A special occasion...
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Posted:Dec 6, 2009 3:48 pm
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Food for thought
INDIAN HISTORY:
A friend of mine opened his wife's wardrobe account, and pulled out a package of it, which was wrapped in tissue paper. This, he said, is not a simple package, this is a lingerie. He dropped the paper, into which was incorporated making, and carefully looked at the fine silk and lace. It was when I first went to New York, 8 or 9 years ago, is not never used. A "special occasion" made it. Okay. I think this will be the most appropriate time. He approached the bed and I put the underwear of the other things I wanted to bring to the funeral. His wife had just died. Turned to me and said:
"I do not holds in store for a special occasion. Every day I live, a special occasion. "
Even now these words and I think that has changed my life. Today, more and read less than cleaners. I sit on the terrace and admire the scenery without being noticed in the garden of weeds.
I spend more time with my family and friends and less time working. I understand that the enjoyment of life with events that should not be too sharp. I do not do anything. I use crystal glasses every day in all. Add new clothes when I go shopping, if I decide and I feel like it is. Cart is no longer the best perfume for special occasions, always use when I want.
Words such as "one day ..." and "next time ..." begin to disappear from the dictionary. Instead, the "worth seeing, listening or doing right now" are used. I do not know what he did to my friend's wife would have if he had known it would not be here tomorrow, what we are all so easy. I guess they wanted to invite the family or friends closer. Maybe some of his old friend had called to apologize to elsimítsa things in the past. I mean, they might have gone to eat some Chinese food, which is the favorite. These are the little things not happened, I'm sorry for you, if I knew that the hours are numbered.
Hurt because they missed the opportunity to see good friends who will want to look for "one day".
Hurt because they are not written certain letters that you "will one day" I wanted to write.
I'm hurt and sad because I did not tell the brothers and sisters, the often enough how much I love them.
Now I try not to delay, or forwarded elrakni anything to laugh or cheer the életünknek.Mindennap could say to myself that this is a special day. Every day, every hour, every minute ... special.
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The real...
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Posted:Dec 1, 2009 1:55 pm
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2009 11:39 am 2216 Views
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This is the most wretched thing. When someone is missing. You look around, you do not understand. Stretch out your hand and a glass of water, looking hesitant gesture of a book. Everything is in place in your life, objects, persons, the usual schedule, the conditions did not change the world. I was just missing something. ... And if you're very precise and careful, if you get time and going to bed late, or if a lot of people, if you are traveling to or not, if you enter certain rooms, and then meet with a castle. Of course, you know, in the hope that this very childish. Just trust the world's endless opportunities. Where can I find? And then, when you find what to say to him? ... And yet you expect. /Sandor Marai/
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Got something to say
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Posted:Dec 1, 2009 1:25 pm
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So pompously, we used to judge with confidence! I have the opinion this is such a. And no, we know, what other people! In another life we see only the surface, the tip of the iceberg. But what happened
another human life from birth until now, what makes Latvian one, which carries a burden,how much value and beauty in it, but maybe not, who was called in, and realize - often barely guess!
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Stones, gravel, sand ...
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Posted:Nov 29, 2009 3:57 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 3:51 am 1777 Views
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Stones, gravel, sand ...
/ It is instructive to show what is important in our lives /
A philosophy professor began the lecture so that he took a bottle and shared around.5 cm in diameter stones. Asked if you are full of glass? Yes - was the answer.Then he took out a box filled with tiny pebbles and began to throw pebbles into the bottle.
After the gravel filled the empty spaces between the stones, and again found that the glass is full.The professor then produced a box of sand and began to fill the bottle. Of course, the
sand all the little hole filled. The performance of the professor continued:
And I note that this is your life!
The stones of the important things - your family, your health, your partner, your , your friends -
if you lose everything else, they would then have full life.
The pebbles are the things that matter like your job, your house, your car.The sand, all the rest. The odds and ends. If you play in the sand for the first time, not space left in the
pebbles and stones.
The same is happening in your life. If all the small things spending your time and energies, no margin of the things that are really important to you. Pay attention to the things which are fundamental to happiness! Call your parents! Get the baby.
Break-time medical monitoring. Go dancing. Cultivate friendly relations!There will always be time to work, cleaning, guests invited to put order.
Set in the correct order! Firstly, the rocks look! - Those that really count.
The rest is just sand.
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Thought alarm
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Posted:Nov 29, 2009 1:32 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 3:51 am 1725 Views
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Thought alarm
Often, we are convinced that our lives will be better if you get married,if the first born baby, or if born in the second.
And then we're frustrated because the are too small even for this,or to and I think that things will go better when they grow up.Let's continue, because we are embittered adolescent behavior.
We are convinced that we will be happier when I pass this era.
I think our lives will be better if the us solve problems
out if a car exchange holiday will be wonderful if, if you do not have to work.But if I do not start to live a happy and full life, then when?There will always be different difficulties.
Best to accept this and decided upon to be happy, whatever happens.
Alfred Souza said:
"We lived in the belief that a genuine, real life will start just yet and in this way were still outstanding obstacles: it does not understand sarcasm time-consuming to be done, has not yet repaid the loans.Will then begin the real life!
Finally, I understood that these "obstacles" in real life. "
If we accept this way of things, it helps to understand that there is a method which leads to happiness, because the method itself is bliss.Consequently, we enjoy every moment of your life and enjoy even more,if you share a rare moment for us and our people to remember him that time is not waiting for anyone ...
Thus, it is certainly not going to wait and see if that will be the end of the school,then when school starts, and if you lose weight 5 kg, and if we pick up to 5 kg,then, if will be and if you fly out, and if I'm going to work,then if you finally retire, and if you get married, if separated out.
You do not have to wait for Friday evening, Sunday morning, the car's replacement, to a house.Neither the spring, summer, autumn, winter, or the end of life and a rebirth,Decide but in ourselves, that there is no better moment in the life of happiness "to start"
than this moment.The zest for life and happiness are not destinations, but the journey itself.
Here are some ideas now:
Work as if you would not need money!
Love it like I do not hurt the disappointment!
Dance as if no one sees!
Now try to answer these questions:
5, write down all of the world's richest man!
5, write down all of the world's last beauty queen!
Think of 10 Nobel Prize-winning "- Think of 5 Academy Award winning actor!
How's it going? Wrong? Do not worry!
Nobody remembers the best for last.
The plaudits go away, will the trophies dusty, the winners will be forgotten.
Now try to answer these questions:
Think of 3 good teachers who helped you become what it, who did you get?
Think of 3 friends, who stood next to the hard times!
Give me a man who felt it with you or that special!
Think of 5 people you enjoy spending your time!
How's it going? More?
The people who make our lives special, not necessarily the richest,or the biggest winner.
However, we are worried, take care of us and beside us are all situations.Ponder it for a moment, how short is life!
What do you want from me? Who are you?
If you allow, I'll help answer this question.
Probably not, or one large and well-known celebrities, but a man,
who because of this post was published.
Several years ago, the Seattle 9 Paralympic Games athletes (who are both mentally or physically damaged), up from the 100-meter running start line.The sound of gun shots in the competition started,where (though not all of the running feet), but the goal sought to win the arrivals and hope.The very anxious at once, one of the boys fell to the pavement and some good tumbling,then began to cry.The other 8 students could hear the crying slowed down and looked back.Then, everyone stopped and turned back ... All of them.One of Dawn's disease she sat beside him, kissed her and asked for a better you feel.Then, both the 9 - en climbed up and walked together to the finish line.The stadium and the audience stood and applauded for several minutes.
Those who were there, still known as this story. Why?
Because somewhere deep inside we know the most important thing is not victory over each other.The life is more important to help others win, even if this entails that we should slow down.
A candle does not lose anything if Flame kindle another.
These phrases are simple, obvious self-limiting and do not have much significance,but sometimes it would not hurt to read them, though they are aware of all this.Often too absorbed in what we do ...And when we forget why we do it ...
Have a nice day and wish you a beautiful life!
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