| Body language...personal space. |
May 3, 2008 9:03 pm
Mood: contemplative, 1210 Views |  | We all have our personal space around us...hmmm maybe 3-4 feet. Thats OUR space! Some people choose to cross that line and intrude on our personal space. We react accordingly to the person or the vibe we get from them.
Some people come into our space (or I like to call it my bubble) and we become defensive. We take a step back, cross our arms, move our chair away, lean away or get up and walk away. Some people don't see these body language signs, or choose to ignore them.
Other people who we are comfortable with will step across that invisible line into our space and we don't mind. They are welcome there and our body language will display this. Our body language might include, open arms (not crossed), smiling, leaning toward the person, touching, eye contact, and being attentive.
Having discussed body language in the blogs before, some people do not believe in it. We all have our opinions and are entitled to them.
Over the past few years body language has fascinated me. I watch people, observe all the little messages that they send off and don't even realize it.
I think if we became more aware of body language there would be less 'guessing' involved in what others are thinking. Especially regarding dating, and friendships. Just a thought.
Ok there ya have it, my Sweetnsassy ramble for today!
Hope you are enjoying your weekend!    |
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