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evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
I WANT TO SHARE IT...   6/29/2005

i realize that i need doble skill at my work.i must be quick in learn what the job or the company want from me! i also have to "sell" my skill with handle problems in the right way & right times.i know that mt leader / boss is very busy with many things in his mind.so its possible that he does not realize what i am doing & done! so, i must blow my own horn i will do campain of my self, ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Somthings about FAMILY   6/27/2005

i think its good dont do criticism to some one who has no relationship in personaly.maybe someday you dissagree with your family advice, opinion or their criticism something about you, dont argue or fight with them like an enemy because one day you will need them. <br> i will always believe what my mother says eventhough she does not know avrythings, but i believe she loves me ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
I LOVE MY JOB!   6/27/2005

love the job is asimple word that every one can say it too, but i think there is some of people get difficult to "love " their job, its because they are dislike the job they got, as the job not dream job or they are work in the company that they are not interested exactly. mostly it will infact to result of works.i think its good for me if i can working with maximize result even the job ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
I care what PEOPLE say:-)   6/26/2005

i have best friends & family who i think really cares on me.u know some times its fun for me when they are give opinion or advice, or criticism.mostly what they are said , its help me to make a decition in my problems. some times i forget that i am the truly person who must do a decition in life.i know that i need them for a sense of securitybut i realize that better for me just be my ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
bigpretytiger 51 F
1  Article
How do you decide whether or not to meet?   6/22/2005

OK, you've been talking back and forth online whether it be through e-mail or IM and talking on the phone. How do you decide if there is enough of a connection to meet in person? I have met two people in person that I first met online and thought we had a good chemistry and when we met nothing was there! So how do you know? HELP! <br> Tiger


3 Comments, 168 Views, 16 Votes ,2.98 Score
colldoll 59 F
3  Articles
"Nervous"   6/22/2005

Where do you begin?..Internet? Bars? Coffee shops?...Tough for anyone to get out there and start over...but it can be fun learning new things...


0 Comments, 169 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
HE DOES CHANGED HIS MIND!   6/21/2005

i met a guy past 2 weeks ago.thence, he asked me for date by phone & i was agree. but when i was on the way to the cafe, i got another called from him & just canceled the date because theres something very important to do. i remember the book of Leah Furman said , if a man do cancel the date , i possible to get know the true by his voice intonation & the reason he given.& if he offered ...


2 Comments, 128 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
ARE THEY CARE AT ME??   6/20/2005

i was not like something about CRITICISM in my lifewhen ever i got it from others i was just wanna do revengeor do it turn to them. actaully i can get the criticism any time in my life.maybe you are people also in the same situation like me.some times my friends do it for my works or about my phisical appearance, but some times the criticism come on the wrong times & the wrong place ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
judderbar 84 M
1  Article
Photo Honesty   6/15/2005

To me honesty is one of the basic planks I look for in my assessment of a partner. I believe (and I’m talking of people interested meeting others for the purpose of forming a long term, serious relationship) that honesty must start from the very beginning and this means the original profile and accompanying photo/s. My experience on a number of occasions has been to see a photo of ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
justbeingme75 49 F
3  Articles
what is the most important aspect of a relationship   6/13/2005

what do you think builds the closest relationships? I personally think its honesty, and communication.


1 Comments, 231 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
capitannemo2 57 M
1  Article
"ask me for a photo"   6/10/2005

SINCE I HAD BEEN ON "FRIENDFINDER.COM", I THOUGHT ABOUT THE UTILITY OF BEEN UNKNOWN OR BETTER FACE UNKNOWN. IF THE PRINCIPLE REASON FOR A PERSON TO GET ON THIS KIND OF SITE IS TO BE KNOWN, WHY SHOULD HER/HE BE IN THE DARK? <br> MY THOUGHTS: <br> SHE IS A MONSTER <br> SHE IS LAZY <br> SHE IS TOO MUCH COMPLICATED <br> JEALOUS BOYFRIEND ...


0 Comments, 124 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
Chilupa2 53 F
2  Articles
Love   6/7/2005

Many of us here in FF have been married or in long term relationships. I am sure for most of us when the relationship was new, we thought it would last forever. And now we ask ourselves; what happened, what went wrong? <br> I was married for 10 years and in a long term relationship for another 6. I do feel I learned something along the way, and certainly a lot about ...


2 Comments, 173 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
beye_43_pg_girl 62 F
1  Article
Beleave in yourself cause if you don't you can't be leave in other   6/7/2005

i relationship is beleaveing in yourself, and if you don't beleave in yourself, you don't beleave in your relationship, so if you start beleaveing then your relationship will go smooth, thats where your relationship starts


1 Comments, 58 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
DONT BE SHYNESS OR BE FEELING GEULTY   6/6/2005

i believe that every one could be done a mistaken in the life, but its really good just realize the mistaken & learn by doing wrong than to be feeling geulty or shyness.when ever you take alearn by doing wrong, you will get chance to do something more good.the feeling geulty or become shyness is the base of external.so when u are in feeling geulty, it will be yours forever.shyness ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Apojo 58 M
5  Articles
Start with a strong base   5/29/2005

A strong relationship starts with a strong foundation. Just as a house of cards collapses with a weak base. So does a relationship. A strong foundation is built upon honesty and with honesty comes trust. When you pile them on top of one another a strong foundation is built and leading to a long lasting relationship. Look how long the pyramids of Egypt has stood their base is so much ...


2 Comments, 134 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
femsteve 37 M
12  Articles
on da..............   5/29/2005

On the first date, do not behave as if you've meet the one, but behave as the the one who want to manage the one, and see what'll happen.


0 Comments, 81 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
femsteve 37 M
12  Articles
my advice   5/29/2005

I advice those seeking patner to be briliant to choose the best.They should'nt be in hurry.


0 Comments, 72 Views, 0 Votes
1RAREORCHID 78 F
8  Articles
What Constitutes a Relationship   5/28/2005

Always thinking about when does a relationship begin? <br> I see couples holding hands, smiling as they laugh and talk. I envy this closeness. The like each has for the other and showing their feelings in a respectful way in public. <br> Yet when I say I want a beloved, I really don't know what is missing in me that can't seem to find the man of my dreams. I ...


0 Comments, 430 Views, 26 Votes ,6.48 Score
brightmars 77 M
2  Articles
A Sex Itch, vs Love   5/27/2005

Marilyn Monroe showed Tom Euwall "The Seven Year Itch". He Fantasized and played a Brinksmanship summer in NYC, while wife and were upstate at the cooler summer cottage. Of course , this is an example of Lust which can often enter into a marriage after 3 to 8 years. Love has a contrasting base. True Love include at minimum Trust and Respect. Often, Christians say ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
3 SIGNS OF UNCOMPATIBLE RELATIONSHIP   5/27/2005

these are signs that your relationship in trouble: <br> 1.STOP DO SHARE TOWARD EACH OTHER if you will not inters to talk or share about your daily activities to your lover, thats sign that your relationship in problem. <br> 2.LESS OF LOVE PASSIONATE if u dont have passionate anymore when do kiss to your lover or when you in touch each other, & dont interes to do ...


0 Comments, 93 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
Celeste711 52 F
7  Articles
The Perfect Man......   5/25/2005

It doesn't sound like I'm asking for much...it doesn't sound difficult to find...yet it is harder than a needle in a haystack to find. Why do men want to buy you flowers, jewelry, furs? All those material things that mean nothing or shove $100 bills in your face to impress you while you want to shove it down their throats praying they will choke on it! Let's not forget ...


4 Comments, 485 Views, 63 Votes ,7.04 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Learn of GEULTY FEELINGS   5/24/2005

we are only human & has limited in the life.but we can get good experiences on it.lets handle your geulty feelings with these things: <br> 1.PRAYING we can get more calm down, optimist & step by step your geulty feelings will gone by praying. <br> 2.FACE GEULTY FEELINGS stop thinking about your bad past or something of mistaken you done, just face ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
ITS MY HEART...   5/21/2005

i have my own life.i have right to make a choice, what evr it is in my life.i got free will to expreess anything or in somethings in my life.its like make others be happy, give some help or i want to make my self be happines.all decition is in my arms, i can decide where to go for hang out, where i want to work, etc. my life is in my controle.but i cant change some body to do like what i ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
laycharm 43 F
1  Article
love and hate   5/20/2005

How is it that a person can love someone so much, but at the same time hate them more than ever. I used to think that life would stop if the relationship needed because of the love, now i relize that the world still goes around and life does get better!!


1 Comments, 151 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
4 things really hard to a man:-)   5/20/2005

infact 4 of these things is easy for a women but noit for a guy.some of girls feel so upset if his man does not care alou simple things like come late for date, does not hear/listen when she talks or the man does not care or realize that his girl got new hair actually it does not mean he is not care or love, but its because of deversity between man & women.there is something easy ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
beau20 38 F
2  Articles
be open   5/12/2005

one way to have a harmonius relationship is to be open to your partner.both must repect one another and maintain a good communication. its like talking everyday about what you have done in a certain day..........


0 Comments, 60 Views, 13 Votes ,2.30 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
MAN IS CALL PHOBIA   5/11/2005

its because:usually a man need to be sure first before make a call to a girl.its because he needs to be sure that girl is prioroty or just a target for him. when ever a man meet a girl for the first time , & his priority is his career, he wont make acall to a girl then. But if his priority is to looking for a special relationship he will make a call as soon as possible Actually a ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
HE DOES NOT HEAR!   5/6/2005

I WANT TO SAHARE little about my relationship.my ex boy friends does not hear me when ever in these condition; <br> 1.WHEN WE WERE IN ARGUE & I AM CRIED, THEN HE DOES BE SILENT & LET ME TALKED MY SELF. <br> 2.ITS BETTER LEAVE HIM ALONE WHEN HE DOES WATCHING SOCCER ON THE TV.HE ALWAYS DOES NOT HEAR ME WHAT EVER I SAID IN THAT TIME. <br> 3.HE DOES NOT LIKE WHEN EVER ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
   2005-05-02

when ever a women in the problems, she always need some one to talk & share with.thats the way to expressive what she is feel. some times she will do argue to some one who she has conversation with. <br> but a man never do that when ever in the troubles/problems.mans usually prefer to be ALONE in temporary.if he has any problems to some one, he always need privacy to EXPLORATION what he feels. don evar try to disturbing of him when ever he want to be alone, maybe he just trying to say " LEAVE ME ALONE " a man usually SPEAKLESS when ever in got problems.so its better LEAVE HIM ALONE


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evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Weekend & Get the Answer   4/19/2005

The simple way to get knowing what kind of relationship exactly we have with some one who close each other is Just talk about it Frankly. we can change our activities & get the right answer by his/her reaction. example: arrange to hang out in the weekend together & tell him/her that your friends will join too.then look at his/her respond in it. - if he/she reject the plan & just wannha ...


1 Comments, 73 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score