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fortunate96 55 M
21  Articles
Autumn Costumes   10/23/2004

Close friends remain ready to have a great time while at sponsored get togethers soon... understand. Its advised to be prepared if an awesome fun theme exists. Smiling then will promise results no matter what is worn! Its perfectly normal to stay out late on these occasions.


0 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
sexxysexylover4u 58 F
9  Articles
In reply to "distance relationships"..............   10/4/2004

.I learned the LONG and hard way, they don't "pan out"


2 Comments, 139 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
misstiffany 51 F
3  Articles
Long Distance Relationships? Can They Work?   9/28/2004

If you were to meet somebody and you really liked them but they lived far away would you be willing to uproot your life and move away to be with them? What would you be willing to do for somebody you were in love for? I would move to the other side of the planet for a man if I were "In love" with him. Anyone agree? Disagree? Why?


2 Comments, 221 Views, 17 Votes ,6.24 Score
diditagain 58 F
2  Articles
Love is about....................   9/24/2004

Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. "What is more important to you, the love you share, the memories you have or the lover?" Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in a instant, it will suprise you before you know it, ...


0 Comments, 122 Views, 29 Votes ,5.85 Score
diditagain 58 F
2  Articles
Love   9/22/2004

Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. "What is more important to you, the love you share, the memories you have or the lover?" Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in a instant, it will suprise you before you know it, but ...


0 Comments, 335 Views, 32 Votes ,7.46 Score
CandiLuv3 47 F
1  Article
Love, Honor, Cherish that One and Only   9/20/2004

There isn't anything better than knowing you can love, honor, and cherish the one that you married and is going to spend the rest of your life with. There are always bad with the good. Don't run from what's in front of you. If you mess up fix it and clean up your mess! Running?? That only makes things worse. A marriage isn't something that you just break off because times are hard or ...


0 Comments, 161 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
intrested8 40 F
2  Articles
Love   9/20/2004

True loves does not comes by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly you can understand the fact of life. But the fact of love is much different. To love other that you love:As a saying goes love the one who loves you not the one whom you love.To love, you love someone or someone love you.But when you both love each other you are in loved with one ...


1 Comments, 163 Views, 9 Votes ,5.78 Score
cidersid 40 F
1  Article
if that's what you want   9/15/2004

when building a relationship both people must comprimise because if it is all one person that is how it will always be and that is not a relationship that is slavery and sacrifice you need to find common ground and let the other person know how you feel but not all at once they have to know the real you for your faults and your good traits if they try to change you then they don't want you ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 32 Votes ,6.15 Score
NiceCuteGuy4u 41 M
1  Article
Building a good relationship   9/6/2004

Building a good relationship.. 1st it should be all about being honest and and sincere.. Spending time together is a plus long distance relationships never work.. Its all about honesty


0 Comments, 278 Views, 14 Votes ,4.90 Score
circe21 41 F
1  Article
Soulmate   9/4/2004

I don't agree with the term "Soulmate!" I don't agree! I think you can fall in love with many people. Hopefully not all at once. I think you can love someone for differenct attributes and characteristics. There are no two people alike in the world. Therefore, you can't love two people the same. So I ask anyone in a relationship to not put too much emphasis on finding your "soulmate." ...


0 Comments, 333 Views, 44 Votes ,5.68 Score
MsMaus 69 F
3  Articles
Know thyself!!!   8/31/2004

Building a relationship is not like building a house. It is an effort in faith, trust, and desire. It doesn't just happen, it is created. To do that, you have to be very aware of who you are, and what you want. This has to be specific, not some nebulous "prince on a white stallion". When you have straightened out your own head, decided on exactly what you do want, then you are ready to ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 22 Votes ,7.33 Score
passionandart 56 F
3  Articles
Spirituality and relationships... not for the faint of heart...?   8/29/2004

Yet again, I find that there seems to be a price to pay for being committed to an ongoing spiritual path and also trying to have a relationship. <br> Perhaps other spiritualists/psychics/mystics out there can relate to this? <br> I can feel it when it starts to happen - the pulling away, (guess I should have seen that eh? LOL ) and the outright fear when I do see ...


0 Comments, 257 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
2shy4u241 61 F
1  Article
think how u want your Relationship to be?   8/27/2004

Ok about Building a Relationship! is getting to know one another first to see how its gonna grow they might have it they might not can never tell til u try it.becos it might be the one for you but if not life goes on and so does "Relationships" so i want a friend Relationship to start out with and build up from there step by step becos as the saying goes Rome wasn't Built in a day...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 21 Votes ,6.71 Score
CassJo2 41 F
2  Articles
The Important Things   8/24/2004

First, know that you can't sweat the small stuff. You have to be best friends with the person you're in a relationship with. Trust and communication are key elements in a relationship. Think of it this way. You're looking for a best friend whom you could see as a life-long companion and add sexual attraction. That's what a real relationship consists of.


0 Comments, 24 Views, 39 Votes ,6.25 Score
passionandart 56 F
3  Articles
Cold or just serious?   8/9/2004

I've been seeing this man and for the life of me, I cannot figure out if he is at times, quite cold emotionally, or if he's just very serious minded. <br> It's almost as if there are two very distinct facets to his personality and it really makes me think - How long would it take me to adjust to this - and - more importantly, do I really want to? <br> It was so much ...


0 Comments, 114 Views, 32 Votes ,5.87 Score
blvd_shadow 66 F
8  Articles
what to do?   8/4/2004

I found this wonderful man on friend finders I lik ehim very much and I am reading between the lines of his emails and I feel he feels the same as me, and he lives in Maryland and I live in Arizona. I am sure it is the distance thing that is bothering him. He is also a very busy man, I write to him all the time and he responds every three or four days. I don't mind but I think if he ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 22 Votes ,6.85 Score
loverboy423 62 M
1  Article
It takes two to tango   7/22/2004

be yourselves , be happy , learn to become one-another.


0 Comments, 246 Views, 37 Votes ,6.62 Score
sissu 38 F
3  Articles
It`s not like buying a candy from a store, damit!   7/17/2004

When you find someone you truly trust, who is honest and sweet..feels like the one for you then it shouldn´t mean that you have to be together emmediately, right? I mean, it´s like in a candystore - u see a sweet candy - wow, its so colourful and nice, i bet it´s tasty also - so i´ll buy it and eat it right now! It´s not like that, or is it?I think love comes slowly, it aint running. ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 29 Votes ,6.75 Score
sexxysexylover4u 58 F
9  Articles
LOVE/TRUTH or DARE?   7/17/2004

Hi Friend Finder Friends! <br> When a guy says he loves me and he asked me to marry him, to get married, but now all his romantic poetry & talking talking online has stop, and always says he will call, but never does, & says he will email & he doesn't, he says he's too busy, lately, Is the man truthful or just wants to end it? what do you think? Truth or untruth? ...


0 Comments, 369 Views, 30 Votes ,6.18 Score
likestolaugh4444 75 M
6  Articles
Emerging   7/5/2004

Love is about opening up. <br> When we open up, we’re filled with joy. When we open up, sometimes we get hurt. When we open ourselves, sometimes no one cares. <br> Life is like that. And life is good. <br> The butterfly is a tenacious creature. It's very fragile, but also of exceedingly great passion and strength. It pushes its way out of a ...


0 Comments, 275 Views, 18 Votes ,4.90 Score
likestolaugh4444 75 M
6  Articles
So Many Temptations   7/5/2004

I was riding in a jeep with some of my college students in the Cordillera Mountains in the Philippines. One senior student sitting across from me was starring at the floorboards. <br> I said, "You’re starring at the floor." He responded, "I have a big problem." <br> The man, 22, was graduating that year. His fiancée, 17, wanted to get her degree also, but she ...


0 Comments, 102 Views, 48 Votes ,7.80 Score
hiriwablue 72 F
1  Article
Lack of balance in a relationship   6/27/2004

It's all too easy for things to get out of balance in a relationship. This causes resentment, doubt and may even kill the relationship completely. <br> By out of balance, what I mean is who does what when and how often. <br> He plays sport and somehow, it takes over to the point that his sport is what determines what you do in the weekend. "I won't see you this ...


0 Comments, 193 Views, 19 Votes ,3.65 Score
harbinger78 45 M
3  Articles
Hard Work   6/23/2004

How hard should you work at a relationship? At what point do you give up? I don't think that any one person in a relationship should work harder than the other. Any relationship is a two-way street. It will take work on both sides. Do not think that this cannot be "the one" just because you don't have a story book romance. Many great things come from hard work, but it takes two in this ...


0 Comments, 354 Views, 80 Votes ,8.90 Score
cherrymills 55 F
1  Article
Wart on a pickle...um   6/22/2004

We've been dating for months. I expressed to my partner what I like sexually, and he to me. But during foreplay, I do the things he likes and he just lays there like a wart on a pickle. He says everything is fine and he's enjoying it, but I can't tell and it's starting frustrate me; also he barely touches me. I asked him if he could wiggle or something to let me know he's DEAD or ALIVE. ...


0 Comments, 269 Views, 22 Votes ,3.25 Score
Cheffen 59 M
4  Articles
Is there a real women   6/18/2004

Is there a woman that doesn’t care about a man appears physically. I have a slight disability of my left side. I can walk with no a problem just have a limp and unable to use my left arm as well. I have had some bad experiences and trying to trust people has been hard for me. I will accept suggestions from anyone preferably from those have experienced the same. I would like to here ...


0 Comments, 143 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
CAN YOU WRITE A LITTER TO YOUR LOVE?   6/15/2004

I work as chief accountant in a civil engineering firm and a lot of time spend at my favourite work. Besides I love to cook, furnace, I am fond of knitting, I go to the pool in my free time and I love spending time with the friends in the country, in mountains, at lake. I like very much to get acquainted with the new people, to study their culture and to learn new things together with them. ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
Building....................   6/14/2004

Come and get me baby! yow! Ok...On the one hand I'm looking to make all kinds of friends from all over the place! On the other hand...I'm also looking for THE ONE. so please keep that in mind everybody...you too THE ONE (if you're out there... because if you are? All my new found friends and I will have to part company. I don't screw around in a relationship. I'm total loyal, faithful, ...


0 Comments, 946 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
DJ20042 60 F
1  Article
Soulmates???   6/13/2004

Becoming Soulmates Soulmates take some work!! Soulmates are not a pair of people who magically work together in peace and harmony without ever running over rough ground. Every relationship has its rough moments, and the key to ´soulmates´ is how the couple learns to *deal with* and surmount these difficulties. Non-soulmates drive each other away when they fight, and don´t learn from ...


0 Comments, 100 Views, 20 Votes ,3.89 Score
artgrrl 44 F
1  Article
Dating a Transsexual   6/12/2004

If you found out your lover was a transsexual {one who has had a sex change from one gender to the other ...male to female or female to male} would you feel deceived? Especially if you met her online? If she would have told you in the beginning of the relationship about her status as a transsexual would you have stayed?


0 Comments, 44 Views, 31 Votes ,1.90 Score
aspiratess 66 F
4  Articles
awareness   6/1/2004

Yes, physical compatibility is so important. The couple must first be drawn by a general sense of the match in physical terms. You talk about everything under the sun, either your shared interests or individual experiences on some personal pet subject. You don’t have to know everything and even when you think you know too much, humility keeps us always learning the same things ...


0 Comments, 174 Views, 26 Votes ,3.89 Score