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sleekly 43 F
43  Articles
Fact   1/27/2005

If you yelled for 8 years, 7 months and 6 days, you would have produced enough sound energy to heat one cup of coffee. If you fart consistently for 6 years and 9 months, enough gas is produced to create the energy of an atomic bomb.


1 Comments, 124 Views, 19 Votes ,2.60 Score
maisabell 44 F
1  Article
When do you break up a marriage?   1/26/2005

I was talikng to a friend some minutes ago about taking the decision to divorce. Even when everything seems lost, there is still a little hope deep inside that makes you want to keep on. Is it masochism or just the loyalty there still is among the couple? Probably both. It is hard to end a relationship specially if it's a long term one. There have been shared memories that built tiny ...


0 Comments, 109 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
evacalm 43 F
413  Articles
Is it Fair ?   1/22/2005

i was have cute & nice boy friend. we had 2 years relationship but after i thinking many times i decided to brokup.so i asked him to breakup & told him that i want to try new relationship because: 1.he has no spare time with me since 1, 5 years.he works in other country now & very busy.but i think if he wants he can visit me once a month as not too far from my place.but he could not ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
sleekly 43 F
43  Articles
It's over   1/21/2005

Accept the fact that the relationship is over. Do not give yourself unrealistic fantasies that you might get back together one day. Respect the fact that the relationship had its time, but has no ran out ways to work. This was a chapter in your life that has now closed and you are now ready to grow and enter another chapter of your life.


0 Comments, 72 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
Sirpie 50 M
5  Articles
NOT ALL THAT GLITERS ARE GOLD   1/15/2005

Do not be overtaken by some-ones first approch 2 U. Some people pritend, just 2 have what they want. Rather, take a long time of platonic, and later come closer, if U deemed it wise.


0 Comments, 41 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
ambetterthangood 61 F
1  Article
Perfect Friendfound, Matchfound, here, Merry xmas-gone   1/14/2005

Yes, Friendfinder helped me find mine! We matched from our first meeting, and fell in love which lasted almost three years. I doubt I will ever find someone that matches me so closely. He is good-weird, just like I am, but he lives 53 miles away. People don't think 53 miles is a long distance, but it seemed like 53, 000 miles sometimes. Talking on the phone, chatting online, emailing, ...


5 Comments, 192 Views, 14 Votes ,4.10 Score
freightbroker 54 M
2  Articles
Hard to accept it's really ending..........   1/12/2005

I met my wife at a trucking school 9 years ago, we were in our mid 20's both starting a new career and decided to drive together, her in the days and me at nights spending pretty much 24 hrs a day together.I thought we had mutual interests in life like where to build our home, what we wanted to do with our lives which verbally anyways was starting a retail Mexican Pottery Import Business, ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
PrincessCeCe 49 F
3  Articles
You and I   1/11/2005

You and I Love each other so As from the same lump of clay Is moulded an image of you And one of me. In a moment of ecstasy We dash the images to pieces, Put them in water, And with stirring and kneading, Mould again an image of you An another of me. There and then, You will find yourself in me, I myself in you. <br> Kuan Tao-Sheng Sung Dynasty


0 Comments, 45 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
econoscot 68 M
2  Articles
Bouncing Back   1/10/2005

Recovery is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I suppose I saw it coming. I had ten great years of marriage and ten not so great. But in the middle of that we had two daughters who make my heart sing (and sometimes drive me crazy). When we eventually split, my (ex) wife moved 400 miles away. There was no fight over custody of the because our daughters (at the time 12 and 14)clearly ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
Ice_500 58 F
14  Articles
CK's song....It's too late   1/9/2005

Driving down memory lane...sigh....the 70's. They made great songs back then. The era when sexual revolution was in uproar. As a youngster back then, it was just a song. Years gone by and we dont get to hear her songs anymore or how it could have influence my life. Thinking back of the break ups I had..wished I was singing this song....... It's too late by Carole King <br> ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
awful63 60 F
6  Articles
another story   1/4/2005

I met a guy in the internet and i can count with my five fingers how many times we chat. He decided to visit the Philippines. I thought he was just joking and i have not seen him online for over a month, and when we catched each other again online i learned that he's been here, and he was looking for me for nearly 2 months. i did not give him my home address not even my mobile number, that ...


1 Comments, 196 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
galjuxtoposition 69 M
1  Article
pain   1/4/2005

When you wake up one day and feel a deep pain and know that something just isn't right anymore, you know that it's over. Time to move on.


1 Comments, 122 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
sexxxylover4u 49 F
2  Articles
WHY IS BREAKING UP HARD TO DO?   1/3/2005

Hello, my fellow Friend Finder Members! First, I would like to throw a question out to all the Friend Finder Members who read this. Ready? O.K., ,, , here goes. <br> 1.) Friend Finder Member.... Why do YOU think 'BREAKING UP IS SO HARD TO DO'? <br> 2.) And what factors make or contribute to making breaking up so hard to do. <br> All I ...


1 Comments, 221 Views, 12 Votes ,1.21 Score
HappyTeddy2 57 F
1  Article
It cuts to the very core of the heart   12/30/2004

The pain of loosing someone you love, is what words cn never describe. The worst thing is when the other still hangs on to the hope of getting back. When we fall in love, we all hope and trust that it will be forever..? The only thing we want at that moment, is to spend every precious minute that we have, with the person we love. But the dritfs and cracks start happening, the sun ...


1 Comments, 146 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
noviafugitiva76 48 F
27  Articles
My last article   12/28/2004

Hi, this is my last article, I want to thank all the people who read my articles, and the ones who left me written advices, or tried to cheer me up, maybe I´m too sensitive or too stupid, or maybe both, but I want to say goodbye to everybody, today I´m not feeling very well, I feel very sad, very depressed, maybe I´m exagerated, but I feel so depressed that I don´t want to know anything ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
sureshh1 46 F
10  Articles
Have Life!   12/26/2004

Not the End of the World <br> So you've been dating this guy for three years now, the relationship is getting monotonous already. You've been quarelling about the usual stuff. The LQs (lovers' quarrel) are getting regular and it seems like you're not solving any issues anymore. You even disagree on where to eat, what to order and it seems like you're not getting the usual ...


2 Comments, 149 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
eroticbabygirl 45 F
2  Articles
BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO............   12/23/2004

IT IS A VERY SPECIAL, SPIRITUAL, DEEP BOND BETWEEN TWO VERY UNIQUE PEOPLE. NOTHING IS EASY BREAKING UP. <br> LOVE IS GREAT. LOVE IS STRONG. LOVE IS SHARING. LOVE IS GIVING. LOVE IS ALL.


1 Comments, 155 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
noviafugitiva76 48 F
27  Articles
How to become an insencible?   12/22/2004

Hello again, as you can see, I loved to write and write articles, and give advices to people, every time I read an article about someone who has just broke up his or her relation, I just give them advices or supporting words, when they need strong words about leaving someone, or when people is still in love with someone who just don´t care, then I try to give them advices and people are ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
jean132 74 M
3  Articles
HOPE RECOVER   12/22/2004

Love, where are you ?...you who is looking from the darkness of the night...Where is love?...Where do you hide yourself?..Why do you hide yourself behind the darkness of the life?...Since a long time ago, I am waiting for a dear Love like you..Softness, tenderness, trust and faith...I have so much to give you...Love where are you?...Love where are you?..From life I will lead you and loving ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Mom2Tori 50 F
4  Articles
How many times will it take?   12/18/2004

Frankly. I don't understand it. I was personally, always one of those women who never even gave them a first chance if they weren't completely capable. <br> So I don't quite get what the hell I was thinking about when I kept taking the last one back. Love him? Yeah. But it was dysfunctional and now I realize that. I care strongly for him since we are now parents but that doesn't ...


0 Comments, 189 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
8lonely_guy9 46 M
12  Articles
wisdom and the courage   12/15/2004

At least three times every day take a moment and ask yourself what is really important. Have the wisdom and the courage to build your life around your answer.


0 Comments, 275 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
noviafugitiva76 48 F
27  Articles
To be alone hurts more than everything   12/14/2004

I want to share with you my feelings in this moment, I´ve been feeling very sad and alone, well, I´m alone in fact. Sometimes when I think about my two failed chances to get married I start thinking that maybe I´ll never be married, and that makes me feel really really sad, and I think I would never have that experience, it´s one of my dreams, to share my life with the man who loves me ...


8 Comments, 166 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
Joschu 58 M
1  Article
Stay in contact and how!?   12/14/2004

Breaking up is always a very tough event in everyones life. Its usually the partner who was left, who feels the biggest pain inside his/her heart. So what do you do if you still have strong feelings for your "former" partner, who has left you? If there is anger besides the pain in your heart its almost impossible to stay friendly in contact. If your Ex knows about your feelings and ...


2 Comments, 206 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
mia824 61 F
7  Articles
When it was over....   12/12/2004

I was going to post this in the Poem section, but I thought that it might be good to read it here instead. I wrote this a few years ago, when I broke up with an Ex. <br> Since you have come to live with me I feel even more Alone Because now that you supposedly live here You do not bother to come home I threw caution out the window Because I liked you right from the ...


0 Comments, 142 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
Danitra 42 F
1  Article
What would you do?   12/11/2004

Everything is an ideal.Him, you, perfect relationship, great sex life, understanding without words...Suddenly you have to go...He is the one who staying there? Months are going , no matter how bad you want to keep him just for yourself, even if you are thousand of miles away, you feel like he is slipping... Occacionally mail, phone call with words"i still miss you, ..want you..love ...


2 Comments, 165 Views, 18 Votes ,4.35 Score
noviafugitiva76 48 F
27  Articles
Healing hurts   12/10/2004

How can you forgive someone who has hurted you in your most deeply feelings? People say that love forgives everything, and I think it must be that way, but if someone doesn´t forgive you just for something not so serious, then that person doesn´t loves you? If I´m writting this is because I want you to know that love hasn´t died yet, it still here, but if you don´t feel anything, maybe ...


2 Comments, 132 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
noviafugitiva76 48 F
27  Articles
Letter for Mark:   12/9/2004

Mark, my sweet blue prince: <br> Mark, I don´t know why are so apart, I just want you to know, that I´m crazy for you, that I love you with all my heart, please Mark, I don´t want to loose you. I feel so sad, Mark if you have a chance to read this, I´m desesperate, if you want to know somehting if someone makes me a question what it could be my best wish, I´ll answer to MEET ...


0 Comments, 107 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
smallkiss 40 M
52  Articles
before it starts   12/8/2004

A man comes home from an exhausting day at work, plops down on the couch in front of the television, and tells his wife, "Get me a beer before it starts." <br> The wife sighs and gets him a beer. <br> Fifteen minutes later, he says, "Get me another beer before it starts." <br> She looks cross, but fetches another beer and slams it down next to him. ...


0 Comments, 88 Views, 5 Votes ,0.21 Score
mia824 61 F
7  Articles
My Friend just broke up with his Boyfriend...   12/8/2004

A Good Friend of mine just broke up with his boyfriend. He was asking me for my advice on his "Relationship" prior to doing this. I Love my Friend, as a Friend. The more I listened to him describe his unhappines and the way he was being treated the more confused I became. I finally interrupted him and said "Would you let a Friend treat you this way?" He said "No." I said "Of course not ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
sunnyrain195 62 F
8  Articles
change   12/5/2004

If you are not riding the wave of change <br> you find yourself beneath it


1 Comments, 140 Views, 25 Votes ,3.35 Score