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Hey god??? I think you are in trouble…. Oct 9, 2008 6:54 pm
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No offence to you lord but it’s a little weird to see your inefficiency at work. You did your best in creating the world. You created the beautiful mountains, filled the craters of earth with life giving water, you created the different forms of animals and made man the supreme of all. You made two powerful religions, a man and a woman. You made everything perfect but you f*&^ed it up at a crucial point.

You forgot to create an instruction manual for man to use your creation. Now, I am misusing all that you have created and threatening the peace and sanctity of the world. Do you know that even a smallest of the electronic gadgets manufactured by us humans, comes with an instruction manual?? Better make use of the organ between your ears and look efficient. Otherwise, my people, including me can mess you up.

Hope to get reports from you lord. Or else you could be fired...

Good day lord...

Tj…
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How will I know?? Oct 6, 2008 1:44 am
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How will I know if someone is thinking of me?? How will know if I have fallen in love again in the natural field of courtship? How will I know if I am being watched? How will I know if there is someone planning to complete me??

I really don’t know. But it’s weird to stay in the dark for a while till this person comes to show the light of life. Till then I have no option but stay the way I am. I have been in this situation before but I never analyzed what really tells me that I am being put into the arena of potential attraction.

If anyone knows the signs of standing at the doorsteps of love, kindly enlighten me…

Good day all...

Tj…
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Tactical fearlessness is what we need…. Oct 5, 2008 5:49 pm
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Sophistication and refinement in the social status is evidently perceptible to the curious eyes of wealth amassers. But is the refinement evident in our inner world of mind control?? I don’t think so. Obesity, cancer and aids are no more the deadliest of diseases. Fear is taking over to be number disease in most of the commercial and economically developed nations.

Being scared is not bad. It is not good also but it is definitely not without any advantages. When a scientific dissection upon fear is conducted, we can explore the facts worth a good satisfaction within it. Let me explain it to you. Fear is neither the cause nor the effect. But it is like a stuck chewing gum to the boot which makes a walk uncomfortable on concrete. Completely eliminating fear is like removing the boot and walking barefooted which is what most perceive it to be. But tactical fearlessness is an understanding for the reason and the weight of the fear in us.

Most of the occasions, fear springs from nowhere due to anxiety and pressure of the result. Do we really need to worry of the result? Because worrying over the result which is the effect hampers our complete application of potential which leads to improper actions. When the cause is improper, do not expect the gods to shower you with luck to have a proper effect. All in all the subject of the writing is to know that fear is good but take the facts out of it, discard it and tactfully perform to end the anxiety…

As the big brains say, as you sow, so you reap. But if you sow seeds of fear, don’t expect victory to be reaped. But be tactful as you are not spared of fear. Remove the gum not the boot.

Good day all..

Tj.
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Happy birthday Ges. Oct 4, 2008 5:46 pm
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Months have passed after you left me. But I am ever peaceful with your memories. What you asked from me was a little attention which I wanted to shower in abundance. And even before I could reveal my affection, you misunderstood it for nothingness. I did not anticipate this would happen.

Today is a very happy day for me as it’s your birthday. I will pamper myself unfortunately without you. But I might shed a tear or two which I have no shame in revealing.

Ges, you changed my world while you stayed with me but you left half way through. Now I am piecing together the broken parts of my world. I know you did not do it intentionally. You never wanted to hurt me. And I know how much you were hurt while you left. But Ges, you are still green in my memories. You are ever smiling in my mind. And my ego does not hurt even a little bit to say I am sorry. Sorry for getting a little ambitious in life to give us a better living. Pardon me before my time is done.

You are born to be smiling and you are always the warm rays of sun. Stay that way Ges. Miss you still… but I will overcome it…

Happy birthday Ges…. May the lord be with you and shield you from another uncertainty. Hope my words reach you at some point of time in your life.

Was yours,

Teji.
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We all need anchors… Oct 3, 2008 11:09 pm
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A beautifully designed ship, without an anchor is lost to the tides of the ocean. In the same manner, a wisely planned life of ours, without any foundation is as brilliant as a castle made of playing cards.

All my life I was wondering there has to be a way to integrate the body, the mind and the intellect to its prime potential. And I found that only physical exercise gave me the confidence to do anything expressively but I did not know what to do. Mentally, I started to travel the realms of its vastness. But I looked intelligently confused. Intellectually I started to discriminate the dualistic views of our existence. But I was arrested in the complex maze.

It’s only then that I exposed myself to philosophy. It helped me integrate my body, mind and the intellect to the super consciousness of the world. I may not make much sense now. But only if you have experienced the thirty min peace of meditation, or a contemplating thought that gave you bliss, or a revelation would tell you what I mean. Spirituality gave me the ability to blend my body, mind and the intellect to become a peace loving person I am today.

My days of sadness are nearly coming to an end. My respect to living is increasing. My habits are changing. My dream looks more precise than before.
I do not recommend philosophy to anyone. It’s not for all. But it is my anchor. And an anchor to a person should help him in the coordination of his body, mind and the intellect.

Peace to all… and good day.

Tj
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Realistic facts about Indians….. Including me…. Part two. Oct 3, 2008 8:56 pm
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This is my second observation about us Indians who are so perfect in a way that the world looks imperfect to us. I mean, we Indians have a social set up so sophisticated that the world over has to follow us in many ways…. And here are another set of instances that I can prove anyone that Indians are realistic and these points are facts. Its just a matter of time that you people start to learn a thing or two from us… Here it goes again..

1. We are Indians. Please don’t consider us as anything else.
2. In India, a traffic light post is mere decoration to the streets. I don’t understand why the people follow these lights all over the world. For us it is more like a possession and in the night with music around, these lights could help us have our own disco session.
3. Crossing an empty street is no fun to an Indian. The sheer adrenalin rush for an Indian is while he crosses anywhere in the street, between fast moving vehicles of all sizes. You can call us daredevils but we like a little thrill in our lives.
4. If an Indian reaches home early from his work, his wife suspects him of cheating. This is because our men, after work have to get stuck in traffic for at least a minimum of three hours to reach home. If he misses traffic, he can definitely not miss the suspicious talks and stares from his wife.
5. An Indian, unknown of the operation of a photocopying machine can still get the copy done. Because he believes that when all the buttons are pushed, one of those should photocopy the page. We never quit no matter what. The machine may not be of any use after an Indian has used it but we don’t care.
6. We Indians use the public transport frequently. We sit and travel, we sometimes stand and travel and in extreme cases we even get above the vehicle and reach our destination. Unfortunately we are not allowed to do the same with aero planes. But our scientists are hard at work to find a solution to it.
7. A rich homosexual Indian is a celebrity in India. A poor homosexual Indian is a lunatic. He is a disgrace to the community.
8. In most of our Indian movie songs, we have over three hundred musical instruments getting used. Our music directors believe that employment is the primary objective than the music itself.
9. We Indians like to live in a natural eco friendly environment. That is why you can find dogs, cows, pigs, etc on our city streets. We have had cases of elephants walking the streets. But it rarely happens.
10. A murderer can become a minister of state in India. Can any other country top this?
11. Indian aerobic instructors can barely bend to tie their own shoe lace. Indians believe that a huge belly is sign of prosperity.
12. Public toilets are of no use to us. A tree, a brick wall or even an open space is good enough to get our heaviness relieved.

Like I said, we are special people with numerous evident approaches to life. And it is true that without Indians, the world would be an empty place. So keep those smiles on and learn a thing or two from us.

Good day all..

Tj.
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My left index finger… Oct 1, 2008 5:27 pm
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Yeah, I used to bite nails before. With the persistent effort of my ex girlfriend, I quit the habit. Except for biting the left index finger nail. All other nails look perfect except the left index. It’s almost like a finger without a nail (now don’t go imagine too far). I am still talking of the left index finger.

I have had my share of embarrassing situations during an office morning meet or while at lunch when people stare at it incessantly. Sometimes my close associates question me if my finger was jammed between the doors or did I hit myself with a sledgehammer or did the dog bite it and so on…

None of those are true. I just unknowingly bite the nail. I have had days when the poor finger even bled like a soldier hit by a bullet. Later, I wait for a week to let it grow and then I am on it again. Old habits seldom die. Now who cares if I bite or not. For now there is no way my ex is going to know of it.

Just my morning thought… good day all..

Tj
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Realistic facts about Indians…. Including me…. Sep 29, 2008 6:07 pm
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India as a country looks like multiple cultures of the world squeezed and jammed into a land mass. Due to this we Indians have developed a peculiar sense of differentiation towards the people out of our country. Now this is purely my opinion and I would request you to control yourself and not hurt my feelings by showing off your awe or disgust or any emotion … thanks…

Some of the evident facts about Indians, including me of course are as under:-

1. We are Indians….not aliens like some folks think.
2. We like politics and we consider that to be the best entertainment man has ever created. Our political leaders show their emotion, action, drama, profanity, might and strength on the national television. So why pay a lot to watch a movie??
3. We have over three million gods and some are still getting added to the list. One life is not enough to pray them all.
4. We are extremely racists. To an extent that I could avoid my own brother because he is fairer than me. Racism rocks.
5. We look cool in summer with our thick jackets. We never run out of style, regardless of weather conditions.
6. Our stomachs represent our financial status. Bigger the stomach, richer the person.
7. We never talk about sex in public but still we are number two in the world with regards to population. (I think its because of lot of illegal immigrants who are doing the dirty work.. we Indians don’t like populating too much.)
8. Newspaper could be the closest substitute to tissue paper if we are in critical emergency. I mean real thunderous emergency.
9. Western toilet seems confusing. Not much pressure getting built there, so we have our own “squeeze the stomach to ultimate release” posture. And so our sophisticated toilets look crude to the outside world.
10. we have over five hundred festivals in a year but our government did not declare holiday for each festival. Our religious heads are looking into the matter and will give us the freedom to celebrate at least half the number of festivals soon..
11. During college hours, if a boy looks at a girl, it’s as punishable as he raped her. So boys don’t know how women look till they move out of college.
12. Newly wed couples avoid using condoms as sex is believed to be one time act. Or maybe two or three times before death.
13. Movies stars are replacing gods in India. We Indians have innumerable gods and some movie stars getting added as well..
14. An idiotic Indian like me is called an “INDIOT”.
15. We are hairy race of people. I think we have more hair on our bodies than on the head.
16. We like Arnold Schwarzenegger. But we can never say his name properly. The closest we can say is Arnold screwdriver.
17. We consider westerners to be aliens from a distant planet. If you think I am joking then walk in our streets and see the stares you get. You could get a doubt if you are human or an alien.(only to white folks)
18. Never let an Indian drink too much. We lose the coordination and the Indian in us is exposed beyond limits. Our mouths run faster than the speed of light.
19. We like to belch (burp) after a hearty meal. Farting is also our favorite pass time activity. Sometimes we like to keep it loud. So if you are not used to it, then get used to it. Because many a time we could sound like a jet engine after a good meal.
20. Last but not the least; our English accent is the best in the world. We could teach good English to westerners. Unfortunately, you white folks think that we have a musical English accent. But little do you know about the soothing impact such an accent can leave on the listener’s mind.

You know, I could write volumes about my people. We may not know what a flush in the toilet is for, we may not be able to use a knife or fork but we are Indians. Without us, the world would be empty.

Good day all.

Tj – true Indian….
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Problem life cycle… Sep 27, 2008 7:13 pm
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In my opinion, the most ignored of the pivotal concepts is the idea of a problem having a beginning and an end. It’s somewhere in the middle of the cycle that we lose focus and surrender to the false reactions of our mind and get deluded. I still face the same problem but I have found out that if I react less during my confused state of mind, I harm little to the act I am into.

Let me explain it. A problem arises out of either absence of detailing or inefficiency or distraction and so on. But having started, the problem does not end at the same place because it is connected to the next link in your list of actions. So the additional burden is carried over to the next level. This accumulation leads to a point that the image of the problem is like a giant gas balloon that threatens everything we have focused upon to act. But that’s the maximum it can get. And this is where we need to stop reacting. Because we want the accumulation to stop.

Now at this point, we could either scream like a little girl and escape from the scene, or we could stand there like a gladiator, get hit a little more, examine the root cause of the issue and solve it. Mostly what I used to do was stand like a gladiator, examine the issue and then scream like a little girl and escape. This made me an inefficient person all through. But, a little composure, calmness and believing that we created the problem would certainly inspire the mind to take a diligent step forward. Then we inspect the crisis from the beginning, a little loss in time but worth the progress. The issue starts to look weaker by the hour as we start to unveil the wrongs we did from the beginning. In all this, it’s only the focused mind that can annihilate the crisis. If we are too attached to the false emotions in us, then the problem skyrockets to a level which only takes us to the bar for couple of shots of the hardest alcohol.

Knowledge, focus and never give up attitude can phase out even the toughest of the problems. When we know what caused the mishap, half of our job is done. But the remaining half is the most important as it’s the application part of what we learnt. This way, a problem created by us, matures at a point and eventually phases out once the right tools of solution are applied… hope it makes sense… if not then just smile and guide me of my incompleteness…

Good day to all..

Tj
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Think about it…. Sep 25, 2008 9:15 pm
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A farmer, to have a profitable harvest, invests his time is plowing the land, sowing seeds, watering the land, nurturing the crops, harvest it and then sell or consume it according to his wish. If we were to attribute this to our lives, then we are in the field of time, sown by the creator, growing according to the time and perish for the final consumption.

Why I write this is because, we all know that this routine in harvesting is perfect in its application but the yield sometimes is not. It is because we are distracted to grow into various other flimsy interests of ours. The thoughts in us, makes us act so that we manifest these periodic thoughts in reality. But only the rock solid determined thoughts can be manifested. Due to various factors like, fear, anxiety, uncertainty, and stress we grow in a manner not perfect to the routine. Ultimately when we are ready for the final consumption, we are only considered as a mediocre harvest.
But if we ignore the past and control the ego in us, make the present work for us, hell sure; the future of us is plethora of bliss. And this I consider is a lucrative end to the harvest which we lived.

This I consider the yield of profit. Think about it….

Good day all…

Tj.......
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