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  Proven Dating Advice

Author Title Date # Responses
Wendy N. Lapidus-SaltzCould Your Love Life Benefit From Kaizen?

What is Kaizen? A drug, an herb, or a hot, new sexual technique? None of the above, yet it can change how you handle your love life.
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11/28/20072
Josey VogelsNot-So-Casual Flings & Chemical Imbalances

Dear Josey, I've been dating this woman for a few weeks and we have tons of physical chemistry but every time we get together, we seem to have nothing to talk about and it's really awkward until we start making out.

Josey Vogels tackles the dating dilemmas of guys!

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11/7/20071
Angel Rios
How to Write the Perfect Email

Waiting for a response to an email you sent can be agonizing - especially if you’re lonely or feeling insecure. Whoever said anticipation is sweet is full of it, because it's pure agony! But before you do anything as drastic swearing celibacy, check out these expert tips for writing emails that'll stack the deck in your favor!
10/1/20079
LuciaThe Art of Love with Lucia





Meet our new love and advice columnist, Lucia! She'll tackle the complexities of love and romance in her monthly column, "The Art of Love."
10/1/20072
Cole StevensMen, Women, and Friendship


July 19th

Well it's "Celebrate Friendship" month on , and that means all kinds of good, wholesome fun right? Sure it does! But...wait. Couldn't friendship lead to, well, "other" things? You know, like, SEX? Well, sure it could buddy! But negotiating the line between friends and "more than friends" is a tricky thing. So why not let our very own Cole Stevens let you in on some of the secrets about men, women, and friendships...

7/19/200714
Emily BermesHe Said, She Said: Communicating with the Opposite Sex


July 31st

While scientists may have proven that men and women are not, in fact, from different planets, we here at FriendFinder really wonder sometimes. So, in order to help bridge the gender gap a bit, we implore you to take a look at Emily Bermes' shorthand guide to understanding the grunts of guys and the gab of gals.

11/21/20068
Christine McClindenGood Girls Guide To Buying Lingerie


April 21st

Being a woman these days is all about empowerment. We choose our careers, our hobbies, our own personal style. So this winter, as the temperature drops outside, why not make a choice to heat things up inside? Lingerie's not about what men like anymore (although that can help)--it's about what makes you feel good. So scope out this handy guide for the lingerie newbie, and tame that winter weather!

11/14/200620
Rus McLaughlinCrunchy, With A Lot of Cheese


November 3rd
Fridays are great for a comfy movie night at home. So whether you share it with a new friend or a long time love, we have the goods on a hot new DVD. In Nacho Libre, funnyman Jack Black plays a lovable monk who dreams of fame as a Luchadore. Watch in awe as our masked reviewer Rus McLaughlin tackles this comedy in the Date Night wrestling ring.

11/3/200614
Sephera GironNovember Tarotscope


November 2nd

"Every flirtation and date has led you one step closer to finding your heart’s desire..." Discover what's in store for you in November as Sephera Giron illuminates your life, love, and career through the magic of tarotscope.

11/1/20066
Deborah ShipleyMeditation 101


May 18th
"Have you got five minutes?" Debroah Shipley wants to know if you're taking time for meditation, and we think you should listen up. Meditation can soothe the body and quiet the mind, which makes the real question: why not meditate? Read on to find out how to get started with this amazing practice...
10/19/200626
Cecil McIntosh7 Myths About Creating a Better Relationship


October 17th
"In over 14 years of private practice, the most consistent and enduring question I encounter is: how do I better my relationship?" Cecil McIntosh shows us how to combat the 7 most common myths about relationships.

10/16/20066
Vivian Banta5 Ways to Connect with a New Community


October 4th
When you first move to a new place, organizing your life can be overwhelming. But once the boxes are unpacked and the cable is hooked up, there's another important job: connecting with your new community.
Vivian Banta offers a few tips on how to link in to your exciting new scene, fast!

10/4/20062
Deborah ShipleyMeditation 101



Meditation is becoming more and more mainstream. Have you thought about checking it out? Thu

9/1/200613
Tony FioreThe High Cost of Anger - Part 2



Do you anger easily? Do you know someone who does? Did you the potential danger to your well-being? Check inside for tips on managing your feelings for better health.Thu

8/10/20065
Sephera GironAugust Tarotscopes



"If you have no lover, chances are you’ll have a new one by the time the month is out. You may meet someone that you feel a mysterious connection with, as if you’ve met them before, perhaps even in another life . . ."Fri

8/1/20068
Edwine GainesReclaiming and Kindling Your Dreams


August 14th
Do you know what you really want from life? Do you know what your deepest purpose is? Here's how to get started...

7/19/20069
Simma LiebermanBreak Through Self-Doubt and Fear



Most of us struggle with our relationships to ourselves. Look here to read one woman's story . . . and to find some profound support.Fri

7/7/200620
Sephera GironJuly Tarotscopes



" This month may have a job opportunity coming your way. Or you may get a raise, a bonus or even win a small lottery. There is a bit of money in the cards, but not lots. . ."Fri

6/30/20069
FF MembersIn Five Years


What do you hope to be doing with your life in five years? Check in to see what your fellow members aspire to . . . and then weigh in with your own answer!Thu
6/23/20065
Sephera GironJune Tarotscopes



" You may find that you are ending some cycles in your life. If you need to move on, then move on. There is always someone new just around the corner . . .."Fri

6/1/20067
Sephera GironMay Tarotscopes



"Your passion comes bubbling to the surface as you hang on to every word this sensitive soul has to offer. Fun and frivolity are on your mind as you enter a dreamy period . . ."Mon

Could this be you? Check May's [COLOR blue]Tarotscope[/COLOR] to find out.

5/2/200612
FF EditorsA Man with a Plan

"The funniest thing about it, though, is that I got the job I’m at now in a totally different way! The man I was to interview with walked into the room and he looked terribly hung over. I had never met him before. . ."Thursday
For the rest of jimmy1950's story, check inside!

4/20/20062
Sephera Giron
April Tarotscopes



"Use your powerful emotions to create something personal and meaningful. Your creativity is high right now and some symbolic artwork may emerge from your raging emotions."Monday

Could this be you? Check April's [COLOR blue]Tarotscrope[/COLOR] to find out.

4/3/20064
FF Members
[March] Who Do You Like



What sort of people do you like to surround yourself with? Do you like party animals or book worms? We asked . . . you answered.


3/20/20068
Sephera Giron
March Tarotscopes

"There is a balance of money, which is always a good thing. You may not get rich this month but you’ll keep the status quo."
Could this be you? Check out this month's Tarotscopes for the answer!
3/1/20067
Yvonne Selavy, Reviewer
The Year of Yes


Imagine spending a year saying 'yes' to anyone who asked you out. Maria Headley's first piece of non-fiction chronicles the 12 months she spent doing just this. Our reviewer was delighted by her stories and insights . . .
2/23/20062
FF Members
If You Ruled The World


If you were king - or queen of the world - what would you mandate? If you could impose one world-wide law, what would it be? Some FF members weigh in.
2/20/20065
Sephera Giron
February Tarotscopes

"You don’t know it yet, but since Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, don’t be surprised if you get a present from a secret admirer."
1/31/2006February Tarotscopes
Yvonne Selavy
New Year’s Irresolutions


So . . .what's on your list this year?

One writer resolves to make peace with herself.
12/29/20052
Alyson Poole, reviewer
About Yvonne


"I have been stalking my husband's lover." Read our review of Donna Masini's sensual debut about a woman obsessed.
12/9/2005About Yvonne
FF Editors
FF Conversations: Tara McCarthy, Part 2


Here's the second half of our conversation with delightful writer Tara McCarthy, author of the recently reviewed Love Will Tear Us Apart
12/1/2005FF Conversations: Tara McCarthy, Part 2
FF Editors
FF Conversations: Tara McCarthy


Tara McCarthy won us over with her charm and candor; whether or not you've had the opportunity to pick up last week's book, you'll enjoy this talk with its author.
11/22/20052
Fern Lewis, Reviewer
Love Will Tear Us Apart



Here’s a fascinating story of pop star sisters ‒ who happen to be not just twins, but Siamese twins. Peek inside for one reviewer’s (double) take.
11/11/20051
Alyson Poole, reviewer
Match Me If You Can



See what our reviewer has to say about the latest from genre-queen Suzanne Elizabeth Phillips.
11/1/2005Match Me If You Can
Alyson Poole
Bloody Valentine


Alone on Halloween? You’re in luck. The holiday is made for “loneyhaunts.” Look inside for a few inspiring ideas on how to make the night your memorable own.
10/28/2005Bloody Valentine
Dorothy Lee
Sociophobe in Stilettos

Who ever heard of a fashion editor afraid of fetes? Dorothy Lee has a problem: social anxiety and style-writing don’t mix.
10/17/2005Sociophobe in Stilettos
Marissa Kristal
Forever Love in Paris

A week and a half ago I fell hard, but surprisingly, it didn’t hurt. If anything, it made me feel blissful and exuberant, rejuvenated and alive.
10/5/20051
Alyson Poole
The Sexy Bitch Series


July 5th
This trio of titillating titles turns out a crash-course in sass.
9/16/20057
Trish Bateman
QUIRKYALONE

It’s not just a fad. It's a lifestyle choice.
9/6/2005QUIRKYALONE
Ryan Murphy
Everything I Needed to Know About Relationships, I Learned From John Cusack

"I did find out how much HE weighed: 212 lbs, and most of it fist." Read Ryan Murphy's humorous life notes on "being John Cusack." >>>>><<<<<<
8/21/2005Everything I Needed to Know About Relationships, I Learned From John Cusack
Nalani Jay
Tables Turn

Most of her friends knew her as the "anti-dater." Nalani Jay: an anti-dater reforms.
8/1/2005Tables Turn
Lisa ChavezWomen, Say Goodbye to Competition

Men are fountains of female appreciation thanks to their hormonal hard drives, and there's plenty to go around.
6/23/2005Women, Say Goodbye to Competition
Maris Lemieux, a Review
Why Men Love Bitches (Or Do They?)

"After all, a strong woman is everything men dream and fantazise about. Baseball, hot dogs, apple pie, and…bitches -- it doesn't get any better than that." -- Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches.
5/20/20051
The EditorMovie Review: The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo

The most unique female protagonist in recent fiction comes to the screen in a terrific crime thriller.


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The EditorMovie Review: Alice in Wonderland

A dark, big-budget version of the most famous Alice's head trip.


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The EditorMovie Review: The Runaways

The rock 'n' roll story of Joan Jett.


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The EditorMovie Review: The Ghost Writer

A gripping, intelligent thriller by a master filmmaker.


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The EditorMovie Review: An Education

Drop in on 1961 London, before the Beatles and Carnaby Street, for this coming-of-age romance, and see the performance that might win an Oscar®.


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The EditorMovie Review: It's Complicated

Two of the funniest guys around join our greatest actress in a screwball comedy.


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The EditorMovie Review: Bad Lieutenant: Port of Call New Orleans

Are you fed up with Christmas songs playing everywhere? Weary of the over- commercialization of the holidays? Here's the perfect seasonal antidote ‒ Nicolas Cage and Eva Mendes just in time for the holidays!


0/1/0000Movie Review: Bad Lieutenant: Port of Call New Orleans
The EditorMovie Review: 2012

You think you've got problems? This end-of-the-world extravaganza puts our puny personal problems in perspective.


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AngelaMixing it up, or just mixed up?

The Naked Truth tries to uncross the wires of a frustrating flirtation.



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Caroline PresnoLights, Holidays, Date

The top Do's and Don'ts of dating in December.


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The EditorMovie Review: Adventureland

Ever slogged through a mind-numbingly boring summer job for which you were overqualified? Ever had a hot summer romance during that stifling job?



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The EditorMovie Review:

Two stars evoke the romance, suspense and plot twists of Cary Grant and Audrey Hepburn in Charade.


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The EditorMovie Review: He's Just Not That Into You

A star-studded cast explores modern relationships.


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The EditorMovie Review: The Wrestler with Mickey Rourke

A no-holds-barred performance by a great actor in the comeback role of a lifetime.



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AngelaHow Can I Find New Love in the New Year?

The Naked Truth makes some romantic resolutions.



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The EditorMovie Review: Cadillac Records

The birth of rock and roll.


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Caroline PresnoYour Holiday Gift Says How Commitment-Ready You Are–or Aren’t

Find out if the gift you picked says future or fling–before you give it!


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The EditorMovie Review: Australia

If large-scale action/adventure/romantic/western/wartime/comedies with big stars are your cup o' tea (or spot of rum) and you aren't bothered by blatant banality, Australia just might entertain you ‒ and for almost three hours!


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Caroline PresnoDo Macha Women Attract You?

Macha women are powerful, proud and land on top!


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Christian Carter3 Reasons He Didn't Call

Introducing Christian Carter's new column for women, in which this leading relationship coach explains why guys don't call after a date and includes links on how to turn things around!


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The EditorAppaloosa

Three Oscar® nominees and one Academy Award® winner play the leads in Appaloosa, the best Western since the remake of 3:10 to Yuma. And for a Western, Appaloosa takes an intriguing look at a different kind of woman.

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AngelaDoes He Love His Cat More Than Me?

The Naked Truth exposes the truth about cats and dogs.


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Rori RayeGet the Love You Want by Doing Less




In Rori Raye's new column for women, she explains a fast, simple and highly effective technique to dramatically improve a problematic relationship and get you and your guy back on track.
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AngelaAm I Becoming the Company Slut?

The Naked Truth gives office romances their performance evaluation.


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David DeAngeloWhere to Take Women on Dates



In this new column, David DeAngelo, a leading advisor to men on dating, writes, "I received an email asking a fantastic question about something few guys know how to deal with correctly. If you're looking for 2 tips that will improve your game with women instantly..."
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AngelaIf Dating Someone Older is Wrong, Why Does it Feel so Right?


The Naked Truth gets real about May‒December romances.


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Angela3 Ways to Get a 2nd Date

The Naked Truth reveals 3 first-date don'ts.


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Caroline PresnoThe


Commitment is the new taboo–just like talking sex and politics at the dinner table used to be.


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the EditorTrue Love, 12th Century Style

A review of the epic new movie, Mongol, and its intense romance.

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AngelaGet Ready for The Naked Truth!

Introducing the salty-sweet new advice column for FriendFinders who are looking for love–and ready to find it in all the right places! Taking your burning questions now.

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Dr. Caroline PresnoAnything for Attention? Eight Ways to Get Noticed!

Celebs aren’t the only ones seeking attention! Learn how to get noticed by attracting the right kind of attention.

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the EditorUnforgettable Sarah Marshall


Are you single and dating? This movie shows how to act ‒ and not act! ‒ to get results.


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Dr. Caroline PresnoWhy are Women Hot for Obama?

Barack Obama is bringing sexy back to politics. From The View to "Obama girl," women are crushing on this candidate. What gives him his sex appeal? [/center]
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Dr. Caroline PresnoYour Chance for Romance

Five Ways to Find Love this Spring [/center]
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