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Not unpacking the boxes just yet Aug 5, 2008 6:35 am
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I've been in this apartment for almost 4 1/2 months and still haven't found anyplace for most of my stuff, which is pretty sad because I left ALOT of stuff behind in Maine. I must be a packrat. Well, not really. This is just a damn small apartment.

So what were the odds that the Hubby and I would start to see what is out there to buy to give us a more settled feeling and attachment to where we are living - and find out his company wants us to move. I am not kidding.

North to Sacramento. My home town. The place that I have spent 31 years trying to blot out of my memory. I am stunned. No wonder he has been acting weird. He didn't want to tell me when it was just a 'thought'. Now it is a real possibility. THIS is why he's been talking about going back to Maine - because he'd rather takes us back 3,100 miles than ask me to live there. I don't even know what to think.

If nothing else it would give me a good reason to say adios to my job. Again. But that would throw me back in to a job search and I have barely recovered from this last one. On the other hand it might offer more opportunities for me. But I cannot deny that it would be good for Hubby. He's just a damn good man and damn good at what he does. He deserves this. He really does. They saw what he did for the Fresno area in just 4 months. Totally turned it around and started growing it.

I'll be honest, if it comes with a big enough pay increase that we don't get squeezed like this last time I would consider it. Sacramento is HUGE and I can live my life in a different part of town from where the ghosts are. I'll be only about 45 minutes to an hour from my brother and that would be good for us.

I can't believe this is happening. I don't know whether to cry and run away or laugh myself stupid.

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Got to work at 7:30 yesterday. Usually Monday mornings I start at 5:30 because I am off on weekends and there is a ton of stuff to process from the weekends and I like going in early like that. But on Friday I was told by Big Boss's right hand gal that my schedule changed. I checked out the posting on the wall and the computer. Sure enough, 7:30. I had to make a change to a dentist appointment I had for Monday afternoon but they were still able to get me in at 5:45. I had that damned tooth pulled! YAY!!!!!
But anyway, as soon as I walked in I got the people I work with asking me why I wasn't in at the usual time and telling me that Big Boss was in my cage at 5:30 and wanted to know why I wasn't there. My immediate Boss Guy figured I had quit and was greatly relieved to see me there. So I went looking for Big Boss.

When I found him and told him why I wasn't there, and showed him both of the schedules he says to me............. You should have known better.

So I says to him "Let me see. I'm supposed to know things that I am NOT told and I am supposed to know the things I AM told are not correct." He says 'Yes'

Would anyone blame me if I give two weeks notice? Better yet, would anyone blame if I call out quit today??? I can't function like this. Give me the rules, give me a phone, leave me in my cage and don't bother me. Or let me go.

I got yelled at yesterday by a usually lovely man. I can't blame anyone because I know they are under the same stresses I deal with. Insanity. But I don't work in Delivery, I don't handle his paperwork, and I didn't lose his loading slip. I didn't load the truck, I didn't deliver the wrong refrigerator late. But I got an earful and a half about no one else having the paper so I needed to find it. NOW.

I hung up. I cleaned my desk and my area. I walked out.

I was never so happy to be in a dentist chair in my life.
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