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jackjo1 59 M
1  Article
BREAKING UP IN FRIENDSHIP.   6/2/2006

I DONT BELIVE THAT IS POSIBEL TO DO. i BELIVE THAT SOMEONEONE WILL SITT BACK WITH HURTS FEELINGS.


2 Comments, 158 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
Disco_Superfly 53 F
1  Article
Things were going so well until......   5/23/2006

I believed my last relationship was going to be 'the one'. I overlooked alot of things: Like, how he always brought up his ex-wife and all the 'mean' things she did, and how he never bought me any expensive gifts even though he was a Rocket Scientist who held a lofty position in a well-respected university. <br> One night my best friend and I were drinking ...


5 Comments, 289 Views, 30 Votes ,6.08 Score
calebjeff 39 M
4  Articles
Nicely telling her 'it's over'   5/15/2006

How can you tell a girl it's over without making her feel worthless and dejected. I want to do this but nicely. Can someone tell me what tactics to employ? I don't want to pick a fight because this person is an angel and won't want to hurt her. Please help!!!!!


3 Comments, 155 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
CindyIsBack 61 F
1  Article
married man   5/6/2006

what do you do if a married man online wants to control ya


1 Comments, 224 Views, 92 Votes ,0.95 Score
loki32 48 M
6  Articles
Dream poem   4/25/2006

The Gate
The gate is damp and very cold, Green and mouldy made of wood, Falling apart and very old, Straining over it as I'm stood.
I see a house in the dark of night, Ivy creeping up the walls like a mouse, From a window comes a beam of light, The distant sound of music, Nothing else.
I've been bet to look inside, I creep about, Look through a gap in ...


1 Comments, 40 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
for you   4/24/2006

The sheer size of the FriendFinder universe can get a little overwhelming. There are literally millions of profiles out there, and after you’ve scrolled through a few dozen, every "who-I-am" and "what-I-want" starts sounding the same. It’s easy to forget that behind each ad hides a very real - and fascinating - human being


0 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
lolove2u 43 F
1  Article
Men are very Confusing   3/24/2006

OK here it goes. I have been dating this guy for over 2 years. Long distant. We traveled back and forth so many times and he finally packed all his things into his car transfered his job left his family and friends to be with me. He was only here a few days because i found numerous messages on his phone from other females from where he use to live. I question him about it he ...


2 Comments, 243 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
WHAT IF YOU ARE BROKEUP?   3/22/2006

SOMEYEARS AGO WHEN I LOSE MY SWEET RELATIONSHIP, IN THE BEGGINING I WAS SO WEAK, UPSET, CRIED MANY TIMES & LITTLE BIT MAD AT MY SELF.. BUT AFTER AWEEK I HAD TO WAPE MY TEARS, I REALIZED WHAT APOOR OF THE GUY WHO DECIDED TO LEAVE ME FORGOOD! HOW HARE HIM LIVE WITH OUT ME! THEN, I MOVE ON, KEEP ENJOY MY LIFE & OPEN MY HEART FOR NEW RELATIONSHIP.AS TIMES GOES BY, EVERYTHINGS BACK ...


1 Comments, 108 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
zwartebes 47 M
1  Article
was it meant to be   3/19/2006

When we are in that situation of breaking up or being dumpt we should ask our selfs the question "was it meant to be". When we are in love or a relationship we see almost every thing different than someone from the outside. We take a lot of things for granded. If we looked at our own relationship the way that we look at that "BAD" relationship of an neighbour, friend or familiy member ...


1 Comments, 55 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
mustangbill2 73 M
32  Articles
WHY, Break up??   3/12/2006

Hi, new friends.. The reason for most break ups is SELFISHNESS. Outch, thats got to hurt. I met a lot of couples with that problem. They think of thenselves, instead, of the other person. NO!! love is not 50/50, its 100/0 and that the truth. So if you break up you will do it again. So how are you being selfish, in your relationship. Now thats the tuff one. Love is ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
DREAM LOVER   2/28/2006

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT DREAM LOVER?I THINK DREAM LOVER IS: <br> 1.HE/SHE IS REMEMBER THE NAMES OF WHOLE MEMBER OF MY FAMILY, INCLUDE NAMES OF MY PETS 2.HE/SHE KNOWS ABOUT SPECIAL ACTION DO YOU PREFER FROM HIM/HER WHEN GOT KISS OR INTIMATE 3.HE /SHE IS ENJOY WHEN HANGOUT WITH YOUR BEST FRIENDS 4.HE/SHE WILLING TO COOK YOUR FAVORITE DINNER 5.SOMETIMES, HE/SHE HAS SUPRISE ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
vvcher2005 40 F
12  Articles
Not one   2/26/2006

I so wanted the light and heats, I dream about warm love was, But person I see in you, Not one who became Cherish and closer to me...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
seeks_love_n_u 54 F
9  Articles
taking it easy...   2/24/2006

Loving so much is the most beautiful feeling you ever had. And when disaster came into relationships first thing you want is to break up. Isnt there any other means to flourish the feelings back? Were not perfect we just have to accept the imperfectness of both sides.


0 Comments, 83 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Starspangled0 29 M
1  Article
On the Rebound   2/13/2006

Well I'll letcha all know right of the bat my story from begining to end if ya think you can take listening to it its quite sad and long. It still gets to me I cannot let go. I am the type of guy that always needs to know that somewhere out there there is a girl that is in love with me. Most women I date end up telling me I deserve better when I m always happy with whatever I have. ...


1 Comments, 102 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
sweetcakes31 40 F
1  Article
crap happens in life   2/7/2006

breaking up is hard but it is up to u to decide how hard it will be on your self, me i guess u would say i have split personals, when someone breaks up which never really happened in my life i always was the one breaking up but the two times i can count i went on wit my life after being wit some for 2 years an had a wit him an i showed him like i didn't give a crap i am not the type to ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Bye-Bye Uncertain LOVE!   2/7/2006

its really nice if we met nice person & now do you have strong feeling that he/she is the right for you , thats what you thinking about him/her.but unfortunatelly, he / she has no READY FOR COMMITMENT with you??until right now! <br> so, i think you have to more sensitive to analyze it.always remember, dont let your feeling to him/her upset & grounded.get more learn about the ...


2 Comments, 67 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
Corral29 49 F
1  Article
It can't be Easy   2/5/2006

I have given my boyfriend 3 and a half weeks to move out and remain my friend. I told him I have had enough of him not being able to keep a job and not being responsible enough. I don't think I'm being too hard on him but he thinks I am. Is there anyone who has been here and has some advise. I can do this, I know I can because I have been down this road before. I just ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
seeks_love_n_u 54 F
9  Articles
what happens to us? ...   2/5/2006

When relationship doesnt really work for several ways to make it work then you should make a good move. After all life is short and both of you deserved to be happy and have a peaceful life. Whats the point of staying together when both of you are not happy anymore. The problem is what could be the feelings of your after your break up?? Have you considered it? Still no peace...lol!


1 Comments, 53 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
lealoves16 51 F
1  Article
Lealoves16   2/5/2006

Ok i dont know what to do im dateing an older man now who is 55.Im 32 he treats me like a little girl.I know this sounds totaly funny but i love him.He loves me to but he seems controlling and jealouse.What should i do?


2 Comments, 222 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
mustangbill2 73 M
32  Articles
It hurt someone!!   1/19/2006

I am sorry to hear you are breaking up. The number one reason, is Selfishness. I wrote a article about this already. Read it. We are apt to not be flexable from, one time to the next. People want there own way. Sorry, but that selfish. Love always perservers. I wish no one had to break up, but it a way of life. E Harmony, was started by a PhD, that hated to ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
KA23 37 F
5  Articles
Life is a journey?   12/23/2005

Love guides our eyes to believe in happiness and laughter.... <br> To know oneself and ones partner... To love one another... To appriciate good times through this long life... Which is set out for us... <br> <br> To remember good people who have left us and to embrace ones around us that are here in lifes journey!


1 Comments, 59 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
newtocali30m 43 M
10  Articles
Honesty the best policy...   12/19/2005

Let's face it, no matter how you break up with somone, it's not going to be a great experience. I say be honest, direct and compassionate. It's going to be hard at first no matter how you do it, but when that initial akward period passes, at least you won't be burning a bridge.


3 Comments, 112 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
maria_tanya77 46 F
1  Article
Move on...   12/13/2005

Well i met this wonderfull man...3months ago..and yes ..the feeling is mutual..gosh..feel like a again..a man who likes to walk and see a moonlight beside the beach with wine on hand...perfect romantic...feel whole and new...never said i love you to him..but he did it first...I never let him see the real feelings I have for him..I wish I did ...really!!!But now its too late...and its ...


1 Comments, 202 Views, 36 Votes ,6.78 Score
Thea23 49 F
6  Articles
Letting Go   12/13/2005

LETTTING GO........ <br> "Letting go of someone doesn't necessarily mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his/her own happiness without expecting him/her to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free (in the real sense of it), but it is also setting yourself free from all animosity, revulsion, and resentment that was ...


1 Comments, 188 Views, 26 Votes ,7.77 Score
sureshh1 46 F
10  Articles
Have Life!   12/13/2005

Not the End of the World <br> So you've been dating this guy for three years now, the relationship is getting monotonous already. You've been quarelling about the usual stuff. The LQs (lovers' quarrel) are getting regular and it seems like you're not solving any issues anymore. You even disagree on where to eat, what to order and it seems like you're not getting the usual ...


2 Comments, 149 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
SIMBACAT3 46 F
11  Articles
Young, 17 & stupidly naive!   12/9/2005

At the age of 17, I had my first "boyfriend". I felt like I was walking on air each day, for as long as it lasted (all 3 months!). Due to a hellish home life I moved in with my boyfriend, shortly after meeting him, giving up all chances of achieving my destined career path. He told me he was 21, which he probably was. Although somehow I do not think it really was his 21st birthday ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 19 Votes ,3.39 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
IT TAKES YOU & YOUR LOVER   12/7/2005

IT ALWAYS TAKE TWO TO MAKE LOVE RELATIONSHIP WORK OUT.IT TAKES TWO ABOUT TAKE CARE OF LOVE, LET IT KEEP EXIST BOTH OF INSIDE.THIS IS IMPORTANT THING TO DO.IT MEANS COUPLE MUST BE WILLING TO SPARE TIME FOR IT. JUST DISCUSS ABOUT WORRYING, COMPLAINT, HAPPINES, ABOUT ANY FEELINGS EACH OTHER IN THE LOVE RELATIONSHIP.STOP JUST TO BE GOOD LISTENER BUT SOME TIMES BOTH OF YOU, NEED SOME ONE TO ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
niceguy2039 63 M
78  Articles
Definition Of An Alcoholic!!!   12/3/2005

An alcoholic is somebody who thinks Denial is a Rver in Egypt.!!!


1 Comments, 67 Views, 7 Votes ,0.49 Score
SIMBACAT3 46 F
11  Articles
My traumatic experience in a womens refuge.   12/2/2005

It was 11 years ago that I ended up in a womens refuge, like a safehouse for victims of domestic violence. <br> The memories are still fresh in my mind. It happened on New Years Eve. I was at home with my 3 year old and newborn baby, feeling depressed as usual. I'd been suffering from domestic violence at the hands of my then partner. He'd gone out for the night, as usual. Fed ...


5 Comments, 148 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
greatlady67 49 F
1  Article
Him and I   11/20/2005

When it was time to finally draw the line, I had send my best friend away. He left with no arguement, guess he understood what I meant. It's been one month now since our divorce. Should I feel happy or sad. deligent or glad? Sincerely, Darla


0 Comments, 96 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score