Why it goes wrong ??
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Posted:Mar 8, 2008 6:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2008 4:54 pm 2780 Views
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This is from a comment on a website, i think this is so sad. I just can't understand why some girl could mess a good man like this. (When i am trying so hard to find a good, mature and polite guy!!)
Stig Johnny Naustdal Says:
March 8th, 2008 at 12:54 pm
Hi. I married with an Indonesian girl in 2002. We had known each other for a year and visited each others families and countries before we married. By the way, I’m a Norwegian man 25 years old.
After we had married, our plan was to go to Norway together and live here for a few years, before trying to buy house in Java and live there. I had my job in Norway (I’m a sailor) so she agreed to come with me. After 2 months she started crying every night, she didn’t go out, and she tells me she was homesick. This just continued and got worse by time, so we agreed that I would buy ticket for her to go home and visit her parents and maybe stay there for a while. She didn’t agree to return to me before 5 years later. I sent her money every month, she just asked more and more, and I asked when she was going to return, and she replied she had problem with papers and so on. But finally she came back in july 2007.
We had been calling each other and writing letters and txt on cellphone for the last years almost everyday and she always mentioned how much she love me and wanted to come to norway soon and make babies and family and stay with her husband. When she came she went behind my back and told everyone, my friends and family that I had forced her to marry me and wouldn’t let her go. She manipulated my best friends to hate me in only 1 day.
She is a very sweet looking girl and when she start crying its really hard to not want to take care of her and help her. She didn’t even care to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary only 8 days after she came back to me. All the letters and texts about love and that she only still alive because she love me, it was just empty words. Maybe to keep me sending her money. In the end I had to let her go home again. She cried and tried to hurt herself. She didn’t, but it looked scary cause she was shaking like no control to her own body and screaming and biting her fingers saying she wanted to just go home. I really cared and loved for this girl all these years. And I couldn’t keep her in our new apartment when she was so unhappy.
So I let her go back to Indonesia in october 30 2007. I cried for so long. Until 1 day, the wife of my best friend came to me, and told me everything about my wife. My wife had trusted her secrets to my friend wife. The money I had been sending my wife all the years she was away from me, she had spent them travelling to bali and singapore to see her 2 boyfriends there. She had sex with them regulary when she was visiting.
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Guys and stiletto's
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Posted:Mar 8, 2008 12:29 am
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2008 5:44 pm 2733 Views
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I usually replace my working shoes with a slipper when i sit on my desk. Its more comfy.
Today an instrument dept see my slipper said " you better had your safety stiletto's " and smile. The rules is i have to wear my safety boots anywhere on my office. But its too damp here to wear boots !
...is stiletto really that sexy on man eyes ?
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My saturday morning
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Posted:Mar 7, 2008 6:22 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 1:42 am 2513 Views
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Its raining since last night. Yes its raining season here.
Past 3 days rain.. and much more rain.
I wish today i don't have to sit in front of my computer and working... miss my warm and cozy bed !
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Princess from story book
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Posted:Mar 6, 2008 2:50 am
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2008 5:02 pm 2583 Views
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Last week i went to book store to look up new book for my 3 years old niece.
She love reading books. Shes not really read it, but she like the pictures and she love it when we read the book over and over.
So i get her two legend books originally from my province. When i wrapped it, i decide to read it a bit.
And, surprise me because i never heard about the legend that tells inside the book.
Its about where my regency name comes from. Its actually from a rich trader from China that being rejected by a princess because he was not good looking ( they even write him as ugly, and short) his name is Tan Talanai. Its a bad thing, but at least she's honest, even it hurt him badly. She's so brave at that time (long time ago) to say no to someone proposed you.
I just think... so much thing that we could learn from baby book !
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My afternoon
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Posted:Mar 6, 2008 2:40 am
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2008 5:04 pm 2438 Views
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Its still working hour, so i still sit in front of my computer and my boss gave me a bucket of jelly beans !
I love jelly beans....
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Bad boys are hot ??
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Posted:Mar 4, 2008 5:57 pm
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2008 5:59 pm 2727 Views
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What is all about bad boys ? why we're woman mostly attracted to these type of guys when we know most of them are no good ????
Is is the jerk smile on their face? the way they talk ? the way the walk ? or the whole attitude ?
Why girls ?????
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For all mother (and woman) in the world !
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Posted:Mar 4, 2008 4:42 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2008 4:44 pm 2164 Views
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WHY I LOVE MOM
Mom and Dad were watching TV when Mom said, "I'm tired, and it's getting late. I think I'll go to bed."
She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's lunches.
Rinsed out the popcorn bowls, took meat out of the freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box levels,filled the sugar container, put spoons and bowls on the table and started the coffee pot for brewing the next morning.
She then put some wet clothes in the dryer, put a load of clothes into the washer, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button.
She picked up the game pieces left on the table, put the phone back on the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer. She watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to dry.
She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom.
She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher, counted out some cash for the field trip, and pulled a text book out from hiding under the chair.
She signed a birthday card for a friend, addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the grocery store. She put both near her purse.
Mom then washed her face with 3 in 1 cleanser, put on her Night solution & age fighting moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth and filed her nails.
Dad called out,"I thought you were going to bed." "I'm on my way," she said.
She put some water into the dog's dish and put the cat outside,then made sure the doors were locked and the patio light was on. She looked in on each of the and turned out their bedside lamps and TV's, hung up a shirt, threw some dirty socks into the hamper,and had a brief conversation with the one up still doing homework. In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next day, straightened up the shoe rack. She added three things to her 6 most important things to do list. She said her prayers,and visualized the accomplishment of her goals.
About that time, Dad turned off the TV and announced to no one in particular. "I'm going to bed."
And he did...without another thought.
Anything extraordinary here?
Wonder why women live longer...?
CAUSE WE ARE MADE FOR THE LONG HAUL.....
(and we can't die sooner, we still have things to do!!!!)
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