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Spellbound2004 68 F
4  Articles
Re:are you a babe, cutie, sexy or anything else.......   8/15/2004

This is ridiculous and laughable pretentious flirting. If any of you find a woman that falls for that she is just downright needy. Terms of endearment are something that should come with time and love.


0 Comments, 67 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
Spellbound2004 68 F
4  Articles
re: I told my love to him   8/15/2004

He is still in love with his ex. You can not take back what you said but you can learn and go on with your life. You have made a mistake. You should always be at least halfway sure that the other feels the same before you say those three little (big) words.


0 Comments, 153 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
SexyIrishLass13 38 F
1  Article
Complicated Love   8/13/2004

Ugh, Now. I'm thinking ofull on gay. I love me boyfriend, but I don't Kfight, there's good times too, but it's sooo complicated. I live withNOW. All we dof turning is him, and love him more than anything, I can't just up & leave our 5 year relationship. I don't know, should I just go gay?


0 Comments, 41 Views, 12 Votes
sagittariusgirl 48 F
3  Articles
i told my love to him...   8/9/2004

i am in love with a boy for 2 years...at last, i told him that i love him...And i ask what he feels for me... He said that he was with a girl for 2 years and he just broke up with her...He said that he couldn't get her out of his mind yet...So i asked him if he want to be with her ex girlfriend again...He said "if my relationship is finished with her, it means it is really finished...i ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Guaranteed_Fun 60 M
1  Article
Three Secrets Of Life!   8/7/2004

1. You will be able to count your true friends on one hand. A true friend is someone you can not talk to in over a year, but always have a place to go if need be. <br> <br> 2. Happiness comes from the inside. Happiness is something that you carry with you always, but only you can let it free. And happiness is contagious, and it affects all those around you. ...


0 Comments, 130 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
genie11 39 F
1  Article
RE: why married men mess with other women   8/6/2004

.. because they think they can get away with it. They think that they can lie and lie and lie some more and no one will be the wiser. But as always, all the lies will catch up to them and bite them in the butt.Trust me its best to get out while you can.


0 Comments, 48 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
blvd_shadow 66 F
8  Articles
find someone in your area   8/5/2004

I say this because I just had a sad experience. I really liked this guy and niether one of us wants to relocate because of roots in our own states. I am very sad right now. So now I will only look for who is in my state because It is awful right now, we like each other and we email he even sent me flowers for my birthday today That was so sweet of him to do. I wish he had come with them ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
sweet_chick_2004 39 F
32  Articles
what do u do if you know a guy's using you   8/4/2004

what can you do if a guy;s using you but other girls to that he tlaks to?


0 Comments, 127 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
mujtabajan 32 M
1  Article
ItS LiFe,,,,,,,   7/23/2004

i m talking about life & this is really beautiful & all we have to do make relations and do good in life .enjoy life infact every part of it because no one knows when it comes to end. people often get sad when someone left them but its not as at is because when one door closes several other opens but we often look at close door for so long that we ignred the one which is open for us.so live ...


0 Comments, 205 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
___ALEX___ 53 M
11  Articles
You won't like this : ( - the alternative perspective   7/23/2004

Have you ever been just sitting there and all of a sudden you feel a bird do its stuff on you - That's God saying "birds can do that and there's nothing you can do about it". <br> Have you ever been down and out and nobody seems to be around for you to talk to? - That's God saying "you're a smelly homeless one and if your fellow man wont help you why should I?" <br> ...


0 Comments, 171 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
BowHunterGirl 52 F
1  Article
Putting new fall away rest on my bow   7/13/2004

This is obviously an archery question. I cannot post it in the interest group section since there is no hunting and archery catagories. <br> I want to know the best way to install the shaky hunter fall away rest. <br> thanks, Alyssa


0 Comments, 143 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
shan1711 59 F
1  Article
Blaming People for your Problems   7/9/2004

I read a book called "CONVERSATIONS WITH GOD" by Neille Donald Walsh. He talked about people being victims. People blaming others for their problems. He talks about if people who have problems can just take responsibility for their own "shit" then they can learn a very valuable lesson. And they can get through "their problem." I myself was raised with no real love or affection. But you ...


2 Comments, 198 Views, 14 Votes ,4.90 Score
___ALEX___ 53 M
11  Articles
Marines, Marines and More Marines   7/8/2004

Where do they all come from? Statistically if everyone who claimed to be a marine on FF was there would be 5 million of them. Why don't the idiots be more inventive and pretend to be from a variety of regiments. It's just absurd - especially the ones who claim to be in the US - lmao - you can easily see where they are using NeoTrace. Why dont you all stop being so silly - do you think ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
likestolaugh4444 75 M
6  Articles
Play Always   7/5/2004

Play always <br> Let the rule in your heart. <br> Sometimes she jumps into the deep end of the ocean, splashing and flailing and grinning. Sometimes she walks slowly into waves, testing the current with her toes. Sometimes she stands afar off. Very timid. Scanning the horizon. Waiting to be invited to play. <br> But always play. <br> Blow ...


0 Comments, 147 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
likestolaugh4444 75 M
6  Articles
Hold On   7/5/2004

Always Hold On <br> Never surrender. Never stop breathing. Never stop living. <br> Always treasure the next breath. Always inhale deeply. <br> Cling tightly to today. Wrap yourself around your family. Remember the days of contentment. Surrender to strength and courage. Speak kindly to yourself. Feel one more heart beat. <br> Cry. ...


0 Comments, 287 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
___ALEX___ 53 M
11  Articles
Terrorists - Beat the security clampdowns   6/24/2004

Terrorists worried about retinal scans and finger-printing do as Abu Hamza the hook handed blind terrorist cleric has done and beat those security precautions....of course looking like a derranged Captain Hook in a white smock and ranting like a mad man may be a bit of a giveaway.


0 Comments, 251 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
___ALEX___ 53 M
11  Articles
Football fans   6/24/2004

Footballl fans show how manly and athletic you are by talking about football rather than playing any sport, drinking beer by the bucket and wearing your shiny nylon football tops with 6 inches of hairy fat beer belly showing while wearing your immaculate new trainers down to the pub.


0 Comments, 100 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
___ALEX___ 53 M
11  Articles
Re: What does a woman like in a man   6/23/2004

Your profile says what you think people want to hear rather than what you are actually about as a person - it's overly generic and could appear insincere and hollow. <br> Additionally one could read it in the following way: - <br> I am single never been married = I am unattractive and have difficulty forming and/or maintaining relationships! <br> I consider my ...


0 Comments, 234 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
___ALEX___ 53 M
11  Articles
If You are looking for a relationship on line......   6/21/2004

If you're looking for a relationship... I'd suggest trying to pester women over the instant messengers as much as possible in a sexually explicit way; make sure you have your profile filled in with the usual nonsense and lies about how fit you are and how you're a member of a uniformed organisation (that usually gets them dripping) and I'd say DONT put up your own pic on the profile, ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 15 Votes ,2.21 Score
James19522 71 M
1  Article
I don't know what to do   6/18/2004

The weirdest thing happened to me. I was corresponding with a very nice lady soozie95. After 2 emails, setting up a first meeting, I get a nasty email and am blocked. Apparently she has mistaken me for someone else. After being blocked I recieved an email as if nothing happened. I can't respond. I contacted site support but nothing is happening. Can someone help me let her know she ...


0 Comments, 367 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Spellbound2004 68 F
4  Articles
Just A Simple Question With Many Answers I Am Sure   6/18/2004

So many of us are here for so many different reasons. I would like to ask why you are here. This is just an informal question but I think it is on so many of our minds that this question should be asked. Why do you choose to come here and have you been satisfied with the results? I love this site for many reason but I would love to hear some feed back about your thoughts.


3 Comments, 190 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
looking...........................   6/14/2004

Come and get me baby! yow! Ok...On the one hand I'm looking to make all kinds of friends from all over the place! On the other hand...I'm also looking for THE ONE. so please keep that in mind everybody...you too THE ONE (if you're out there... because if you are? All my new found friends and I will have to part company. I don't screw around in a relationship. I'm total loyal, faithful, ...


0 Comments, 99 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Cheffen 59 M
4  Articles
What does a woman like in a man   6/12/2004

For example here is a copy of my profile please inform me that I am doing wrong. I am single never been married. I consider my self to be a warm, compassionate person and romantic at hart. I enjoy cooking or just cuddling up in front of a fire drinking a glass of wine. I enjoy treating a lady like lady and try to make her feel like she is important to me. I do not play games nor do I like ...


0 Comments, 284 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
Topcatwrestler 54 M
1  Article
Don't be loose   6/11/2004

One thing in a relationship is to be honest as much as you like the person so not be easy to fall into bed the old fasion values still work get to know someone then deside how you feel about them date go out have a blast don't just fall into bed


0 Comments, 160 Views, 13 Votes ,5.49 Score
___ALEX___ 53 M
11  Articles
Re: Beware the Gorgeous hairy man   6/11/2004

lol - there's no such thing - you play with a chimp you get peanuts - what do you expect lol


0 Comments, 319 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
wmn34lkn4pals 54 F
9  Articles
Beware of The Gorgeous Hairy Man   6/2/2004

Beware of the Gorgeous Hairy Man <br> Hello to all here in ff land! I hope you've all had luck meeting several new friends! Everyone here that Ive met has been really nice!Hopefully Friends for life! Just wanted to warn you though, of a hazzard I found here at this sight. A Gorgeous Hairy Man!With a nice smile and to die for looks .If you look now at your network of ...


0 Comments, 135 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
patrick881000 51 M
1  Article
the answer why it's simple   5/29/2004

the reason the long distance relationship seems so perfect is A. the person can be lieing there ass off your not around them and there every day activitys so its possibility to make things just seem peach e then creates this fascination of a dream world ...


0 Comments, 95 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
oconcentric 65 M
1  Article
changing your ic email address?   5/29/2004

if you change your email address with your internet carrier and don't also change it in your ff account, your emails will bounce..


0 Comments, 131 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
HEART   5/25/2004

be happy to be healthy....that's my advice to you..........be happy and forget............


0 Comments, 138 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
SatyrDancer 35 F
1  Article
Sexually explicit responses...   5/24/2004

I know that FriendFinder has an alternate site for sexually explicit meetings, so why do some people (okay, mostly guys), decide to use an explicit, very forward initial approach? Personally, I enjoy talking to someone for a while before I get on the subject of sex. Maybe a few weeks of emails, or at least a couple dates. I'm no prude. It just seems tacky, smug, and sometimes a bit ...


0 Comments, 176 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
TenderBlueEyes 57 M
1  Article
Do you believe in Angels?... love connects us and brings our souls together   5/14/2004

I do. Angels or spirits that is. There just is too much evidence of a world separate from ours. A world where we exist without our bodies. And sometimes the spirits from that world make themselves known in our physical world. <br> There are so many wonderful and beautiful sights around us. We only have to take the time to slow down and look. And beauty will be there, right in ...


0 Comments, 195 Views, 17 Votes ,5.67 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
to sent plz   5/6/2004

SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for. You mean the world to someone. Someone that you don't even ...


0 Comments, 166 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
to sent plz   5/6/2004

SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for. You mean the world to someone. Someone that you don't even ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
plz send   5/5/2004

SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for. You mean the world to someone. Someone that you don't even ...


0 Comments, 388 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
FOR TOU TO SEND   5/5/2004

SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for. You mean the world to someone. Someone that you don't even ...


0 Comments, 139 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
be healthyyyyyyyyyyy   5/3/2004

you must live happy ....forget.......not be sad..... if you live happy ......you must live healthy dr.wahdan


0 Comments, 223 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
Enka2003 36 M
1  Article
i hate be alone   5/2/2004

Well i did move out from Enka/Candler to Hendersonvile about past sept 2003, i got my crib/department beside my parents house, & i hate being alone all the time, because i stay my department about mostly every day. i am going to college to get my GED. it is hard for me to be alone. i really needed to talk new people & hangout with some friends at mall, church, or etc. thanks matt


0 Comments, 113 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
MtnMan39 65 M
4  Articles
As times goes on   5/1/2004

I notice so often that as time goes on the people that you date that was so perfect were just acting. I think its so important to be yourself and if you get along then it will always work but DON'T act like you think the other wants you to be all the time. REMEMBER that can backfire to because your partner might want someone to look at things different and challange their minds.


0 Comments, 74 Views, 30 Votes ,6.47 Score
sosososo 41 F
1  Article
Problems with boyfriend   4/29/2004

He's at work from 7 am till 11 pm, somtimes on Saturdays, I don't remember how he looks like already. I work myself and we don't have financial problems, so what should I do?


0 Comments, 38 Views, 14 Votes ,2.82 Score
ChyOne04 42 F
1  Article
"The Fighting"   4/26/2004

Okay, I really like the discussion boards here at Friendfinder. I also like a majority of the people there. They seem to be very sincere and helpful. But there are a few who like to start arguments and keep them going for what seems like the shear enjoyment of it. This is not meant to include the people defending themselves. I believe the worst is the Parenting Board. All of the nicest ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 20 Votes ,5.29 Score
PHARMCY
1  Article
hello my friends   4/26/2004

dear friends if you want live happy you must be healthy...... be happy.............be health dr.wahdan


0 Comments, 239 Views, 11 Votes
Nepaklausigaa 50 F
1  Article
Flowers to a man - yes or no?   4/22/2004

I'm always wondering if the women give their men flowers for Birthday? What is the tradition in your country? Do you think it's kind of naive behaviour? And then again how should a man feel when something like that happens to him? Would he be surprised in a good or a bad way? Tell me what do you think?


0 Comments, 181 Views, 28 Votes ,5.09 Score
rushprincess 41 F
5  Articles
Long Distant Relationships can work......   4/19/2004

I met my husband five years ago on the internet. I did not think anything would come out of it since he lived 2000 miles away. However, he came out to visit me and I knew we were going to have a long distant relationship because I fell in love. It was hard when he left and we did this for 18 long months. I would cry, we would argue because we were so sick of not seeing eachother. He finally ...


0 Comments, 288 Views, 25 Votes ,7.34 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
be happy   4/17/2004

when u live happy you be healthy.....plz be happy got your life..... dr wahdan


0 Comments, 196 Views, 27 Votes ,4.92 Score
rushprincess 41 F
5  Articles
Don't fret when pregant   4/17/2004

I got pregant at a mere twenty years old. I was frightened. The only good thing at the time is that I was engaged and we lived together. My advice for you is don't listen to anyone when your pregnant. You're curious when your pregnant for the first time. You ask yourself questions like does it hurt and how does it feel to get the epideral. Then women will tell you, you will be puking till ...


0 Comments, 100 Views, 16 Votes ,6.07 Score
Thea23 49 F
6  Articles
How to Manage Stress   4/15/2004

Stress is change and change is inevitable. Hence, it is unrealistic to attempt to avoid all stress. Learning to manage stress is the only way to create a fun and healthy lifestyle. Following are some tips for a satisfying life in the midst of our unending chaos: Begin living now. Live in the present. Stop asking to be rescued. Stop waiting “until”... Journal your ...


0 Comments, 295 Views, 24 Votes ,7.45 Score
Thea23 49 F
6  Articles
A Parable to Live By   4/15/2004

Four Seasons of a Tree Don't judge a life by one difficult season. <br> There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn to not judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away. The first went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest ...


0 Comments, 91 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
Thea23 49 F
6  Articles
A Parable to Live By   4/15/2004

Four Seasons of a Tree Don't judge a life by one difficult season. <br> There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn to not judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away. The first went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 11 Votes ,6.16 Score
Equinox320 73 M
12  Articles
Long Distance Relationships. Do they ever work?   4/13/2004

I met quite a few people who have tried long distance relationship and found few, if any, that thought they were a good idea. Because of a chance meeting, I recently found myself in a long distance relationship. The first four months were great. We were able to meet several times a month and talked daily by phone and wrote each other by e-mail. <br> Our relationship may have ...


0 Comments, 169 Views, 17 Votes ,5.81 Score
sweetnsassy316 47 F
1  Article
30 Things Girls want Guys to know   4/8/2004

30. You have to talk to us. Contrary to popular belief, we can’t read minds. 29. When we ask you what your thinking, don’t say “nothing“. And again…… we can’t read minds. 28. When we ask you if we look good, be honest. People will say “Who let her leave the house looking like that?”…….and you DON’T want to ...


0 Comments, 301 Views, 53 Votes ,7.37 Score
lisalestat 39 F
1  Article
Love Online   4/7/2004

If you are looking for love online then i would like to share with you my experience. I met a guy in a chatroom in september of last year we emailed for a bit and eventually talked on the phone. We met up in october and fell in love, now don't think its all roses we are no longer together because unfortunatly he lives 93 miles away from me. So my advice to you is this if you are not willing ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 17 Votes ,5.95 Score
flyingonwind 43 F
2  Articles
American or Russian?   4/5/2004

The problem is following: my friend (and it IS my friend, not me! is a nice girl and she is Russian and has been dating with a Russian guy for 1 year and a half. First they didn't have any relationships (in the full meaning of this notion), only sex. Then she, as she says, began to CHANGE him, and his attitude towards her and finally they end up living together. But he still treats her ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 12 Votes ,1.56 Score
DrMarshall
8  Articles
THOUGHTS ON THE TRIUMPHAL ENTRY   4/3/2004

THOUGHTS ON THE TRIUMPHAL ENTRY <br> I've always puzzled over the Triumphal Entry. On the one hand, the enthusiasm of the crowds is contagious. The King is coming into the Holy City! Hosanna! On the other hand, I see Jesus filled with pain. He accedes to the celebration -- indeed, he initiates it. But he is somehow detached. Instead of lifting his hands in victory as might a ...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
DrMarshall
8  Articles
THE GAY MARRIAGE PARADOX   4/3/2004

The Gay Marriage Paradox <br> Most Americans oppose gay marriage--polls generally suggest somewhere around 60 percent say they don't agree with extending marriage to homosexual couples. But most Americans-- to roughly the same extent--oppose amending the Constitution to make gay marriage impossible. A January ABCNew/Washington Post poll put it at 58 percent. What gives? ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
DrMarshall
8  Articles
THE NATIONAL THEME FOR BLACK HISTORY MONTH!   4/3/2004

BROWN VS THE BOARD OF EDUCATION <br> I'm here today to raise awareness about the 50th anniversary of Brown Vs The Board Of Education, consider the meaning and legacy of Brown and its implications for today, to share in your activities and other plans for celebrating, and exchange information about the anniversary by interacting with you in this setting. <br> You ...


0 Comments, 231 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
cuteass362436C 63 F
4  Articles
build a rainbow   3/30/2004

When your world is gloomy and your feeling rather glum, Paint yourself a rainbow , dont wait for one to come, Dont sit looking out the window for the clouds to part, There will soon be a rainbow if you build one in your heart. Take some lovely thought out of a poem or a prayer. Put it straight into your mind and let it linger there, Paint yourself a rainbow in colours bold and gay ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
ArChAnGeLAZ 38 M
1  Article
What is LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   3/29/2004

Sometimes you might feel that you'll be happier alone ... but its always nice to have someone to laze around with ... Someone to think about ... Someone to care about ... Someone to share your joy ... And someone to kiss ...!!! So take a chance... You'll never know what you will get... Until you have really tried... So if there's somebody you miss.. Tell them that you do... ...


0 Comments, 147 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
MtnMan39 65 M
4  Articles
Women should Stand Taller   3/28/2004

I have seen some great friends that have controlling husbands or boyfriends. They should stand taller and prouder for themselfs. If they did from the begining of a relationship I feel the love would have grown out of trust sooner or broke off and would probably have been better anyway. Stand tall & Stand proud ladys. There are good men out there.


0 Comments, 35 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
DiAmari03 43 F
1  Article
the one your with or porno   3/26/2004

which one interests you sexually, the one your with or pornos? why is it that guys tend to watch the pornos then be with the one they're with. i can understand if your partner is not there with you but when they are why watch it? then expect them to have sex with you while it's on. i understand it's turning you on but have you ever thought of what they are thinking. as for me i don't like ...


0 Comments, 163 Views, 37 Votes ,6.62 Score
Crisly185 38 F
6  Articles
Please help me!   3/26/2004

I am a new member in Friendfinder. Could you tell me what I have to do, to get silver or gold member. I really would like to know that.


0 Comments, 116 Views, 27 Votes ,2.29 Score
NIKOS_2004gr 44 M
1  Article
TRUST   3/23/2004

NEVER TRUST NOBODY! U NEVER KNOW WHAT A GIRL OR BOY THINKING ABOUT U AND MORE IF THE GUY WILL SELL OUT YOUR SECRET! SO TAKE CARE YOUR BEHAVIOUR AND U WILL FIND TRUE FRIEND!!!


0 Comments, 79 Views, 37 Votes ,2.39 Score
missbeepbeep 42 F
1  Article
RE : making new friend   3/13/2004

i think if u would like to have other friend to be changed, u should not hung out ur old friends coz sometime ur old friends can bring new friends for u and of coz all of u will have much friend as u want. and if u want to have other friend not only in ur group, u can find them from anywhere. but just dont' left ur old friend just becoz u need somethings new. if ur old frinds know, think ...


0 Comments, 74 Views, 17 Votes ,3.83 Score
ther0ckwwe 39 M
1  Article
making new friends   3/10/2004

Im having trouble talking making new friends. I feel that I have grown apart from all my old friends since we basically really hung out since we were little . Its not that I don't want to be friends with them anymore, I just want to hang out with other people with different interests for a change. Im not really the kind of person to really come up to a person and start a conversation. I ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 19 Votes ,3.92 Score
Drneedlove5 54 M
1  Article
how do i get across that i am real?   3/7/2004

Well i am one of a kind.They broke the mold when i was made lolI know that many women have been hurt in their lives and so have i and i have done some hurting myself not by choice.I would just like to know what i am doing wrong to meet that speical someone in life?I am sensitive loyal and not to bad on the eyesJust looking for someone to settle down with and be happy with my other in ...


0 Comments, 337 Views, 41 Votes ,7.31 Score
Stephanie7690 41 F
11  Articles
"Titanic: Are We Next?"   3/2/2004

"Titanic: Are We Next?" <br> (Lecture from Dwight Nelson - Pastor at Andrews University). <br> One of my favorite stories is told by Thomas Gillespie of Princeton University. It's the story of a schoolboy who was at his desk late one afternoon, composing a report for his class. Needing an appropriate introduction, the boy headed for his mother, who was scurrying ...


0 Comments, 114 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
Stephanie7690 41 F
11  Articles
wanna know why we have so much trouble? The reason for our problems   3/2/2004

wanna know why we have so much trouble? <br> Is It Star Wars When the Empire Strikes Back? Isn't that an incredible story! The moment I read the Anissa Ayala saga in the Reader's Digest I knew we simply had to get them all here for the opening weekend of this global satellite seminar! How powerfully her story tells the truth: It took the birth of a baby to save her! And ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
DyslexicHeart 45 M
6  Articles
The Relationship Age Limit Calculator.   2/26/2004

Posted here is a way to calculate the Age Range you should look for in starting a relationship, based on what age you are now. <br> Regardless of what the laws on consent are (ie: This calculator assumes a 'sex-free' relationship)... and regardless of gender, just follow these calculations and you should be fine. <br> (Your Age / 2) + 7 = Your Minimum Target (Your ...


0 Comments, 97 Views, 18 Votes ,0.40 Score
Charmbutterfly 39 F
4  Articles
When you are far away..........................   2/25/2004

What should you do when you finally meet someone and fall in love with them? Only to be reminded that they live on the other side of the world from you!!! I mean money would be no issue....................If we had MONEY!!! LOL <br> Oh what have I gotten myself into!! <br> What would you do? How far would you go to get to the one you love? <br> Give me all ...


0 Comments, 280 Views, 14 Votes ,6.18 Score
Achilles42 49 M
1  Article
What's a guy to do?   2/24/2004

What's a guy to do? <br> <br> There's a woman in my life that's so incredible that when ever I think of what I want, I think of her. When I think of who I would dream to be with, I think of her. She's so beautiful that she literally represents beauty to me. I know her fairly well, I work with her every day, not closely but in the same building. I've had immeasurably ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
fromnepal 43 M
8  Articles
something about LOVE   2/24/2004

--One can be unhappy by oneself, but to be truly tormented, one must love. --Love is harder to accept than to give. <br> --To love is to embrace life. To love fully is to embrace both death and life. <br> --The secret of happiness is simple: be loving, giving, caring. Why, then, are so many unhappy? Because they are afraid. <br> ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 76 Votes ,7.13 Score
Kelso84 39 M
2  Articles
how might i know if my girlfriend's cheating?   2/17/2004

my girlfriend has been acting rather shady lately. my friends tell me to watch out, but i can't say anything because im suppose to trust her.. what signs should i look for? thanks in advance..


0 Comments, 43 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
cosmicteddy 52 M
6  Articles
cross cultural dating   2/6/2004

How do you go about dating someone from a different culture and country? Well Friendfinders id a good way to start. Once you have seen someone's profile been in contact with them, you have a chance to get to know each other. Do not be in too much of a rush to meet. Some people think of themselves a s lonely and can not wait to meet someone. It is, however, much more likely that any ...


0 Comments, 143 Views, 65 Votes ,8.69 Score
cookieface 78 F
2  Articles
RE: Answer Back..   2/2/2004

I no longer answer contacts who have OBVIOUSLY not done me the courtesy of reading my profile! I'm not looking for the 'perfect' match, but it WOULD be nice if 'some' of the interests/lifestyle preferences were there! Am I the ONLY ONE WHO RUNS INTO THIS? I think not reading someone's profile is much more impolite than not responding to people who are out there sending what I call ...


0 Comments, 172 Views, 16 Votes ,5.48 Score
cosmicteddy 52 M
6  Articles
be patient when geting to know someone   1/29/2004

Ever meet that person that made a gret impression on you? Maybe love at first sight? Did you think right away that this person was the on, your soulmate and that you would be together forever? then, as you get to know the person, they seem to change. You find different things in their personality that just were not there at first. Who's fault is this, the other person for not being ...


0 Comments, 116 Views, 59 Votes ,8.22 Score
cookieface 78 F
2  Articles
RE: Let's Get Real...   1/29/2004

Regarding the above named article, I can only speak for myself; however, I assure one and all that my photo is NOT 'fake, ' NOR am I desperate for "friends!" Those, I have aplenty. What I'm looking for is love. I have been succinct and clear about the type of individual I wish to correspond with. I am interested in the matchmaking offerings of this service. As I live in a small town, ...


0 Comments, 304 Views, 29 Votes ,7.85 Score
andrez33 44 M
1  Article
Images not shown   1/28/2004

I have a technical problem with rather strange behaviour. Most oftenly the images are not shown. I have the same phenomen in both Internet Explorer and Netscape. I'm suspecting that AD-aware can have caused this but why do I get the images sometimes and then later not? Does anyone have the same problem or any ideas?


0 Comments, 17 Views, 19 Votes ,5.89 Score
Stephanie7690 41 F
11  Articles
He or she has to want to change   1/27/2004

Okay, have you ever heard of this "let the filthy remain filthy?" sometimes its hard to change someone especially with all the advice you swing their way it doesnt even sink into their vains and blood stream. Sometimes if you walk away you feel bad about it, but if the person won't change his or her life around, then what point is there carrying on and not willing to change for the common ...


0 Comments, 172 Views, 19 Votes ,4.18 Score
Mystery2you 47 F
3  Articles
Is it just the distance of something more?   1/25/2004

For a while, I am trying to enlarge my circle of friends. Because I am planning to immigrate to Canada, I prefer to “find” friends over there. Although I have noticed that that is not very easy to accomplish. I wonder why, because the only thing I want is finding (some) friends over there with regard to the plans I have. Because they live over there and maybe they might be ...


0 Comments, 105 Views, 18 Votes ,3.81 Score
DrMarshall
8  Articles
REMEMBERING DR. MARTIN L. KING JR.   1/17/2004

REMEMBERING DR. MARTIN L. KING JR. <br> Thirty five years after his passing, the words and efforts of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. still live on in America. His strength and conviction helped pioneer the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960's and gave hope and opportunity to countless Americans. Hence, we honor not only Dr. King on Martin Luther King Jr. Day, but also the challenges ...


0 Comments, 137 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
SnoweyNo1 80 M
1  Article
BE WISE   1/16/2004

Before being truthfull BE WISE After 60 years on this EARTH and being HONEST this is my conclusion


0 Comments, 90 Views, 12 Votes ,4.57 Score
curious2apoint 60 F
1  Article
Kawasakii Syndrom? Every go through this as a parent?   1/13/2004

One of my twin boys at the age of 3 years got Kawasaki Syndrom. I would really love to hear from anyone who knows someone, went through it or had a stricken with it to please contact me. I have a bunch of questions regarding the long term effects of it. Please leave me a message thanks Roxanne aka curious2apoint


0 Comments, 91 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
johndoe120 54 M
6  Articles
Responce to Cherish em now   1/7/2004

Yes its great that you have your family now to help get you through your pain. After reading your article more than once it seems that you must of had someone that loved and trusted you very dearly. From what you said it sounds as if you had two afairs with differnt men, causing the loss of your true love. You shouldn't come looking for sympathy on this site. As the saying goes, you made ...


0 Comments, 96 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
nylrej 40 F
1  Article
Cherish em now   1/6/2004

Another article deem to be you dozing off? Read on for a reason. We have to feel to see. I have been wounded deep previously, like a hunted animal, I choose to fall apart and lost myself bits and pieces day by day, running with fear as i let myself bleed. My pessimism surfaces and i detest the world percieving that he had my life screwed up with two men. I began to ponder. I refused to ...


0 Comments, 119 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
DGyrlzBodyCandy 40 F
1  Article
what do you do with a cheating girlfriend who you love so very much!!!   1/4/2004

i have a girlfriend who is older than i am, i cannot drive as yet because i dont have a lisence so she sleeps out and hangs up the phone at a certain time at night i found out about it and i also caught her cheating on me while we were out at dinner her boyfriend showed up i love her very much and she seem to be a changed person she got got home from college in Canada it's like i cant let ...


1 Comments, 138 Views, 18 Votes ,4.63 Score
Kelso84 39 M
2  Articles
she had me fooled! was i an idiot, or did i have no choice but to trust?   1/2/2004

i dated a girl, we hit it off from the very start. we fell madly in love (or so i thought) i have never been in love before, had never had sex before. i was 19, she was 23. we had a great time for about a month, then it started to get rocky. i thought i would love her forever, i really did. it turns out she was dating my best friend for the last month of it, and now she still is. i think of ...


0 Comments, 151 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
mikeybabe2 49 M
1  Article
Do these sites actually work   12/28/2003

I was married for ten years and have four , since my divorce I have found it very difficult to get back into the social circle again as I do not want to go out on the town every night. most of my friends are now married and the friends who are not have moved away from the area. I have tried dating sites, however for two years now I have had no luck. I wanted to know do these sites actually ...


0 Comments, 170 Views, 20 Votes ,5.04 Score
sweeeet_guy 51 M
1  Article
Single and missing Christmas the way it used to be too?   12/24/2003

I miss Christmas the way it used to be. 25 years ago when I was a Christmas (we Germans do celebrate it on the eve of the 24th) meant a full appartment. There was my mom and me, my grandma and my uncle. My dad showed up (my parents are devorced) and our neigbours (5 more people)dropped by after unwrapping their presents. And often, when I did get something new for my electrical trains, our ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 30 Votes ,8.44 Score
TheSwiftHawk 46 M
10  Articles
One Chance ..........   12/24/2003

Dream what you want to dream; Go where you want to go; Be what you want to be, Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. Enjoy ..........


0 Comments, 112 Views, 27 Votes ,5.34 Score
TheSwiftHawk 46 M
10  Articles
Don't Wait .........   12/24/2003

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! .......... Don't wait, Go and hug them.


0 Comments, 118 Views, 19 Votes ,5.63 Score
TheSwiftHawk 46 M
10  Articles
Have Enough Hope ..........   12/24/2003

You may have had enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, but always have enough hope to make you happy and you will have enough happiness to make you face any trials and sorrow.


0 Comments, 225 Views, 22 Votes ,5.41 Score
TheSwiftHawk 46 M
10  Articles
Make Most Of Everything ..........   12/24/2003

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything. They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.


0 Comments, 190 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
TheSwiftHawk 46 M
10  Articles
Be Yourself..........   12/21/2003

Best way to find a true life partner is not by trying to come across as the best person but by just being yourself. This will ensure that someone will love and accept you as you are.


0 Comments, 114 Views, 18 Votes ,6.67 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
be happy.....   12/17/2003

hello my friends please be happy to be in good healthy..........that's my advice to all.


0 Comments, 171 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
buttrfly2003 68 F
2  Articles
Everything happens for a reason   12/17/2003

Everything Happens For A Reason Author Unknown <br> Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there... to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. <br> You never know who these people may be but when you lock eyes with them, you know that every moment that ...


0 Comments, 493 Views, 33 Votes ,7.92 Score
dr_wahdan2 54 M
44  Articles
go to happy ......to be good healthy   12/15/2003

if any one live happy and not sad rhat's make you in good healthy.....some sports smile.....if you you do that you'll be long healthy life...............bye


0 Comments, 108 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
Adidas27m 51 M
1  Article
Is your buddy Mr. or Mrs. right?   12/9/2003

You have a perfect guy/girl friend. You guys hang out together, you guys talk about everything, have everything in common and you remember each others birthdays. But did you ever stop and think that maybe this person is The One for you? What if this friend were to meet a girl/guy tomorrow that he/she really liked? How would that make you feal? A little jealous? You know it would. So why not ...


0 Comments, 238 Views, 29 Votes ,3.44 Score
termoionic 40 M
1  Article
Great Motivational quotes   12/6/2003

"A day without laughter is a day wasted." Charles Chaplin <br> "The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today" Franklin D. Roosevelt, message for Jefferson Day, April 13, 1945 <br> "Creativity means believing you have greatness." Dr. Wayne W. Dyer <br> "Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It ...


0 Comments, 133 Views, 28 Votes ,6.42 Score
Lifeskills13 38 F
1  Article
What to do when a guy doesn't have enough courage to ask me out.   12/5/2003

IM a babysitter for one of my friends. She has a male friend who she said has a crush on me. I know this is true cuz of how he acts towards me. what i don't know is how to get him to ask me out. im an outfashion gurl i think guys should ask first lol so i have a problem here. He had told my friend that he has no courage what so ever for asking a girl out but would realy like to go out with ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
Bekuhsibet 38 F
1  Article
School and dating   12/3/2003

If you want to have a good education and good grades the best thing to do is ignore your date in school and do your work and keep dating outside of school so you do not get distracted from the things that matter most liek your gardes.


0 Comments, 162 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
Lola_96 43 F
2  Articles
To everyone who is SINGLE   11/24/2003

Love is like a butterfly - the more you chase it the more it eludes you. If you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. <br> Love can make you happy but it often hurts, but know that love is only special when you give it to someone who really deserves it so take your time and choose the BEST


0 Comments, 204 Views, 44 Votes ,7.54 Score
equineman 57 M
1  Article
so many   11/19/2003

As I browse all these profiles, I can, t imagine that such pretty ladies are still single. There are so many wonderfull ladies that seem to be out of my leage. What is wrong with ladies, They all say they what a good man but go out with the jerks. It might be the way to go. All I have to do is treat them like dirt and I am in. LOL but thats not me.


0 Comments, 183 Views, 18 Votes ,6.26 Score
CuteJamaican 39 M
4  Articles
Chances and Pain by CuteJamaican   11/18/2003

Sometimes we take chances Revealing ourselves under other's glances <br> Knowing it may cause us pain If it is found to be in vain <br> But we put ourselves forth anyway And let come whatever may <br> I’m thinking of this today Pondering living life this way <br> When one bears the soul Reactions can never be foretold <br> ...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
fungi36 42 M
3  Articles
I need to say no!   11/12/2003

I had originally put this is as an article but I finally realized it needed to be in here. I have a hard time with rejection. Not of being rejected, I mean of rejecting other people. If I get to know somebody, I always see the good in them and that makes it hard for me to turn them down. My last girlfriend, for example, was with me for over two years. I was planning on breaking up with ...


0 Comments, 169 Views, 20 Votes ,4.78 Score
GBNATIVE 65 F
1  Article
    11/11/2003

I totally agree about the part, there seems to be a lot of men who want nothing to do with a woman with . Attention all men, can any of you answer that one? If you don't want anything to do with , maybe you should just come out and have that in your profile, and us who have will leave you alone. There are, I'm sure, some out there that don't mind being around, even if they have to come ...


0 Comments, 215 Views, 25 Votes ,7.23 Score
funlovinggoddes 63 F
2  Articles
RE: Why No Interest   11/10/2003

Well a lot of people dont want . They either dont have the patience or they are just ready for some "me" time. Which is what I want right now. I would never date anyone with . Its just something I dont want. I am sure there are people out there who dont care if you have or not. But mean less time and more responsibility. Dating is hard enough for some people even without . Hang ...


0 Comments, 238 Views, 37 Votes ,7.21 Score
charming1766 54 M
13  Articles
Growing up   10/29/2003

Knowing when to say when is tough. It's true with alcohol, shopping and especially bad relationships. Learn from your mistakes, or at least the mistakes of others. When it's over, let it be over, You'll both be a lot better off, and you'll avail yourself of everything and everyone else that's out there waiting for you. Be smart. Kick bad habits sooner, rather than later.


0 Comments, 183 Views, 24 Votes ,6.31 Score
NeoMantis 47 M
1  Article
gotta question about women.....ok maybe a couple   10/29/2003

Ok I like this bartender girl, and in fact she is the only one who talks to me in the club. Is she being nice because she wants me to buy more drinks or what? I have looked for her after and she is not around. Another question I have is why do women get so scared when I tell them I am disabled, they act like I have the plague or something. I really liked this woman, I met her on here, she ...


0 Comments, 257 Views, 16 Votes ,5.92 Score
walksoftly27 49 F
5  Articles
My reflection to so call-large women   10/26/2003

I eat a lot, I don't care. I really don't care. I don't like to do exercise either. I just enjoy all kinds of food. No matter how much I eat, I rarely gaining much weight, I don't know why? Even I would gain weight, I won't give up one of my favor hobbies-food. <br> At somepoint in my life, food and wine are sexier than sex! <br> I never eat little on dating scences to ...


0 Comments, 145 Views, 40 Votes ,4.27 Score
walksoftly27 49 F
5  Articles
Do U want to be with a nice guy or do you want to make him a better man??   10/23/2003

Women talk a lot on how to make a man to be a better prince? <br> But I would say majority of men are very difficult to be changed. He might change a bit for the sake of pleasing you. <br> A man's characters, personalities, honesty, his morality and value systems are all a woman should look careful with a microscope especially at the begining of the relationship. ...


0 Comments, 148 Views, 23 Votes ,6.40 Score
cutiemitchie1 42 F
1  Article
Long-distance love affair...   10/20/2003

The relationship is 11 months old now. He is a seaman and I am a private company employee. We both love each other despite of our long-distance love affair. For me, "If I love him as he loves me no knife can cut our love in two". We are both holding on to the promise that we will wait for each other no matter what. What do you think guys?? Can we survive the love???


0 Comments, 86 Views, 47 Votes ,3.87 Score
orlyon 47 F
1  Article
RE: Do all men want skinny blondes?   10/18/2003

No...many would be happy with skinny brunettes and red heads *LOL* Seriously though, in my experience, even men who are elss than studly themselves will still think they can score the super model hottie. It's an ego thing, every balding middle aged guy with a beer belly thinks he is Mel Gibson! Recently i replied to a man that said he adored my pictures and was very keen to get to know me, ...


0 Comments, 156 Views, 47 Votes ,8.02 Score
commybabylove 39 F
11  Articles
About men   10/16/2003

The nice men are ugly. <br> The handsome men are not nice. <br> The handsome and nice men are gay. <br> The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married. <br> <br> The men who are not so handsome but are nice men have no money. <br> The men who are not so handsome but are nice men with money think we are only after ...


0 Comments, 122 Views, 55 Votes ,7.05 Score
Mystery2you 47 F
3  Articles
Is it me or just the distance?   10/13/2003

For quite some time I am trying to expand my circle of friends in Canada. Until now I must admit that the result is very poor, although I have sent some emails by Friendfinder to several people, I have never received any response! The reason for expanding my circle of friends in Canada is because I want to emigrate to Canada (hopefully next year). And I thought that making friends in Canada ...


0 Comments, 153 Views, 25 Votes ,6.01 Score
lilmisstj 43 F
2  Articles
Are all men out for the skinny blondes?   10/10/2003

I am a pretty, but plump female, and it seems like it is getting harder and harder to find the man who will accept me for me. Most guys, who don't see me before the first date love my personality and the way I talk to them, but when they meet me, they make the date quick, and then never call afterwards. Did I get something stuck in my teeth? Does my breath smell of onions? Those are the ...


1 Comments, 190 Views, 39 Votes ,6.17 Score
charming1766 54 M
13  Articles
Should I just get over it and grow up?   10/10/2003

In my case, the origins of my abandonment issues date back to when I was three years old and I overheard my Mom having a family conference with my siblings, ages 15, 13 and 5. She was about to tell them that our father wasn't going to be coming home anymore. She had discovered he was having an affair with a woman who lived in the Virgin Islands, where he and my uncle periodically traveled ...


0 Comments, 198 Views, 17 Votes ,4.40 Score
charming1766 54 M
13  Articles
Would you start a family with him ladies??   10/10/2003

When I was a , just a few years after we'd moved out of the family home where we'd all grown up and into the urban sprawl that is the big city, I, an obedient , an exceptional student, constantly labeled a brainiac, ostracized, tormented and teased by the underachievers (who, for some reason, were always bigger and more numerous than the overachievers) looked for some way to connect with ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 15 Votes ,4.97 Score
charming1766 54 M
13  Articles
Are real men allowed to cry?   10/4/2003

Before you get the wrong idea about me, I know that crying is considered inappropriate for a man to do (especially a straight man). It's just that since I swore off marijuana some 7 weeks ago, and alcohol some 4 weeks ago, I'm finding myself much more in touch with my emotions. I care very much about the support, or perceived lack thereof, that those in my life have for me and my recovery. ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 9 Votes ,5.78 Score
babypower7 55 F
1  Article
Don't go for looks it can deceive.......   9/22/2003

Long time ago i read those words and I learned from those who teach me that:"Don´t go for looks it can deceive, don´t go for wealth, even that fades away.Go for some one who makes you smile because only a smile makes a dark day seem right"how many times we make and make the same error, we look only how the other people look out but we don't think that it is not all, the esence is inside ...


0 Comments, 185 Views, 15 Votes ,7.11 Score
dblue2 47 M
1  Article
Womem from east and Asian countries   9/5/2003

I'm amazed by the quantity of women from eastern (ex soviet countries) and Asia in this kind of sites. Looking at their pictures, they do look good but if you notice in detail, you'll find out that the the pictures are so fake!! Always taking a pose, recent haidresser hair, full of make up, red lipstick to fill their lips... so unatural and so exaggerating!! Their profiles so alike, too ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 57 Votes
vhon 32 M
1  Article
an educated person   9/5/2003

an educated person study not only they want to gradute but also to be a profesional somday


0 Comments, 98 Views, 18 Votes
johndoe120 54 M
6  Articles
Honesty in regards to ones profile.   9/5/2003

Maybe this article should be in relationship humor instead but I thought more people would see it here. I click on a lot of profiles. Lately I have run into a few that are clearly looking to have an afair. I have strong feelings about that but thats another story. Whats funny about it though is when someone looking for an affair states that they are looking for an honest person for a ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 48 Votes ,7.32 Score
lilmisstj 43 F
2  Articles
A Good Foundation is where to start, for whatever relationship   9/2/2003

What you need is a good foundation for any kind of relationship. If you don't have that, then the friendship or relationship will never exist. You have to get to know the person from the inside out, not the outside in. That has always been the "rule of thumb" since I can remember. My parents always taught me that you always look inside for what really matters and what is important, and ...


0 Comments, 222 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
barrykisses 43 M
1  Article
Older guy with younger girl?   8/24/2003

Now I know some people may think I'm strange, but I'm just wondering about a possible relationship that could possibly happen. If I am 23 yrs old guy, and I have feelings for an 18teen year old girl am I considered a sickoooo or pervert? Whoever reads this and gives me your feedback, THANK YOU!!!!


0 Comments, 219 Views, 28 Votes ,5.09 Score
aLockhart 56 F
13  Articles
If you don't know how to act...   8/24/2003

Life is about who you love and who you hurt. It's about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully. It's about keeping or betraying trust. It's about friendship, used as a sanctity or a weapon. It's about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening. About starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip. It's about what judgements you pass and why. And who your judgements ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
JuniorNC 42 M
8  Articles
be yourself around her   8/23/2003

Most guys try to act different around girls don't act like that caus your just leading someone to believe your something your not Being yourself is what you should be don't be scared to be yourself if someone tell you to act like someone your not that not a relationship worth having if you act not like yourself you can draw the wrong type of women like gold diggers girls that just wanna ...


0 Comments, 236 Views, 28 Votes ,6.12 Score
anne_5048335 39 F
7  Articles
lust and love   8/23/2003

lust and love go hand in hand.. it is often linked together... this is the reason why teenagers find it more confusing.. to have and not to have sex.. is the most crucial descion.. one could make especially fot the girl.. that is.. "if you love me .. you'll do it with me..." is the common ultimatum handed down by their partners... we.. for me, this for sure is not love.. this is pure and ...


0 Comments, 344 Views, 39 Votes ,7.14 Score
shallow_depth 59 M
1  Article
Be what you want.   8/22/2003

Want to be tall? Stand tall. Want to better looking? Watch Zoolander a few times. Want to be wanted? Know that you deserve it. <br> I have found that getting what you want is half attitude and half resources. There are people with the looks that never get dates because they have a sour attitude, or perhaps they have become jaded and don't go out anymore. On the flip side I'm ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 24 Votes ,7.79 Score
justmeny123 63 F
1  Article
why men think they need more than one women   8/8/2003

i have a men that says he loves me. but he also has this special friend on line. he chats with and sends e mail alot. he says they are just friends but i seen e mail that would make me think that he is not telling the whole truth about that. i love him very much but iam having a hard time dealing with this.if you have a problem like mine or have advice please respone . thank you


0 Comments, 169 Views, 33 Votes ,4.98 Score
johndoe120 54 M
6  Articles
Numbers game   8/7/2003

I have been with this site a whlie now. I have clicked on a lot of ladies. Some more than once as it can be difficult to remember who you have clicked on and who you haven't. I have also e-mailed more than a few ladies. Some have responded back some haven't. Usualy seems most people on this site aren't realy intrested in relationships just here for fun.It can be difficult to find someone ...


0 Comments, 133 Views, 23 Votes ,6.05 Score
anette2003 56 F
2  Articles
I am crying tonight   8/6/2003

I am crying tonight. Because I am a Russian woman. I learned that is enough to for a British man to accuse me on anything bad he could only imagine can be done to him by a woman. Because he has a TV set and watches British TV regularly. <br> What can I do? Try to explain the basics? About equal rights for every human being to be treated equally, about discrimination on racial ...


0 Comments, 184 Views, 36 Votes ,5.48 Score
Natalja1970 54 F
1  Article
The person IS the creator of the destiny.   8/1/2003

The person IS the creator of the destiny. You will have exactly what you want! The word "to want" (attention!) it is possible to treat in two variants – 1) I "want" and 2) It "would be desirable". Between these variants there is an essential difference. It "would be desirable" is a saying: " it would be desirable to be a movie star, to have couple of millions $ on ...


0 Comments, 110 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
anette2003 56 F
2  Articles
Sad story, sorry   7/30/2003

I was by my ex boyfriend. That was almost a year ago but I still cannot move on and fail to build any other relationship. That was very violent relationship all together in many aspects and I cannot believe how I managed to stay with the man for 2 years. I should of run away much earlier. I thought I am strong and I can manage and I need to keep it because we were truly deep in love and ...


0 Comments, 221 Views, 30 Votes ,6.47 Score
Friend4Life043 64 M
2  Articles
RE: So Confused   7/21/2003

Don't go back. Even if you feel responsible for him stabbing you, he still stabbed you and nearly killed you. You don't have to settle for what you've got. Believe me, I have seen other circumstances such as yours, and you are better off without him. Even better off alone, than with someone who would hurt you and does not care about you. <br> Loneliness is a state of mind. ...


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Friend4Life043 64 M
2  Articles
RE: Already involved or Paranoia   7/21/2003

I have to chuckle........ <br> <br> Please move on with yourself. Emotions tend to make us humans place ourselves in denial because we do not want the dissapointment. It's pretty obvious. Move on to someone else better and more honest. <br> BE STRONG


0 Comments, 185 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
warriorspirit1 52 M
1  Article
Dont ever change the core of who you are.   7/18/2003

don't let anyone change who your inside, too many relationships end one sided leaving the other person holding the response abilty of tring to change it all. dont ever try being what your not to please someone else you will end up cheating yourself the most in the end weather the relationship works out or not is hindsight, compared to the damage it ultimatly does to you.love like ...


2 Comments, 114 Views, 17 Votes ,5.81 Score
indiangurl85 39 F
2  Articles
How to live your life to the fullest   6/28/2003

Most of us find this to be the most confusing thing... how to live your life to the fullest?? The question is simple and the answer seems so difficult!! Well I would like to help those people who really want to lead a happy life.The first and foremost thing is to "have the faith" that there is a God and whatever he does is for your own good.Many times i have had bad events, but ...


0 Comments, 117 Views, 19 Votes ,5.50 Score
LabRatLady 36 F
2  Articles
Life Alone... Is something wrong?   3/25/2003

I hope this article is in the right place, "advice, " be it for advice or to give advice, right? Either way, I'll keep this short... I am a 22 year old college graduate, relatively nice on the eyes with a stable career in a profession that I absolutely love. Sometimes, just sometimes, a person even laughs at my jokes (I simply love to laugh and share the humor in life's little ...


0 Comments, 179 Views, 34 Votes ,7.91 Score
sweetgall18 39 F
1  Article
Decency Is Very Important   2/21/2003

Hi There My friends !! <br> I am just a 18 yr old female .. <br> You know something whats the decency of a woman?? Decency is not obtained by covering ur body from head to toe ..its the behaviour that counts on ur decency and ur personality !! I bet that many will be thinking what am i talking ..but ultimatly its u who will get a bad name in society. There ...


0 Comments, 181 Views, 23 Votes ,5.46 Score
bikesrnice 70 F
1  Article
If he really cares, why is he still online?   11/14/2002

I met a man on here, I have been seeing for almost 2 months. We spend a lot of time together and enjoy each others company, but I know when he is not with me, he is still online on this site. I removed my profile, but put another one on, just so I could get online to see if he is on, and he is. Is he interested in me as he seems? Or is he not satisfied and still looking for ...


0 Comments, 216 Views, 40 Votes ,7.63 Score
Jaggy63 83 F
2  Articles
SEnior Ladies for Senior Gents   6/8/2002

In following a similar article, we women who have maintained a reasonable attractiveness, and are still interested in a loving and sexual relationship do seem to be the forgotten ones. We have a lot of experience, a lot of understanding and tolerance, a lot of love, and the ability to perform still. I agree that looks do matter to a degree, but experience and maturity have their advantages. ...


0 Comments, 198 Views, 24 Votes ,7.33 Score
MichiganSailor 68 M
1  Article
Letting Go? Reply!   4/19/2002

In reply to you question of letting go? <br> From a man?s point of view. <br> It truly sounds like you are playing a game with this manand stringing him along which is a mean thing to do! If there is something missing then don?t use him for the sex. If he is the happy, productive, outgoing type you describe when you are not around, then obviously he can sense you are ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 12 Votes ,5.10 Score
Terry3344 55 M
4  Articles
You girls really don't want nice guys!   4/5/2002

I often read posts from women that they¡¦re looking for ¡§nice guys¡¨. Yet, it seems like total bull to me. When I see this, I think to myself this girl probably just got burned and doesn¡¦t want that to happen again. So she¡¦s saying one thing but pursuing another. Specifically, a good portion of females want the outgoing, funny, aggressive and of course good looking type of man ...


0 Comments, 452 Views, 71 Votes ,7.61 Score
Terry3344 55 M
4  Articles
Good communication is essential   4/3/2002

<br> Good communication is essential <br> I have noticed a dilemma here. Specifically, with tryingto initially contact someone or even once you?ve made this initial contact, conveying your points/views with him or her in a way which they will clearly understand. I?ll start with the initial contact, as this first one is fairly difficult. Although, I know that most things in ...


0 Comments, 151 Views, 10 Votes ,5.77 Score
RUOUTTHERE2001 55 M
1  Article
Nice Guys should turn to Jerks.   12/22/2001

If you?re a nice guy like me then I?m sure you have experienced all the bull crap when it comes to women and nice guys. As you know women love to be treated like crap so my new years resolution is to start treating women like crap. Actually I started kind of early and I?m acting out the part of not giving a shit (which is really hard). This means - I?m late, I let her call me I WILL NOT ...


0 Comments, 139 Views, 37 Votes ,5.10 Score
jeep91 64 M
1  Article
Response to   8/31/2001

I'm new to this internet dating genre. Therefoe I can only give examples of what has happened to me and others in the "face to face" world. As a 42 yr. old who has never been married, I have been in this position many times. I've heard "your to good of a friend and I don't want to lose that", "I can't be the lover of my best friend", "We think too much alike" or "This is too good to ...


0 Comments, 166 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
Marquess 56 F
1  Article
Be specific   6/12/2001

Being specific and supplying enough information in your profile is very important. I have many a time got half way down a profile when I see something like 'I hate cats'; 'I go to church every Sunday'; 'my live with me'; 'I am looking for casual sex' - and hit the Back button. Obviously the person isn't for me and I'm pleased for having found this out before wasting any time on them. ...


0 Comments, 121 Views, 36 Votes ,4.53 Score
obsession74 50 F
1  Article
why not just GO WITH THE FLOW!   6/5/2001

Whe i first joined friend finder i kept thinking i must be that sad to join one of these dating online clubs but i soon relise that you can meet so many people on ff from all over the world.Inow have friends in USA, Germany and my home land England, i now have meet a really cute guy in the chat room who i meet up with and are now seeing each other without FF we would of never meet so now i ...


0 Comments, 232 Views, 14 Votes ,4.10 Score
HairySugarBear 68 M
3  Articles
This is your awakening.   4/13/2001

A time comes in your life when you finally get it ... when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a quieting down after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back your tears and begin to ...


0 Comments, 142 Views, 40 Votes ,7.71 Score
HairySugarBear 68 M
3  Articles
ATTITUDE DETERMINES ATTITUDE   4/13/2001

ATTITUDE DETERMINES ATTITUDE I woke up early today, excited over all I get to do beforethe clock strikes midnight.I have responsibilities to fulfill today. I am important. My job is to choose what kind of day I am going to have. Today I can complain because the weather is rainy or I can be thankful that the grass is getting watered for free. Today I can feel sad that I don't ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 23 Votes ,6.16 Score
Jeggburt 42 M
1  Article
Meeting your Responsibilities   3/15/2001

It's strange now-a-days that when couples break up and there is a in the relationship, 1 in 5 of these will suffer as a result of the absent parent no wishing to do anything (financially or morally) for them because they are not with them. <br> You may split up from your partner (for whatever reason) but that does not mean the should suffer because of this (you didn't seperate ...


0 Comments, 184 Views, 14 Votes ,4.90 Score
DarkSavior 44 M
4  Articles
I am Not Insincere...   3/11/2001

I have responded to a number of articles in this section, and whenever I come back here just to see the article again, I notice that the response that is atached to my name is not even close to what I had written, and quite frankly, the altered response makes me look like an insensitive of a moose. If this has happened to anyone else I say "Let them Know!" -Voice Of The Resistance


0 Comments, 151 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
Twodawg 46 M
1  Article
Wait a while before getting hitched.   3/2/2001

The mistake I made 4 years ago was to get married after knowing my ex. for only a few months. We spent all our time together and had an incredable attraction to each others bodies and sex. Well we got married and had nothing but trouble which lead to the divorce. It wasn't until after our marrage that we realized that we were total oppisites on most everything.


0 Comments, 148 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
squawgirl 62 F
3  Articles
what's wrong with being plump?   1/30/2001

there are alot of us non-thin mints around. guys by past us to go out with thin mints. we have alot of love for the right guy. thin mints don't try very hard to please a guy because they think their beauty is enough.


0 Comments, 172 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
squawgirl 62 F
3  Articles
listen to your mom   1/28/2001

everyone is giving you advice, but i one that you should listen to is from your mom. my mom always give me good advice; she told me always listen to yourself, if you are doing something wrong, only you can stop doning it, not someone else. i don't have my mom anymore to ask advice. so i try to think of what she would tell me. so the next time someone gives you advice; ask your mom.


0 Comments, 86 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Leah76 48 F
1  Article
Nice Guy's finishing last from a female   1/13/2001

As I read these articles about how ?Nice Guy?s? finish last I feel its time to shed my point of view. I am a female who has just been in a marriage that has ended after 5 years. My husband was one of these ?Nice Guy?s? who is now going through this phase of trying to create the ?Bad Boy? image. He feels that guys who are arrogant and have the "I don?t care" attitude that women will pay him ...


0 Comments, 197 Views, 60 Votes ,3.73 Score
cadillac-cowboy 55 M
1  Article
Value of a relationship   3/20/2000

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They ...


0 Comments, 132 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Gypsy99 70 F
3  Articles
Daily Life as a Single   1/15/2000

So we open Act One watching the aging, single woman valiantly rise from bed each morning at the virtual crack of dawn, stumble out to her car after trying, yet again, to conceal the dark circles under her eyes with Cover Stick. She drives to work in the cold, in the dark, at the godamn crack of dawn, puts in a day listening to the petty squabbles, tyrannies, and strivings of her coworkers, ...


0 Comments, 137 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
Frilford 59 M
1  Article
Deep in the Southern Ocean When Racing a Yacht Around the World   10/21/1999

Southern Ocean Watch. On board "Heath Insured" - The British Steel Challenge Round the World Race 1992-93 Working a watch system on a racing yacht there is no day and no night. There are only the watches, and they stretch away into the distance of the mind like an unbending road off which there is no turn. A non-day starts before any watch with the threatening sound of a person entering ...


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KinkyGaiJin 79 M
1  Article
Professor Kinky's AD-vice on SURE Internet Romance   2/8/1999

Many profiles begin with an advertisement for me, Me, ME! This is NOT a good way to get responses. Better is to focus on the relationship you hope to develop. In our case, I'd like to help you make a better profile, and perhaps later become intimate friends as well. Guys and girls have quite different needs, so I'll include tips for each, then, so as not to be too l-o-n-g winded, leave it to you ...


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firsttime76 47 M
2  Articles
Are you still in a relationship because you don't want to be alone?   10/4/1998

This is kind of a sore point with me so I feel I should express my thoughts on the issue. First of all I have never stayed in a relationship that a had no interest in. But I have watched many of my friends do just that. It seems that if a woman is in a relationship that she is not interested in she will allow (incourage) it to progress because she is afraid of being alone or feels she must be in ...


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SoftCandy 58 F
4  Articles
Cherish What You Have--While You Still Have It!   7/31/1998

You know the saying that you don't know what you had until after you lost it? Why wait till it's too late to wake up and take your head out of the sand? Tell that special someone TODAY that you love him/her, how much he/she means to you, how much you appreciate him/her being around and just being yours. Listen to him/her not just with ears that are empty in between but with your ...


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CyberNicholas 41 M
3  Articles
Small talk ? BIG DEAL !   5/19/1998

Friday night, you are at a friends party. You catch the eye of a cute guy standing across the room. He smiles. You smile back. He pushes his back of the wall and starts walking towards you. Goodness, what are you going to say ? You answer the doorbell. It's a new friend of your mother's. Your mother's not in, but she's due in half-an-hour. The friend says, "I'll wait." Five minutes ! What ...


0 Comments, 191 Views, 0 Votes
CyberNicholas 41 M
3  Articles
Small talk ? BIG DEAL !   5/19/1998

Friday night, you are at a friends party. You catch the eye of a cute guy standing across the room. He smiles. You smile back. He pushes his back of the wall and starts walking towards you. Goodness, what are you going to say ? You answer the doorbell. It's a new friend of your mother's. Your mother's not in, but she's due in half-an-hour. The friend says, "I'll wait." Five minutes ! What ...


0 Comments, 259 Views, 0 Votes
Legend696 40 M
4  Articles
Talking To Your About Sex   4/17/1998

It is very importent to talk to you about sex. It is difficult to bring up such an odd topic up with your . I will try to give yuo a perspective of what it's like to be a boy(I personaly am a 14 male). Even the shyest boys are brought into the world off sex at a very young age. Most I now had owned a adult movie or magazine by the time they were in the fourth grade. It's not ...


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SoftCandy 58 F
4  Articles
Don't Pretend to Be Someone You're Not.   3/20/1998

...Unless you plan to hide behind that computer forever. However, if you DO plan on meeting that special someone in real life one of these days, BE HONEST!!! Who are you trying to when under-reporting your age & weight and over- reporting your income? Okay, so you don't get a second chance at first impressions, but lying destroys trust that can never be rebuilt again. The only worse thing than ...


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SupremeLoco 41 M
7  Articles
What if food was dirty and sex was clean?   2/28/1998

What If Food Was Dirty And Sex Was Clean? When you think of it, there are only two things people need. You've got to have sex. You've got to have food. That's it. You don't need clothing, shelter, or a TV. Okay, maybe a TV, but otherwise, it's sex and food. But for some reason, some people think sex is dirty. Maybe God was a Republican. Somebody said, "All right, you want to ...


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SupremeLoco 41 M
7  Articles
How to break up with someone whos occupation is...   2/28/1998

What To Say To Break Up With Someone Whose Occupation Is... A(n)... Say To Him/Her, "Our relationship has armchair athlete without a job been shut out 45 to 0 astronomer been a black hole." banker/accountant gone bankrupt." bartender been on the rocks." boxer ...


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KAURISLSL 82 M
4  Articles
THE AGEING PROCESS - HOW TO MINIMIZE.   2/17/1998

ONE OF THE GREATEST PROBLEMS WE HAVE IS TO FILL AN APPLICATION FORM AND TO REALIZE THAT YOU ARE ACTUALLY OLDER THAN YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE. SINCE THE WORLD IS GOING BANANAS ON DECIMALISATION, WHY NOT WHEN WE APPROACH THE MILLENIUM, WE CHANGE OUR CALENDER. HENCEFORTH, FROM THE YEAR 2000 ANNO DOMINI, THE UNITED NATIONS MAY DECIDE TO IMPOSE A NEW CALENDER. THERE SHALL BE 100 SECONDS/MINUTE AND 100 ...


0 Comments, 182 Views, 0 Votes
ewe 69 M
1  Article
CORNWALL PARK   1/11/1998

Cornwall park is in one of NZ biggest city's (Auckland) . It is easlily found as it fetures on all the tourist maps as well as local maps that are found around the city. Cornwall park has several fetures that can be used by any person, these are sports any and varied driving of motor vehicles to the top of the hill and lastly walks. Walking in the park would only be recomended for people during ...


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Evita18 42 F
2  Articles
Untill this Year (I Knew Nothing About Love)   1/5/1998

Until This Year (I Knew Nothing About Love) I have been a girl all of my sixteen years. As a girl I have fallen in love before. Each year it happened it was different, until this year. As a preteen then a I knew I "loved" each boy I "liked". I knew I would marry him - just like every other girl knew. And I knew this was true love. It was only Like (with a capital , but not even close to ...


0 Comments, 293 Views, 0 Votes