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evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
PUZZLE OF MY LOVE   6/21/2005

am i still hurt because of my failed relationship? am i still hate my EX?? the answer ie NOT ANYMORE! i was tried to erase all of memories about me & my ex.i was realy hurted by him.thence i realize those things made me suffer or sorrow! and there after i got some effect in my personality its really not good for me, if i am broken heart for longtime, because of failure of ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
SEX HARASSMENT   6/20/2005

infact some one do harassment not only because OF a girl using sexy or sensual cloths.but it could be happen in some of reason, in any where & not only to a girl but also could happen to a man in the whole of world!. mostly sex harassment can happen in the public area. actually no any reason to some one doing sex harassment.it will hurt to some one.its nothing to do with a girl who using ...


2 Comments, 70 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
JUST OPEN THE HEART!   6/14/2005

open your heart for chance to do changing of your bad habit, its like stop do argue with your partner only because of simple thingsopen your heart to take achance to trying new things in life.its like take a dance cource or learn new language. <br> open your heart to accept others opinion or critcism about you.just open your heart for any chance in this life for the better ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Forgiving!   6/6/2005

forgiving means let it be & get new perception.it does not mean to forgetting.if i am in negative thinking for along time in my life, in my mind, it could be make me lose of energy for other activities in my life, so it better for me to FORGIVING!


0 Comments, 55 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
msucrazy0924 34 M
11  Articles
worst break up   6/4/2005

just wanted to know what some of you worst break ups were


0 Comments, 51 Views, 0 Votes
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
JUST BE HAPPY IN YOUR LOVE!   6/3/2005

Love is mean taking & love is mean forgiving! get on your love relationship more happy! this is something reasonable for you & make your mentaly be health., this is one of power to motivate in your life.its mean let your permissive for your self only, enjoy what ever you do with some one, beloved is mean let the affraid gone from you.taking is just seeing everythings as the way they are.


0 Comments, 42 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
msucrazy0924 34 M
11  Articles
break up   6/1/2005

Have you ever had to breakup with someone you just cant live without?


1 Comments, 109 Views, 11 Votes ,1.67 Score
sxytxn 45 F
5  Articles
GLOBALLY SOUND POST-BREAKUP ADVICE   6/1/2005

OK, MY BREAKUP ADVICE, UNLIKE SOME OTHER HELPFUL HINTS THAT YOU HAVE HEARD, ACTUALLY WORKS!! AND GUESS WHAT?? IT WORKS FOR A WOMAN, A MAN, ANY RACE, COLOR, CREED, ETC... <br> ALRIGHT, LISTEN: THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER SOMEBODY IS TO GET UNDER SOMEBODY ELSE!! WORKS EVERY TIME... NOW ISN'T THAT JUST TOO EASY?? GLAD TO HELP!! sxytxn


1 Comments, 150 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
girln209 41 F
1  Article
breaking up is hard but.....   5/31/2005

breaking up is hard, everyone knows this and no matter what you do to soften the blow it hurts, but i think the ultimate pain is seeing your ex-fiance with somebody else. how do you handle something like that? a fiance is somebody you thought you were going to spend the rest of you life with and how told you that they loved you and only wanted to be with you and no other could ever measure ...


1 Comments, 124 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
msucrazy0924 34 M
11  Articles
best way to break up withsome   5/30/2005

even though i know there is no good way what do you think is the best way to breakup with someone


0 Comments, 109 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
1RAREORCHID 77 F
8  Articles
Are you sure you're not running away?   5/28/2005

In my bit of experience I have found that sometimes I run away. I say good-bye because of my own fear of being abandoned. <br> Also I find when I do break up I sense this man for sometime afterwards. I see his good points and perhaps taste his charm. I hold onto the "good" parts as if there were only those. I've looked at this and sometimes it's the loyalty bit - I really ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
femsteve 37 M
12  Articles
ALLOW   5/28/2005

It happened one day in a primary school.There is a teacher named Mr. Alao. He taught the students that if they want to go and deficate or do anything they should ask for permission by saying allow me to go and ................... Now they've posted the teacher away from the school and brought Mr Delay. So if any of the students want to do anything they will ask for permission and say ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
A SHELTER   5/18/2005

when ever your lover in trouble/problems in the life , it means that your love in the test, with your understanding, maturity & heartfelt in it..it could be happen to any one. its important to have someone special in your life & do share about somethings toward each other. especialy in the bad situation.most of couples willing to do sharing about happines moment, but what about in bad ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
johnnieb 41 M
3  Articles
Encounter   5/13/2005

So much is quite common and found everywhere, Thus often passed by without that much care. Much shows us nothing with the eyes we have then, Our minds know it's something but not sure for when. <br> We are overloaded with things to review, our memory storing but actions quite few. Yet sometimes one impulse is hard to ignore, the impression created producing far more. ...


0 Comments, 102 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
musicjunkie 38 M
1  Article
Trying to Make Friends In a Town Where You're Never There   5/13/2005

Hello everyone. This is my first article so bear with the noobiness. I guess the reason I joined this group sounds very naive and elementary: I have no friends in Columbus, OH. I know that sounds 6 year oldish but let me explain. See I moved to Columbus, OH two summer ago before college started. So I moved to a new town right after graduation which is not a good move but hey it was my ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
febsubbu 43 M
10  Articles
Read on..   5/12/2005

A young boy enters a barber shop and the barber whispers to his customer, "This is the dumbest in the world. Watch while I prove it to you." <br> The barber puts a dollar bill in one hand and two quarters in the other, then calls the boy over and asks, "Which do you want, ?" <br> The boy takes the quarters and leaves. <br> "What did I tell you?" said the ...


0 Comments, 96 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
Bill Gates words... and GM reply   5/12/2005

Some words inadequately said can bring consequences. In this year recent computer science fair (Comdex), Bill Gates made an unhappy comparison of the industry of computers with the automobile, declaring: "If GM had developed technologically, as much as the industry of computers it developed, we would be driving cars that 25 dollars would cost and that you would make 1000 ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
Kimosavy 66 F
1  Article
True Colors...   5/10/2005

Ya know, hindsight is always 20/20... Breaking up is tough... I think what's tougher is trying to mend when you've been deceived. It tears at a heart and leaves an open wound.... At least for a while. <br> Time does heal and in knowing that, I think on what was positive in the relationship and what we learned from the experience. "True Colors" will always eventually surface... ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
beau20 38 F
2  Articles
setting free   5/9/2005

breaking up is a wayof giving your selves a space to breathe and somehow let you realize your mistakes and emptiness...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
Genuinescot 55 M
2  Articles
Internet Friendship ( BEWARE )   5/4/2005

Because NOTHING in Life is Free. <br> <br> <br> Ever heard that old saying? Well, who knows how old it is but it is very true , regardless. I was thinking about so many people who seemed so confused about how to go about meeting and building a good relationship with someone and that old thought came to mind. It really seems like many people ...


1 Comments, 170 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
Msteri42 61 F
21  Articles
Computer Quotes   4/30/2005

What is a computer's first sign of old age? Loss of memory. <br> What does a baby computer call his father? Data. <br> What is an astronaut's favorite key on a computer keyboard? The space bar. <br> What happened when the computer fell on the floor? It slipped a disk. <br> Why was there a bug in the computer? It was looking for a byte to ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
Msteri42 61 F
21  Articles
The Magic Of Love   4/29/2005

Love is like magic And it always will be. For love still remains Life's sweet mystery!! Love works in ways That are wondrous and strange And there's nothing in life That love cannot change!! Love can transform The most commonplace Into beauty and splendor And sweetness and grace. Love is unselfish, Understanding and kind, For it sees with its heart And not with its ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
Msteri42 61 F
21  Articles
Love Quote #3   4/29/2005

"To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage." <br> Lao Tzu


0 Comments, 51 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
Iyami_az 72 F
2  Articles
The RUSH   4/25/2005

I've noticed a phenomenon in my foray into online "dating" that I call "The RUSH." And it has caused me to break off correspondence with several respondants. It goes something like this: you email a few times, and he decides he wants to IM. So you agree to IM, which leads to audio "conversations." During which you suddenly find that this person you've known for all of three or four ...


0 Comments, 201 Views, 15 Votes ,3.13 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
JUST FORGIVE!   4/24/2005

someday my girlfriend toldme that she has breathless when ever she remember her boy friend has an affair with other girl.i think its sadness. <br> according to research of HOPE COLLEGE, HOLLAND, in 71 person who has forgiven & try to forget the bad past, they were 2, 5 times got more normal of their NERVEOUS TENSION. FORGIVENESS & FORGET THE PAST is good for our HEALTH but ...


0 Comments, 124 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
MARKETING AWARD 2005   4/23/2005

This interactive announcement was created by Lowe of South Africa for POWA - People Opposing Women Abuses, an ONG that struggles against the women's abuse. When the reader tries to browse the page, he notices that the leaves are agglutinated. It is possible to see just partially that there is an image of feminine legs under a sheet. When pulling the leaf, the sticker it is ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
DONT GIVE UP HOPE!   4/23/2005

when you lose something or lose some one who you love very much in your life, just remember what Helen Keller said: ' WHEN ONE OF DOOR OF HAPPINESS CLOSES, ANOTHER OPENS.BUT OFTEN WE LOOK SO LONG AT THE CLOSED DOOR THAT YOU DONT SEE THE ONE WHICH HAS BEEN OPENED FOR YOU'


0 Comments, 166 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
johnwqw12 63 M
5  Articles
Pinching   4/22/2005

As the crowded elevator descended, Mrs. Silverman became increasingly furious with her husband, who was delighted to be pressed against a gorgeous young blonde woman. As the elevator stopped at the main floor, the blonde suddenly whirled, slapped Mr. Silverman, and said, 'That will teach you to pinch!' Bewildered, Mr. Silverman was halfway to the parking lot with his wife ...


0 Comments, 98 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
johnwqw12 63 M
5  Articles
Counselling Genious   4/22/2005

After just a few years of marriage, filled with constant arguments, a young man and his wife decided the only way to save their marriage was to try counselling. They had been at each other's throat for some time and felt that this was their last straw. When they arrived at the counsellor's office, the counsellor jumped right in and opened the floor for discussion. "What seems to be the ...


0 Comments, 103 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
AVC PREVENTION   4/20/2005

SOMETHING THAT EVERYBODY SHOULD KNOW: WILL IT BE THAT IT IS HEMORRHAGE? Sometimes the symptoms of a hemorrhage are difficult to identify. Unhappily the recognition lack provokes a damage. The victim of a hemorrhage can suffer cerebral damages when the people around don't recognize the symptoms of the hemorrhage. ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
SHORTY299 37 F
2  Articles
DONT CRY NO MORE!   4/16/2005

READ EACH SENTENCE SLOWLY AND THINK ABOUT IT. <br> <br> Love starts with a smile, grows with a > kiss, and ends with a tear. > > Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over > >you. > > Good friends are hard to find, harder to > > leave, and impossible to forget. > > > Don't let the past hold you ...


0 Comments, 123 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
SHORTY299 37 F
2  Articles
CALLER ID   4/16/2005

>Caller ID > > > God works in mysterious ways, doesn't > He? > > Isn't it amazing how God works in our > > lives ! On a Saturday night several weeks ago, this pastor was working > > late, and decided to call his wife before he left for home. It was about > > 10:00 PM, but his wife didn't answer the phone. > ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
NO NEED APOLOGIZE   4/15/2005

some times we done something wrong to others, so is fine to apologize.But there somethings that we are no need to apologize, like the things as the belows: <br> 1.its normal if some times we are in bad mood, like the feelings mad, upset or sad, what ever the feelings inside of u or in your mind, thats your right, dont ever feeling geulty if u could not laughing together with ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Be Friendship With EX   4/14/2005

its very hard moment after splitup with some one who we ever love so much.but it does not mean then we become enemy toward each other.but we can keep being a friend then by do these things: <br> 1.be apart temporarly after the relationship is over.let all of sweet memories out of mind/life/heart step bye step. <br> 2.take time & chose place when ever we decided to meet ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
THE END OF TAXES PARADISES   4/1/2005

The Financial Action Task Force on Money Laundering (FATF) is the organization with primary responsibility for developing a world-wide anti-money laundering framework, in close cooperation with relevant international organizations. It was established by the G-7 Summit in Paris in 1989 to develop a coordinated international response to mounting concern over money laundering.( A Fact sheet - ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
A TRUE STORY FROM INDIA   4/1/2005

Parivartan organized a public meeting on Public Distribution System on August 29, 2003 at the Gandhi Peace Foundation in Delhi. About 300 people attended the meeting and all of them together marched to the office of the Food Commissioner of Delhi. About 157 people filed individual applications under the Right to Information Act in force in Delhi, seeking to inspect and obtain copies of ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
THE NEW LEADER   4/1/2005

When a political elected leader is after elections to become President of Republic, Member of Parliament or to organize a government there is several decisions factors at the time: - The public commitment of the political party to the electors; - The nominations or invitations inside the party accordingly the internal tendency; - The personal commitments with the sponsors of the public ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
TO RULE THE NATION   4/1/2005

The sovereign Nation is organized and implemented by the Constitution that is the guarantee of the effectiveness of civil rights and liberties in order to achieve the full democratic State through the economically, socially, cultural promoting peoples participation. The State has functions and duties subordinated to the public rights and duties. No restrain of the main rights is possible ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
THE POWER OF STATE   4/1/2005

The conception of Power ‒ “Latin origin potere” can be applied to a person or group having great influence, force or authority, this last meaning the power or right to give commands, enforce obedience, take action or make final decisions meaning also a jurisdiction. In a “bad way “a constant striving for power or authority in politics is a desire to find ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
HOW TO RULE THE PUBLIC STATE OF THE NATION   4/1/2005

- Conflict of interest - refers to a conflict between the private interest of a public official and public duty. A potential conflict of interests exists when it appears that an official's private interests may have the potential to interfere with the proper performance of their official duties, for example, serving in a high-profile position in a community organization. - Mitchell, ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
danger4 61 F
5  Articles
Soul Mates   3/31/2005

Do they really exist and can we find one? Can we really meet another person who is our other half and that will love us unconditionally? Yes, I met a man that I did love and I loved him with my whole heart. He had a drinking problem and one day after thirteen years I decided that he was never going to change. It didn't matter how much I loved him or how much I did for him. He would ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
danger4 61 F
5  Articles
It's Hard Walking Away   3/30/2005

It's hard walking away from someone when you love them, but you know that if you stay with them you'll only be settling. You know they're never going to change and you know you'll never be given the love you want and deserve. It's hard walking away when you think of how they feel and how it feels to lie in their arms. You think of all the times they held you and planted small kisses on ...


0 Comments, 137 Views, 18 Votes ,4.35 Score
IvaLynn 54 F
22  Articles
love hurts!   3/29/2005

The night are lonely the days are sad wondering why haven't you call or stop.I can see your never going to be around so why stick around wondering if you feeling the same way or i'm wasting my time I can see it's wrong but still want to hang around all I want is too fly away but I can't ball of chain around my chest, it hurts every time I try to come around....


0 Comments, 125 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
THE WORLD NATIONS RULE   3/28/2005

The sovereign Nation is organized and implemented by the Constitution that is the guarantee of the effectiveness of civil rights and liberties in order to achieve the full democratic State through the economically, socially, cultural promoting peoples participation. The State has functions and duties subordinated to the public rights and duties. No restrain of the main rights is possible ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
ABUSE OF POWER   3/28/2005

a) The Public interest of a Judiciary system <br> <br> Is the effective way to assure the national citizens and international community that in a Country there are democratic rules. Where Justice is ineffective corruption grows ‒ the Public interest is under Private interest. These concepts supra national that gives a place and reason for the International standards ...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
A BETTER JUSTICE   3/28/2005

A BETTER JUSTICE <br> A long dictatorship period built logic of operation of the political and administrative system : the State sucking the society in benefit of itself own and of parasitic elite. <br> In certain moment of our history, the society got tired of serving as input for the State, you/he/she decided to invert the logic and you/he/she impelled a ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
The sorrow will GONE   3/26/2005

there is many bad /sadnes/sorrow things can happen in our life but these things wont influence us forever. <br> times will heal the hurt, sorrow, just believe all of dissapointed some day will gone, even the serious one, because the life always bring us to many NEW DESTINATION WITH MAY WAYS.


0 Comments, 33 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
IvaLynn 54 F
22  Articles
for give and for get!!!!!!!!!!   3/25/2005

when you first fall in love you both like each other very much so........but when you break up you always say alot of hateful and rude things about one other why not show respect to each other as well as you did when you first meet.


1 Comments, 81 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
wakiyaki 44 M
3  Articles
Types of girls   3/22/2005

Copied this from somewhere... <br> HARD-DISK Girls: She remembers everything, FOREVER. <br> RAM Girls: She forgets about you, the moment you turn her off. <br> WINDOWS Girls: Everyone knows that she can't do a thing right, but no one can live without her. <br> SCREENSAVER Girls: She is good for nothing but at least she is fun! <br> ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
PUBLIC EXPENSES   3/22/2005

It is cheaper to maintain a royal family than a republican president


0 Comments, 31 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
THE COUNTRY IS LOST   3/21/2005

"The country lost the intelligence and the moral conscience. The habits are dissolved, the consciences in stampede, the rotten characters. The practice of the life has for only the way of the convenience. No there is beginning that is not denied. No there is institution that is not mocked. Nobody is respected. No there is any solidarity among the citizens. Nobody has ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
17 truths Absolutely Relative   3/20/2005

1. thief that steals thief lives in Federal district. 2. I adore the roses, but I prefer the creepers. 3. the lost women are the more sought. 4. as it is difficult to get rid of an easy woman. 5. A sun and a wooden shoe wooden shoe are made with hard wood. 6. money doesn't bring happiness, but it helps to suffer in Paris. 7. two things that I adore: cold beer and ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
sunnyrain195 62 F
8  Articles
10 commandments   3/17/2005

Treat the Earth and all that dwell there on with respect. Remain close to the Great Spirit. Show great respect for your fellow beings. Work together for the benefit of all mankind. Give assistance and kindness whenever needed. Do what you know to be right. Look after the well being of mind and body. Dedicate a share of your efforts to the greater good. Be truthful and honest at all ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
WOMEN   3/17/2005

The man discovered the glass and it invented the bottle. The woman discovered the glass and invented the mirror. The man invented the deck of cards and, soon then, the game. The woman discovered the deck of cards and invented the fortune teller. The man discovered the word and it invented the conversation. The woman discovered the conversation and invented ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
WHAT IF IAM WORRIED   3/16/2005

we are possible be worry about somethings & always make it bother us so. If i am be worry i wm always do these things: - i will share with my best friend to whom i can trust to talk about. i will listen what her/his advise/opinion , its help me often. - I will watching some comedies movie which make me get laugh alot -I will do exercise/aerobic & will get more "endhorpins" in me & ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
keg9632 61 M
5  Articles
The right relationship   3/15/2005

Short term relationship and adultry are the main causes of breakups in the world today. Long term relationships are making sure you have a stable partner, and is 75% more likely to be a lasting marriage. Therefore, short term relationships are likely to end up in breakup, because they are after one thing and you girls know what that is? But it can be the same for women. Mental ...


1 Comments, 134 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
ADVIRTISEMENTS   3/14/2005

Some of you should be finding strange the word "Advertisements." I explain. Do they remember that woman that pulled the button of the choke of the car, to hang the bag, in an action of inherent pratical way to every woman done engage in the modern world? Well then, when she was born, the publicity still crawled and their parents taught to her, as soon as he/she began to babble ...


1 Comments, 55 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
ultraprincess 53 F
8  Articles
funny how you feel when things are going bad   3/14/2005

Its almost funny how when looking back you realise that you knew exactly when the relationship just stopped in its tracks. <br> When you get used to being with someone, its hard to just take the signs that are presenting themselves and give up. After all you say to yourself, all these months or years i've invested, maybe if I try hard enough the spark will come back, or in most ...


1 Comments, 118 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
TIME   3/13/2005

Most people says that don't have time to assume compromises or to do things.The true is that the day has only 24 h but we must establish priorities and that way there is allways time. Stress disapears if someone every day or every week knows his/her priority in work or in study - In personal life is exactly the same


1 Comments, 42 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
calebjeff 39 M
4  Articles
how easy is breaking up?   3/12/2005

Breaking up is always painful and difficult. Most times it's one of the parties that feels it most. If its mutual, then its less painful. <br> Many people dont handle it well...create bad blood on the affected person even turns agaist himself or withdraws himself from people....Whatever be the case one should realise that one day....you may have to separate


0 Comments, 38 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
DYNAMIC   3/12/2005

The principle of dynamic is one thruly positive - once you give an impulse the developing hapenings are freat - but you have to start - and stop who try to stop


0 Comments, 19 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
HAPINESS   3/10/2005

How to define the state of mind " to be happy" Is a very personal aquisition of inputs and outputs coming from our mind that can lead to a positive or negative status. <br> TO BE HAPPY IS TO FELL WELL WITH OURSELVES <br> By any way you don't feel well with your conduct you are unhapy <br> But if you are sure that you have done what you should do than You ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
TO FORGIVE OUR SELF   3/9/2005

Actually its really hard to forgive our self than give it to some one else who did something mistake to us. Just learn doing wrong & get some good experiences in it.Always doing in perfect its does not mean that we could become a kind/nice person to others.We can learn doing wrong anyway.so just keep be happy & forgive our self


0 Comments, 25 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
John52168 47 M
1  Article
Where Does He go?   3/7/2005

When she had a problem that needed some attention, all she had to do was pick up the telephone and someone was available to listen to her and be there for her. Even he was there to listen to her, but sometimes she needed an ear from somebody else. There was never a shortage of friends available to her to be there and listen to her. <br> However, with him it was a whole other ...


0 Comments, 125 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
snuggles_43xoxo 62 F
1  Article
What I live by   3/7/2005

Recently I had a whirlwind romance that ended as quickly as it began. Was it difficult when he dumped me and said he wanted to get back with his ex ..... YES. Afterall he supposedly loved me and I knew I loved him. After reading the book "He's just not that into ya" I took toll of the relationship and decided to live by my six month rule. Whatever is bugging me today will probably be of no ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
avalexa 62 M
298  Articles
LOVE - AFFECTION - FRIENDSHIP - SYMPATHY - COMPANY   3/7/2005

Everyone confuses the concepts and without a necessary defenition of concepts the badly understood appear - especially in the loving field -. There is to have present in mind that for each person a concept can have different meaning than for other - the love to God or the love for my companion - Then for the dialogue there is to find the syntony of concepts and it can ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Recovery from the Pains   3/5/2005

We always feel so bad & terrible when ever the love relationship is over.Its pain inside if the love relationship is failed.some people are crying much too. anyway we have to raiseup & do something for recovery on it.when ever im in this condition i would do these things: <br> 1.keep busy & more focus your self with work/job. 2.Get more exercise than before. 3.Share with ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
MazeLewis 50 M
7  Articles
We Belong Together   3/4/2005

Sweet love, yeah I didn't mean it When I said I Didn’t love you so <br> I should have Held on tight I never should've Let you go <br> I didn’t know nothing I was stupid I was foolish I was lying to myself <br> <br> I could not fathom That I would ever be Without your love <br> Never imagined I'd be ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes
playboybunny78 45 F
2  Articles
If he does'nt want to talk   3/3/2005

Hey He never says he dont love me cause , he does. But I think he did this to see if he still got it, he is still young just as much as me.And once in a while i wonder to if i still got it. And yes friends are the problem, and family. Telling him im not good enough for him, ( we have three together.) I clean the house every day , dinner ready for him, give it to him when he wants it ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
keg9632 61 M
5  Articles
Mental Awareness and Body Language   3/3/2005

I see there are quite a few post on breaking up. Apparently people are having a big problem in producing what it means to have a solid relationship and this is why I am writing this article. <br> Mental Awareness is the ability to control your own circumstances of the mind and spirit for the good of the body. <br> Body Language is the ability to read other peoples ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
NOT EASY TO FORGIVE   3/3/2005

I was regret so much met a man who has a year of love relationship with.I have decided to splitup because i can accepted anymore that he never could make his promises come true on me.i was hurt so much, i was hate him so.i have been no idea to forgive him & stop mad at him , i thought that he treat me so bad & unfair.i was so weak & on the stess after few weeks brokeup. but in couples ...


1 Comments, 92 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
playboybunny78 45 F
2  Articles
once a cheater always a cheater   3/2/2005

Hey i have been through it all.Me and my husband been marriaged for seven in a half years. We 've been having problems in our marriage. So instead of talking to me. He cheated on me, with the same girl he cheated on me. Before we got married, and we were just dating.U think, he would have learned the first time."Its ok cause i got him back "big time".But that is another story. My advice , ...


2 Comments, 110 Views, 13 Votes ,2.30 Score
rockmyworld1966 59 F
1  Article
Feeling this way till the day you DON'T   2/27/2005

Hello, I am new here, looking for outlets! I have been split from my ex for almost a year now and even tho it has gotten much easier I still find myself remembering when...... It will be little things like a commercial, a comment ot just a thought that will bring back memories. We were engaged and things I had done unravelled and that was it. When does it all go away?


1 Comments, 206 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
awful63 60 F
6  Articles
the end of the story   2/25/2005

well this is the end of the "another story". <br> i got him back in January 12, 2005 and finally drove him away on feb. 18, 2005 because of the same reason...." another girl". <br> I DONT DESERVE HIM! HE BECAME MY WORST ENEMY! <br> SAD ENDING!


2 Comments, 151 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
aLockhart 56 F
13  Articles
A break up poem   2/20/2005

It was at random that we ever met, A chance I don't let many get. To meet someone from far away, Never knowing if they're here to stay, Not knowing if what they say is true, Of what they're doing and telling you. So far away, but yet so near, The "not knowing" is the fear. Is it truth, or is it lies? Will a heart grow, or will it die? Either way, the bonds of ...


1 Comments, 127 Views, 19 Votes ,3.78 Score
N2U37 48 M
1  Article
when sex is not good   2/20/2005

What would you do if the sex in your realationship wasnt good or satisfying?? How would you tell them about it, ,, ,, or would you????????


2 Comments, 227 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
LOVE is BLIND?   2/16/2005

I had been in love relationship with a man but my friend & my family thought that we were not fit each other as theres many things different between us.so ther were given adviced to stop the relationship is better.But i just ignored what ever they were said to me.Just kept the relationship because i love him.i saw often many flirting & sensual messages in his mobile, when we were in ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 18 Votes ,2.99 Score
sureshh1 46 F
10  Articles
Some Good Things Never Last   2/14/2005

Everytime I think of the time when I gave up on our five-year relationship, I couldn't help but reminisce the times when love was at its peak in our relationship. We were very young college freshmen then. We contented ourselves with simple joys like going to the park to go skating, eating cheap foods on the snack booth, watching the sunset while hugging each other and giving me your jacket ...


1 Comments, 111 Views, 18 Votes ,3.94 Score
bindurmind83 41 M
1  Article
wow thats an overwelming feeling.   2/13/2005

to breack up/or get ur heart broke/lose/lost tha love of ur life wow that hurtz like no other i swear ! i was with .well i wasnt even with her but we were if u know what i meen we lived toghther 4 about a 1 and a half im not sure how i fell soo deepl in love with this girl i dont know how i gave her muh hole f@#$%%in heart then i just let her walk way like she never took nothin. wow now ...


0 Comments, 138 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
smile72063 60 F
1  Article
Life offers lots of lessons   2/12/2005

It's always hard to break up but if it weren't for it I wouldn't know what I really like and dislike about my relationships, myself. I Ask myself What is it about the relationship that didn't work? What areas did I struggle through or love the most. I thought I'd met the right guy, turns out... not. Love can sure put on blinders sometimes. It sure helped me know myself a little more ...


2 Comments, 154 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
stefandero 66 M
3  Articles
marriages   2/11/2005

As for arranged marriages, I have no clue to what you read and how unbiased the view it projected. But it's a truth and its here to stay. People get into arranged marriages for various reasons...tradition, family values, fame, money, honour etc etc. On the positive, chances of an arranged marriage breaking up is far less than a love marriage. The number one reason being the family support ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
SETUP2 53 F
2  Articles
The mirror!!   2/11/2005

She looked to the mirror ...she couldn’t see herself clearly!! She is not satisfied with who she is....and sank deeply in her thoughts for a while...then the vision became clear..she's changing and struggling more to change, that unhappy woman she sees is not her. she wants her self back...she can’t go on like this. If he doesn’t love her for who she is then she can't ...


0 Comments, 199 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
DeepEYedGirL99 35 F
23  Articles
A search for Love!!!   2/10/2005

love where can I fell you where will I see you where can I hear you oh love where can you be? <br> where will you be oh love? so I will go and meet you half way that I may witness your breauty a beauty that was love <br> Speak to me oh love in any ways you want to for all I want is to hear you and listen to what is love <br> Touch ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
craziechica2 41 F
1  Article
Fakies   2/8/2005

I think its BS when peopl hide behind fake faces. Just be yourself, what is so hard about that? Being respectful with a sense of humor is key I think. I think if most people just let loose ad had some fun in these chat rooms, they'd have more fun. I have met so many awesome ppl online.


0 Comments, 127 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
joy2768 53 F
10  Articles
lsn't it miserable   2/7/2005

when I break up with someone because I know it's not going anywhere even though I was still completely in love with them............I am doing all the right things......... by joy2768


0 Comments, 46 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
jaysworld 42 M
1  Article
JAYS WORLDS LIFE   2/7/2005

I WAS IN A DATEING AND THEN I DIED LOL


1 Comments, 114 Views, 9 Votes
WriterWench13 70 F
1  Article
Stark Raving Sober   2/2/2005

That's the phrase that struck me from the Al-Anon (support group for families and friends of alcoholics) literature, 12 years ago. An alcoholic can be so clever, look so sober, clean-living and kindly, can fool just about everyone into thinking that there's no problem with HIM, no of course not, it's his poor silly wife that's suffering from such bad PMT/menopause symptoms/post-natal ...


1 Comments, 141 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
imachirpybird 42 F
1  Article
There is finally light at the end of the tunnel.   1/30/2005

A few months ago my heart was broken in two by the love of my life, well thats who I thought he was. I was engaged to my long term partner and the happiest I had ever been in my life to date. I was so in love and never thought that anything would ever change it. I would of done absolutely anything for this man, I worshipped the ground he walked on so to speak. So you could imagine the pain ...


1 Comments, 196 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
tigeroo25 37 F
2  Articles
How do you get over someone you loved uncondtionally?   1/29/2005

I'd love some suggestions on this since i have been going through a devestating end to a relationship with someone i thought wanted to stay by my side and love me unconditionally, like i loved him. Its a very long and complicated story but if you have advice or ideas please feel free to leave them.


5 Comments, 397 Views, 19 Votes ,3.65 Score
Celeste711 52 F
7  Articles
When you know it is time to divorce.....   1/28/2005

You know it is time to divorce when you have given the man 8 extra years to prove that he loves you when time after time he hurts you over and over again. You have tried talking to him, writing letters, pulling words from Webster's dictionary such as compassion, loyalty, consideration and he still doesn't get the message. Doesn't seem to sink into his brain. You find articles on-line on ...


5 Comments, 266 Views, 21 Votes ,6.34 Score
sleekly 43 F
43  Articles
Fact   1/27/2005

If you yelled for 8 years, 7 months and 6 days, you would have produced enough sound energy to heat one cup of coffee. If you fart consistently for 6 years and 9 months, enough gas is produced to create the energy of an atomic bomb.


1 Comments, 124 Views, 19 Votes ,2.60 Score
maisabell 44 F
1  Article
When do you break up a marriage?   1/26/2005

I was talikng to a friend some minutes ago about taking the decision to divorce. Even when everything seems lost, there is still a little hope deep inside that makes you want to keep on. Is it masochism or just the loyalty there still is among the couple? Probably both. It is hard to end a relationship specially if it's a long term one. There have been shared memories that built tiny ...


0 Comments, 109 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Is it Fair ?   1/22/2005

i was have cute & nice boy friend. we had 2 years relationship but after i thinking many times i decided to brokup.so i asked him to breakup & told him that i want to try new relationship because: 1.he has no spare time with me since 1, 5 years.he works in other country now & very busy.but i think if he wants he can visit me once a month as not too far from my place.but he could not ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
sleekly 43 F
43  Articles
It's over   1/21/2005

Accept the fact that the relationship is over. Do not give yourself unrealistic fantasies that you might get back together one day. Respect the fact that the relationship had its time, but has no ran out ways to work. This was a chapter in your life that has now closed and you are now ready to grow and enter another chapter of your life.


0 Comments, 72 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
Sirpie 50 M
5  Articles
NOT ALL THAT GLITERS ARE GOLD   1/15/2005

Do not be overtaken by some-ones first approch 2 U. Some people pritend, just 2 have what they want. Rather, take a long time of platonic, and later come closer, if U deemed it wise.


0 Comments, 41 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
ambetterthangood 61 F
1  Article
Perfect Friendfound, Matchfound, here, Merry xmas-gone   1/14/2005

Yes, Friendfinder helped me find mine! We matched from our first meeting, and fell in love which lasted almost three years. I doubt I will ever find someone that matches me so closely. He is good-weird, just like I am, but he lives 53 miles away. People don't think 53 miles is a long distance, but it seemed like 53, 000 miles sometimes. Talking on the phone, chatting online, emailing, ...


5 Comments, 192 Views, 14 Votes ,4.10 Score
freightbroker 54 M
2  Articles
Hard to accept it's really ending..........   1/12/2005

I met my wife at a trucking school 9 years ago, we were in our mid 20's both starting a new career and decided to drive together, her in the days and me at nights spending pretty much 24 hrs a day together.I thought we had mutual interests in life like where to build our home, what we wanted to do with our lives which verbally anyways was starting a retail Mexican Pottery Import Business, ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
PrincessCeCe 49 F
3  Articles
You and I   1/11/2005

You and I Love each other so As from the same lump of clay Is moulded an image of you And one of me. In a moment of ecstasy We dash the images to pieces, Put them in water, And with stirring and kneading, Mould again an image of you An another of me. There and then, You will find yourself in me, I myself in you. <br> Kuan Tao-Sheng Sung Dynasty


0 Comments, 45 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
econoscot 68 M
2  Articles
Bouncing Back   1/10/2005

Recovery is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I suppose I saw it coming. I had ten great years of marriage and ten not so great. But in the middle of that we had two daughters who make my heart sing (and sometimes drive me crazy). When we eventually split, my (ex) wife moved 400 miles away. There was no fight over custody of the because our daughters (at the time 12 and 14)clearly ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
Ice_500 58 F
14  Articles
CK's song....It's too late   1/9/2005

Driving down memory lane...sigh....the 70's. They made great songs back then. The era when sexual revolution was in uproar. As a youngster back then, it was just a song. Years gone by and we dont get to hear her songs anymore or how it could have influence my life. Thinking back of the break ups I had..wished I was singing this song....... It's too late by Carole King <br> ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
awful63 60 F
6  Articles
another story   1/4/2005

I met a guy in the internet and i can count with my five fingers how many times we chat. He decided to visit the Philippines. I thought he was just joking and i have not seen him online for over a month, and when we catched each other again online i learned that he's been here, and he was looking for me for nearly 2 months. i did not give him my home address not even my mobile number, that ...


1 Comments, 196 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
galjuxtoposition 69 M
1  Article
pain   1/4/2005

When you wake up one day and feel a deep pain and know that something just isn't right anymore, you know that it's over. Time to move on.


1 Comments, 122 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
sexxxylover4u 49 F
2  Articles
WHY IS BREAKING UP HARD TO DO?   1/3/2005

Hello, my fellow Friend Finder Members! First, I would like to throw a question out to all the Friend Finder Members who read this. Ready? O.K., ,, , here goes. <br> 1.) Friend Finder Member.... Why do YOU think 'BREAKING UP IS SO HARD TO DO'? <br> 2.) And what factors make or contribute to making breaking up so hard to do. <br> All I ...


1 Comments, 221 Views, 12 Votes ,1.21 Score
HappyTeddy2 57 F
1  Article
It cuts to the very core of the heart   12/30/2004

The pain of loosing someone you love, is what words cn never describe. The worst thing is when the other still hangs on to the hope of getting back. When we fall in love, we all hope and trust that it will be forever..? The only thing we want at that moment, is to spend every precious minute that we have, with the person we love. But the dritfs and cracks start happening, the sun ...


1 Comments, 146 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
noviafugitiva76 47 F
27  Articles
My last article   12/28/2004

Hi, this is my last article, I want to thank all the people who read my articles, and the ones who left me written advices, or tried to cheer me up, maybe I´m too sensitive or too stupid, or maybe both, but I want to say goodbye to everybody, today I´m not feeling very well, I feel very sad, very depressed, maybe I´m exagerated, but I feel so depressed that I don´t want to know anything ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
sureshh1 46 F
10  Articles
Have Life!   12/26/2004

Not the End of the World <br> So you've been dating this guy for three years now, the relationship is getting monotonous already. You've been quarelling about the usual stuff. The LQs (lovers' quarrel) are getting regular and it seems like you're not solving any issues anymore. You even disagree on where to eat, what to order and it seems like you're not getting the usual ...


2 Comments, 149 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
eroticbabygirl 45 F
2  Articles
BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO............   12/23/2004

IT IS A VERY SPECIAL, SPIRITUAL, DEEP BOND BETWEEN TWO VERY UNIQUE PEOPLE. NOTHING IS EASY BREAKING UP. <br> LOVE IS GREAT. LOVE IS STRONG. LOVE IS SHARING. LOVE IS GIVING. LOVE IS ALL.


1 Comments, 155 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
noviafugitiva76 47 F
27  Articles
How to become an insencible?   12/22/2004

Hello again, as you can see, I loved to write and write articles, and give advices to people, every time I read an article about someone who has just broke up his or her relation, I just give them advices or supporting words, when they need strong words about leaving someone, or when people is still in love with someone who just don´t care, then I try to give them advices and people are ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
jean132 74 M
3  Articles
HOPE RECOVER   12/22/2004

Love, where are you ?...you who is looking from the darkness of the night...Where is love?...Where do you hide yourself?..Why do you hide yourself behind the darkness of the life?...Since a long time ago, I am waiting for a dear Love like you..Softness, tenderness, trust and faith...I have so much to give you...Love where are you?...Love where are you?..From life I will lead you and loving ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Mom2Tori 50 F
4  Articles
How many times will it take?   12/18/2004

Frankly. I don't understand it. I was personally, always one of those women who never even gave them a first chance if they weren't completely capable. <br> So I don't quite get what the hell I was thinking about when I kept taking the last one back. Love him? Yeah. But it was dysfunctional and now I realize that. I care strongly for him since we are now parents but that doesn't ...


0 Comments, 189 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
8lonely_guy9 46 M
12  Articles
wisdom and the courage   12/15/2004

At least three times every day take a moment and ask yourself what is really important. Have the wisdom and the courage to build your life around your answer.


0 Comments, 275 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
noviafugitiva76 47 F
27  Articles
To be alone hurts more than everything   12/14/2004

I want to share with you my feelings in this moment, I´ve been feeling very sad and alone, well, I´m alone in fact. Sometimes when I think about my two failed chances to get married I start thinking that maybe I´ll never be married, and that makes me feel really really sad, and I think I would never have that experience, it´s one of my dreams, to share my life with the man who loves me ...


8 Comments, 166 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
Joschu 58 M
1  Article
Stay in contact and how!?   12/14/2004

Breaking up is always a very tough event in everyones life. Its usually the partner who was left, who feels the biggest pain inside his/her heart. So what do you do if you still have strong feelings for your "former" partner, who has left you? If there is anger besides the pain in your heart its almost impossible to stay friendly in contact. If your Ex knows about your feelings and ...


2 Comments, 206 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
mia824 61 F
7  Articles
When it was over....   12/12/2004

I was going to post this in the Poem section, but I thought that it might be good to read it here instead. I wrote this a few years ago, when I broke up with an Ex. <br> Since you have come to live with me I feel even more Alone Because now that you supposedly live here You do not bother to come home I threw caution out the window Because I liked you right from the ...


0 Comments, 142 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
Danitra 41 F
1  Article
What would you do?   12/11/2004

Everything is an ideal.Him, you, perfect relationship, great sex life, understanding without words...Suddenly you have to go...He is the one who staying there? Months are going , no matter how bad you want to keep him just for yourself, even if you are thousand of miles away, you feel like he is slipping... Occacionally mail, phone call with words"i still miss you, ..want you..love ...


2 Comments, 165 Views, 18 Votes ,4.35 Score
noviafugitiva76 47 F
27  Articles
Healing hurts   12/10/2004

How can you forgive someone who has hurted you in your most deeply feelings? People say that love forgives everything, and I think it must be that way, but if someone doesn´t forgive you just for something not so serious, then that person doesn´t loves you? If I´m writting this is because I want you to know that love hasn´t died yet, it still here, but if you don´t feel anything, maybe ...


2 Comments, 132 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
noviafugitiva76 47 F
27  Articles
Letter for Mark:   12/9/2004

Mark, my sweet blue prince: <br> Mark, I don´t know why are so apart, I just want you to know, that I´m crazy for you, that I love you with all my heart, please Mark, I don´t want to loose you. I feel so sad, Mark if you have a chance to read this, I´m desesperate, if you want to know somehting if someone makes me a question what it could be my best wish, I´ll answer to MEET ...


0 Comments, 107 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
smallkiss 40 M
52  Articles
before it starts   12/8/2004

A man comes home from an exhausting day at work, plops down on the couch in front of the television, and tells his wife, "Get me a beer before it starts." <br> The wife sighs and gets him a beer. <br> Fifteen minutes later, he says, "Get me another beer before it starts." <br> She looks cross, but fetches another beer and slams it down next to him. ...


0 Comments, 88 Views, 5 Votes ,0.21 Score
mia824 61 F
7  Articles
My Friend just broke up with his Boyfriend...   12/8/2004

A Good Friend of mine just broke up with his boyfriend. He was asking me for my advice on his "Relationship" prior to doing this. I Love my Friend, as a Friend. The more I listened to him describe his unhappines and the way he was being treated the more confused I became. I finally interrupted him and said "Would you let a Friend treat you this way?" He said "No." I said "Of course not ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
sunnyrain195 62 F
8  Articles
change   12/5/2004

If you are not riding the wave of change <br> you find yourself beneath it


1 Comments, 140 Views, 25 Votes ,3.35 Score
fortunate96 55 M
21  Articles
Do Fun Things Together!   11/30/2004

Another memorable month of December nears... It is quite traditional still today to swap adult beverage recipes. Be prepared as current new names are amidst a popularity battle at clubs all over the world. The makers remain proud!


0 Comments, 200 Views, 17 Votes ,4.68 Score
mort224 61 M
1  Article
The split   11/28/2004

Divorce is hard for all, after 20 years of marriage i thought it was for ever, my wife told me different, first part of the divorce on fathers day and the second on my birthday, good old lawyers timed it just right, thanks. It's hard for the chilren so remember that when you get down to argueing about things that don't really matter, they hear all. It takes a lot to get over it and don't ...


1 Comments, 144 Views, 27 Votes ,6.61 Score
sweet_darlin 54 F
1  Article
Something to share to everyone....   11/27/2004

Breaking-up with someone is always been a challenge emotional experience. Often, we feel traumatized for awhile especially if your breaking-up with someone you once decided to put yourself to a long-term or lifetime commitment. But other times it's a trial to a relationship that make it stronger and increases awareness towards each other traits and then learn to respect them. <br> ...


0 Comments, 151 Views, 20 Votes ,6.32 Score
Thea23 49 F
6  Articles
Letting Go   11/24/2004

LETTTING GO........ <br> "Letting go of someone doesn't necessarily mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his/her own happiness without expecting him/her to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free (in the real sense of it), but it is also setting yourself free from all animosity, revulsion, and resentment that was ...


1 Comments, 188 Views, 26 Votes ,7.77 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
HELLOOOOOOOOOOOO   11/23/2004

work as chief accountant in a civil engineering firm and a lot of time spend at my favourite work. Besides I love to cook, furnace, I am fond of knitting, I go to the pool in my free time and I love spending time with the friends in the country, in mountains, at lake. I like very much to get acquainted with the new people, to study their culture and to learn new things together with them. ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
she like it   11/23/2004

HELLO MY ........ Dear Handsome, ... Here is my chance to tell the world how lucky I am to have found an amazing GIRL like you. All my life I felt like I was meant to be alone, as if my someone took a wrong turn over a bridge before I could meet them. Then came you... suddenly my eyes went from clouded storms to small blue beacons. I was so sad, and you took away all that pain just by ...


0 Comments, 95 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
for sweety   11/23/2004

HELLO MY ........ Dear Handsome, ... Here is my chance to tell the world how lucky I am to have found an amazing GIRL like you. All my life I felt like I was meant to be alone, as if my someone took a wrong turn over a bridge before I could meet them. Then came you... suddenly my eyes went from clouded storms to small blue beacons. I was so sad, and you took away all that pain just by ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 15 Votes ,0.07 Score
maria_tanya77 46 F
1  Article
Move on...   11/16/2004

Well i met this wonderfull man...3months ago..and yes ..the feeling is mutual..gosh..feel like a again..a man who likes to walk and see a moonlight beside the beach with wine on hand...perfect romantic...feel whole and new...never said i love you to him..but he did it first...I never let him see the real feelings I have for him..I wish I did ...really!!!But now its too late...and its ...


1 Comments, 202 Views, 36 Votes ,6.78 Score
awful63 60 F
6  Articles
goodbye!   11/16/2004

dearest morgan, <br> I have been so fortunate for the opportunity of knowing you. The online relationship with you is really worth remembering. <br> People come and go into our lives. In this case, i came into your life in an instant, and in the same manner may i say goodbye to you for so many reasons. We are a thousand miles apart. I dont want you to make a fool out of ...


1 Comments, 113 Views, 28 Votes ,5.09 Score
crazysexyfreaky 42 F
3  Articles
you never know   11/15/2004

At one point, I think I became the idealistic, young woman who thought love could save me. Now, I think that love is just an over-used term. Amazing how one man can change my point of view. When I first met him, he was everything I thought I wanted, he could make me smile, make me laugh, always made me feel beautiful, strong and needed. That same man also managed to make me feel worthless, ...


3 Comments, 170 Views, 18 Votes ,6.81 Score
noviafugitiva76 47 F
27  Articles
We aren´t alone   11/15/2004

Breaking up it´s very difficult, I´ve just broke up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago, I felt like dying, I was very illusionated to get marriage with him. It was the second time in my life I was engagement, but this time, I was really really illusionated, I think it was the first time in my life I were in love. The first boyfriend who I was engagement we broke up because he treats me ...


0 Comments, 182 Views, 37 Votes ,7.21 Score
babyjoyce 42 F
1  Article
burned with desire...   10/30/2004

For each forgotten kiss For all the memories For all the times alone Said all we have to say <br> You played your part so well A modern romeo You came on cupid's wings And then you flew away <br> When you touched my face When you called my name I'm burned with desire <br> But you left me in the rain... <br> For every sleepless nights ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 29 Votes ,4.04 Score
awful63 60 F
6  Articles
"letting go"   10/29/2004

The hardest thing to do is to let something stay forever because whether we like it or not, things must change as people come and go. We can never tell what will happen there and after. <br> It's always nice to look back to those splendid moments of the past especially if it was spent with special people in, but sad to say most of them are just but memories. In friendship for ...


0 Comments, 121 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
awful63 60 F
6  Articles
Nudge the Balance   10/29/2004

A 91-year-old woman died after living a very long dignified life. When she met God, she asked Him something that had really bothered her for a very long time. "If Man was created in God's image, and if all men are created equal, why do people treat each other so badly?" <br> God replied that each person who enters our life has a unique lesson to teach us. It is only ...


1 Comments, 88 Views, 25 Votes ,5.57 Score
magic2you2 64 M
7  Articles
Lucky Day   10/26/2004

Lucky Day <br> One day Jimmy Joe was walking down Main Street when he saw his buddie Harry Kee driving a brand new blue pickup. Harry pulled up to him with a wide grin. <br> "Harry Kee, where'd you get that blue truck buddie?!?" <br> "Stella Lou gave it to me" Harry Kee replied. <br> "She gave it to you? I knew she was kinda sweet on ya, but a new ...


0 Comments, 91 Views, 16 Votes ,5.48 Score
babygirl42760320 34 F
1  Article
Missing Him   10/8/2004

I have been broken up with my ex for about a year but I am madly in love with him. I dont know if I can live without him. I want him back in my life but he was abusive verbally and physically. How do I get over him?


10 Comments, 144 Views, 24 Votes ,2.90 Score
misstiffany 51 F
3  Articles
How do you know it's over?   10/3/2004

At what point do you know the relationship's over? Is it when they don't call? Stop talking about your future together? Act distant or indifferent? What do you tell someone who is dealing with the beginning of the end? Have you ever gone through it or helped a friend with a break-up? What would you tell your best friend?


2 Comments, 191 Views, 17 Votes ,5.39 Score
stillsweet26 46 F
3  Articles
cheers for my girlfriend who just got dumped   10/2/2004

it is what I gave my girlfriend when she was totally down and hurt from awful breaking up <br> 1. delete his phone number and e-mail address from her addressbook. completely, quickly. If you still keep it, you might call ex again when you are drunk or way too down. you have to do it however you are dumper. you are responsible for not hurting dumpee twice. <br> 2. put ...


0 Comments, 211 Views, 29 Votes ,6.35 Score
stillsweet26 46 F
3  Articles
Hurt   9/28/2004

The hurt gave by other human can be healed only by human. the hurt from interpersonal relatinships can be healed only by relationships. Not all hurts should be got over by oneself. Once you can not trust anybody from harsh experience, you need someone who tries hard to earn your trust to trust people and beauty in the world again. <br> well, the issue is if there is anyone who ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 18 Votes ,4.90 Score
stillsweet26 46 F
3  Articles
love capability   9/26/2004

I can't remember last time I heard "love" from man. I can't remember last time I felt love with no worry. <br> Every guy left me with saying nothing, just lost contact. A few month later, I always heard he got back to his ex. and even he was getting mareied to this girl. I heard my ex was sleeping with my best friend behind my back while we were in relationship. It is too late ...


2 Comments, 1180 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
lil_sweety 47 F
2  Articles
I don't feel safe..   9/21/2004

You feel unsafe, unsure <br> You don't like to be alone. <br> You're frightened, and fear limits the joy you experience in your life. You're trapped in an adventureless existence. <br> What are you afraid of? Pain? Rejection? Are you afraid of making a mistake? Of getting hurt? <br> ...Did you know I am never afraid, worried, frenzied or ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 26 Votes ,3.78 Score
arainn 77 F
1  Article
is hard to do.............   9/20/2004

.....but sometimes there is nothing else to do, but to break up. <br> Whether you have been growing apart bit by bit or have suddenly come to a fork in the road where each must go a seperate way, sometimes 'Goodbye' is the only thing left to say. <br> When and if that moment comes, take a moment to remember all the good times, hug your partner, smile, wish them all ...


0 Comments, 121 Views, 21 Votes ,5.97 Score
Licere 47 M
1  Article
Would you want to stay friends with your ex's??   9/18/2004

Just out of curiousity... How many of you stay friends with your ex's? Do you still keep good relationship with them?? Personally, I would say that it depends. But whatever happened, I won't be able to forget all about those who I loved once.


0 Comments, 131 Views, 37 Votes ,4.76 Score
dubovicka 57 F
1  Article
How to break up?   9/17/2004

When you are kind of devoted and loyal person it's really difficult to undestand those men who swear they love you but never miss a chance to flirt with others. <br> Once I start to live with a man somehow I forget that somebody and something else exists outside our home. People say that a bachelor becomes degraded and the same happens to a woman - when married. She thinks ...


1 Comments, 170 Views, 38 Votes ,6.22 Score
unsuperhero 47 M
1  Article
re: He always say that he wants someone else   9/11/2004

Okay, maybe I'm the gazillionth person to reply to this article but...if he wants a 15 year old girl, perhaps you should let him go. <br> Does he just want someone who is or does he want someone who is much younger than himself? I dunno. Sounds like he wants someone young that he can mold for himself and control. Be happy with yourself and you'll be happy with the next ...


0 Comments, 163 Views, 26 Votes ,7.23 Score
andybaum 44 M
1  Article
stalking ex   7/29/2004

What are the most effective ways of stopping an ex of stalking you? We broke up almost a year ago, she still visits me at my office every other week, sends emails, calls, altough i made VERY clear that i don't want anything to do with her any more...


0 Comments, 207 Views, 73 Votes ,6.15 Score
mondstar 47 M
1  Article
a shoulder to cry on   7/28/2004

i'll admit it's hard to froget about someone you spent so many of your nights dreaming about , but the only way to get over it is to look ahead and never turn back.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 71 Votes ,8.39 Score
sexxysexylover4u 58 F
9  Articles
Response to writer gwyd   7/19/2004

Hi, I want to thankyou kindly for your response on my question of boyfriend wanted to see me nude... You made perfect sense You are bright & so right, I agree with you and appreciate you responding to me, it was good to hear your reply. <br> Many Thanks & all smiles, ,, <br> ****I just broke up with this man, yes, you are right, he was just trying to use ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 48 Votes ,8.15 Score
sissu 38 F
3  Articles
There aint no cure for true love...   7/8/2004

When u find somone, the love of your life, the one..it´s hard to leave your love behind when you have to. but your wrong - the love will alsways be there. it´s not like u break up with the one you love and after a while you stop loving them. if it would be that easy there would be less heartbreaks. unfortunately it isn´t that way. love is a blessing, breaking up usually seems like hell. ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 87 Votes ,8.47 Score
likestolaugh4444 75 M
6  Articles
Can We Be Just Friends?   7/5/2004

No. <br> That's the healthiest answer in most cases. <br> When a man and a woman pass the stage of friendship and enter into a romantic or sexual stage, they enter into a whole new depth of desires, expectations and consequences. <br> But when they break up, sometimes there's a desire to keep some of the flame burning to soften the pain of loss, the agony of ...


0 Comments, 271 Views, 141 Votes ,8.19 Score
NaYERGirl 36 F
4  Articles
Any medicine to cure heartache?   7/2/2004

Ok, breaking up is like heartburn..lol


0 Comments, 134 Views, 66 Votes ,4.57 Score
sexxysexylover4u 58 F
9  Articles
He wants to see me nude, in order to show I love   6/26/2004

HI , My heart is broken, my fiance` & I broke up because of an error. I ask him to forgive me and he said, in order to show u , you love me, show me your body; I think he is still not forgiven me and just wants to make a fool of me.and humiliate me, I'm just one big joke to him. What do u think about this?


0 Comments, 92 Views, 72 Votes ,7.55 Score
wmn34lkn4pals 54 F
9  Articles
love is not enough   6/24/2004

I see you stand there before me with tears in your eyes. Asking for another chance. I have given you so many before today. Believed in you. In your words. Only to find out the hard way. You never really cared about me. You tell me that your sorry and that your ready now to be with me. We can have a good life. If Id just give you one more chance. I wont be sorry. ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 127 Votes ,8.51 Score
CindyIsBack 61 F
1  Article
married man   6/21/2004

what do you do if a married man online wants to control ya


1 Comments, 224 Views, 92 Votes ,0.95 Score
Archangel255 41 M
3  Articles
Breakup suck   6/16/2004

Break ups suck but they happen. If you need help see a councilor. Other wise gather your wits and seek some other company.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 59 Votes ,5.37 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
advice   6/15/2004

I work as chief accountant in a civil engineering firm and a lot of time spend at my favourite work. Besides I love to cook, furnace, I am fond of knitting, I go to the pool in my free time and I love spending time with the friends in the country, in mountains, at lake. I like very much to get acquainted with the new people, to study their culture and to learn new things together with them. ...


0 Comments, 107 Views, 36 Votes ,3.32 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
Come to me.............   6/14/2004

Come and get me baby! yow! Ok...On the one hand I'm looking to make all kinds of friends from all over the place! On the other hand...I'm also looking for THE ONE. so please keep that in mind everybody...you too THE ONE (if you're out there... because if you are? All my new found friends and I will have to part company. I don't screw around in a relationship. I'm total loyal, faithful, ...


0 Comments, 123 Views, 30 Votes ,3.63 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
see that   6/14/2004

Come and get me baby! yow! Ok...On the one hand I'm looking to make all kinds of friends from all over the place! On the other hand...I'm also looking for THE ONE. so please keep that in mind everybody...you too THE ONE (if you're out there... because if you are? All my new found friends and I will have to part company. I don't screw around in a relationship. I'm total loyal, faithful, ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 17 Votes ,1.85 Score
darkangel_25 45 F
1  Article
how do deal with a divorce   6/12/2004

Hey.. I'm in the middle of a divorce that for the most part I don't even want. I'm trying to figure out how to cope with it and also how to start dating again and just getting on with life without being extreamly jaded toward men now. I keep thinking no one enters a marriage with the plan of getting a divorce so why is it most of them end up that way. I'd like to know if anyone out there ...


0 Comments, 172 Views, 64 Votes ,7.37 Score
flairmuse 39 F
1  Article
Still single after 2 1/2 years...   6/9/2004

well...what can I say, my longest relationship was 3yrs, and this was 2 1/2 yrs ago...I am still single. The entire time I'm single, I have only gone on 3 dates. After each of these dates ends, I sit on my bed tearing...I'm still longing for my ex. I know this is not healthy, I gotta move on.. but nobody seems to be perfect like my ex, deep in my heart I know my ex is THE ONE... and the ...


0 Comments, 153 Views, 72 Votes ,7.11 Score
RecycledBach 77 M
3  Articles
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over Your First True Love?   6/1/2004

Kinda hard to call that "breaking up"! Try this on for size, no sex, no phone calls, no dates with your ex, no contact of any kind. THAT is breaking up! What you have is lack of committment, conveniently entertwined with the sex you both still want. <br> So, if you want to go your separate ways, go. If not, then realize you are in a non-committed relationship and enjoy the ...


0 Comments, 105 Views, 63 Votes ,7.54 Score
RecycledBach 77 M
3  Articles
Re: "your the greatest guy and you have so much to offer"   6/1/2004

It should be fairly easy to know what they mean by that. It means they are too gentle and caring to say what they really feel, "Take a hike, Jack!" They are just using a nice way of getting you out of their lives. Unfortunately, it leaves you hanging and asking others, questions like the one you asked.


0 Comments, 74 Views, 37 Votes ,7.81 Score
RecycledBach 77 M
3  Articles
Re: It never easy for the Guy's either   6/1/2004

Rethink this one, pal. She's not going there to love or visit the cats, but someone is getting some kitty! Stand up to her and be a man! Lay down the law and save the marriage if you feel it is worth saving. Otherwise, accept the truth. She's not sleeping on her ex-boyfriend's couch!


0 Comments, 181 Views, 31 Votes ,7.84 Score
wmn34lkn4pals 54 F
9  Articles
Why now ....   5/23/2004

I wish I could explain the situation Im in...its kinda crazy. <br> Ive also been through a divorce before back in april 98 . my was born in september 95 we seperated in october 95 we had been seperated almost three years and married almost 11 years before the divorce happened. <br> My got sick a couple of months before his fourth b-day, three years passed and ...


0 Comments, 140 Views, 63 Votes ,5.40 Score
sagittariusgirl 48 F
3  Articles
hello   5/21/2004

my boyfriend and i broke up 2 years ago. he lied to me and cheated me... he was with another girl while he was with me.. but i didn't know that.. after a year, one of his best friend told me the truth... i was so disappointed.. i left him. he didn't want me to left him but i knew if i would gave him one chance more, he would do it again...


0 Comments, 188 Views, 46 Votes ,6.32 Score
Amara_LokiFire 41 F
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RE: She loves him but he doesn't love her . . .   5/15/2004

I have more to add to my previous article called "She loves him but he doesn't love her . . ." <br> Right after I wrote that artical, I caught him in a lie that shook me to the core. He invited a girl over tha he had been talking to as a "friend" to "watch movies" and "hang out". I saw all that in quotations becuase he had been having phone sex with her while he was with me and ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 55 Votes ,6.25 Score
naughtypopcorn 46 F
1  Article
Lost   5/14/2004

“Human beings are creatures that grow accustomed to anything. That is probably the best definition of them.” Those are not my words. They are Fyodor Dostoyevsky’s Notes from the Dead House. I once read them, liked them and memorized them. I don’t know why I remembered them when I saw her!!!! Pretty as she was. Wandering the streets for no obvious reason in that ...


0 Comments, 155 Views, 30 Votes ,5.89 Score
Amara_LokiFire 41 F
2  Articles
She loves him, but he doesn't love her . . .   5/3/2004

This just happened to me two weeks ago. I will try to keep it as short as possibile even though it is a long story. Two years ago, I was intorduced to a man by his best friend who was also starting to be my friend at the time. We hit it off and starting dating and being girlfriend and boyfriend right away. I waited one month to have sex with him just to see if he was for real. I lost my ...


0 Comments, 198 Views, 29 Votes ,6.65 Score
JJwantspals 53 F
1  Article
RE: Breaking up, is it really forever?   4/22/2004

Breaking up can really be forever. That is why its very important not to chose to breakup until you are really sure that's what you want. So many people have lost a real chance at being happy because they were discontented with the love they had, only to realise many weeks or months, or even years later, that the love they threw away was the real thing. <br> People are different ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 33 Votes ,6.27 Score
Equinox320 73 M
12  Articles
I't never easy   4/13/2004

To quote Yogi Berra, "It's deja vue all over again" After a month or so of dating, signals that a relationship is not going to last emerge. Some of her behaviors that previously seemed cute take on a edge and become annoying. You start to look at the caller ID before answering the phone. These are warning signs that mean that it is time to have that "talk" with the person you are dating. ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 24 Votes ,6.20 Score
crazysexyfreaky 42 F
3  Articles
Military men or boys?   3/29/2004

My whole life I have grown up around the military. But when I decided to join, I never knew what I was getting in to. Since moving to San Diego, I had met 2 or 3 pretty decent men to go out with. We would go to the movies, or to the beach. Whatever we felt like. But the downside was, I met them online. Having the type of family that I do, I could never tell them that I met people offline. ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
nefertitilove 46 F
2  Articles
We're not in love   3/27/2004

I met this guy in FF. He's in love with my profile&my pics. We aggreed to meet. It took me 8 hours from my country to that place, for him 16 hours. He was very happy when he picked me up in the airport, He didn't expect that I'm so real. He got bad experience, he met the girls totaly different from her pics. He's been so nice to me and i've been enjoy "my self" for 3 nights. I'm back to ...


0 Comments, 232 Views, 51 Votes ,7.71 Score
Michelle_26 46 F
1  Article
to let him go...   3/22/2004

... those words you can hear so often in your life... as we can release ... its always hard to say goodbye and this is just not a song....it takes time to forget the person we loved...but can we love again... the same feelings?... will it be the same or just a new experience? ....we must look into the future and we have to trust our self...


0 Comments, 201 Views, 36 Votes ,7.21 Score
SWEETKITTY-girl 31 F
1  Article
if it feels wrong then break up immediately   3/14/2004

I think, that If you're dating someone, who maybe seems like a nice person and so one, but if there is no funny feeling every time you think of him, if he aint make you feel butterflies in your stomack, then it's better to break up. because the further the relationship goes and the longer you stay together- the more you get used to each-other. and after that breaking up might be just really ...


0 Comments, 82 Views, 38 Votes ,5.73 Score
travelinlauren 46 F
1  Article
The Car Salesman   3/2/2004

I introduced you to all my friends, my brother, and my sister. You were so handsome and so sweet to me. My sister told me you were too good to be true. My friends said that you were charming- like a car salesman, trying to sell me something. But I thought that I deserved someone like you. You took me to a great restaurant in Houston. We spent the weekend having brunch, getting drunk, ...


0 Comments, 290 Views, 43 Votes ,6.94 Score
Senseidinky 52 F
10  Articles
Blue Valentine   2/23/2004

I used to think the emptiness inside me When somebody get interested in me It started with one hello Never thought my feelings grow <br> Love is just a game I used to play with Until you came Foolish beat of my heart For the first time, burst into flame <br> You may not ready to love again You may not believe and trust on what I said Let go and ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 29 Votes ,5.95 Score
edison2974 43 M
1  Article
Baby don't go   2/21/2004

I still remember last night when u said u want to stop our 3 years relationship. U said, im to pasion n concentrate in my job... And, u want to continue ur master study in Austria. I can waiting u for another 2 years after u finish ur study. Jannie, i really love U. Pls, give me one more change.. Bcoz i love u


0 Comments, 122 Views, 33 Votes ,1.59 Score
someonespecaial 42 F
1  Article
Can someone help me?   2/21/2004

I had been going out with this guy nam Jim for two years.But suddenly out of no where came this man by the name David. I am so inlove with David and he love me too.And he want me to stop my relationship with Jim. So i met Jim and confess to him that i am inlove with David and i want our relationship to stop.But Jim just bended down on his knees and hold my foot and start crying. He said he ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 30 Votes ,3.04 Score
fromnepal 43 M
8  Articles
I didn't get a chance to say I love you.   2/20/2004

I didn't get a chance to say I love you. You were gone before we got that far. All I know is now I really need you, Yet when I look for you, you aren't there. You said once that you never would forget me, Yet how am I to know without you here? Such emptiness! Like what I feel within me: Neither flesh nor tears, just cold thin air. <br> Sometimes, alone, I feel your ...


0 Comments, 268 Views, 37 Votes ,7.05 Score
Stephanie7690 41 F
11  Articles
Response to "I found the Truth"   2/8/2004

You made the right decision. ITs hard, but you were strong through it all. I am proud of you, you stuck to your guns and therefore you were independent. Be careful of some people (not just guys, but girls too)! You do not want the emotional baggage that might come; the stresses also; you are young, find someone who will give you fulfillment; pray about it; during Historical Biblical ...


0 Comments, 95 Views, 50 Votes ,5.44 Score
Stephanie7690 41 F
11  Articles
Response to "I found the Truth"   2/8/2004

You made the right decision. Its hard, but you were strong through it all. I am proud of you, you stuck to your guns and therefore you were independent. Some people will try to lead you on, suggesting all sorts of promises; go and live your life, for you deserve this! Be careful of some people (not just guys, but girls too)! You do not want the emotional baggage that might come; the ...


0 Comments, 144 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
cosmicteddy 52 M
6  Articles
Breaking up doesn't mean life is over   1/30/2004

Yes breaking up can be hard to do. whether you're the one breaking it off or the one who's being dumped, there is usually a vast storm of emotional turbulence to deal with. This is to be expected because a relationship of based on love is by nature an emotional one. It is so easy for the breakup to degenerated into war of negative emotions, self doubt and hate, and the feeling that life ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 42 Votes ,7.70 Score
Stephanie7690 41 F
11  Articles
'An emotional person'   1/27/2004

I guess there is a quick fix to nearly everything, all though this does not come that simple at times or in many differing situations. If perhaps you are dealing with a break up and this is my own personal opinion I believe, (remember it is my own opinion and not generalisable) is that it is best to shut off any communication from the person who might have mistreated you in the ...


0 Comments, 245 Views, 52 Votes ,8.48 Score
peterbiltman 60 M
1  Article
Tune-in , Turn-on, and Move-on............   12/29/2003

Im something about it. I talked and cried my heart out to my close guy friends "Brothers" and listened to some pretty harsh truths about myself, from them , some of these guys are bikers so you can guess how blunt they were with me. I was forced out of my comfort zone, I went back tono different than anyone else on here, I wouldnt be on an On-Line dating site if I wasnt. And yes at 39 Ive ...


0 Comments, 224 Views, 66 Votes ,8.56 Score
Charmbutterfly 39 F
4  Articles
Should you still make out with your ex?   12/29/2003

Say you were in love for like 3 years but the relationship ended on a false misunderstanding, but life went on and you both started dating other people seriously, do you think that it would be right to continue seeing your ex, when you do realise that the entire situation that resulted in your break up was all a mistake? Especially since you still love your ex? <br> I need some ...


0 Comments, 196 Views, 78 Votes ,7.43 Score
BlazinCrush 45 F
2  Articles
my ex..grrrr!!   12/7/2003

I just wanted to share something about my ex, during our four years together, i found out my ex was a compulsive liar, the first few times he lied, i usually let them go and one lie after another without saying anything, i was starting to believe his lies and it was immune to me but i finally gave up when i found him in bed with my best friend and u wanna know what he said? lol...oh baby i ...


0 Comments, 139 Views, 68 Votes ,7.59 Score
Eagle1376 48 M
1  Article
What to do when your feelings get stronger after the break up?   11/24/2003

My 7 year relationship with the mother of my two has just ended.I still love her with all my heart and soul but she dose not love me.I am finding that after the break up my feelings are getting stronger for her despite the fact that she is in love with someone else.Why are my feelings getting stronger for her?And what should I do about them?


0 Comments, 55 Views, 43 Votes ,7.54 Score
DLish26 46 F
1  Article
What Now?   11/22/2003

For a moment I forget how much it hurts that you aren't here in this lonely house that I fill with white noise. In another moment I'll finish painting my bedroom. In five years I haven't had my own room. Now it will be filled with only my things. my books. my clothes. my bed... without you in it. Our has separation anxiety... i think I do too. At least I'm not chewing on the window sills, ...


0 Comments, 146 Views, 43 Votes ,7.85 Score
kiknong1978 45 F
1  Article
u know someone like u?   11/21/2003

do you feel like this? you are feel like bird.when u love someone. and you don't know how to talk.you pick up the phone but when hear voice but can not say anything just say hi and then bye <br> <br> just want to know .anybody have feeling ?


0 Comments, 85 Views, 44 Votes ,6.35 Score
Lola_96 43 F
2  Articles
The perfect person   11/19/2003

Not much to say except breakup last only as ong as you want them to and cut only as deep as you want them to go. <br> Love is not about being someones perfect preson but instead about someone helping you be the BEST you can be. <br> Take time and choose the best - you deserve nothing less!!


0 Comments, 129 Views, 59 Votes ,6.76 Score
CuteJamaican 39 M
4  Articles
Goodbye   11/18/2003

Hunny, the first day I met you, I really wanted you in my life Pondering our future together, I even thought of you to be my wife What a life it would be, just to have you in my arms at night My life seeming simpler, like the wind blowing through light There is no expression to explain my love for you I really do love you; I only wished you did too I know there isn’t such a ...


0 Comments, 142 Views, 44 Votes ,4.64 Score
EvilPrincess22 42 F
1  Article
Control freak   11/12/2003

So I was dating this guy who seemed like the best guy ever. Nobody had anything bad to say about him who knew him. Soon he began to tell me that i couldnt befriend any guys, and that I couldnt go to bars without him etc etc. So i dumped him. We remained friends and this seemed to go very well. So he invited me, as a friend, to his brothers wedding. I go, but as soon as where in the city ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 28 Votes ,6.01 Score
walksoftly27 50 F
5  Articles
Asian women get to be caution when dating western men in Asia   11/8/2003

I'm an Asian girl and I wanna to share my thought regarding this topic. <br> It's very difficulty to date a sincere western men in Asia, especially if you're looking for a permanent and long term relationship. <br> Of course, I'm not saying all the western men who live in Asia are evil. However, a lot of them simply wanna to sleep with many women as they can, ot just ...


2 Comments, 222 Views, 64 Votes ,8.45 Score
HALILAD 39 F
1  Article
HELP!!!!!!!!   11/7/2003

OK I'VE BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR 3 YEARS AND HE'S BEEN IN JAIL A FEW TIMES (ABOUT 3)AND JUST BECAUSE HE WON'T LISTEN. HE'S ALREADY 20 AND HASN'T FINISHED HIGHSCHOOL, HE FINALLY GOT A JOB ABOUT 5 MONTHS AGO BUT STILL DOESEN'T HAVE A CAR SO I DRIVE HIM AROUND.HE'S NICE THE SWEETEST GUY EVER HE TREATES ME RIGHT HE GETS ME STUFF AND EVERYTHING WE PLAN ON GETTING MARRIED, BUT I'M NOT SURE ANY MORE ...


0 Comments, 72 Views, 53 Votes ,0.48 Score
mommafrog2001 41 F
2  Articles
My world ended so quickly   11/3/2003

It all happened so quickly, I didn’t really know what to think. The last thing I really remember before going totally numb is that he broke up wit me for no reason. I know this is no way to start a story but I have to tell you that much first. We will call him John. John and I were happy, or so I thought. We met through his cousin and my best friend, who we will call Winter, ...


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walksoftly27 50 F
5  Articles
I don't hate you because of you don't love me but you lied to me   10/23/2003

I am the author of below post "I don't understand this particular American man". <br> For myself, I never hate my ex-boyfriend because of him broke up with me or he doesn't love me anymore. <br> However, I really dislike that he doesn't treat me with honesty and respect in the end of our relationship. <br> He has been dating another woman for 4 months but 1 ...


0 Comments, 313 Views, 33 Votes ,6.18 Score
walksoftly27 50 F
5  Articles
I don't understand this particular "American Man"!!   10/20/2003

I'm an Asian once studied in the state for 4 years. I met this guy thriugh a mutual friend. He came to my country twice, for both times I treated him nice and took him to a lot of nice places, I paid a lot when he visited my country but see that as hospitality. We e-mailed a lot for almost a year. <br> At beginning of this year, I traveled to US for a month and spent time with ...


0 Comments, 197 Views, 40 Votes ,8.35 Score
exotica4U2luv 35 F
1  Article
remember then beggining and the middle not the end   10/8/2003

recently i broke off all contact with my ex and it hurts but i try not to let the break up part affect me instead i remebr the good times and how we meet and what we did during our time together i feel that breaking off contact helps close the relationship but later on if my path cross with him then i may open up to friendship once again as how it started in the beggin as a friednship ...


0 Comments, 154 Views, 25 Votes ,5.57 Score
1961singelm 63 M
1  Article
dominant mother in law in the future   9/25/2003

once i met a nice girl, who has a certainly a dominant mother. at the second date i got unpleasant advice from her. the third date i gave a hand and thanks here for the support. stopping in the meanwhile here advise. and left the girl. <br> i don't like that mum as a gift for a relation in the future. you do?


0 Comments, 90 Views, 16 Votes ,1.22 Score
plymguy2 57 M
1  Article
Jealousy   9/14/2003

After being let down by some many people most of all past relationships people find it hard to understand that you begin to distrust everyone around you and opening up to that special someone is a very hard thing to do especially when you meet someone new I met someone new about 2 years ago everything was fine i fell deeply in love with her she was my soul mate she was someone i thought i ...


0 Comments, 139 Views, 63 Votes ,4.19 Score
irishdavid 56 M
1  Article
What the confusion?   9/2/2003

I don't understand some people, It hurt to break up if you love and care for the person. If you don't what where you doing there so long in the first place. The most tragic part of breaking up is when there is envoled, your hurting the ones you need to protect. But if it has to be done do it with care and pray it goes well. Thanks for leting me have my say.


0 Comments, 177 Views, 26 Votes ,1.08 Score
kiwigal32 53 F
2  Articles
FRAUDSTERS   8/25/2003

Unveiling of the Soul <br> Again, today her heart aches-- Disintegrating a part of her soul. Leaving her alone in silence. Destroying her ever so slow. <br> You know naught of the torment within. Each moment seeming like eons-- As she waits for their lives to begin. Gone is the strong- willed woman-- Who stood tall in the perils of life. ...


0 Comments, 143 Views, 26 Votes ,5.61 Score
facemusic 42 F
1  Article
CAN TO REFUSE BE A SELF-ACCUSATION   8/23/2003

Pesy refused a boy when studying in junior middle school. She is moving to San Francisco soon. She wanted to have a talk with the boy before she leaves. After the long talk, she was told that the boy has loved her for totally 15 years. The boy has loved her as deeply as in those days. Because of her turning him down, the boy has been upset. This was the reason why she wanted to express her ...


0 Comments, 116 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
funtime_lady 62 F
1  Article
hard to let go   8/2/2003

I have just recently broken up with my lover of 3 years, and yes it hurts deeply. Regardless of why the relationship ended it is never easy, at first you seem to find all the bad points about the person in order to be strong enough to walk away. But then the memories of all the good times start to slowly flow back, and then the pain begins, the tears the heart ache, longing to be back ...


0 Comments, 192 Views, 83 Votes ,6.62 Score
starr1019 60 F
4  Articles
Waking up, walking away and being okay with it all   6/22/2003

<br> <br> Sometimes it is hard for us to believe that a relationship is over. We tend to hold on way too long. We try to bring back what once was and sometimes we try to bring back what never was, but what we wanted to be. <br> Sometimes I think it would be so much easier on us to let go than to hold on. But I am not sure if letting go hurts less than ...


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konni20 55 F
1  Article
The answer to   10/26/2002

Sure all of us are different. I think you wife was depressed by the life style she lived - only family, home, nothing new. Probably it would be better to find a work for her to have some more interests, the possibility of conversation.... I'm married for a long time, and I love my family, but I work hard every day as a doctor, I have my own interests and my work helps me to be pretty, ...


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Pei75 43 F
1  Article
RE: Suicide Over A Man? Is It Worth It?   10/15/2002

Almost everyone as gone through break up. You learn from the relationship and mistake you make in the relationship. But it isn't worth your life over a man. There are thousands and millions of men in this world. There is one better than the last. Your friend will find his/her soulmate as I have. I have had bad experience with my last relationship. I've thought I would never find one who ...


0 Comments, 197 Views, 15 Votes ,5.27 Score
Terry3344 55 M
4  Articles
another Male Reply to Leaving   5/3/2002

I've just read your original article and all replies. I understand the pain that you're going through and I've been through a similar situation but from the man's perspective. Although, I loved my ex dearly and gave her too much but this is not the time to go into this. <br> It's incredibly hard and painful to go through a breakup with someone you love deeply. It never gets any ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 33 Votes ,8.01 Score
tinasantos69 45 F
1  Article
should a 22 year old girl waste time   1/8/2002

ok its starts like this ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and in the begining he took me out and we had fun and he was really funny, nice we had a good time even though we met a t a strip club so now as the years passed i moved in with him and his parents(whom i love to pieces) and thing were going good then he started going out with his friends and never taking me although he onlly ...


0 Comments, 358 Views, 18 Votes ,1.08 Score
jwall100 71 F
1  Article
how could i be so stupid   11/7/2001

I meet this guy nearly 7 years ago and thought we were building a relationship.Fool me.I helped him financially to get a deposit for his own house to the value of $10,000 and pulled him out of financil hardship on a few occasions.I started to realise there was something wrong when he was, nt communicating with me.I asked him on several occassions whats the problem, (no response).He started ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 23 Votes ,1.96 Score
SanFernando439 61 F
2  Articles
MY HEART IS STILL BLEEDING....   9/8/2001

To the person who wrote "MY HEART IS STILL BLEEDING" there is nothing more painful than rejection and deceit. Reading your article really touched me and I wish if there is some way I could reach out to you. I am a woman with a lot of pride, dignity and self worth. If you know this person for over 11 years and had only a short relationship with this person for just 6 months, Did he tell you ...


0 Comments, 176 Views, 46 Votes ,4.74 Score
SanFernando439 61 F
2  Articles
Breaking up...Should we be Friends?   9/8/2001

To the person who wrote the above article. The question you have asked about being friends with a person you broke up with? I personally think ... it all depends! If you are heartbroken right now, I suggest you isolate yourself for a while until you are healed. The time will come after for you to decide whether or not you want to remain friends with that person. I think the answer here is ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 46 Votes ,5.02 Score
mm316 46 M
1  Article
I am sorry but is it enough   6/18/2001

I am one of the most wretched human beings to step on this planet....Why u might ask...I am from india.which happens to be a very conservative place compared to the west and i am pretty well educated with a double post graduate..I like knowing about different places and people and it was here(friendfinder) that i met my soulmate..From the west..we did not chat as others do but simply ...


0 Comments, 197 Views, 26 Votes ,6.48 Score
DarkSavior 44 M
4  Articles
Forgive and forget...Or just forget?   3/4/2001

It's been almost a year since I walked away from a verbaly abusive relationship, and I just hate how big of an impact tha she's had on my life. Does three years of your life that you spent with someone mean a damn when they've been nagging, nit-picking, and trying to mold you into their ex-boyfriend really mean anything in the grand scheme of things in the end? I just know that I can never ...


0 Comments, 195 Views, 22 Votes ,4.81 Score
suzies_mischief 61 F
1  Article
Curves that Life will Throw at you   2/25/2001

I married the man that I loved and cherished in my eyes he could do no wrong. We had our difficulties as all relationships do. But I never thought that there were any problems that we couldnt get past. I always felt I had enough love to carry us through the rough spots. <br> We built a good life both of us attending school several years after our marriage. We went from being ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 12 Votes ,6.16 Score
DarkSavior 44 M
4  Articles
The tale of a burn victim   2/5/2001

When exactly does a relationship go from "Flying the big blue sky", to the latesest airplane crash on the six o'clock news? I'll just go on my own personal experience for the sake of this little article here. My last relationship had ended in the begining of last year, and it is only just in the past few months that I've been able to put the whole thing behind me and try to move ...


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Dancer314159 76 M
4  Articles
We've just been dumped   1/22/2001

Two of my best friends have just been dumped by their boyfriends. They're women in their 30s, intelligent, financially secure, fun, caring, and STUNNING. They're both hurting badly. One boyfriend wanted a different lifestyle, another couldn't be faithful. They know they'll be OK in time, but their self-esteem still suffers. They have the sense to use their friendship networks for support, ...


0 Comments, 148 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
ckmj23 36 M
1  Article
Why is this so hard?   12/12/2000

In my experience, breaking up with someone is the single hardest thing to do. I hate how everything is so good at the beginning of a relationship, then dies of after a year or two. Two feelings go through my mind at this point. One is the feeling that you want to move on, the other is the feeling that you don't want to lose what you have. At this point I know that the relationship is over. ...


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Trebonius 43 M
1  Article
Don't feel the same? Don't know what to do?   5/14/1998

"I don't want to hurt him." These are words so often uttered by a caring, kind woman who just doesn't feel the same way she used to about the man she's dating. It's understandable. Nobody likes to hurt someone that cares about them. Unfortunately, it frequently precedes a heart-wrenching experience for the man involved. It can result in anger, depression, and can be dangerous. ...


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SoftCandy 59 F
4  Articles
Be The Ultimate Winner!   5/3/1998

It's never easy being let go of, especially when you still love him/her so much. But lashing out, becoming abusive or name-calling, no matter how justified, will only make things uglier than they already are. Accept the inevitable with grace and dignity and you will come out the winner! Make this experience work for you--learn from it, grow, and move on. It's a small world and one day, ...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
prozac2000 49 M
1  Article
You make mine spine tingle (in a bad way)   3/14/1998

As the hepcat I am, I often find the ladies flocking to me. And some of these ladies, hoo boy! It's not about looks, y'understand ... it's more about a general vibe ... like sometimes you just sense that a woman is going to be trouble, y'know, calling you at all hours, making needlessly ornate photo-collages on her bedroom wall, breaking into your home and cooking your pet rabbit. If you pick up ...


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SupremeLoco 41 M
7  Articles
Get rid of your blind date fast and easy.   2/28/1998

71 ways to get rid of a blind date. (And Other Social Catastrophes) 1. At dinner, guard your plate with fork and steak knife, so as to give the impression that you'll stab anyone, including the waiter, who reaches for it. 2. Collect the salt shakers from all of the tables in the restaurant, and balance them in a tower on your table. 3. Wipe your ...


0 Comments, 235 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
sexy-girl 41 F
1  Article
How it feels when you break up!!!   2/13/1998

Hi everybody, I am a 15 year old female and I am writing to tell you my expericence of breaking up with my boyfriend. About 7 months ago my ex-boyfriend had left and went to his aunts and uncles for some of the summer. Well, while he was gone me and this guy I have known for about 1 year started talking more than usual. Before we would only talk once in a blue moon, but we started ...


0 Comments, 219 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score