| I never realised how much this would get people talking!! |
Aug 2, 2006 3:13 am
Mood: ecstatic, 3169 Views |  | I have had so many replies to this blog! Hope I get a few more....
Hey my blogging friends, once again I ask for your advice. Please read and tell me what you think.
I am not going to mention this person's name, as I am not sure if they will read this, but I am really fed up and upset by what has happened.
I met someone on FF a few months ago, I went out with them for the grand total of five days. In that time his ex did not leave him alone. On the day we finished, he phoned me from work and I knew from the tone of his voice that it was over. he came round after he finished work to pick up his stuff, and I saw a huge lovebite on his neck. He left and we didn't speak for a while.
But I missed him, and he said he realised he missed me too, so I started seeing him again, and was going to wait for him to make his mind up who he wanted. (More fool me I know!) We would meet when he got time, but I got pretty fed up with this.
He then sent me a text when he was visiting his mum ending it again. I was so mad.. but even so said I would be there as a friend as that totally killed any sort of feelings I had for him, and a friend is all I would be.
He texted me yesterday saying he was messed up, and I said to come round for a cup of tea and a hug, and he replied that "knowing him it wouldn't stop at a hug". HELL NO. He got annoyed when I said that I had principles and would only be intimate with someone in a relationship, which he thought was funny.
He replied saying "shame about my principles cos he wanted his sausage roll in my oven."
I. AM. SO. MAD. He is still with his fiance!!!! I feel so sorry for the poor woman as she has no idea he is looking for another unsuspecting woman to take him on... this was obvious when I read his profile...
I don't know whether to tell here what he is up to, she thinks they are getting married.. the full works..
I always get good advice from you guys.. what do you think I should do? I am in two minds....
A: Keep quiet and leave well alone
B: Let the poor woman know what he's up to
Please let me know what you vote and think!
Thanks to all in advance - Tracy xxxx |
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| Please smile.... life is too short to frown!!! |
Jul 31, 2006 2:47 am
Mood: good, 1552 Views | This morning I woke up with tears in my eyes
Thinking life was real hard
I looked out the window and looked at the sun
Just feeling like I was the only one
Daisy cat jumped onto me knee
And meowed and purred and licked me
She knows when I'm feeling sad
But now I'm glad
Life really isnt that bad!
I read everyones blogs on here, and they always cheer me up, especially the FF bites... I know I am never alone when Im on FF - there is always someone with good advice out there and I look forward to the replies I get. Y'all are my surrogate family! Hope you don't mind me saying that xx
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| Full body massage... bliss!!!! |
Jul 29, 2006 1:09 pm
Mood: refreshed, 1532 Views |  | Feeling pretty good today, one of my friends gave me an all over body massage - I WAS IN HEAVEN!!! I would recomend it to everyone.. was feeling bit stressed and tired, now I am so laid back I'm falling over!
Took a picture of me in the garden after.. here it is on the left.. tell me what you think!
Made candles today, and have been sunbathing (before the cloud cover) then went out for a drink with a good friend, who then treated me to lunch... had such a lovely day.
Hope everyones weekend goes good xx Tracy |
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| OH THE PAIN! (got my nose peirced) |
Jul 28, 2006 3:36 pm
Mood: mischievous, 1393 Views |  | I did something today which is not usually me! On the spur of the moment I decided to get my nose peirced... Mike didn't like it before so I had to let it heal. But now I can do what I want!
I thought to myself... it's time to do something for me... so I jumped on a bus and went to Eagle Tattoo on the Cowley Road in Oxford. (if ever you're in Oxford and want a tattoo or peircing - this is the place to go.)
OH MY GOD! I have been through major surgery countless times.. and I have to say that they were a lot less painfull. I had tears streaming down my face, thank the good lord that I wasn't wearing any warpaint - it would not have stayed on that long. My 14 year old neighbour thinks its cool. I know im 39 but hey, life begins at 40 I'm just starting a little early!
I have already had some comments.. like "what do you want to do that for at your age" hey age is just a number. Its my nose, so I do what the hell I want with it!!!
I'm thinking of a tattoo now... but I bet I get more comments!! What do you think my friends?
P.s. Thanks to all that have been giving me so much support over the last few days, It really has helped - And thanks to all for lighting candles.. especially the five .. you know who you are xx
Have a good weekend y'all, Tracy xxxx |
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| I have stolen this... but it describes my mood today...please read!!!!! |
Jul 26, 2006 3:06 am
Mood: hopeful, 1457 Views |  | Hey all my blog friends... just been listening to this on my ghetto blaster (so has all my neighbours!  ) I am feeling quite good today, been told lots of jokes.. and laughter to quote a certain someone... is the best medicine!!
I love the words to this... so true to me today.
Thanks to Johnny Nash for this ..... 
I can see clearly now the rain has gone
I can see all obsticles in my way
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
It's gonna be a bright, bright sunshiney day
I think I can make it now the pain has gone
All of the bad feelings have dissapeared
Here is the rainbow i've been waiting for
Its gonna be a bright, bright sunshiney day
Its gonna be a bright, bright sunshiney day
Look all around, nothing but blue skys
Look straight ahead, nothing but blue skys
I can see clearly now the rain has gone
I can see all obsticles in my way
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
Its gonna be a bright, bright sunshiney day
Its gonna be a bright, bright sunshiney day
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I had this played at Mikes funeral instead of hymns, he loved it...
Thankyou all for being there in my darkest moments.. and I hope I have been able to help others xx
Hugs, blessings and love to everyone that reads this xxx |
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| Tell me what you think to this please! |
Jul 24, 2006 11:38 am
Mood: contemplative, 1411 Views |  | This is what I am hoping to read at my friends funeral.. please tell me what you think my friends.
We are here today to say goodbye
Missing you, as we cry
Heart aching, tears on a sleeve
All sorry that you had to leave
We cannot describe how we feel
This cannot be, this is not real
Sadly though, this is not true
We must smile as we remember you
Approaching us, with love and care
No matter what, you were there
Making us laugh when be were down
Pulling smiles from our frowns
Loving us with all your heart
On that goes, though we part
Now we're here trying not to weep
Your body has gone but your soul and love we keep
So even though we are here and cry
You will live on
As our love for you will never die
I have borrowed this verse.. but I think it's beautiful. Thanks to all who read my last blog, and for those that took the time to respond.
Tracy |
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| My friend has just commited suicide... I have now lost 5 close people in 9 months.. what have I done |
Jul 23, 2006 2:42 pm
Mood: lazy, 1450 Views |  | I have just spoken to one of my close friends, and her boyfriend has comitted suicide. He, like my husband, had a drink problem, and couldnt take life any more. My friend found him... she is having all sorts of legal problems and I'm going to do my best to be there for her.
But I don't know how much more I can take. I am really doing my best to get on with things, but keep getting knocked sideways!!!!
I am sat here in a daze typing this.. I dont want to call anyone to bother them, as I don't think that they will know what to say. So I hope you don't mind my blogging friends, I am opening my heart to you.
Please can you light a candle for me, and remember me in your prayers (if you do pray) or just in your thoughts.
Thank you xxxx |
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| A little poem.... to make you smile |
Jul 21, 2006 3:12 am
Mood: energetic, 1236 Views |  | I sit here with Daisy cat under a tree
There's nothing here but her and me
I tell a lie, there's birds and bees
And a whisper of wind, a little breeze
The sun is shining high in the sky
I wish I were a bird and could fly that high
The world in my eyes, today is a beautiful place
Full of many people, the human race
But animals are my favorite, each and every one
Please take care of them.. or they will soon be gone
Please smile at someone and make their day
And make them feel happier on their way!
Spare a thought for those less fortunate than yourselves my friends... I light a candle a say a prayer every night for those who have less than me - and for those who need support x
Hope everyone in blogland is having a lovely and prosperous day xx Tracy and meow from Daisy cat! |
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| A little poem.... to make you smile |
Jul 21, 2006 3:09 am
Mood: energetic, 796 Views |  | I sit here with Daisy cat under a tree
There's nothing here but her and me
I tell a lie, there's birds and bees
And a whisper of wind, a little breeze
The sun is shining high in the sky
I wish I were a bird and could fly that high
The world in my eyes, today is a beautiful place
Full of many people, the human race
But animals are my favorite, each and every one
Please take care of them.. or they will soon be gone
Please smile at someone and make their day
And make them feel happier on their way!
Spare a thought for those less fortunate than yourselves my friends... I light a candle a say a prayer every night for those who have less than me - and for those who need support x
Hope everyone in blogland is having a lovely and prosperous day xx Tracy and meow from Daisy cat! |
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| I'M BACK! HOPE SOMEONE HAS MISSED ME! |
Jul 19, 2006 4:26 pm
Mood: courageous, 875 Views |  | Hey my blogging friends, had a bad period of fibromyalgia for the past few days so not felt able to get online and blog!
I have missed everyone on here.. and seeing curvycat's poems... they really do inspire me!
It is soooo hot here in Oxford, in my bedroom at the moment, (its just gone midnight) its 30c - I am MELTING! Poor daisy cat is laying in my bathroom sink in cold water to cool down poor pusscat! Hopefully we will have thunderstorms during the night should clear things up a bit I hope! They usually go over Oxford as we are in a bit of a dip... but keep your fingers crossed that they linger..
Im in the middle of composing a poem, will post on here as soon as I can, How has everyone been? Please leave me a little message to let me know what you have been up to.. or any exciting news!
Bye for now xx Tracy xx |
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