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Even if truth hurts
royalpurple
8/4/2008 7:38 am

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From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
debutanteBaltimr
12263 posts 

8/4/2008 12:01 pm

pooh! I would rather hear a good lie.

A Woman's from the BACK !

shiva7585
888 posts 

8/4/2008 4:24 pm

I guess that's one difference between a true friend and a false friend, a true friend is being brutally honest in hopes of improving you as a person while a false friend is just being cruel.

Btw Ever since I was child my parents and others have told me I'm honest to point of tactlessness. So does that make me everybody's "true friend"?

royalpurple
2296 posts 

8/4/2008 6:48 pm

Balty, girls in FF are going gaga over you.
That is not a lie


From my heart to yours, Love and Light!

royalpurple
2296 posts 

8/4/2008 6:55 pm

    Quoting shiva7585:
    I guess that's one difference between a true friend and a false friend, a true friend is being brutally honest in hopes of improving you as a person while a false friend is just being cruel.

    Btw Ever since I was child my parents and others have told me I'm honest to point of tactlessness. So does that make me everybody's "true friend"?
Oh, it's so hard to be politically correct
all the time, Chris


From my heart to yours, Love and Light!

melmac
1895 posts 

8/4/2008 8:21 pm

yeah thats cruelly correct

straight from the heart

royalpurple
2296 posts 

8/4/2008 10:45 pm

    Quoting melmac:
    yeah thats cruelly correct
Hi mac!

From my heart to yours, Love and Light!

gorgeous_asian2
2690 posts 

8/5/2008 12:51 am

to be honest.. it truly hurts
when friends criticize you..
even though u knew that they're
right! and even if u knew they're
just being honest... it still hurts anyways..
'aminin'..^:-J

have a good day pretty sis..

JuSt An OrDiNaRy GiRl WiTh XtRa OrDiNaRy DrEaMs!

MunchkinMatron2
9786 posts 

8/5/2008 1:23 am

The truth may be brutal, but the delivery doesn't have to be. True friends would know how to get the truth across in a way that would minimize the pain, because they wouldn't want to add to the hurt.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.

danfar
260 posts 

8/5/2008 6:01 am

i agree with ana, true friends know very well how to say things in a way that you wont get hurt, or just make " amin na lang if you're at fault " or just accept your fault and say sorry...accepting your fault help ease away the pain and hurt you're feeling..........

have a great day lei !!!

royalpurple
2296 posts 

8/6/2008 6:19 am

    Quoting gorgeous_asian2:
    to be honest.. it truly hurts
    when friends criticize you..
    even though u knew that they're
    right! and even if u knew they're
    just being honest... it still hurts anyways..
    'aminin'..^:-J

    have a good day pretty sis..
I would definitely be hurt, but the only consolation would be because the person is my friend. Nobody's brave enough to tell you what you don't want to hear other than your best friend.

From my heart to yours, Love and Light!

royalpurple
2296 posts 

8/6/2008 6:25 am

    Quoting MunchkinMatron2:
    The truth may be brutal, but the delivery doesn't have to be. True friends would know how to get the truth across in a way that would minimize the pain, because they wouldn't want to add to the hurt.
Personally, i try to emphasize the positive side when breaking out a very hurtful truth to a friend. Or instead of putting her down or saying "i told you so," for a bad decision, i always advise a friend how her decision had teach not only her but some people around her to not to repeat the same mistake.

From my heart to yours, Love and Light!

royalpurple
2296 posts 

8/6/2008 6:26 am

    Quoting danfar:
    i agree with ana, true friends know very well how to say things in a way that you wont get hurt, or just make " amin na lang if you're at fault " or just accept your fault and say sorry...accepting your fault help ease away the pain and hurt you're feeling..........

    have a great day lei !!!
Far, i'm not going to add anything to what you said.
just AMEN


From my heart to yours, Love and Light!

supaar2
3345 posts 

8/6/2008 8:49 am

You gave me an idea purple. Truthfully lying

royalpurple
2296 posts 

8/7/2008 12:18 am

    Quoting supaar2:
    You gave me an idea purple. Truthfully lying
Oh, we have to credit DONKEY for that.
Things we learn from animals. We really can't tell
what's next


From my heart to yours, Love and Light!

ekek_chika2
141 posts 

8/8/2008 4:32 am

i must say ur post is simple but full of meaning.....

cheers sis leigh.


"You can't leave footprints if u walk on tiptoe"

royalpurple
2296 posts 

8/8/2008 4:50 am

    Quoting ekek_chika2:
    i must say ur post is simple but full of meaning.....

    cheers sis leigh.

thanx sis eliza.
glad you came here


From my heart to yours, Love and Light!

driverdan
15699 posts 

8/8/2008 2:36 pm

hello amiga lei

i agree with both ana and far
i read this and didn't leave a comment because they both to me have the right solution to this thought

some friends we have are just that way. they are brutally honest and thats another reason we have them as friends.

we see past the rough exterior and into their heart.

i have a friend/brother who is this way.

sometimes what he says is so wrong and i call him on it but inside i know he say`s those things to get a reaction from me.

god bless you amiga and all your loved ones i hope your feeling better and all is well with hubby and your baby

have a wonderful weekend filled with peace love happiness hugs

dan

royalpurple
2296 posts 

8/9/2008 1:22 am

    Quoting driverdan:
    hello amiga lei

    i agree with both ana and far
    i read this and didn't leave a comment because they both to me have the right solution to this thought

    some friends we have are just that way. they are brutally honest and thats another reason we have them as friends.

    we see past the rough exterior and into their heart.

    i have a friend/brother who is this way.

    sometimes what he says is so wrong and i call him on it but inside i know he say`s those things to get a reaction from me.

    god bless you amiga and all your loved ones i hope your feeling better and all is well with hubby and your baby

    have a wonderful weekend filled with peace love happiness hugs

    dan

We're lucky to still have people around us who are truly
concern of our well-being. Reality sometimes do hurt, but it takes a
true person to point that out to us simply because they care. It doesn't have to be painful though, the way they tell us of our wrong.
True friends find ways to cushion the impact.

have a great week, amigo dan
and be safe on the road.


From my heart to yours, Love and Light!

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