65 M
1  Article
We Learn From Our Past Mistakes!   2/6/2005

They say you learn from your mistakes you make in life, After all these years I have fianlly learned from the many I have made in the past in Love and Friendship, Relationships and Even Marriage(s)(4 of them!). I decided it was time for a change in my life so I changed and finally figured out and learned true love. <br> "HERE IS WHAT I SHARE WITH YOU ALL" The truth is no one ...


0 Comments, 113 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
stanford5 42 M
1  Article
loving conciously and playing ur part   2/4/2005

hello, i will like to say smthng- people done have to be subborned, living with dignity is the best recipe for a stable relationship.learn to love for the eternal that God reward for ur life(u and ur spouse)will be judge right.68


0 Comments, 44 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
The Blind Date?   2/3/2005

i have once got blind date by a male relative with his friend.few months after i brokeup he asked me to tried a date again, but he has just give me a name.then i said ok & he had arranged everythings for the blind date. i went to a music live cafe to met the date with my relative.then i give as sweet as smile i could do, we were talked a hour about manythings.but it was not work out.we ...


1 Comments, 85 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
MadenOfGondor 65 F
2  Articles
Time and history.   2/1/2005

Building a relationship takes history. Now that I think means time. Time to be together to get to know each other to know all the great things and then the not so great things. I would love to be in a long term relationship but then it doesnt happen overnight, to feel good about being with that person to grow old together because once the passion slows down then what is left?? If the couple ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
sleekly 43 F
43  Articles
per-sense   1/29/2005

In a relationship we try not to expect. But, we do expect the best, and we must compromise because naturally as we know that nobody is perfect. <br> We must except limitations in our selves and others and be more realistic. <br> We must realizes that in a partnership or union of any kind there is a balance. This balance is the law of comprimise and tolerance. This ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
lobo575 57 M
2  Articles
myself and my beloved   1/22/2005

As you peole well know life is not a game, so therefore I try to be myself all the time and to to behonest it is no problem beeing meslf , what I wrote in my first article is mostly the truth, and if you are a good obseverver you will very soonse if the lady feels comfortable in your your company, so with me me is what you see and feel is what you get. I hope this can help others!! ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
lobo575 57 M
2  Articles
I want to be myself:a gentleman !!!   1/21/2005

I want to show up at her first meeting with me pay her tickets regarding the tour she have had, if she is not insisting on pying herself, or we can share the costs, but of course I will wish her welcome to my country goto the taxi, or take it a little bit easy to let things goes in her own tasts, that"s my first meeting.When we come home to my place, I will ask her if she likes to to take ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
harbinger78 45 M
3  Articles
Love & Cheating   1/16/2005

I want you to think about this: If you find that you are falling in love with someone, and that someone is married/engaged/etc., would you push them to cheat on their significant other for you? <br> There are a couple of problems with that when you give it any serious thought. One: if they DID cheat on the other for you, do you think that you could really trust them when the ...


2 Comments, 168 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
fortunate96 55 M
21  Articles
Fantasy Costumes   1/15/2005

True lovers in this world today should want to please their partner on Valentine's Day... Should popularity matter much there is several favorite costumes males prefer most gorgeous loving women to give a try! If willing both participants could expect cherished memories to never forget. The single rose symbol could literally mean my place is good as yours to active participants! ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
fugitivebride 41 F
22  Articles
Looking for a friend   1/2/2005

Hello again, I just want to know if somebody could help me. I´m looking for a friend of mine who I love very much, he is my best friend since we were 11 years old, we met at school at 5º grade and we were the best friends, we were like brothers, and I haven´t seen him about 16 years ago, so imagine how much I want to see him, to know something about him, I really really miss him very ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Valencia01 31 F
2  Articles
Fight or not?   12/25/2004

It is very easly to fall in love in somebody that seems special for you. But what to do, if that "somebody" is already married? Does a strong love gives the rights to fight and broke the couple? Or you must to go away in silence? Is it possible to build a strong relation with somebody who have been married and left wife/husband for a new love?


10 Comments, 452 Views, 29 Votes ,4.84 Score
chineme 38 F
11  Articles
dealing with a relationship   12/24/2004

happiness in a relationship is basically a result of treating ur spouse right that is with dignity, love and respect.one major reason for unhappiness is becoz people go into them with the aim of being served by their other spouses. this approach is wrong if u want happiness. relationship is all about you and ur spouse and not u alone.... is u go into a relationship with the expectation of ...


1 Comments, 210 Views, 18 Votes ,3.81 Score
faith_builder 34 F
5  Articles
VALUE   12/16/2004

Value the people who have touched your life cause you will never know just when they will walk out of your life and never come back again... <br> We live life ONCE.........


1 Comments, 86 Views, 23 Votes ,3.48 Score
noviafugitiva76 47 F
27  Articles
Thank God   12/16/2004

Hello, I´ve written some articles befor on the breaking up realation and I thank God, because my pen pal who was like my boyfriend in a very very nice and romantic way we had a problem a week ago and he stopped sending me e-mails and I felt so desesperate and sad as you don´t have any idea. I live here in Mexico City and he is from Canada, and I´m very alone right now, about two or three ...


3 Comments, 139 Views, 16 Votes ,2.98 Score
8lonely_guy9 46 M
12  Articles
wisdom and the courage   12/15/2004

At least three times every day take a moment and ask yourself what is really important. Have the wisdom and the courage to build your life around your answer.


0 Comments, 94 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
mia824 61 F
7  Articles
"Best Behavior" woes.......   12/8/2004

I can NOT be the only one that this has happened to! You meet someone, they are interesting, seem intelligent, are interested in you and what you have to say, dress reasonably well, seem to care about how they look, etc. Then one day it starts changing! They start turning into who they REALLY are! You look at them, and wonder "Who is this person, and where did the person I liked go?" I ...


2 Comments, 193 Views, 23 Votes ,6.05 Score
sweet47374 41 F
4  Articles
yep   12/2/2004

now thats a hard one in deed. any more its so hard to build a relationship. cause its hard to gain someones trust. i find it really hard when they just never are around to have a relatonship with. i mean come on now. what kind of relationship is that if they are not around much.


0 Comments, 120 Views, 25 Votes ,4.79 Score
FunTravelingMan 72 M
3  Articles
Sphere of Human Needs, Wants, Skills and Interests...   11/29/2004

Please follow me through on this one! <br> Picture yourself as a ball or better yet a SPHERE. Coming out of your sphere in all different directions are HOOKS. Each hook represents one of your needs, wants, skills or interests. Picture them in different sizes and shapes. Some are short and some are thick. The size and shape and direction represents what they are, how important ...


0 Comments, 141 Views, 19 Votes ,5.37 Score
FunTravelingMan 72 M
3  Articles
Life Goals in 3 Easy Steps...   11/27/2004

STEP ONE <br> This takes about ten minutes. Sit down with paper and pencil. This is important - without using your logic part of your brain, list all the things you want to do before you die. Don't over think this. Give yourself permission to put everything down, even though you might not have the education, time or money. Don't let expectations from your family or society get in ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 12 Votes ,5.80 Score
FunTravelingMan 72 M
3  Articles
Dependence --> Independence --> Interdependence   11/27/2004

Wondering why, in your relationships, you keep on making the same mistakes over and over? Consider the following: <br> DEPENDENCE <br> From the time you are born, until you leave your home, you are normally dependent on your parents for just about everything. Sometimes you don't get everything you need to feel safe and secure in this world. It is your parents', care ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
aLockhart 56 F
13  Articles
Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived   11/26/2004

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; happiness, sadness, knowledge, and all the others, including love. One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. <br> So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. <br> Love stayed. she wanted to preserve the island paradise until the ...


0 Comments, 180 Views, 27 Votes ,7.24 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
how to tell???????????   11/23/2004

HELLO MY ........ Dear Handsome, ... Here is my chance to tell the world how lucky I am to have found an amazing GIRL like you. All my life I felt like I was meant to be alone, as if my someone took a wrong turn over a bridge before I could meet them. Then came you... suddenly my eyes went from clouded storms to small blue beacons. I was so sad, and you took away all that pain just by ...


0 Comments, 149 Views, 9 Votes ,1.07 Score
VeronikaCh 42 F
5  Articles
find special person   11/19/2004

May be too difficult find special person, but before be sure in person it need to now more about this person and be meet with person more long time. If you serious about love, but yet don't know what kind of person you need... to decide such question required a time. It not so easy...


1 Comments, 107 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
doudou_de2 63 F
2  Articles
hope, one day you are ready to have relationship   11/18/2004

where is my love feeling? The wind from winter bring my love to sky. my heart without feeling is so empty. If spring come, I hope really that your ice-cold heart can slowly and slowly warmer again. you know that I am always your small girl, my love for you will always in sky, wait the warmer wind, can bring her to you.


0 Comments, 185 Views, 12 Votes ,0.50 Score
doudou_de2 63 F
2  Articles
who can tell me ? i should keep the relationship or give up???   11/17/2004

My dear, <br> Of course, I am very angry with you yesterday night!! But I try to talk you and communicate with you still!!! Why? Why I do it still? Why I donot stop all contact with you easily? I will tell you the reason here!!!!! <br> I am one person who always want to solve the problem of my life with communication and talking. Easily give up and stop the contact is ...


1 Comments, 233 Views, 16 Votes ,4.30 Score
flyingonwind 43 F
2  Articles
Why one man is not enough?   11/4/2004

Here is the situation: my friend (natural blonde hair, PERFECT figure, smart, funny, etc, etc) says that 1 WOMAN NEEDS 4 MEN! And this is how she explains it: <br> the first man: a rich old guy, preferably impotent, who likes to show off with you (to prove that he's still something, not an older farter) and who cares about your well-being <br> the second man: Mr. Perfect ...


3 Comments, 157 Views, 49 Votes ,3.77 Score
Lovablecuss69 59 M
3  Articles
Avoid the Masks   10/26/2004

While it's all well and good to put forward your best efforts, I've found it's a good idea to drop the pretentious masks that we're all fond of wearing from time to time. <br> You may be a tough negotiator at work but must you be so in your interpersonal relationships especially with a potential life-mate? Same for the analytical type who questions everything. That may work for ...


0 Comments, 173 Views, 45 Votes ,6.66 Score
VeronikaCh 42 F
5  Articles
Romantic   10/23/2004

Look in the stars on a cool clear night - what can be more wonderful.


0 Comments, 84 Views, 11 Votes ,1.48 Score
fortunate96 55 M
21  Articles
Autumn Costumes   10/23/2004

Close friends remain ready to have a great time while at sponsored get togethers soon... understand. Its advised to be prepared if an awesome fun theme exists. Smiling then will promise results no matter what is worn! Its perfectly normal to stay out late on these occasions.


0 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
sexxysexylover4u 58 F
9  Articles
In reply to "distance relationships"..............   10/4/2004

.I learned the LONG and hard way, they don't "pan out"


2 Comments, 139 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
misstiffany 51 F
3  Articles
Long Distance Relationships? Can They Work?   9/28/2004

If you were to meet somebody and you really liked them but they lived far away would you be willing to uproot your life and move away to be with them? What would you be willing to do for somebody you were in love for? I would move to the other side of the planet for a man if I were "In love" with him. Anyone agree? Disagree? Why?


2 Comments, 221 Views, 17 Votes ,6.24 Score
diditagain 57 F
2  Articles
Love is about....................   9/24/2004

Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. "What is more important to you, the love you share, the memories you have or the lover?" Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in a instant, it will suprise you before you know it, ...


0 Comments, 122 Views, 29 Votes ,5.85 Score
diditagain 57 F
2  Articles
Love   9/22/2004

Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. "What is more important to you, the love you share, the memories you have or the lover?" Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in a instant, it will suprise you before you know it, but ...


0 Comments, 335 Views, 32 Votes ,7.46 Score
CandiLuv3 47 F
1  Article
Love, Honor, Cherish that One and Only   9/20/2004

There isn't anything better than knowing you can love, honor, and cherish the one that you married and is going to spend the rest of your life with. There are always bad with the good. Don't run from what's in front of you. If you mess up fix it and clean up your mess! Running?? That only makes things worse. A marriage isn't something that you just break off because times are hard or ...


0 Comments, 161 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
intrested8 39 F
2  Articles
Love   9/20/2004

True loves does not comes by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly you can understand the fact of life. But the fact of love is much different. To love other that you love:As a saying goes love the one who loves you not the one whom you love.To love, you love someone or someone love you.But when you both love each other you are in loved with one ...


1 Comments, 163 Views, 9 Votes ,5.78 Score
cidersid 40 F
1  Article
if that's what you want   9/15/2004

when building a relationship both people must comprimise because if it is all one person that is how it will always be and that is not a relationship that is slavery and sacrifice you need to find common ground and let the other person know how you feel but not all at once they have to know the real you for your faults and your good traits if they try to change you then they don't want you ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 32 Votes ,6.15 Score
NiceCuteGuy4u 41 M
1  Article
Building a good relationship   9/6/2004

Building a good relationship.. 1st it should be all about being honest and and sincere.. Spending time together is a plus long distance relationships never work.. Its all about honesty


0 Comments, 278 Views, 14 Votes ,4.90 Score
circe21 40 F
1  Article
Soulmate   9/4/2004

I don't agree with the term "Soulmate!" I don't agree! I think you can fall in love with many people. Hopefully not all at once. I think you can love someone for differenct attributes and characteristics. There are no two people alike in the world. Therefore, you can't love two people the same. So I ask anyone in a relationship to not put too much emphasis on finding your "soulmate." ...


0 Comments, 333 Views, 44 Votes ,5.68 Score
MsMaus 69 F
3  Articles
Know thyself!!!   8/31/2004

Building a relationship is not like building a house. It is an effort in faith, trust, and desire. It doesn't just happen, it is created. To do that, you have to be very aware of who you are, and what you want. This has to be specific, not some nebulous "prince on a white stallion". When you have straightened out your own head, decided on exactly what you do want, then you are ready to ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 22 Votes ,7.33 Score
passionandart 56 F
3  Articles
Spirituality and relationships... not for the faint of heart...?   8/29/2004

Yet again, I find that there seems to be a price to pay for being committed to an ongoing spiritual path and also trying to have a relationship. <br> Perhaps other spiritualists/psychics/mystics out there can relate to this? <br> I can feel it when it starts to happen - the pulling away, (guess I should have seen that eh? LOL ) and the outright fear when I do see ...


0 Comments, 257 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
2shy4u241 61 F
1  Article
think how u want your Relationship to be?   8/27/2004

Ok about Building a Relationship! is getting to know one another first to see how its gonna grow they might have it they might not can never tell til u try it.becos it might be the one for you but if not life goes on and so does "Relationships" so i want a friend Relationship to start out with and build up from there step by step becos as the saying goes Rome wasn't Built in a day...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 21 Votes ,6.71 Score
CassJo2 41 F
2  Articles
The Important Things   8/24/2004

First, know that you can't sweat the small stuff. You have to be best friends with the person you're in a relationship with. Trust and communication are key elements in a relationship. Think of it this way. You're looking for a best friend whom you could see as a life-long companion and add sexual attraction. That's what a real relationship consists of.


0 Comments, 24 Views, 39 Votes ,6.25 Score
passionandart 56 F
3  Articles
Cold or just serious?   8/9/2004

I've been seeing this man and for the life of me, I cannot figure out if he is at times, quite cold emotionally, or if he's just very serious minded. <br> It's almost as if there are two very distinct facets to his personality and it really makes me think - How long would it take me to adjust to this - and - more importantly, do I really want to? <br> It was so much ...


0 Comments, 114 Views, 32 Votes ,5.87 Score
blvd_shadow 66 F
8  Articles
what to do?   8/4/2004

I found this wonderful man on friend finders I lik ehim very much and I am reading between the lines of his emails and I feel he feels the same as me, and he lives in Maryland and I live in Arizona. I am sure it is the distance thing that is bothering him. He is also a very busy man, I write to him all the time and he responds every three or four days. I don't mind but I think if he ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 22 Votes ,6.85 Score
loverboy423 62 M
1  Article
It takes two to tango   7/22/2004

be yourselves , be happy , learn to become one-another.


0 Comments, 246 Views, 37 Votes ,6.62 Score
sissu 37 F
3  Articles
It`s not like buying a candy from a store, damit!   7/17/2004

When you find someone you truly trust, who is honest and sweet..feels like the one for you then it shouldn´t mean that you have to be together emmediately, right? I mean, it´s like in a candystore - u see a sweet candy - wow, its so colourful and nice, i bet it´s tasty also - so i´ll buy it and eat it right now! It´s not like that, or is it?I think love comes slowly, it aint running. ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 29 Votes ,6.75 Score
sexxysexylover4u 58 F
9  Articles
LOVE/TRUTH or DARE?   7/17/2004

Hi Friend Finder Friends! <br> When a guy says he loves me and he asked me to marry him, to get married, but now all his romantic poetry & talking talking online has stop, and always says he will call, but never does, & says he will email & he doesn't, he says he's too busy, lately, Is the man truthful or just wants to end it? what do you think? Truth or untruth? ...


0 Comments, 369 Views, 30 Votes ,6.18 Score
likestolaugh4444 75 M
6  Articles
Emerging   7/5/2004

Love is about opening up. <br> When we open up, we’re filled with joy. When we open up, sometimes we get hurt. When we open ourselves, sometimes no one cares. <br> Life is like that. And life is good. <br> The butterfly is a tenacious creature. It's very fragile, but also of exceedingly great passion and strength. It pushes its way out of a ...


0 Comments, 275 Views, 18 Votes ,4.90 Score
likestolaugh4444 75 M
6  Articles
So Many Temptations   7/5/2004

I was riding in a jeep with some of my college students in the Cordillera Mountains in the Philippines. One senior student sitting across from me was starring at the floorboards. <br> I said, "You’re starring at the floor." He responded, "I have a big problem." <br> The man, 22, was graduating that year. His fiancée, 17, wanted to get her degree also, but she ...


0 Comments, 102 Views, 48 Votes ,7.80 Score
hiriwablue 72 F
1  Article
Lack of balance in a relationship   6/27/2004

It's all too easy for things to get out of balance in a relationship. This causes resentment, doubt and may even kill the relationship completely. <br> By out of balance, what I mean is who does what when and how often. <br> He plays sport and somehow, it takes over to the point that his sport is what determines what you do in the weekend. "I won't see you this ...


0 Comments, 193 Views, 19 Votes ,3.65 Score
harbinger78 45 M
3  Articles
Hard Work   6/23/2004

How hard should you work at a relationship? At what point do you give up? I don't think that any one person in a relationship should work harder than the other. Any relationship is a two-way street. It will take work on both sides. Do not think that this cannot be "the one" just because you don't have a story book romance. Many great things come from hard work, but it takes two in this ...


0 Comments, 354 Views, 80 Votes ,8.90 Score
cherrymills 54 F
1  Article
Wart on a pickle...um   6/22/2004

We've been dating for months. I expressed to my partner what I like sexually, and he to me. But during foreplay, I do the things he likes and he just lays there like a wart on a pickle. He says everything is fine and he's enjoying it, but I can't tell and it's starting frustrate me; also he barely touches me. I asked him if he could wiggle or something to let me know he's DEAD or ALIVE. ...


0 Comments, 269 Views, 22 Votes ,3.25 Score
Cheffen 59 M
4  Articles
Is there a real women   6/18/2004

Is there a woman that doesn’t care about a man appears physically. I have a slight disability of my left side. I can walk with no a problem just have a limp and unable to use my left arm as well. I have had some bad experiences and trying to trust people has been hard for me. I will accept suggestions from anyone preferably from those have experienced the same. I would like to here ...


0 Comments, 143 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
CAN YOU WRITE A LITTER TO YOUR LOVE?   6/15/2004

I work as chief accountant in a civil engineering firm and a lot of time spend at my favourite work. Besides I love to cook, furnace, I am fond of knitting, I go to the pool in my free time and I love spending time with the friends in the country, in mountains, at lake. I like very much to get acquainted with the new people, to study their culture and to learn new things together with them. ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
Building....................   6/14/2004

Come and get me baby! yow! Ok...On the one hand I'm looking to make all kinds of friends from all over the place! On the other hand...I'm also looking for THE ONE. so please keep that in mind everybody...you too THE ONE (if you're out there... because if you are? All my new found friends and I will have to part company. I don't screw around in a relationship. I'm total loyal, faithful, ...


0 Comments, 946 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
DJ20042 60 F
1  Article
Soulmates???   6/13/2004

Becoming Soulmates Soulmates take some work!! Soulmates are not a pair of people who magically work together in peace and harmony without ever running over rough ground. Every relationship has its rough moments, and the key to ´soulmates´ is how the couple learns to *deal with* and surmount these difficulties. Non-soulmates drive each other away when they fight, and don´t learn from ...


0 Comments, 100 Views, 20 Votes ,3.89 Score
artgrrl 44 F
1  Article
Dating a Transsexual   6/12/2004

If you found out your lover was a transsexual {one who has had a sex change from one gender to the other ...male to female or female to male} would you feel deceived? Especially if you met her online? If she would have told you in the beginning of the relationship about her status as a transsexual would you have stayed?


0 Comments, 44 Views, 31 Votes ,1.90 Score
aspiratess 66 F
4  Articles
awareness   6/1/2004

Yes, physical compatibility is so important. The couple must first be drawn by a general sense of the match in physical terms. You talk about everything under the sun, either your shared interests or individual experiences on some personal pet subject. You don’t have to know everything and even when you think you know too much, humility keeps us always learning the same things ...


0 Comments, 174 Views, 26 Votes ,3.89 Score
Equinox320 73 M
12  Articles
Common Interests   6/1/2004

How important are interests in common to a relationship? How true is the old adage that opposites attract? When thinking of these seemingly divergent concepts, I came to believe that while opposite personalities can compliment each other and different interests can expand one's horizons, it is important to share several interests and have complimentary personalities for a relationship to ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 29 Votes ,6.55 Score
Candy_1981 42 F
1  Article
This is a course specially important if u want to have a good relationship   5/29/2004

PEDAGOGICAL COURSE OF FORMATION FOR MEN OBJECTIVE: Course of formation that allows men to develop that part of the brain of which it existence is ignored by them <br> PROGRAM: 4 modules, of which 1 is obligatory <br> Module (obligatory course) * To learn to live without its mother (2000 hours). * "My woman is not my mother" (350 hours). * To understand that ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
harbinger78 45 M
3  Articles
A solid friendship   5/29/2004

When you are trying to build a romantic relationship with someone, what is the most important factor? In my opinion, it is that you LIKE eachother. Some of you may be saying "duh..." but I am surprised by the number of people that will try to get or keep a relationship going when they really don't like the person they are with. <br> It occurs to me that for a solid romantic ...


0 Comments, 166 Views, 17 Votes ,7.09 Score
VANVI 44 F
1  Article
Im going to meet him!   5/25/2004

Hello, im a 24 year old girl from mexico and I want some opinions about my story. I met a guy in the internet 2 years ago, he is 39 year old man from israel, separated, at first it was an entretainment, but then i couldnt hide my feeling so he didnt, love was the feeling, he started to call me over the phone about 3 times a week. At first he didnt say his marital situation, i thought he ...


0 Comments, 205 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
zena23 45 F
1  Article
Love dont come easy   5/24/2004

Many times i wonder if the One realy does exist.. Every time when i really like somebody.. It's not going to work i have bin dissapointed for so many time that i now put some boundry's to the men i want to date if they are not the total package i wont even botter.. I hate cheating cheap men.. it's not about money or status just somebody who is unnest en can be true and somebody with a ...


0 Comments, 390 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
fromnepal 43 M
8  Articles
Definition of True Friendship   5/10/2004

Anyone can stand by you when you are right, but a Friend will stand by you even when you are wrong... A simple friend identifies himself when he calls. A real friend doesn't have to. <br> A simple friend opens a conversation with a full news bulletin on his life. <br> A real friend says, "What's new with you?" <br> A simple friend thinks the problems you ...


0 Comments, 326 Views, 109 Votes ,9.26 Score
theresawoman 53 F
1  Article
Wish there was a rule book!   5/10/2004

Why can't there be a dummies rule book for everything life would be so much easier just flip through the index page and chapter 2 page 12 there the answer is in black in white. Wouldn't that be the greatest!Alot less mistakes in the world lol.


1 Comments, 186 Views, 15 Votes ,0.99 Score
aspiratess 66 F
4  Articles
Know What You're Buying Youself Into   5/5/2004

Consider you’ve set yourself those conditions about what you want to find in your significant other ‒ it could be significant qualities like a cute look, a nice body, great voice, success in work, a quiet person, laid back, country-type, modern-type, similar religion, etc… Many would want someone who is ‘truthful’ about most of the significant qualities. ...


0 Comments, 608 Views, 15 Votes ,3.28 Score
concilia 57 F
1  Article
How   5/5/2004

when a lady finds out that her spouse is cyber flirting and wants to meet with the person he is filirting with personally , how will she feel.And what will she do.


0 Comments, 331 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
Charmbutterfly 39 F
4  Articles
is one week too quick   5/5/2004

Do you think you can fall in love in one week and it's not infatuation? Do you think that could be possible? Because it's happening to me and it's so scary!! But it feels so great to get lost in this caressing whirlwind that is love, true love.


0 Comments, 143 Views, 33 Votes ,3.88 Score
aspiratess 66 F
4  Articles
Grasping For Love   4/30/2004

We all love attention, especially complimentary remarks. For some, these enticing words can present a trap in terms of inappropriate buondaries. When we hear a number of flattering statements, we may believe that the speaker will provide us with positive interaction. As a result, we fail to investigate the healthiness of the relationship. <br> We fall in love with anyone who ...


0 Comments, 90 Views, 30 Votes ,7.46 Score
cuteandsweet5 46 F
1  Article
Why do I have no good luck to find a nice, honest, faithful and sincere guy?   4/29/2004

I am wondering why I have no good luck to find a nice, honest, faithful and sincere guy who doesn't care about how I look like but love me for who I am and my inside beauty. <br> I have used the dating website for several months. There are no positive results. I am very disappointed and thinking about giving up. <br> If anyone has any advice, please let me know. ...


0 Comments, 151 Views, 30 Votes ,4.51 Score
FredNB 41 M
1  Article
Is Romance dead?!? Or is it just not an in thing to do?!?   4/20/2004

Is Romance dead?!? Or is it just not an in thing to do!?! I can only talk about Europe, especially the UK. But it seems to me that the new generation of people have lost the time, or even the want for romance. In this new time of fast beat cities, where getting to know your next person of attraction, is a Friday night event, giving Saturday and Sunday to prepare for the next fling, it seems ...


0 Comments, 327 Views, 34 Votes ,8.00 Score
InDreams4U 48 F
1  Article
It's A Big Sea...How Do You Know If You've Caught 'The One' ??   4/12/2004

Everyone has an ideal of who their perfect life partner is. We take all of the little intricacies that we value and put them into this person we envision to be ‘The One’. For some, this might be more based on physical attributes and for others it might be more based on intelligence, wisdom, caring and personality traits. For the majority of us, we fall somewhere in between. ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 73 Votes ,8.68 Score
aspiratess 66 F
4  Articles
Good Impressions Don't Last   4/6/2004

Most people here and elsewhere who write a profile or even a resume will be mostly positive about themselves; some would not find anything substantial to say about themselves but will say something to the effect of self-effacing themselves, practically, even if they’d claim that was a trait or personality of themselves that has served them well in some contexts or all contexts. Many ...


0 Comments, 152 Views, 23 Votes ,2.54 Score
highplains1 62 M
1  Article
Honesty   4/3/2004

BE TRUTHFUL And expect honesty from your contact. Use the online chat to find out about each other’s past experiences with intimacy. You can learn a lot by sharing your feelings and your attitude toward commitment. If you're using a dedicated email, be honest about that, too <br> If you decide to swap pictures, send a current picture, which is flattering, but doesn't hide ...


0 Comments, 211 Views, 20 Votes ,7.59 Score
nefertitilove 46 F
2  Articles
Re: ladies what happened to dating ? Time punctuality   3/28/2004

For some women, dating is not interesting anymore.It's exhausted, when you have date more than 1000 times and you have more than 25 eks. It's like you do the same job again and again, and you didn't see that you'll get the next step career. Tell everything about her in the first date and ask what next, "do you want to be my husband, boy friend, my F** buddy or a friend?" could be more and ...


0 Comments, 171 Views, 29 Votes ,4.64 Score
crazysexyfreaky 42 F
3  Articles
finding real love   3/25/2004

Well, I never thought that I would be one to write about finding love. I was always the girl that went from guy to guy, I could never find one that kept me happy. Or when I thought I did, he turned out to be a total loser. And then I met Jerry. Strange, the first time I saw him, I was like, wow, this is the guy I talk to on the phone every night? (Yes, I met him online). He was so not ...


0 Comments, 259 Views, 112 Votes ,8.34 Score
Nov20 54 F
1  Article
How do you want to be loved???   3/25/2004

To have a relationship that really works you need to love the other person exactly how they want to be loved and vice versa. Our partners love us from their frame of reference, but not ours. We may be doing an act of kindness and love from our point of view but it may not be what our partner wants. <br> Once you know how you want to be loved, the next step is to tell your ...


0 Comments, 256 Views, 80 Votes ,8.72 Score
pearlygirl5 45 F
1  Article
Why he do`nt belive me?   2/26/2004

I am in love with an older guy.We know eachother almost 7 years.He was married, but in last May he diworced.So in December I sayed him about my feelings and he do`nt belive me.He says, that I chust feel sorry for him!What must I do?


0 Comments, 166 Views, 20 Votes ,4.40 Score
Senseidinky 52 F
10  Articles
If there is love...   2/24/2004

If there is love… The door must be open To let somebody in Rich and poor, pretty or ugly Friends or enemies in any country <br> If there is love… Learn to smile Anybody can feel Even in a long mile Speak no words Sobering thoughts Straight in your eyes Your emotions express And the truth reveals <br> If there is love… ...


0 Comments, 95 Views, 32 Votes ,5.49 Score
vietnam_actress 44 F
3  Articles
Overseas Love part 2   2/21/2004

This is a FYI article and I interviewed my brother-in-law (who is a American while my sister is Vietnamese) for the things to except when taking a overseas relationship to the next step. Having a relationship with someone overseas is hard but truly worth it if you love the one you have gotten to know. There are many things you need to know if you do fall in love. 1.You will need to ...


0 Comments, 240 Views, 25 Votes ,6.23 Score
Jigrael 38 M
1  Article
a bi*h relationship???   2/20/2004

well I´ve been dating with this women almost 3 months, and I really like her, but I dont know...cause shes a b*ch, yeah it sounds cruel but thats the way it is... and I dont know what to do...besides Im 8 years younger than her. She may hab been sawn me as his brothe MTF, I dont kwon what to do...


0 Comments, 168 Views, 14 Votes ,1.22 Score
vietnam_actress 44 F
3  Articles
Overseas Love part 2   2/17/2004

I am Glad to help anyone by my article so I will try to help more is i can. Lets say you are a man wanting to know a vietnamese women better over the internet. You have met a girl and have been chatting for some time.She has not asked for money or said I love you in the first couple weeks and the picture and the web cam are a match, ,, here are some ways to continue. 1. Share your honest ...


0 Comments, 199 Views, 13 Votes ,6.33 Score
liveforsystem 37 F
1  Article
I'm dating someone new, but my ex just won't let me go!   2/15/2004

I broke up with my ex boyfriend about two and a half months ago, and just recently, I got together with someone new. I broke up with my ex because he was just a little too, well, as my friends put it, obsessive. Now that I'm going out with someone new, he still won't let me go. Whenever I say I'm busy because I'm going to do something with my boyfriend, he gets really really upset. My ...


0 Comments, 187 Views, 32 Votes ,5.30 Score
mini_82 40 F
2  Articles
Accept or refuse ?!!!   2/8/2004

Sometimes in your life you find youself trying to build a relationship with someone you realy think that u love . but in the same time u destroy a relation with some one u thought that he's your friend but while you build another relation you find him teeling you that he loves you and he was afraid to say anything cause he thought maybe he'll lose you .and sure if u keep on building a ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 26 Votes ,5.94 Score
cosmicteddy 52 M
6  Articles
take it slow   2/6/2004

With the passion and emotion that usually acompanies the excitement of a new love, it can be very hard to try to look at things logically and take a common sense approach to building the relationship for the long term. Like any relationship, one that involves love needs to be slowly built up if it is going to have a long life. By all means, allow yourself to be swept up by the passion and ...


0 Comments, 164 Views, 36 Votes ,8.42 Score
vietnam_actress 44 F
3  Articles
Overseas Love   1/29/2004

Most men go crazy when they find out I live in Vietnam, They say I am beautiful and after some communication they say words of love and hope of a relationship but when it come to the point of "lets Meet" they seem to disappear I know it cost money to meet someone from a different country but the facts are many of the people from overseas will more than fullfeel your wants and desires. ...


2 Comments, 201 Views, 49 Votes ,8.68 Score
mini_82 40 F
2  Articles
saying I had enough we need to change ...   1/28/2004

if you were tring to build your relation with some one u know tht you love hime and he or she have the same feeling towards you ..and the relation was going fine till the other person stop caring about u enough as he stop calling or meeting or asking about you coz he's busy with his work or somthing else in his life . will you try to accept this and try to arrange your life with this or ...


0 Comments, 109 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
GOOD RELATIONSHIP btween us.   12/12/2003

To make good relationship to others yiu must try to be a good one at the eyes of all you want make with him relashan.


0 Comments, 49 Views, 27 Votes ,5.34 Score
banker81 42 M
2  Articles
how to build relationship between u & ur lover?   12/3/2003

In my opinion, usually girls r either nervous/timid esp from a modest family . But nowadays guys r also behaving the same way or not taking the relationship seriously & start flirting with others. To build realtionship its not easy where spouses should be satisfied among themselves. Generally speaking they must be faithful, trustworthy, romantic, sparing some time togther (like going to ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 56 Votes ,3.65 Score
DrMarshall
8  Articles
How do you know when your relationship is in trouble?   11/21/2003

Is your relationship in Trouble? <br> <br> Dear Friends, <br> I understand how you feel right now. I know how upset you are. I know how much you are committed to your relationship and how much you want to save it. These feelings are natural and you should fight for the man or woman you love and hold so dear. Problem is, you are most likely going about it all ...


0 Comments, 139 Views, 49 Votes ,7.59 Score
boogs1000 47 M
1  Article
Women... who needs them???   11/12/2003

In my short life i've had my fair share of relationships. Yet every one has gone wrong. What do i have to do to find my match, i don't ask for much just honesty and sincerity. Is that to much to ask? I am full of advice but yet i have nothing to offer myself....


0 Comments, 331 Views, 33 Votes ,0.67 Score
funlovinggoddes 63 F
2  Articles
Answer to "Am I Destined to Be Alone"   11/9/2003

First of all if your "looking" for love, chances are your not going to find it. Love kind of "happens". I have noticed thru my 42 years of life that when you "look" for love you seem to trigger something in you that other people can pick up on. I guess some people would call it your "aura" or "vibes". <br> My suggestion or advice to you is to go out and enjoy life. Be with ...


0 Comments, 157 Views, 59 Votes ,8.56 Score
bluebaby101 65 F
2  Articles
I don't want to be your friend!   11/9/2003

Why is it I start dating someone and we hit it off great! We talk everyday, see each other 2 or 3 times a week. Then all of a sudden He want to be "friends" UGH! Get a clue guys. We don't want to be your friend. You already rejected us once, why in the world would we be friends with you and then hear about the new person you are dating. It's dating or nothing.


0 Comments, 105 Views, 67 Votes ,7.45 Score
maxy10 39 F
1  Article
It happens   11/8/2003

hi there! <br> i have been looking for a mate on the net a few times without luck. i talked to lots of people from all over the world but non of them kept their promises. a month ago i met this guy on friendfinder, his name remaining anynomous. he called from botswana just to say hi. i live in namibia. we started calling one another, sending emails and phone messages and as ...


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M_E_L_O_D_I_E 59 F
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Moodiness?   10/30/2003

How are we to deal with moodiness? Most men at FF write messages showing so much enthusiasm and willingness to keep in touch. Once they are replied, the whole story is over. So, what is one supposed to do? Should these gentlemen's words be taken at face value? Are such behaviors to be interpreted as moodiness/indecisiveness? Should they be ignored? If so, then what is the point of signing ...


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commybabylove 39 F
11  Articles
Perfect Things A guy would do for the girl he loves   10/16/2003

26 Things That A Perfect Guy Would Do <br> 1. Know how to make you smile when you are down. <br> <br> 2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice. <br> 3. Stick up for you, but still respects your independence. <br> 4. Give you the remote control during the game. <br> 5. Come up behind you and put his ...


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commybabylove 39 F
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More Facts About Girls   10/16/2003

The Lovers of the Heart >> >>Article 1: Statement of Love: The Kiss >> >>1. Kiss on the hand.... I adore you >>2. Kiss on the cheek... I just want to be friends >>3. Kiss on the neck... I want you >>4. Kiss on the lips... I love you >>5. Kiss on the ears... I am just playing >>6. Kiss anywhere else ... lets not get ...


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commybabylove 39 F
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How to impress a lady   10/16/2003

Just in case you were wondering.... <br> HOW TO IMPRESS A WOMAN.... <br> Wine her, Dine her, Call her, Hug her, Support her, Hold her, Surprise her, Compliment her, Smile at her, Listen to her, Laugh with her, Cry with her, Romance her, Encourage her, Believe in her, Pray with her, Pray for her, Cuddle with her, Shop ...


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commybabylove 39 F
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Rules that guys wished girls knew   10/16/2003

Rules that guys wished girls knew.......... > > Rules that guys wished girls knew.......... > 1. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't > ask us. > 2. Learn to work the toilet seat: if it's up put it > down. > 3. Don't cut your hair. Ever. > 4. Birthdays, Valentines, and Anniversaries are not > quests to see > if hecan find the perfect ...


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graydoncarter 68 M
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When is Sex Safe?   10/15/2003

How long or at what point after you've been dating, do you stop the use of condoms? How do you bring up the subject?


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charming1766 54 M
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Should you date a man who is recovering from alcohol and drug abuse?   10/4/2003

My heart just dropped to my shoes, and I feel like I want to cry, not because my new girlfriend has reservations, but because my difficult past has given her a reason to. My mother always says that I am too honest. She says, and she always seems to be correct about these things, that on short acquaintance, it is ill-advised to be too forthcoming about my youthful indiscretions and their ...


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mamateres 56 F
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A real strong relationship   9/24/2003

When being in any type of relationship you first must love yourself so you can love others. To have a strong bond there HAS to be trust & honesty above all. With out that you don't have a strong hold on anything to commit to. learn to talk to & with each other NOT at each other. Everyone makes mistakes so don't be too judgmental remeber we are all human. I think in any relationship there ...


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starr1019 60 F
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Finding friends at Friend Finders by Starr1019   8/13/2003

A note from Starr1019 <br> So many people seem to feel that the world of chat rooms is so unreal. That the people you meet there are just pretending to be something or someone that they are not. That the words we write are false. That the friendships we make have no basis in the "real" world. <br> But I know a different story. I've come to this place called Friend ...


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cmag461 53 F
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Improve day by day your better feelings for love.   7/16/2003

Look for someone in your dream place for being happy in a relationship together. Distance is not a problem when you are adaptable to the changes and chalenges of being together. The next step is your aptitude towards him/her, your expression need to be meaninful to get the maximum achievement in demonstrating how your love is true and your relationship is strong. Besides, both need to ...


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calvinroach 63 M
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What is it about Chemistry   7/12/2003

What is it about Chemistry? Everyone is looking for chemistry. How many times have you had chemistry with a person and a few months after getting serious the relationship fails. Shouldn’t we look for the qualities in the person that are important to us? The character of a person is the most important quality I look for. Not how suave she is or how fine she looks, those are only ...


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stephanie2000 40 F
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The faith and Hope, i met my love on FF   1/13/2003

It could sounds like a soap but not, first time i ve been here it was cause a hard loneliness and depression, a bad relation ship before. I searched trhough the net some place " safe " i mean no adult topics, no sex as priority cause i wanted to find someone serious, to love me, to love in same size. To be honest, it was like a test for me, WHAT CAN YOU DO TO GET THE LOVE AGAIN ? So as ...


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poetresss 78 F
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Important things in developing a relationship~   12/16/2002

Many times when we first meet someone, we build ourselves up and add things that aren't true in order to impress that person that we are attracted to. But what we don't realize is that we are building one that isn't completely truthful so therefore our foundation is shakey and could later fall. My suggestion to anyone building a relationship is to be honest who you are. There are five ...


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oiancurtiso 42 M
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does anyone out there have good taste in music?   9/25/2002

is there any single girls who are into bands like the pixies, joy division, bauhaus, jesus and marychain, ramones, dk, dandy warhols, brmc, velvet underground, violent femmes, enon, brainiac, le tigre....... it always seams to me like anyone who is "cool" and inteigent and somewhat atractive are all taken or ae uninterested. or its posible they could have been interested but i just never ...


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Terry3344 55 M
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response to   6/20/2002

Most (if not all) of us have been through this same scenario regardless of female/male. I can tell you from personal experience that it hurts like hell!!! And that once you get through it that it's that much more difficult to put your a** out on the line again to be loved and in love... What I’m about to say is a tough one to swallow. You have to do it if you ever want to find your ...


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Jaggy63 83 F
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How an older man finds a relationship/partner   6/8/2002

I would suggest that you keep the faith. I am an older woman (61) who finds the same difficulty in finding men to accept the age thing. I am reasonably attractive, but am not 18 anymore. Part of being mature is learning that things change, and we must adjust accordingly. If you are still searching, try the ladies in the over 55 bracket, be honest and tell it like it is. I know there ...


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newlively 64 M
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trust your partner and show your love   3/26/2002

The first step, is almost the most hardest one, you should start to be open even you don't know anything about him or her. Anyway, it will be the start and without that step there is no any kind of relationship. After that first step, will start the real work. <br> Step by step you will be able to know your partner better. The building a relationship is like a long road, some ...


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tinazplace 45 F
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My Best Friend   1/3/2002

I'm not asking for help here, but I did want to share my small bit of dating wisdom. It actually doesn't really involve dating as it does something more meaningful: friendship. <br> I met my best male friend when I was a junior in college. From a distance, he was not exactly the image of social or romantic grace. For one, I often saw him by himself. He has always been extremely ...


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extremeyardguy 69 M
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Tear your wall down and let me in!!!   12/6/2001

I met this nice gal about a month ago. She has been emotionally damaged from a past relationship. I know where she is coming from and want to take things slow. I have been hurt too before and it I know it takes time to heal from the pain she is going through. Wev'e met and e-mailed each other for some time but she recently has had second thoughts and cancelled our last date. I feel her past ...


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jenje20 53 M
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relations umblicalcord   12/5/2001

by bozo jenje A strong to last relationship bond is enhanced througha solid foundation , in nurturing , first the seed has to be sown, then be given time to grow and develop to fruitation in the growth process, those in the relation journey ought to understand each other, and realise that imperfection is part of the humanbeing.One must accomodate the likes, and dislikes, wants and don'ts ...


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Searcher20016 67 M
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The Best that you have may not be enough!   11/24/2001

Building a relationship takes time and effort and that must come from both sides in a very reciprocal way. On the net it can seem that it is happening that way and when things graduate to the telephone and partners find themselves reluctant even to hang up after hours of very meaningful long distance conversation the odds would seem to have shifted in favor of a successful pairing. ...


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flyingsalesman 60 M
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THE MORE WE GIVE   10/2/2001

The more you give, the more you get The more you do unselfishly The more you live abundantly. The more of everything you share, The more you laugh, the less you fret. The more you'll always have to spare. The more you love, the more you'll find That life is good and friends are kind. For only what we give away, Enriches us from day to day. <br> „¦ IPS ...


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Be_yourself4U 54 F
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Fall for lifes...........   6/7/2001

Hi, here is something that I wanted to share with every one. I have being married for almost 10 years with my husband and we have a (he is 5 now). All this years I thought I can really live with him in his way and keeping who I wanted to be. Recently I have change my mind not to be just stand by him and wanted to go further as I wanted, actually I have a friend that call me up once in ...


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DecentGuy1964 59 M
2  Articles
Never   3/13/2001

When you find yourself nearing the end of what you once thought would be your dream relationship, what is the one thing that continually pops in your head? <br> You guessed it. <br> A LACK OF HONEST COMMUNICATION. <br> Here you were involved with someone in a very intimate andloving manner for a long period of time only to find out in the end that you could never ...


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Dancer314159 76 M
4  Articles
Not just a common interest, but a common passion   1/22/2001

Follow your passion - be it dancing, photography, politics, hiking, gardening, or haiku - and you will be more likely to find friends with a common outlook. It also gives you time to assess them in a safe environment, to get to know them as a person, and to see how they behave in a social setting. The common passion gives you and a friend something external to focus on rather than just each ...


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Dancer314159 76 M
4  Articles
Friendship before sex   1/22/2001

By resisting the temptation to get into bed early in the piece, you provide a better base for building friendship - the core of any relationship - and for assessing your real compatibility. As a relationship counsellor, I continually see couples becoming sexually involved before they know the other person more than superficially. For those wanting a significant relationship, taking things ...


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Dancer314159 76 M
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Check their childhood - signs of potential adult conflict   1/22/2001

An important emotional driver of relationships comes from childhood interactions with parents. Men who had good relationships with their mothers generally like and respect women (a few expect all women to live up to their mother's imagined perfections). But if there was a highly conflicted mother- (read 'Men who hate women, and the women who love them'), or father-, relationship, be wary. ...


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LadyRancher 67 F
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The Key to a Lasting Relationship   3/19/2000

In every relationship there will be times when you get on each other's nerves or don't feel as loved as you feel you should. No matter how wonderful the fit, perfection doesn't exist. Sometimes you feel everything is going great and sometimes you don't, but if you do one thing you can make the right relationship work. <br> The number one reason a relationship doesn't last is lack ...


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LadyRancher 67 F
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Love is not something that you find, it is something that you do   3/19/2000

A fairly recent country western song talks about love being a verb: something that you do, not something that you find. <br> Think about this for a minute. Feeling love is because of things you do and another does for you. If you think you don't love someone any more, it is more likely that you have stopped being loving to each other. <br> Sure you can keep looking for ...


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jim13746 70 M
1  Article
Build your foundation on truth.   1/30/2000

For a relationship to last both parties must want it to work. If you rush into a relationship, it won't last. You must get to know each other from the inside. Looks fade but you will always be you. Start with truth. If you are caught in a lie, you will never be believed again. Two people must get to know each others strong and weak points. Both will come out at some time or another. ...


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neder_bob 60 M
1  Article
Re: i love you   1/12/2000

To look someone in the eye and say 'I love you' is to commit. It has to be true, true from deep in the heart. It is the ultimate expression for intimate loving feelings we know. If you have problems with saying the phrase, don't! First reach into you heart and find out why it is that you can't say it. This is an extremely difficult thing. This society is forgetting to teach us to listen to ...


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member1946 77 M
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The Gentle Art of Seduction.   6/30/1999

Copyright © 1979-1993 Philip Ovalsen The Gentle Art of Seduction "That you may be loved, be lovable." - OVID A glance in a dictionary tells that to seduce is to lead astray or to entice to a surrender of chastity. Viewed in this light it is not exactly a praiseworthy path to follow. Seduction is, however, a widely practised art in Australia. An unfortunately high proportion of single ...


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firsttime76 47 M
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How to change a man, advice from a man   10/4/1998

Ladies, I know many of you have been involved with, are involved with, or are attacted to guys you want to change. You may wish he would pick up after himself, not go out with the guys so often or be more attentive to your needs. There is only ONE rule you must remember when trying to change a man in any aspect. The man you trying the change will only change if he wants to change. For example, ...


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KAURISLSL 82 M
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HONESTY! THE BEST POLICY.   3/31/1998

As a psychologist involved with counselling, may I add a few points to your theme of "BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP" and its variations. "BUILDING" in this context means, starting at a grass-roots level. The "RELATIONSHIP" may be short/medium/long term and taking a step even further, leading to a partnership. For my personal research, I have been writing to several members in various forums offering ...


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elfinmagic 46 F
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LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH   3/22/1998

LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH What is love anyway? How is it possible to “love” someone, no matter how that person treats us? As someone once said, “Love is a mystery.” We think we love someone when we start to think about that person all day, we enjoy taking time to do nice things for that person, we yearn to spend as much time as possible with ...


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jy1979 44 M
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Relationship 101   3/6/1998

O.K. so you have some affection for a person you know and you plan to go beyond having a friendship with the person. Now what do you do? Before I continue, I would like to point out my advice here is based on advice being asked of me and my observations on other people. I am here to give my opinion on practical advice to the person who is about to embark on his or her first relationship. I ...


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SupremeLoco 41 M
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Sexual Ages.   2/28/1998

The Sexual Ages The Ages of Woman: 1. Between the ages of 13 and 18, she is like Africa, virgin and unexplored. 2. Between the ages of 19 and 35, she is like Asia, hot and exotic. 3. Between the ages of 36 and 45, she is like America, fully explored, breathtakingly beautiful, and free with her resources. 4. Between the ages of 46 and 56 she is like ...


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jy1979 44 M
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Relationship 101   2/20/1998

O.K. so you have some affection for a person you know and you plan to go beyond having a friendship with the person. Now what do you do? Before I continue, I would like to point out my advice here is based on advice being asked of me and my observations on other people. I am not one of those people who give advice on the radio but give my opinion on practical advice to the person who is about ...


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