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SanFernando439 61 F
2  Articles
MY HEART IS STILL BLEEDING....   9/8/2001

To the person who wrote "MY HEART IS STILL BLEEDING" there is nothing more painful than rejection and deceit. Reading your article really touched me and I wish if there is some way I could reach out to you. I am a woman with a lot of pride, dignity and self worth. If you know this person for over 11 years and had only a short relationship with this person for just 6 months, Did he tell you ...


0 Comments, 176 Views, 46 Votes ,4.74 Score
SanFernando439 61 F
2  Articles
Breaking up...Should we be Friends?   9/8/2001

To the person who wrote the above article. The question you have asked about being friends with a person you broke up with? I personally think ... it all depends! If you are heartbroken right now, I suggest you isolate yourself for a while until you are healed. The time will come after for you to decide whether or not you want to remain friends with that person. I think the answer here is ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 46 Votes ,5.02 Score
mm316 46 M
1  Article
I am sorry but is it enough   6/18/2001

I am one of the most wretched human beings to step on this planet....Why u might ask...I am from india.which happens to be a very conservative place compared to the west and i am pretty well educated with a double post graduate..I like knowing about different places and people and it was here(friendfinder) that i met my soulmate..From the west..we did not chat as others do but simply ...


0 Comments, 197 Views, 26 Votes ,6.48 Score
DarkSavior 44 M
4  Articles
Forgive and forget...Or just forget?   3/4/2001

It's been almost a year since I walked away from a verbaly abusive relationship, and I just hate how big of an impact tha she's had on my life. Does three years of your life that you spent with someone mean a damn when they've been nagging, nit-picking, and trying to mold you into their ex-boyfriend really mean anything in the grand scheme of things in the end? I just know that I can never ...


0 Comments, 195 Views, 22 Votes ,4.81 Score
suzies_mischief 61 F
1  Article
Curves that Life will Throw at you   2/25/2001

I married the man that I loved and cherished in my eyes he could do no wrong. We had our difficulties as all relationships do. But I never thought that there were any problems that we couldnt get past. I always felt I had enough love to carry us through the rough spots. <br> We built a good life both of us attending school several years after our marriage. We went from being ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 12 Votes ,6.16 Score
DarkSavior 44 M
4  Articles
The tale of a burn victim   2/5/2001

When exactly does a relationship go from "Flying the big blue sky", to the latesest airplane crash on the six o'clock news? I'll just go on my own personal experience for the sake of this little article here. My last relationship had ended in the begining of last year, and it is only just in the past few months that I've been able to put the whole thing behind me and try to move ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Dancer314159 76 M
4  Articles
We've just been dumped   1/22/2001

Two of my best friends have just been dumped by their boyfriends. They're women in their 30s, intelligent, financially secure, fun, caring, and STUNNING. They're both hurting badly. One boyfriend wanted a different lifestyle, another couldn't be faithful. They know they'll be OK in time, but their self-esteem still suffers. They have the sense to use their friendship networks for support, ...


0 Comments, 148 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
ckmj23 36 M
1  Article
Why is this so hard?   12/12/2000

In my experience, breaking up with someone is the single hardest thing to do. I hate how everything is so good at the beginning of a relationship, then dies of after a year or two. Two feelings go through my mind at this point. One is the feeling that you want to move on, the other is the feeling that you don't want to lose what you have. At this point I know that the relationship is over. ...


0 Comments, 127 Views, 21 Votes ,2.88 Score
Trebonius 43 M
1  Article
Don't feel the same? Don't know what to do?   5/14/1998

"I don't want to hurt him." These are words so often uttered by a caring, kind woman who just doesn't feel the same way she used to about the man she's dating. It's understandable. Nobody likes to hurt someone that cares about them. Unfortunately, it frequently precedes a heart-wrenching experience for the man involved. It can result in anger, depression, and can be dangerous. ...


0 Comments, 371 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
SoftCandy 59 F
4  Articles
Be The Ultimate Winner!   5/3/1998

It's never easy being let go of, especially when you still love him/her so much. But lashing out, becoming abusive or name-calling, no matter how justified, will only make things uglier than they already are. Accept the inevitable with grace and dignity and you will come out the winner! Make this experience work for you--learn from it, grow, and move on. It's a small world and one day, ...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
prozac2000 49 M
1  Article
You make mine spine tingle (in a bad way)   3/14/1998

As the hepcat I am, I often find the ladies flocking to me. And some of these ladies, hoo boy! It's not about looks, y'understand ... it's more about a general vibe ... like sometimes you just sense that a woman is going to be trouble, y'know, calling you at all hours, making needlessly ornate photo-collages on her bedroom wall, breaking into your home and cooking your pet rabbit. If you pick up ...


0 Comments, 124 Views, 0 Votes
SupremeLoco 41 M
7  Articles
Get rid of your blind date fast and easy.   2/28/1998

71 ways to get rid of a blind date. (And Other Social Catastrophes) 1. At dinner, guard your plate with fork and steak knife, so as to give the impression that you'll stab anyone, including the waiter, who reaches for it. 2. Collect the salt shakers from all of the tables in the restaurant, and balance them in a tower on your table. 3. Wipe your ...


0 Comments, 235 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
sexy-girl 42 F
1  Article
How it feels when you break up!!!   2/13/1998

Hi everybody, I am a 15 year old female and I am writing to tell you my expericence of breaking up with my boyfriend. About 7 months ago my ex-boyfriend had left and went to his aunts and uncles for some of the summer. Well, while he was gone me and this guy I have known for about 1 year started talking more than usual. Before we would only talk once in a blue moon, but we started ...


0 Comments, 219 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score