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What the feck is that all about? # 4
gowerboy 9/22/2008 6:47 am
According to their website:

The American Psychological Association (APA), in Washington, DC, is the largest scientific and professional organization representing psychology in the United States and is the world's largest association of psychologists. APA's membership includes more than 148,000 researchers, educators, clinicians, consultants and students. Through its divisions in 54 subfields of psychology and affiliations with 60 state, territorial and Canadian provincial associations, APA works to advance psychology as a science, as a profession and as a means of promoting human welfare. (my italics)

How nice then, to see that this association has recently voted not to allow its members to work in settings where "persons are held outside of, or in violation of, either International Law (e.g., the UN Convention Against Torture and the Geneva Conventions) or the US Constitution (where appropriate), unless they are working directly for the persons being detained or for an independent third party working to protect human rights".

They've basically decided that Torture is professionally unethical.

8,792 members voted in favor of the resolution. Not a huge percentage given that membership is approaching 150,000. What worries me, however, are the 6,157 members who voted against the resolution. Do they really feel that under certain circumstances, like that sacred catch-all "national security", techniques like waterboarding (see picture) are justified? It also begs the question as to why they became psychologists in the first place.

In the medical professions there is a fine line between care and control, and in the fields of psychiatry and psychology this line often becomes an overlap. The attitude that "we know what is best for you" can easily become "do what we say or we will not help you". Unfortunately, in the case of those 6,000 plus psychologists who believe their profession has a role to play in psychologically pressurising "enemy combatants" in contravention of international law, the attitude seems to be "we know how to break you".

Even more telling is the fact that around 90% of the membership failed to vote. Just as in the wider world, apathy reigns.

What the feck is that all about?


midnight_daisy
1854 posts 

9/22/2008 7:07 am

What should we do?

Cheers!

MunchkinMatron2
11179 posts 

9/22/2008 7:46 am

The term "psychological warfare" takes on a whole new meaning, and has never sounded so sinister.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.

Arrifairy
1284 posts

9/22/2008 7:53 am

The people who voted against...are the people who vote Republican in US. Conservatives...blah. So there you have it.

And the fact that 90% of the membership failed to vote, seems like apathy reigns alright, or may just be they care more for the fallen economy then other stuff at this point in time.

Oh well, let hope things CHANGE!!!!

"Never look back, the future is so close!"

Angie

agag_00_back
1617 posts 

9/22/2008 7:56 am

I always think that some psychologists and psychoanalysts might have more severe problems than their patients. Ack.

(The waterboarding picture is scary)

Agnes

justmeddy
287 posts 

9/22/2008 8:55 am

Just like here in Germany between 1929 and 1945. It´s always easy if you can say...I did not know. So look away and deny.

Doesn´t the word humane get a nasty taste??

Di623

9/22/2008 10:24 am

6,157 members who voted against the resolution

geh...hope I don't run into any of those members on the street sometime...

Even more telling is the fact that around 90% of the membership failed to vote. Just as in the wider world, apathy reigns.

Scary.


Take What You Want. Leave What You Don't.

Mistytraveller
9968 posts 

9/22/2008 12:53 pm

I've had first hand experience with "psychiatrists"-- and to put it briefly, and very mildly, it wasn't good. I've discovered that they are protected here and takes almost an act of parliament to deal with their wrong doings.

It troubles me deeply when people in the healing professions use their abilities to do precisely the opposite.

Sad state of affairs when so many don't care enough to take the time to vote and/or vote against the fundamental ethical principle of their profession which is to do no harm. Sad, sad, sad.

Wishing you happiness

Misty

driverdan
17258 posts 

9/22/2008 4:51 pm

hi mano.

it is a mixed bag of emotions here for me.

i believe in, you get what you give

maybe i lost focus

dan

bribook
966 posts

9/22/2008 5:50 pm

To me, resorting to any form of physical torture such as water boarding represents a failure of psychology, and of humanity. It does not take a PhD to understand that pain, discomfort and the threat of injury or death could break a person.

I feel sophisticated enough now, in 2008, to say that all forms of torture are wrong, and that my government shouldn't be employing them. But seven years ago? When I watched with horror as those buildings came down? When I learned that such an attack originated inside a regime where women could be stoned to death in public? I was angry and I wanted my government to pursue, punish and destroy those criminals by any means it could.

I did not expect my government to use that as leverage to deceive us (and the UK) into a totally separate adventure in Iraq, though.


~ B.

bellezia
20747 posts 

9/23/2008 1:24 am

so unsa?

(¯`v´¯)
`*.¸.*´
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(¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•
smile and be happy always

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/23/2008 5:00 am

Stay out of Guantánamo.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/23/2008 5:08 am

    Quoting MunchkinMatron2:
    The term "psychological warfare" takes on a whole new meaning, and has never sounded so sinister.
One of the tactics used to break down prisoners is to take away their toilet paper. It sounds trivial at first, but as part of a set of long term tactics it depersonalises, degrades and dehumanises the individual. Physical torture, apparently, becomes easier to tolerate over time, whereas psychological torture has time on its side.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/23/2008 5:16 am

    Quoting Arrifairy:
    The people who voted against...are the people who vote Republican in US. Conservatives...blah. So there you have it.

    And the fact that 900f the membership failed to vote, seems like apathy reigns alright, or may just be they care more for the fallen economy then other stuff at this point in time.

    Oh well, let hope things CHANGE!!!!
They certainly didn't seem to be liberals.

The economy might be failing, but I find it shocking that so few members of a professional body - in which ethics play a major role - could be so preoccupied as to ignore or not care about such a fundamental issue.

A change is gonna come, as Sam Cooke sang.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/23/2008 5:18 am

    Quoting agag_00_back:
    I always think that some psychologists and psychoanalysts might have more severe problems than their patients. Ack.

    (The waterboarding picture is scary)
It might be an urban myth, but I remember reading somewhere that the suicide rate for American psychiatrists was twice the national average.

I don't think I'll ever use cellophane again.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/23/2008 5:26 am

    Quoting justmeddy:
    Just like here in Germany between 1929 and 1945. It´s always easy if you can say...I did not know. So look away and deny.

    Doesn´t the word humane get a nasty taste??
I'm always wary of comparisons with Nazi Germany. Let's face it, American psychologists do not face harassment or imprisonment for refusing to participate in unconstitutional interrogation practices. Conditions are not the same. The fact is, the US government has been caught out in its lies and continues to ride roughshod over the liberties it supposedly defends, and is getting away with it.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/23/2008 5:29 am

    Quoting Di623:
    6,157 members who voted against the resolution

    geh...hope I don't run into any of those members on the street sometime...

    Even more telling is the fact that around 900f the membership failed to vote. Just as in the wider world, apathy reigns.

    Scary.

Don't worry, they're too busy working on improvements to waterboarding.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/23/2008 5:31 am

    Quoting Mistytraveller:
    I've had first hand experience with "psychiatrists"-- and to put it briefly, and very mildly, it wasn't good. I've discovered that they are protected here and takes almost an act of parliament to deal with their wrong doings.

    It troubles me deeply when people in the healing professions use their abilities to do precisely the opposite.

    Sad state of affairs when so many don't care enough to take the time to vote and/or vote against the fundamental ethical principle of their profession which is to do no harm. Sad, sad, sad.
The leadership of the APA had to be bullied into holding the vote in the first place. If it hadn't been for the activism of a small group of dedicated individuals who considered it worth the time and effort to try and effect a change there would still be no resolution.

Doing things helps.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/23/2008 5:39 am

    Quoting driverdan:
    hi mano.

    it is a mixed bag of emotions here for me.

    i believe in, you get what you give

    maybe i lost focus

    dan

A man is on the street. He's an ordinary man. Lives a fairly blameless life. Goes to the mosque when he can. There are some people there who talk like radicals, but they're harmless he thinks, anyway he doesn't have much to do with them.

Suddenly, he is bundled into the back of a truck by armed soldiers, where he is blindfolded and drugged. When he awakes fully he is thousands of miles away from his home, dressed in an orange jumpsuit and surrounded by barbed wire and guns. Every day he is interrogated about things he knows nothing about. He begins to think they've mistaken him for someone else by the same name.

For the first few years his family think he is dead. Then they find out he's alive, but they can't see him or write to him. A few years later he is allowed a defence lawyer.

This man is still there.

Life isn't always about getting what you give, Dan.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/23/2008 5:41 am

    Quoting bribook:
    To me, resorting to any form of physical torture such as water boarding represents a failure of psychology, and of humanity. It does not take a PhD to understand that pain, discomfort and the threat of injury or death could break a person.

    I feel sophisticated enough now, in 2008, to say that all forms of torture are wrong, and that my government shouldn't be employing them. But seven years ago? When I watched with horror as those buildings came down? When I learned that such an attack originated inside a regime where women could be stoned to death in public? I was angry and I wanted my government to pursue, punish and destroy those criminals by any means it could.

    I did not expect my government to use that as leverage to deceive us (and the UK) into a totally separate adventure in Iraq, though.


    ~ B.

When I learned that such an attack originated inside a regime where women could be stoned to death in public? I was angry and I wanted my government to pursue, punish and destroy those criminals by any means it could.

So why didn't the US invade Saudi Arabia?

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/23/2008 5:43 am

That's probably what the Filipino Psychological Association said.

debutanteBaltimr
13477 posts 

9/23/2008 10:33 am

Torture is FUN (as long as you are not the one being Tortured). Just ask the Roman who invented the brazen bull...and then got cooked inside! People think doctors and psychiatrists chose their fields because they are compassionate. In USA, that is definitely NOT the case most of the time. There are two classes of people in USA: doctors (wealthy)...and patients (more likely poor).

Just spilled my guts about Heather!

toneboney
6364 posts 

9/23/2008 1:16 pm

No... I refuse to be drawn to comment on "psychologists".
They are number 2 on my ban list... Religion my number 1.
Another great post GB. and some interesting comments/replies.
By the way, I have a spare pair of flippers and snorkeling
kit if you need it?? I believe you have it quite bad there?
Tone.

bribook
966 posts

9/23/2008 7:55 pm

    Quoting gowerboy:
    When I learned that such an attack originated inside a regime where women could be stoned to death in public? I was angry and I wanted my government to pursue, punish and destroy those criminals by any means it could.

    So why didn't the US invade Saudi Arabia?
I think we both can answer that question.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/24/2008 10:31 am

    Quoting debutanteBaltimr:
    Torture is FUN (as long as you are not the one being Tortured). Just ask the Roman who invented the brazen bull...and then got cooked inside! People think doctors and psychiatrists chose their fields because they are compassionate. In USA, that is definitely NOT the case most of the time. There are two classes of people in USA: doctors (wealthy)...and patients (more likely poor).
Don't the rich ever get sick?

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/24/2008 10:37 am

    Quoting toneboney:
    No... I refuse to be drawn to comment on "psychologists".
    They are number 2 on my ban list... Religion my number 1.
    Another great post GB. and some interesting comments/replies.
    By the way, I have a spare pair of flippers and snorkeling
    kit if you need it?? I believe you have it quite bad there?
    Tone.
Chucking it down, mate.

Got a spare dinghy?

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/24/2008 10:40 am

    Quoting bribook:
    I think we both can answer that question.

But why wasn't it asked more earlier?

beta34
8873 posts

9/25/2008 12:20 pm

don't you think this is just part of what humans are? the large majority in apathy, then there are some trying to hide their violent instincts/acts and some others trying to hold these last ones or move the first ones. Bah, this wine must be a bad one

gowerboy
9917 posts 

9/30/2008 2:37 am

    Quoting beta34:
    don't you think this is just part of what humans are? the large majority in apathy, then there are some trying to hide their violent instincts/acts and some others trying to hold these last ones or move the first ones. Bah, this wine must be a bad one
It might be what humans are, but it doesn't mean we should stay that way.

Switch to Spanish wine.

dana654
205 posts 

10/17/2008 6:30 am

*sneaks in...looking for something to steal...again*
I'm turning into a klepto...can't help it.

Keep smiling, it makes people wonder what you're up to.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

10/19/2008 12:14 pm

    Quoting dana654:
    *sneaks in...looking for something to steal...again*
    I'm turning into a klepto...can't help it.
stop

thief

dana654
205 posts 

10/30/2008 12:32 am

You forgot the 'outrageous' word before the thief.

Keep smiling, it makes people wonder what you're up to.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

10/31/2008 6:24 am

outrageous thief?

mellowandmindful

11/3/2008 9:08 pm

The attitude that "we know what is best for you" can easily become "do what we say or we will not help you".

it makes me so sad that this is how people in this field are perceived...sad for all the wonderful colleagues i have who have dedicated their lives to helping people, and sad for me because i fall into that category as well. i was, in fact, vigilantly trained to take a non-expertrole in my interactions with my clients--not to presume that i know what's best for them. so obviously i take issue with even the first part of this statement. i'd love to discuss this with you sometime. i have more to say than would be appropriate for a blog response.

i'll leave you with this. i agree with you whole-heartedly--you're absolutely right--the 6000 plus members who voted against the resolution behaved abhorrently. but as with every profession or organization in the world throughout history, there have been negative or even corrupt forces at play (can you say catholic church?). it's just so demoralizing that they can cast such a shadow over the so many who do good. it hurt my heart to read some of my fellow bloggers responses about this.

i understand and empathize with your frustration. please try to understand that it just makes me sad.

ps...i hope you're almost done isolating. i miss the bantering we had begun to have. hope that's not too forward of me.

be kinder than necessary
you never know what trials people are facing.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/4/2008 2:30 am

    Quoting mellowandmindful:
    The attitude that "we know what is best for you" can easily become "do what we say or we will not help you".

    it makes me so sad that this is how people in this field are perceived...sad for all the wonderful colleagues i have who have dedicated their lives to helping people, and sad for me because i fall into that category as well. i was, in fact, vigilantly trained to take a non-expertrole in my interactions with my clients--not to presume that i know what's best for them. so obviously i take issue with even the first part of this statement. i'd love to discuss this with you sometime. i have more to say than would be appropriate for a blog response.

    i'll leave you with this. i agree with you whole-heartedly--you're absolutely right--the 6000 plus members who voted against the resolution behaved abhorrently. but as with every profession or organization in the world throughout history, there have been negative or even corrupt forces at play (can you say catholic church?). it's just so demoralizing that they can cast such a shadow over the so many who do good. it hurt my heart to read some of my fellow bloggers responses about this.

    i understand and empathize with your frustration. please try to understand that it just makes me sad.

    ps...i hope you're almost done isolating. i miss the bantering we had begun to have. hope that's not too forward of me.
I was not attacking the profession as a whole. My main problem was with the tardy, apathetic response to an issue as profound as torture. I think I'm right in saying that the equivalent associations of psychiatrists and psychotherapists had taken a stand on this far earlier.

mellowandmindful

11/4/2008 9:30 am

    Quoting gowerboy:
    I was not attacking the profession as a whole. My main problem was with the tardy, apathetic response to an issue as profound as torture. I think I'm right in saying that the equivalent associations of psychiatrists and psychotherapists had taken a stand on this far earlier.
i didn't mean to accuse you of attacking. really. it's just that this perception floating around out there doesn't help the already prevalent negative stigma associated with what i do. it wasn't all about just what you said either. i'm sorry if i made you feel that way. others obviously share the perception.

you're right that the apathy sucks. i don't have an answer for it. you made me start thinking about what kept me from getting involved. i think it's the overwhelming sense of powerlessness i feel trying to be an agent of change against what seems to be such an unconquerable force.

be kinder than necessary
you never know what trials people are facing.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/4/2008 11:28 am

    Quoting mellowandmindful:
    i didn't mean to accuse you of attacking. really. it's just that this perception floating around out there doesn't help the already prevalent negative stigma associated with what i do. it wasn't all about just what you said either. i'm sorry if i made you feel that way. others obviously share the perception.

    you're right that the apathy sucks. i don't have an answer for it. you made me start thinking about what kept me from getting involved. i think it's the overwhelming sense of powerlessness i feel trying to be an agent of change against what seems to be such an unconquerable force.
It wasn't really much of an attack, either. More a gentle mauling.

Unconquerable forces grow strong through the absence of opposition.

(Note to self: be less aphoristic)

mellowandmindful

11/5/2008 9:28 am

    Quoting gowerboy:
    It wasn't really much of an attack, either. More a gentle mauling.

    Unconquerable forces grow strong through the absence of opposition.

    (Note to self: be less aphoristic)
gentle mauling? (smirk) funny how you can make it sound almost appealing.

and your point about the absence of opposition is well noted. (i feel as though i should hang my head in shame.) i have a feeling that i'm going to be using the words you're right a lot as i get to know you better.

and finally, he's capable of notes to self. (sigh) (that was a good one by the way.)

be kinder than necessary
you never know what trials people are facing.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/6/2008 2:58 am

    Quoting mellowandmindful:
    gentle mauling? (smirk) funny how you can make it sound almost appealing.

    and your point about the absence of opposition is well noted. (i feel as though i should hang my head in shame.) i have a feeling that i'm going to be using the words you're right a lot as i get to know you better.

    and finally, he's capable of notes to self. (sigh) (that was a good one by the way.)
Oh, I'm often wrong. I just ignore it until it fades away.

mellowandmindful

11/6/2008 7:55 am

    Quoting gowerboy:
    Oh, I'm often wrong. I just ignore it until it fades away.
smart ass. but i like that.

be kinder than necessary
you never know what trials people are facing.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/6/2008 12:21 pm

never love a smart arse

it always ends in tears and witty quips

mellowandmindful

11/6/2008 1:39 pm

    Quoting gowerboy:
    never love a smart arse

    it always ends in tears and witty quips
so then, what about just loving someone's arse?

be kinder than necessary
you never know what trials people are facing.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/7/2008 3:26 am

[insert witty quip here]

mellowandmindful

11/7/2008 5:28 am

    Quoting gowerboy:
    [insert witty quip here]
and this is where i'm supposed to grab the kleenex box?

be kinder than necessary
you never know what trials people are facing.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/7/2008 5:50 am

    Quoting mellowandmindful:
    and this is where i'm supposed to grab the kleenex box?
Depends how dirty the arse is.

mellowandmindful

11/7/2008 8:38 am

    Quoting gowerboy:
    Depends how dirty the arse is.
gross!

i know that wasn't a witty response, but i felt the need to go with my initial gut reaction. and now i really do feel the urge to cry. pass me a tissue?

be kinder than necessary
you never know what trials people are facing.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/7/2008 10:42 am

    Quoting mellowandmindful:
    gross!

    i know that wasn't a witty response, but i felt the need to go with my initial gut reaction. and now i really do feel the urge to cry. pass me a tissue?
Here, take an aphorism.

mellowandmindful

11/7/2008 12:44 pm

    Quoting gowerboy:
    Here, take an aphorism.
wow, you really know how to kick someone when she's down. er, wait. maybe you were trying to build me up? ya, that's how i'm going to take it. i'll just let my imagination go crazy.

be kinder than necessary
you never know what trials people are facing.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/11/2008 3:46 am

    Quoting mellowandmindful:
    wow, you really know how to kick someone when she's down. er, wait. maybe you were trying to build me up? ya, that's how i'm going to take it. i'll just let my imagination go crazy.
Sorry, I can be a bit flippant sometimes.

You probably won't read this now, but,
just in case you do, where'd you go?

(Your mail was deleted when you deleted your profile)

mellows_escape

11/12/2008 10:18 pm

    Quoting gowerboy:
    Sorry, I can be a bit flippant sometimes.

    You probably won't read this now, but,
    just in case you do, where'd you go?

    (Your mail was deleted when you deleted your profile)
i went off to discover new and unchartered territories. come to find out there really isn't any place new or unchartered...just different and sterile. i decided to come back here where it's comfier...i was surprised to realize that i missed this place. but now i feel a little silly for leaving. i'm planning on posting about it tomorrow. i'm hoping my friends will understand and want to be my friends again. (gad, i feel like i'm in high school again.)

i can come across as flippant too sometimes. that's the trouble with this blasted format (im-ing and texting fall under the same category). without really knowing someone, it's difficult to know how they're really saying something. i of all people get that. you might have figured this out by now, but i don't always know when to quit.
hey, like my new name?

be kinder than necessary
you never know what trials people are facing

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/13/2008 2:57 am

    Quoting mellows_escape:
    i went off to discover new and unchartered territories. come to find out there really isn't any place new or unchartered...just different and sterile. i decided to come back here where it's comfier...i was surprised to realize that i missed this place. but now i feel a little silly for leaving. i'm planning on posting about it tomorrow. i'm hoping my friends will understand and want to be my friends again. (gad, i feel like i'm in high school again.)

    i can come across as flippant too sometimes. that's the trouble with this blasted format (im-ing and texting fall under the same category). without really knowing someone, it's difficult to know how they're really saying something. i of all people get that. you might have figured this out by now, but i don't always know when to quit.
    hey, like my new name?
Wherever you go, unless it's into hiding, you always encounter the same thing; people. And even if you go into hiding, you can never get away from yourself. I drift in and out of this place, without ever leaving. You're right, it is comfy. There are other places, but it's like moving house, it can be tiring just thinking about having to remake relationships and get to know more (of the same) people.

As far as the medium goes, it's easy to see why flamewars start. I generally give people the benefit of the doubt at least once, and never worry about having to apologise if I come across as short or tetchy. Let's face it, I am short and tetchy at times.

Good to see you back. Nice name.

mellows_escape

11/13/2008 10:42 am

    Quoting gowerboy:
    Wherever you go, unless it's into hiding, you always encounter the same thing; people. And even if you go into hiding, you can never get away from yourself. I drift in and out of this place, without ever leaving. You're right, it is comfy. There are other places, but it's like moving house, it can be tiring just thinking about having to remake relationships and get to know more (of the same) people.

    As far as the medium goes, it's easy to see why flamewars start. I generally give people the benefit of the doubt at least once, and never worry about having to apologise if I come across as short or tetchy. Let's face it, I am short and tetchy at times.

    Good to see you back. Nice name.
thank you--for the welcome back and for your perspective. i'm assuming you've been at this a little longer than i have--which has been just a little over a month now. i'm still just trying to feel my way around--kind of like stumbling over sofas or tables in the dark. i've noticed the guise of anonymity and the screen as a perceived shield have, in some cases, have altered how i normally interact with people out here in 3-d land (don't be surprised if you read this in an upcoming post too). this journey has been very enlightening and a bit fascinating for me...your words have been especially meaningful. has anyone ever told you that you should be a therapist?

be kinder than necessary
you never know what trials people are facing

midnight_daisy
1854 posts 

11/14/2008 6:33 am

Not to change the subject, but she's actually onto something here! You as a therapist has fabulous possibilities. I am shocked it's never been brought up before (or maybe it has I drift in and out, too). But yeah, eMMa as matchmaker and GB to pick up the pieces. I'm lovin' it!

Cheers!

MunchkinMatron2
11179 posts 

11/14/2008 6:30 pm

Did someone call me?

I think I should've gone as Cupid for Halloween, but ever since everyone else has discovered I do have them breasty things, I nixed the idea.

Seriously though--I've never taken this place seriously enough to let narrow minded people get to me. There will always be those who would like to push your buttons and try and see how you'd respond.

Why let them get to you at all?

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/17/2008 4:08 am

I'm with MM.

Personal remarks or opinions from people you've never met are not to be taken seriously. They're just pissing into the wind to see if they can hit somebody, anybody, in the eye. I normally reply civilly to them, as if I've completely missed their point. They tend to disappear quite quickly.

midnight_daisy
1854 posts 

11/17/2008 7:30 am

    Quoting gowerboy:
    I'm with MM.

    Personal remarks or opinions from people you've never met are not to be taken seriously. They're just pissing into the wind to see if they can hit somebody, anybody, in the eye. I normally reply civilly to them, as if I've completely missed their point. They tend to disappear quite quickly.
You and MM are nicer than I am. If I get a comment I consider antagonistic or just plain rude, I delete it and block the poster.

It's only happened once, but I swung the executioner's ax swiftly and without hesitation.

Cheers!

gowerboy
9917 posts 

11/17/2008 8:07 am

Note to self: Don't buy daisy an axe for her birthday.

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