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Fall for lifes........... 6/7/2001
Hi, here is something that I wanted to share with every one.
I have being married for almost 10 years with my husband
and we have a (he is 5 now). All this years I thought I can
really live with him in his way and keeping who I wanted to
be. Recently I have change my mind not to be just stand by
him and wanted to go further as I wanted, actually I have
a friend that call me up once in ...
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8 Votes
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Never 3/13/2001
When you find yourself nearing the end of what you once thought
would be your dream relationship, what is the one thing
that continually pops in your head? <br>
You guessed it.
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A LACK OF HONEST COMMUNICATION.
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Here you were involved with someone in a very intimate andloving manner for a long period of time only to find out in
the end that you could never ...
0 Comments, 88 Views,
25 Votes
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Not just a common interest, but a common passion 1/22/2001
Follow your passion - be it dancing, photography, politics,
hiking, gardening, or haiku - and you will be more likely
to find friends with a common outlook. It also gives you
time to assess them in a safe environment, to get to know
them as a person, and to see how they behave in a social setting.
The common passion gives you and a friend something external
to focus on rather than just each ...
0 Comments, 596 Views,
3 Votes
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Friendship before sex 1/22/2001
By resisting the temptation to get into bed early in the
piece, you provide a better base for building friendship
- the core of any relationship - and for assessing your real
compatibility. As a relationship counsellor, I continually
see couples becoming sexually involved before they know
the other person more than superficially. For those wanting
a significant relationship, taking things ...
0 Comments, 118 Views,
12 Votes
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Check their childhood - signs of potential adult conflict 1/22/2001
An important emotional driver of relationships comes
from childhood interactions with parents. Men who had
good relationships with their mothers generally like
and respect women (a few expect all women to live up to their
mother's imagined perfections). But if there was a highly
conflicted mother- (read 'Men who hate women, and the
women who love them'), or father-, relationship,
be wary. ...
0 Comments, 1882 Views,
6 Votes
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The Key to a Lasting Relationship 3/19/2000
In every relationship there will be times when you get on
each other's nerves or don't feel as loved as you feel you
should. No matter how wonderful the fit, perfection doesn't
exist. Sometimes you feel everything is going great and
sometimes you don't, but if you do one thing you can make
the right relationship work. <br>
The number one reason a relationship doesn't last is lack ...
0 Comments, 441 Views,
125 Votes
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Love is not something that you find, it is something that you do 3/19/2000
A fairly recent country western song talks about love being
a verb: something that you do, not something that you find.
<br>
Think about this for a minute. Feeling love is because of
things you do and another does for you. If you think you don't
love someone any more, it is more likely that you have stopped
being loving to each other. <br>
Sure you can keep looking for ...
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80 Votes
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Build your foundation on truth. 1/30/2000
For a relationship to last both parties must want it to work.
If you rush into a relationship, it won't last. You must
get to know each other from the inside. Looks fade but you
will always be you. Start with truth. If you are caught in
a lie, you will never be believed again. Two people must
get to know each others strong and weak points. Both will
come out at some time or another. ...
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42 Votes
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Re: i love you 1/12/2000
To look someone in the eye and say 'I love you' is to commit.
It has to be true, true from deep in the heart. It is the ultimate
expression for intimate loving feelings we know. If you have problems with saying the phrase, don't! First
reach into you heart and find out why it is that you can't
say it. This is an extremely difficult thing. This society
is forgetting to teach us to listen to ...
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3 Votes
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The Gentle Art of Seduction. 6/30/1999
Copyright © 1979-1993 Philip Ovalsen
The Gentle Art of Seduction
"That you may be loved, be lovable." - OVID
A glance in a dictionary tells that to seduce is to lead astray or to entice to a surrender of chastity. Viewed in this light it is not exactly a praiseworthy path to follow. Seduction is, however, a widely practised art in Australia. An unfortunately high proportion of single ...
0 Comments, 244 Views,
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How to change a man, advice from a man 10/4/1998
Ladies, I know many of you have been involved with, are involved with, or are attacted to guys you want to change. You may wish he would pick up after himself, not go out with the guys so often or be more attentive to your needs. There is only ONE rule you must remember when trying to change a man in any aspect. The man you trying the change will only change if he wants to change. For example, ...
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HONESTY! THE BEST POLICY. 3/31/1998
As a psychologist involved with counselling, may I add a few points
to your theme of "BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP" and its variations.
"BUILDING" in this context means, starting at a grass-roots level.
The "RELATIONSHIP" may be short/medium/long term and taking a step
even further, leading to a partnership.
For my personal research, I have been writing to several members
in various forums offering ...
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3 Votes
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LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH 3/22/1998
LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH
What is love anyway? How is it possible to “love” someone, no matter how that person treats us? As
someone once said, “Love is a mystery.” We think we love someone when we start to think about that person all
day, we enjoy taking time to do nice things for that person, we yearn to spend as much time as possible with ...
0 Comments, 200 Views,
1 Votes
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Relationship 101 3/6/1998
O.K. so you have some affection for a person you know and you plan to go beyond having a friendship with the person. Now what do you do? Before I continue, I would like to point out my advice here is based on advice being asked of me and my observations on other people. I am here to give my opinion on practical advice to the person who is about to embark on his or her first relationship. I ...
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Sexual Ages. 2/28/1998
The Sexual Ages
The Ages of Woman:
1. Between the ages of 13 and 18, she is like Africa, virgin and unexplored.
2. Between the ages of 19 and 35, she is like Asia, hot and exotic.
3. Between the ages of 36 and 45, she is like America, fully explored,
breathtakingly beautiful, and free with her resources.
4. Between the ages of 46 and 56 she is like ...
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1 Votes
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Relationship 101 2/20/1998
O.K. so you have some affection for a person you know and you plan to go beyond having a friendship with the person. Now what do you do? Before I continue, I would like to point out my advice here is based on advice being asked of me and my observations on other people. I am not one of those people who give advice on the radio but give my opinion on practical advice to the person who is about ...
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