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 7/31/2008 1:02 am |
hahahaha good thoughts  (¯`v´¯) `*.¸.*´ ¸.•´¸.•*¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•smile and be happy always 
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7/31/2008 2:02 am |
personally I dont differenciate whether a woman is married or not! but of course with some limit lines with married ones! i know where to stop! but with a single girl, i have no limits! I can even teach her how to break all the walls  and get a brave heart to link and bridge! it goes the same way when related to physical intersts! except that i would never ever except sex with a woman, any woman on earth unless we are already in love!! and that is my red lines! 
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7/31/2008 4:10 am |
I prefer talking to married women - single ones tend to think you are trying to get in their pants all of the time and it p*sses me off. Good afternoon btw Ms Royal Purple. ** guaranteed Goody free **
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 7/31/2008 5:10 am |
hiya RP For conversations, regardless men/women we dont segregate them, am i right? hmm... unless you are referring to if you would prefer to talk to single if you are single then my answer would be depends... if the single is someone i trust i may like, then yes If not, i would not think we human train or switch our brains to talk to a specific group Like ordering our brain, now turn right ..yes master! now open your mouth ...yes Master!!! ha ha ha ha cheers  Insist on yourself. Never imitate.
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7/31/2008 5:46 am |
It really depends on the man. I've been hit on when I was single both by single and married men, and I still get hit on by both single and married men now that I'm married. And then there are those who respected me while I was still single, and also when I got married. The only thing constant about all this was that I kept my boundaries, because my mother always did tell me that there will always be men who would try to see if they can take advantage, and it's up to us gals to keep our head straight and make sure that they don't. (It's the same thing with men--there will always be women who want to see if they can tempt married men, so it's up to the guy to keep his boundaries, too) I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.
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7/31/2008 12:10 pm |
I agree with Ana that it really depends on the man. If a married man is inclined towards infidelity then obviously he may have ulterior motives, such as sex, when talking to women. In contrast, faithful men may still be friendly, or even flirtatious, with women. But they know not to cross certain boundaries. It's really impossible to generalize about all men.
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7/31/2008 7:46 pm |
i agree with tita MM!! and it was actually very well said! thats very true.. it depends on how you take that teasing from men or women.. as my mom wud always tell me.. set ur limitations cuz once u lost it you cannot get it back! hey lei, excellent post! i keep on coming back to see more comments..hehe- happy weekend pretty sis... JuSt An OrDiNaRy GiRl WiTh XtRa OrDiNaRy DrEaMs!
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7/31/2008 10:06 pm |
Personally, I believe it depends on the man. Some have integrity and some don't.
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8/1/2008 1:16 am |
hahahaha good thoughts From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/1/2008 1:25 am |
personally I dont differenciate whether a woman is married or not! but of course with some limit lines with married ones! i know where to stop! but with a single girl, i have no limits! I can even teach her how to break all the walls and get a brave heart to link and bridge! it goes the same way when related to physical intersts! except that i would never ever except sex with a woman, any woman on earth unless we are already in love!! and that is my red lines! that would give you the direction you want. Thanx for your feedback, sulei. From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/1/2008 1:30 am |
I prefer talking to married women - single ones tend to think you are trying to get in their pants all of the time and it p*sses me off. Good afternoon btw Ms Royal Purple. sometimes, you can't blame single women for thinking so, you know. but there are always giveaways when a man has a different agenda aside from engaging in an intelligent conversation with a woman. I can't pinpoint which giveaways, personally. Call it woman's intuition but we certainly know. hahaha! From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/1/2008 1:38 am |
hiya RP For conversations, regardless men/women we dont segregate them, am i right? hmm... unless you are referring to if you would prefer to talk to single if you are single then my answer would be depends... if the single is someone i trust i may like, then yes If not, i would not think we human train or switch our brains to talk to a specific group Like ordering our brain, now turn right ..yes master! now open your mouth ...yes Master!!! ha ha ha ha cheers in the sense that i always equate them with being mature. Now, i'm not saying bachelors talk immaturely. See, as ST have said in his comments, single girls tend to think men are always trying to get in their pants. I think i may have that notion too, once in a while back when i'm still single. The thing about mature men (be they married or single)is that, they respect women and they know how to appreciate you as a person, not just because you look pretty but because you have a good head between your shoulders. From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/1/2008 6:46 am |
I think both sides should keep certain boundaries, be them single or married, be them online or offline. Honesty, mutural respect and self-control should serve as the fundamental basis for the communication between man and woman. As the old saying goes: distance creates beauty. Always be careful,never let emotion blind your eyes, and never hurt others, even indirectly, then man and woman can maintain very good friendship. I feel I am just dittoing Ana's words. Agnes
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8/1/2008 2:35 pm |
hello amiga lei ana and agnes have great points on this issue. i agree with them both,..have a great weekend amiga god bless you and all you love peace love happiness hugs dan
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8/1/2008 11:27 pm |
It really depends on the man. I've been hit on when I was single both by single and married men, and I still get hit on by both single and married men now that I'm married. And then there are those who respected me while I was still single, and also when I got married. The only thing constant about all this was that I kept my boundaries, because my mother always did tell me that there will always be men who would try to see if they can take advantage, and it's up to us gals to keep our head straight and make sure that they don't. (It's the same thing with men--there will always be women who want to see if they can tempt married men, so it's up to the guy to keep his boundaries, too) it takes two to tango, i guess. men should know their boundaries, and women must not encourage men who make passes at them. From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/1/2008 11:34 pm |
I agree with Ana that it really depends on the man. If a married man is inclined towards infidelity then obviously he may have ulterior motives, such as sex, when talking to women. In contrast, faithful men may still be friendly, or even flirtatious, with women. But they know not to cross certain boundaries. It's really impossible to generalize about all men. Ana had pointed it out. there are girls who would like to test or even tempt married men. So men must always be on the lookout too, it seems. Personally though, i kind of lose respect on a man who try to sweettalk me into a relationship when he is very much married. At least, that was back when i was still single. From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/1/2008 11:37 pm |
i mean, i maintained the same view on married men who try to sweettalk innocent single ladies. I've encountered a few of that kind when i was still single. Thankfully, none of it happened now that i'm married. From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/1/2008 11:39 pm |
i agree with tita MM!! and it was actually very well said! thats very true.. it depends on how you take that teasing from men or women.. as my mom wud always tell me.. set ur limitations cuz once u lost it you cannot get it back! hey lei, excellent post! i keep on coming back to see more comments..hehe- happy weekend pretty sis...i was kinda late with my comments. Blame it on my flu! yeah, you out there be very careful with this kind of men, will you? hahaha. take care, sis. From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/1/2008 11:41 pm |
Personally, I believe it depends on the man. Some have integrity and some don't. my high respect for men who have integrity. From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/1/2008 11:43 pm |
I think both sides should keep certain boundaries, be them single or married, be them online or offline. Honesty, mutural respect and self-control should serve as the fundamental basis for the communication between man and woman. As the old saying goes: distance creates beauty. Always be careful,never let emotion blind your eyes, and never hurt others, even indirectly, then man and woman can maintain very good friendship. I feel I am just dittoing Ana's words. Nevertheless, you sounded so good, Agnes. Hey, thanx for your input.  From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/1/2008 11:46 pm |
hello amiga lei ana and agnes have great points on this issue. i agree with them both,..have a great weekend amiga god bless you and all you love peace love happiness hugs dan i'm down with a flu. i'm catching up here while son is having his afternoon nap. Gosh, i still have aches on my joints. take care. From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/2/2008 5:12 pm |
I don't differentiate between married and single women either. I will talk to any women with respect (unless she disrespects me then I will defend myself). Marriage does not stop me from chatting up married women. It is their choice if they wanna play. It takes two to tango. Married women have played with me. HM
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8/2/2008 8:54 pm |
I don't differentiate between married and single women either. I will talk to any women with respect (unless she disrespects me then I will defend myself). Marriage does not stop me from chatting up married women. It is their choice if they wanna play. It takes two to tango. Married women have played with me. HM I have said in my reply to Munchkin that it also takes two to tango. men should know their boundaries, and women must not encourage men who make passes at them. From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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8/27/2008 6:56 am |
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8/27/2008 8:40 am |
thank you for the compliment. but you see, im happily married with a kid already. From my heart to yours, Love and Light!
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