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LISTEN
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Jan 29, 2012 2:48 pm
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LISTEN
When I ask you to listen to me,
And you start giving me advice,
You have not done what I asked.
When I ask you to listen to me,
And you begin to tell me why
I shouldn’t feel that way
You are trampling on my feelings.
When I ask you to listen to me,
And you feel you have to do
something to solve my problems,
You have failed me, strange as that may seem.
LISTEN: ALL THAT I ASKED
IS THAT YOU LISTEN,
Not talk or do – just hear me.
When you do something for me That I need to do for myself
You contributed to my fear and
feelings of inadequacy.
BUT WHEN YOU ACCEPT AS A SIMPLE FACT.
THAT I DO FEEL WHAT
I FEEL, NO MATTER HOW IRATIONAL,
THEN I CAN QUIT TRYING
TO CONVINCE YOU.
And then go about the business of Understanding what’s behind my feelings.
So please listen and just hear me And if you want to talk
Wait a minute for your turn
And I’ll listen to you
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ME !!
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Jan 12, 2012 12:32 pm
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Take Me or Leave Me
Accept Me or Walk Away
Love Me or Hate Me
but
DON'T make me feel like LESS
if I don't fit YOUR idea of
who I should be
I am ME and I LOVE ME
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An Explanation!
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Feb 7, 2011 8:29 pm
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Bloggers,
To those hundreds that were faithfully following this blog, I had to remove all post. So I believe I owe you an explanation.
I had to eliminate the Blood, Sweat and Tears blog for it just isn't worth it any more. I tried to get across my side of the story but all family has done is deny anything happened. I wanted to write this to get the truth out to my nieces and nephews. They have been brained wash to the point of thinking I'm a crazed, drug infested, alcoholic, kleptomaniac. They are now out in the world doing their thing and it just isn't worth it anymore.
You see I did make an emotional statement about 15-20 years ago to the wrong friend of my sister. This friend after my statement went straight back to my sister and told her what I had said. Who then went straight back to my immediate family and told everything she was told. It was after I was told an emotional statement. After I was told my mother has Alzheimer disease, I said "got what she deserved".
Yes this was a very disgusting, wrong statement to say but again it was a very emotional statement. Something that was not given any thought. But the statement was wrong. But one thing they just don't understand is that my Mom died along with Lee July 30, 1978. From that day on everyone, thing was brand new to me and from that point I judged all these new people upon their current actions not past for I had forgotten all of my past!
What's surprising is that my older sister who has her masters in special education and does not see this at all.
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