http://friendfinder.com/blog/askimyt/?pid=p9814 Whatever is in my head on any given day. http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_101597.html?pid=p9814 I wrote awhile back about the patterns we find ourselves in with relationships. Some we don't mean to have happen over and over, and yet they do and now, I don't know, I see another pattern and I don Thu, 07 Aug 2008 19:58:43 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_101597.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_101262.html?pid=p9814 I don't think I can keep up this blog like I was - and my ever dwindling number of watchers is testament to the fact I'm not around very much anymore.It's not intentional, just life.#1 Son will be com Sun, 03 Aug 2008 10:50:00 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_101262.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_99551.html?pid=p9814 Seen on the Dairy Queen sign in town....Everything is better with sprinkles on it. Mon, 14 Jul 2008 19:02:47 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_99551.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_99474.html?pid=p9814 A comment on my last post got me to thinking about long distance relationships, and what the one I have means to me.There are more than miles between us. We have schedules that aren't conducive to be Sun, 13 Jul 2008 17:35:58 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_99474.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_99388.html?pid=p9814 Sorry to be gone so long. One thing after another was happening with no time to do my own thing.Nothing bad. Actually, many very good things. I had an MRI of my pancreas (TWO of them because just o Sat, 12 Jul 2008 13:11:17 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_99388.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_96544.html?pid=p9814 I had blood work done Saturday to check my cholesterol, sugar, thyroid and a CBC. All came back okay except my cholesterol - which I expected. It's 268, not as bad as the 298 it was 7 years ago. I Mon, 09 Jun 2008 19:21:53 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_96544.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_96452.html?pid=p9814 The n-ex has finally done what I've been asking him to do the last 3 years....he signed the divorce papers. Last Friday. Very uneventful seeing as he waited so long to do this. I was expecting some Sun, 08 Jun 2008 17:11:45 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_96452.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_95940.html?pid=p9814 "Don't turn away. Keep your gaze on the bandaged place. That's where the light enters you." RumiIn my marriage there were many open wounds. Large, huge, gapping, festering, infected, wounds. I al Mon, 02 Jun 2008 16:26:05 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_95940.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_95885.html?pid=p9814 Talk about running without a break!! The last few days it's been one thing after another - mostly all good.The verdict per the test with the prep from hell is that I have a small fat filled umbilical Sun, 01 Jun 2008 18:11:26 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_95885.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_95484.html?pid=p9814 who the medical masochist is that thought in order to see a hernia you have to drink 1300 ml of liquid barium in 2 hours, lay on a table in a dark room with your pants at your knees, and get iodine sh Tue, 27 May 2008 17:15:55 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_95484.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_95286.html?pid=p9814 ...per Jeff Foxworthy you know you live in Chicago....If your local Dairy Queen is closed from September through May If someone in a Home Depot store offers you assistance and they don't work thereIf Sun, 25 May 2008 11:24:01 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_95286.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_94885.html?pid=p9814 My anniversary with the company I work for was April 28 and we have mandatory reviews every year. HR uses something they call a 360 review where you and your boss review you, but then so does at leas Tue, 20 May 2008 16:40:09 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_94885.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_94325.html?pid=p9814 Being long distance has more than a few drawbacks, as those on this site living through it - like me - know all too well. But there are ways to bridge the gaps beyond telephone calls or e-mails, and Wed, 14 May 2008 18:49:05 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_94325.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_94078.html?pid=p9814 The Lizard has a bad tooth. The dentist looked at it last week and said the permanent tooth is coming through and because the baby tooth is damaged, it's causing some pain. My dentist is a minimalis Mon, 12 May 2008 15:06:13 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_94078.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_93962.html?pid=p9814 Good Morning! This end of school year stuff makes it tough to find time to do what I want to do - not just what I have to. Plus with Drummer Boy graduating it's busier than usual. But I wanted to s Sun, 11 May 2008 08:08:33 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_93962.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_93070.html?pid=p9814 MAN!! Amazing what a disruption - though a very pleasant one - that adding one more person to my house has caused.I picked up #1 Son from college last weekend. He's home until Saturday when he leave Thu, 01 May 2008 04:23:20 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_93070.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_92311.html?pid=p9814 I did not have the best of mornings, and by 10:30 it was gaining a head of major league stink steam. The worst part...it was all MY doing. I could blame no one or nothing except my own poor judgemen Tue, 22 Apr 2008 19:15:39 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_92311.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_92229.html?pid=p9814 The school district said the Lizard needed to have a psyche evaluation. This came up in his IEP meeting. My little boy with the enormous mind has a reading disability and for that gets State mandate Mon, 21 Apr 2008 18:48:45 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_92229.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_92084.html?pid=p9814 Well I think I can say the snow is officially gone - thank God!! We hadn't had a winter with as much consistent snow as this year in a long time. I'd forgotten how much I hate it.Today it's in the Sun, 20 Apr 2008 14:27:45 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_92084.html?pid=p9814 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_91750.html?pid=p9814 I've been reading the posts lately by those who have been played who are thinking of leaving the site, or giving up on finding a special someone, or becoming hardened and not trusting again. It's to Wed, 16 Apr 2008 19:32:47 -0800 http://friendfinder.com/blog/13585/post_91750.html?pid=p9814