A Man's Desire (draft)
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Posted:May 24, 2023 11:50 am
Last Updated:Jun 8, 2023 9:29 am 918 Views
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WARNING: This may offend many.
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If you believe a Man has the right to create the life he wants for himself without compromise then keep reading. A woman can choose the life she wants also. It would be good to know for everyones sake just what each others desires are and if they fit with what you want.
My desire is to have a real WOMAN. Submissive, Innocent, Loving, Caring, Affectionate, Observant, Sexual, Playful, Confident, Encouraging, Accepting. A Woman who loves men and loves taking care of them. She knows how to take care of a man and what he wants and desires. She will crave his desire and affection. Her ambition is to be the object and personality of her mans desire. She will encourage him to be a real MAN, take control and be confident in who he is and pursue his ambitions and be able to take care and protect what is his.
Some may say thats misogynistic and bigoted. They say that the modern relationship should be about equals and a 50-50 compromise to support each other in their separate dreams and ambitions.
I am not looking for a 50-50 compromise. That means 50-50 happiness for both partners. It is a compromise of ones desires and happiness. In other words neither are happy or successful. Both are frustrated with the life they have been unable to create or have. This describes most marriages in the world. One partner must give up something for the other partner. It is much better if one partner is only interested in what the other partner wants and nothing else whether thats a male or female dominated relationship.
The world is full of women that have followed the path of Feminism whether they wanted to or not. They have been lied to and are miserable and don’t know why, only that it is the man to blame. You see them everywhere. It is the woman in her 40’s or 50’s, divorced, unhappy, bitter towards men, if not a total man hater. She is overweight, unhealthy, loosing her hair or has fake hair, fake eye lashes etc. trying to not look like she has been worn out in the stresses of a man’s world. Women like this are experiencing heart attacks, depression, stress just like men and doing all they can to keep up with there man careers and jobs trying to eek there way through the man’s world. They are Assertive, Aggressive, Independent. The opposite of a real WOMAN. They have lost and don’t know what it is to be a Real Woman. They want a man to be more or less a that they can control and will take care of them and serve them and there every whim and ambition.
A WOMAN’S WORLD is different from a MAN’S world. It is more concerned about being pleasant and creating a pleasant environment, especially for her Man. She will spend her time taking care of herself and looking her best. The time a woman spends away from her man and home she is doing service for others. If a real Woman has a job it is to provide service to others.
Women in a Man’s world try to do this with fake eye lashes and tons of make up and some times with provocative and inappropriate attire while she is trying to get along in a Man’s world. She usually demands respect as a woman as she is trying to be a man and she is offended when men don’t respect or treat her the way she thinks she deserves. All along the way she will use her feminine features to lure and titillate men to get her way. A sort of .
Because of this Men have become something other than a MAN. They are pathetic soft losers. You find them in there parents basements gaming all day, eating delivered pizza. They are wearing man buns or turning themselves into freaks with tattoos, gaged ears, noses and what ever else. There entire wardrobe consists of sweat pants and t shirts. Most cannot even drive a car with a manual transmission. They think that to be a man he has to show everyone he is tough and flexing all the time with everyone. He has to be abusive to women and generally mean like some kind a Bad Boy Poser to make him feel like he is being a man.
To find a True Woman is like finding a rare diamond and just as difficult to find. She may be a diamond in the rough. It takes a real man to bring out that woman that is undeveloped but has the desire to be a Real Woman without exploiting her or abusing her. I fear many women fall pray to pimps an drug addicts and become drug addicts and prostitutes in one form or another.
It is said that a woman should be able to pursue her goals and become the best person she can be. I agree with that but unfortunately the translation will say to become the best person based on the expectations of a Man not a Woman. What should be said is that she should be able to become the best WOMAN she can be.
Can a woman be educated and still be a woman. Certainly. Going to a traditional College is usually not the right path for a woman that wants to be a woman. Unless she is going to college to take courses on Human Development and family life and at the same time looking for her man in life. The purpose of College is to prepare a person for a job or the corporate world. There are other places, methods and sources for a Woman to be educated. Other careers that she can be involved with if it desired by her man. She could be a teacher, nurse, or a yoga instructor for example.
Why can’t a Woman have a career in the mans world? Doesn’t a woman have the ability? No one is ever saying a woman can’t and doesn’t have the ability to do anything they want. There are plenty of examples of life and in history where women or put in a position that they have to do and be something different in order to survive or the environment requires it. Is that the desire a woman has? Is that objective and ambition a woman should have? Sure she can pursue anything she wants. Is she, then, still a woman in the end. Being a man or a woman is more than having body parts after all.
In this modern age of feminism woman have found that they have to go get a job in the mans world simply to help the family get by when men are being pushed out of the mans world by giving up jobs to women. Even the modern act of driving a car takes away from a woman and puts her in a position of having to protect her safety and suffer the dangers of driving.
So as mentioned from the beginning does a MAN and a WOMAN have the right to create the life they want without compromise? They should and if a WOMAN wants that life with a man, to be his, to be protected by him, nurtured by him, provided for by him and submit to him and seek to be his desire and pleasure, to be directed by him and follow his dreams and aspirations, to encourage him to be what he wants to be, to be his helpmate, his source of comfort and encouragement, his council and motivation then she should be able to do that without ridicule by others and the world.
Does this mean that a real WOMAN has to be easy? Does she have to get with and submit to any Poser Brute or idiot that comes along? Not at all. In fact she will be extremely selective. She will get to know a man very well and what he is about, what his ambitions are, what his temperament is. She will know that he can be a real man and can protect her, cherish her, provide for her, She will like what he is and can become and what he wants in his life. She will submit herself to him when she is ready and comfortable with everything he is and wants to be.
She will make her surrender to him directly and officially. There will be no doubt in his mind that she is giving herself to him. She will have open communication with him to help him achieve success and counsel with him with her ideas and energy to help the union flourish. She may have to step outside her roll as a Woman to sacrifice to help him succeed. While this is not ideal it is sometimes necessary in the world we live in. She will never loose site of her real Nature as a WOMAN for his sake. She will respect the Man’s Desire above all. The Teamwork will payoff for both of them.
In a 50-50 relationship each person is pursuing their own desires and ambition and there is no teamwork only compromise. They become essentially roommates sharing house duties and expenses.
The downside to a woman nature is they are naturally mischievous, and malicious, and can be very jealous and vengeful. A woman in a leadership role is very dangerous and vicious.
The modern woman is not trust worthy. The use woman sexuality and trickery to get what they want in life, unfaithful and while in any relationship will always have an exit strategy and back up plan.
The now a days live in a culture that they can’t be a real woman. They are either mentally unstable and overly emotional to the point that no one can interact with them in any real fashion or they get offended or “Triggered” and out of control. The fashion is to become the least human recognizable with Tattoos covering the entire body, crazy colored hair, and pierced faces especially noses and lips.
In the modern world if you are a REAl WOMAN, pure, natural, “Vanilla” then you are scorned and bullied by the non-woman so that you almost have to go into hiding.
Back to the MAN, a REAL MAN, not a Poser or ignorant Brute, but a REAL MAN, a leader, respectfully dressed (button down shirt tucked in), no tattoos, man-buns, piercing, gaged ear lobes etc. A man who is kind, gentle but firm and convicted in his beliefs and life. A protector, provider, creates his own life without compromise. A man that is honorable and truthful, trustworthy
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The Discovery
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Posted:May 24, 2023 11:49 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 4:23 pm 1073 Views
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So I have a question for you. What is your experience with or thoughts on BDSM and D/s relationships? I figure I always "identified as a Dom". Lol. I haven't had the chance or took the opportunity to formally develop that side of me. Even though I have a Dominant personality I am really just a big teddy bear. I feel after 30 years of marriage that I failed at being the man I should have been. As I have read up on the subject I have found that all roads tend to lead to kinky BDSM. I look at the Dom/sub dynamic as one of intimacy though. For a Dom it takes leadership, discipline, communication and attractiveness to demand the respect that a submissive would give. The only true way to have complete intimacy I believe is for a woman to completely give herself to her man, anything less will be a compromise and fall short of what the relationship could be. All relationships and people are different and there is a journey to experience so it takes a lifetime to discover this. Are you interested in discovering the possibilities? I'm going to leave it there for now as a conversation starter.
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