| How i Was Tested... |
May 11, 2008 1:36 pm
203 Views |  | Well, a hard day at work over...i've been catching up with the blogs and after reading and reflecting on what has gone on in my life the last few weeks, it made me think of how a potential suitor tested me once....
I was a member of another singles site last year, and i spotted a really funny profile...i wrote a funny mail to the guy, and he responded with a very witty reply...this carried on for a week or so, back and forth, fun and laughter...
We progressed to MSN, chatting over the net and all was going very well over several weeks...we used to say.."i think this is going to be good"...then say to each other.."we shouldn't say the word think"..we should be very positive...
On the original dating site, i got a mail from a guy, no picture with a very nice comment about my looks..i wrote back out of courtesy, even though, as i told him, i did not normally respond to no photo...he wrote back and added a picture which was very nice...not that looks really matter to me...anyway...i was busy at work and couldn't reply... then at the end of the day found more mail from him, asking me why i was ignoring him, that he really wanted to get to know me...i didn't reply at that time as the guy i was writng and chatting to was on-line, so i left it...
A few days later, another mail from the other guy, asking me to meet up with him for a coffee, he lived locally, just to chat...i did write back and said "sorry i couldn't meet him" i wouldn't meet anyone that quickly, but more importantly, i wrote that i 'thought' i had met someone very special and that i wished him well...
Heavens above...a few minutes later a mail back from him saying that i shouldn't 'think' that he was special, that...(his name)...was special and that it would all work out...!!!!!...initially i was flabbergasted, how did he know his name, how did he know that we spoke about the word 'think'...then the penny dropped...it was the guy i had been speaking to for weeks...i contacted him straight away, and he said he had to know for sure i wasn't a scammer..!!!...so i said to him, he must be ecstatic with my reply to the fake guy...and of course he was...
Fair play to him for doing that to me, as men get deceived as well...
We met, it didn't work for various reasons, although we are still friends and hopefully we will remain so....
But...i passed the test i am proud to say...!!!! |
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| Chocolate Gateaux and Cows |
May 8, 2008 2:37 am
362 Views |  | Cripes....i am fed up today....it's beautiful and sunny and i wanted to sunbathe today, but got a phone call to go to work...to help a couple who have got timeshares they don't want...they are coming from Scotland to the Midlands...so i really do have to go in and help them...
Anyway, i digress...i have my thinking head on today...and after watching the main news today, i understand from what we are told, that the average British family throw away 600pds of food a year, edible just not required...
That brought back thoughts to last week at my daughters house....her partner is a farmer, and most weeks, pallet loads of food are driven to his farm with food for cattle...now i could understand this if it is out of date food or mouldy etc to supplement the cattles daily diet...but...no....pallets of chocolate gateaux, croissants, whole...yes whole boxes of weight watchers chocolate caramel cakes..hmmm yummy....and all within date...????....what on earth is going on...ok...our family benefit from yummy cakes and things...not me because i am on a diet...but how absolutely crazy....what about the homeless, old peoples homes, the poor...???...i just don't get it...and he is just 1 farmer, how much more food gets wasted in this way....
Well gotta go...couple arrived, got to help them now...
Enjoy the sun here in the UK everyone.... |
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| I'm Shocked...!!! |
May 5, 2008 10:32 am
Mood: shocked, 485 Views |  | A week ago i decided to have a look at Senior Friend Finder as i had heard a few people mention it here...i went to the site and decided to set up a profile there, which i did, much the same as here on FF, and same piccys....
I went every couple of days to have a look, and made the decision that this site wasn't for me...there were too many women..hey...i'm looking for a guy..!!!...
Anyway, i logged on just now to see about taking my profile off and i had some mail...
Shock, horror...mail from a couple...her 'bi' with 40DD boobies and him size 18 who would travel to me for some threesome fun..!!!!!!
I thought for a fleeting moment i had joined Adult FF...!!!!
Well, i replied and you can just imagine what i wrote...!!!! 
Back to the drawing board... |
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| My Dream Will Come True.... |
May 2, 2008 10:16 am
Mood: hopeful, 526 Views |  | Wanting
Lusting
To be held
To be loved
To feel warmth
To feel your beating heart
Wanting to be sheltered from the cold
Heartless winds
Falling into invisible arms
Into an abyss of love
Wishing
Hoping
That my desires be fulfilled
My desires of loving warmth
Wanting to be held
Comforted
Loved
Dreaming of passionate embraces
Of tender kisses
Loving words
Romantic nights
Waiting for undying love.......
Time is the essence....
Author unknown... |
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| Disheartening day... |
May 1, 2008 10:14 am
Mood: melancholy, 576 Views |  | Why does everything seem so much better when the sun shines...???
Miserable and cloudy today...and news back from my friends MRI scan, and its not looking good....she has to go in for a biopsy next tuesday as they have found a tumour in her bladder...she is so positive, i do admire her so much...having survived cancer 6 years ago....
And Bruce was at the vets yesterday about his itchy bleeding skin, and the steroids the vet needs to give him, he can't have as they would kill him because of his leishmaniasis, so he has to have a lesser treatment and the vet hopes that it works...it is a spray, and he really doesn't like it being administered at all..!!!!..so i have a croissant waiting ready to give him, which cheers him up.....
All i can think of is, nothing else at the moment can possibly go wrong, my friends illness, bruces illness and life on my own again...that's it...time for a positive future...yet again....
Have a great weekend everyone... |
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| Piccy banned... |
Apr 30, 2008 4:32 am
538 Views |  | Hi...well, i posted a blog earlier on today...it was a joke but needed the piccy alongside it, and FF banned it...it was of George Clooney and Brad Pitt....ah well...i'll try this one now....
Press Release from IKEA.....
Ikea has announced its intention to sell cars....you just need 1 screwdriver...lol...
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| Just want to say thanks... |
Apr 25, 2008 9:35 am
Mood: thankful, 887 Views |  | I would like to say a big thankyou for all of you that commented on my 'wolf in sheeps clothing' blog, and all of your support....it helped me enormously and i realised that there are some really lovely genuine honest people on FF.....
As the story unfolded....i had no idea it was as bad as it was, i hurt a lot, and the fact that i trusted someone so much made it worse, but for Belle, Silverx2 and Ari especially...i thankyou for opening up in such an open forum, you were all brave too....
What's done is done now and we will all move on, i know i will, i still have a quest to find my one last love of my life...i don't like being on my own...but only time will tell, and i will be more cautious.....
Going to Spain was the best timing for me to get away to digest what i did, to realise how silly i was....and i had the best of times...meeting Tone, joking apart was a great help to see reality, and play poker which i love...my friend was fantastic, it was a hard time for her, as, as i write she is having an MRI scan to see if her cancer has reappeared, i pray not...she is such a good person...and made me laugh so much with the crazy things she says and does..
For sure i know Spain is where i want to be, i will be out again in a couple of months to search out other areas....and hopefully find the man i want to share my love and passion with...with trust and honesty.....
Bruce was so pleased to see me and i him...he is not responding now to the treatment, so the next few weeks will be hard again with trips to the vets to see if there is anything else they can do to help him, then i will get him to Spain as soon as i can to be warm to help his arthritus...
Well, i am tired now as we got back home at 4am and only 3 hours sleep, so bath and bed beckons soon...
Have a great weekend all my friends out there in blogsville, as i have read it called, you have been 'legends' to me.....Rachel... |
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| Stop Press...Toneybony's New Love Interest |
Apr 25, 2008 2:52 am
Mood: cheerful, 903 Views |  | Hi everyone, well back from 8 days in Spain, and i had a great time, and decided i really needed to share with you all, Tone's new love....so now the picture tells the truth...my friend and i were shocked at his penchant for trees...but found it quite endearing really...
Right got to go, loads to do, a longer blog later....and Tone, got you back for mine and mandys fattie photo....lololol.... |
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| Wolf in sheeps clothing...!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Apr 14, 2008 11:43 am
Mood: drained, 3281 Views |  | Well, a bottle of wine drunk now, so after many hours pondering whether i should post this blog, i'm at the point where..."what the heck", if people don't like what i have written, then so be it...i have been timid enough with some men in my life, so here goes....
As some of you have read on my blogs, i have found myself falling "in love" with a guy here on FF, as i have said previously, it's difficult, the internet can hide many lies, it's a long distance thing between us, but i'm a risk taker, so i have become engrossed with this guy, and if you hadn't guessed already, it's Scott_48. Well, he is a very talented writer, there is no doubt about that, his blogs have been amazingly written, and i read them each time with delight, as many others have done too, he comes across as a very kind, caring person, but with inner conflicts, like myself i thought, i had not seen his photo at that time as it used to be just a dark colour in the profile space....
A while ago, i had decided to stop blogging while i tried to learn spanish, and i got mail from Scott, saying he would miss my blogs, i responded, i thought he was kind with his words, and over the next 2 days, mail was flying back and forth, and many photos of him, and i thought he was lovely, well to me he was. Ok, little things in the back of my mind bothered me, why had he lied about where he lived on his profile, before i said anything, his stated he lived in Key West, but he actually lives in Connecticut, ok, that's not a major issue...next, when i wrote to him, a response would come back within a couple of minutes, 2 lines about what i had said, then 30 to 40 lines of passionate writing, i thought to myself, no way could he have written that so quick, it's only just now i have realised that it was a pre-written mail on a disc to insert copy and paste, and there were many of those long mails, over 50, again, i dismissed my thoughts and enjoyed the loving mail he was sending. Hmmmm...i am sounding so dumb now, carrying on as we did, but i did carry on, we wrote, we phoned, we text, and lots of talk of me going to the states to visit him, to see if what we felt was real,and he had no passport so couldn't come to me....i didn't mind as i love travelling, but money is very tight for me, what with Bruces vets bills etc, so i said i would save up and get there in a few months, maybe july or august, and everything was fine between us....
Last week though on one of his blogs was a comment from a woman from FF, calling him Jeff, and about sorry she hadn't responded to his mail, now this is quite acceptable as people mail each other all the time, i mail people as friends here on FF, but strange she called him Jeff....I rang Scott (not his real name)as planned thursday evening, i wanted to congratulate him on the opening of his exhibition the night before, everything was normal, chatting away, then i mentioned this comment and the name Jeff, he got a bit flustered and said he had written to this woman for many months, but had told her he wasn't going to write anymore...and more details that i would rather not write here....he also said he would write a blog as he was worried that people mistook his kindness as a show of affection, that he loved me and couldn't wait to see me, and me him....i told him then that i would be over the last weekend in june, was he excited....no he wasn't.....he said out of the blue that i wouldn't like him in the flesh, that i was crazy to go so far to see him, yet for the last few weeks thats what we had talked about, what we had been excited about....??????...totally confused our call came to an end, as so long on the phone, and he said he would call me in the morning as he was off in the evening away on a business trip for a week....
Shock, horror, a blog from Scott friday morning, written in the early hours...but he told me no internet access at home, only at work, saying it was his last blog, no telephone call, no response to my mail, texts or calls, then all the thoughts i had before of inconsistencies suddenly surfaced, that he was writing to other women, etc etc, oh how dumb am i...????....not all at once please.....
For sure i am not the only one to have fallen for him, as he has told me....it's trying to understand why he did it, why he does it...???...attention seeking....a thrill seeker....was he clever...yes...i believe he is a very clever talented guy....just a player of women...
You might all think i am vindictive when you read this, i'm not, but i really don't care, all i know is, i have got this off my chest now, and maybe, just maybe, any other women out there that have fallen for him like me, be careful....he is a wolf in sheeps clothing and a very clever articulate one at that.....
Another bottle of wine beckons now so at least i can get some sleep, and not stay awake all night like i have done the last few nights grieving over somebody that i thought i could truly love.....and that loved me.... |
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| Affair funnies |
Apr 12, 2008 8:00 am
1227 Views |  | A woman was in bed with her lover when she heard her husband opening the front door.
"Hurray" she said "stand in the corner"....she rubbed baby oil all over him, then dusted him with talcum powder.
"Don't move until i tell you" she said "pretend you're a statue"
"What's this ?" the husband inquired as he entered the room.
"Oh it's a statue" she replied "the Smiths bought one and i liked it so much i got one for us too".
No more was said, not even when they went to bed.
Around 2am, the husband got up, went to the kitchen and returned with a sandwich and a beer.
"Here" he said to the statue, "have this, i stood like that for 2 days at the Smiths and nobody offered me a damned thing".....
Jake was dying. His wife sat at the bedside.
He looked up and said weakly "I have something i must confess"
"There's no need to" his wife replied.
"No" he insisted, "i want to die in peace. I slept with your sister, your best friend, her best friend and your mother".
"I know i know" she replied, "now just rest and let the poison work". |
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